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Dorothy Spitzer Obituary
Dorothy "Dottie" Marie Hayes Spitzer
Dorothy "Dottie" Marie (Hayes) Spitzer, 88, departed this physical world on the morning of June 3, 2012 in Marin County, CA from complications following a fall in her home. Dorothy was a wonderful loving soul, a dedicated mother, an adored friend, a cherished grandmother and great grandmother, and a beloved mother-in-law and aunt.
Born to Grace and Leo Hayes on Sept 19th, 1923 in Kenmore, New York, Dorothy graduated from Kenmore High School. Dorothy's father, Leo, introduced her to Robert Franklin Spitzer, her future husband. Following their marriage on February 16th, 1946, Dorothy and Robert raised 5 boys and 2 girls. Her husband Robert's early death weighed heavily on Dorothy's heart, but she bravely shouldered the responsibility of being the matriarch of her family. Dorothy eventually moved to California to assist in raising her grandchildren.
Dorothy is survived by her 7 children, 10 grandchildren, and 2 great grandchildren.
Friends are invited to attend a memorial service at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, June 23, 2012 at St. Leo's Catholic Church, 600 West Agua Caliente Road, Sonoma, CA 95476. Inurnment will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Buffalo, NY at a later date. Arrangements cared for by Duggan's Mission Chapel, 525 West Napa Street, Sonoma, CA 95476. Inquiries can be made to them at (707) 996-3655. The full obituary can be seen by visiting their website at http://www.duggansmissionchapel.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dorothy Spitzer
Steven Stewart
June 18, 2012
Kevin, Keith, Rosemary, Doug- those of your family I do know- I send my heartful condolences. Knowing you makes me wish I had known her. She did something very right as a mom.
Amy Schmoyer
June 18, 2012
Although I did not personally know Mrs. Spitzer she and her family have always held a special place in my heart for their kindness to my son Christopher. They warmly included him in their family gatherings and help him when he was living in the Santa Cruz area - away from his own family. I loved talking with Chris after Easter or other holidays, to share with him how included he was made to feel by Mrs. Spitzer and her family. Rest in Peace. Memories live forever.
Vincent Paxhia
June 17, 2012
Dorth and my wife Bea Perry Paxhia were great friends in High School in Kenmore. We thought the world of Dorth as the girls called her then. A lovely lady in both appearance and character and a strong lady to raise her family alone. She was one of a kind. Wonderful memories.
Jean Anderson
June 14, 2012
Deepest condolences to the Spitzer family. Dottie inspired and delighted me with her positive outlook, strength, and love of life and living. I believe she is looking out for you now and forever from heaven. Love, Jean Anderson
Celebrating Dot's 88th Birthday 2011
Rosemary Anderson
June 13, 2012
Courageous, tenacious, loving, kind, honest, trusting, naive and worldly, funny, social, charming, smart, brave, curious, mischievous, irreverent, faithful, spiritual, loyal, cultural, comforting, nurturing, motivating, my personal cheerleader, amazing Grandmother to my daughters, the best friend anyone could ever ask for - I am so grateful for all the time I had with Mom - I am going to miss her so very much.
Bob Dean
June 13, 2012
To the entire Spitzer family, I was sad to learn of your mother's passing. I have fond memories of her and your father as a child growing up with many of you in our years together in Speedway. She and you are in our thoughts.
Colleen Williamson
June 13, 2012
Thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort go out to all the Spitzer family.
"Mrs." Spitzer was a true delight! My mom's best friend for many, many years and she will be so fondly remembered by us all. Colleen Williamson (Murphy)
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