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RUTH (GRAUBER) GLEASON
January 6, 2025
MY LOVING BROTHER, WOW 19 YEARS AGO, GOD CALLED YOU HOME, WHY WHY WHY HE HAD TO TAKE YOU I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND. YOU WERE AN AMAZING BROTHER, UNCLE, SON, FATHER, AND FRIEND TO EVERYONE. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE ARE NOT LOVING AND MISSING YOU! PLEASE WRAP YOUR ARMS AROUND OUR LOVED ONES ABOVE UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, YOUR LIL' SIS
Jackie Hunt
January 4, 2025
I think of you often ... you are loved and missed by so many !!! It just hit me that yesterday was 19 years since you left ... WOW 19 years, really?!? Please look out for Alyssa & Helen ... until we meet again !!!
Danielle
October 26, 2023
Hey Ton, thinking of you today. Want you to you know how much you are loved and missed! Love you!
Janelle Deal
July 24, 2022
Anthony was a patient of mine and after all these years I still think of him and the tragedy that ended his life. He was such a kind soul. He was such a great dad and you could see how much he loved his family. He definitely imprinted in my life and he is missed.
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Wallace Kidd
March 22, 2020
I never wanted to share my feeling for all to read but here it goes, Tony this Wallace your friend we did everything together bad and good. We help one another become men as we were just boys when we met for the first time in school in the 7th grade, I even became your brother in law. We spent so much time together. My heart was hurt when you left so soon you had so much life left in you and you would of made a positive impact in everything you done in life. I find my self alone these days most of my friends have left to joined you Ricky G, Steve G and Paul SH. I spent a lot of lunches at your grave side until we have lunch again my friend, love you and miss you.
Paul Schummer
February 5, 2017
Tone happy belated birthday ..will be back up there soon ......
Candace Reed
January 17, 2017
May your soul be at peace.
allison wilson
August 15, 2015
My you rest in peace and God bless your loved ones
Michael Mattingly
September 3, 2014
God bless you & yours
john smith
January 8, 2014
May our heavenly father hold you close to him, and may he bring light back to your family and loved ones lives. God Bless you.
Danielle
January 3, 2014
Thinking of you. Another year has come and gone and yet the pain still lingers on. Love you and miss you every minute of everyday. Gone too soon. Rest In Peace.
Danielle DeLange
December 5, 2013
Happy Birthday! I love you and miss you so much! Although I am so sad that you cannot be here so I can celebrate your day with you, I am sure Gram and Pop showered you with enough love for the whole family. My only comfort is knowing you are all together again. I know they missed you terribly. Love you n miss you every minute of everyday. Xoxo
Elizabeth Journeaux
October 23, 2013
I'm sorry to hear she has been released. My heart goes out to the kids and family..
Tracy McNichols
December 6, 2012
Happy birthday to us! Love Ya!
gina grauber /.kenney
December 5, 2012
happy birthday brother love and miss you so much ...till we meet again
paul grauber
November 27, 2012
Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday, miss you more than words can express. Please come visit me in my dreams, and bring dad. Love ya always. xxoo
GINA GRAUBER/KENNEY
August 28, 2012
HEY BROTHER I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH ...PLEASE TAKE CARE OF DADDY LOVE YA BOTH
harry c
August 15, 2012
big tony g whats up bro miss u wish u were here i could use ur help with these houses i no pop is up there with u just wanted 2 say hi n im thinking of all of u pop harry pop dusty n u brother love ya's
shawn oneill
July 31, 2012
hey uncle tony. thinking of you always. i love you
June 18, 2012
MISS YOU!!! WISH YOU WERE HERE !!!
Donna Fllad-Bush...lol.
June 18, 2012
Hey Tony, just stopping in 2 say Happy Father's Day 2 Ya!!!! From what I'm hearing/seeing, Ur Children r GROWING up so QUICK & seem 2 b doing GR8....You would be PROUD!!!! Miss Ya, Buddy....til We meet again....
Tracy McNichols
June 18, 2012
Sorry, I'm a day late! Lots of stuff going on, anyway, just wanted to tell you and Don we are thinking of you and wish you a happy Father's Day. Love and miss you.
GINA KENNEY GRAUBER
June 17, 2012
HEY BABE HAPPY FATHERS DAY I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH GIVE DADDY A BIG KISS FOR ME HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO BOTH OF YOU
GINA GRAUBER/KENNEY
May 18, 2012
I LOVE AND MISS YOU TO BITS TAKE CARE OF DADDY ...TILL WE MEET AGAIN RIP BROTHER AND DADDDY
Tracy McNichols
May 8, 2012
Tony, please make sure Don's okay! Make sure he doesn't give Jesus a hard time! Love you!
Danielle
April 15, 2012
Hey Unc, thinking of you today and always. I miss you very much. They say time heals all wounds. Does it? I love ya sooo much! Sorry I couldn't get on here on Easter but I'm sure you were looking down from above and you knew I had a crazy, hectic day! But it turned out to be a really nice one anyway. I was still thinking of you though. you are never forgotten. Love you and miss you every minute everyday for always!! Love your favorite niece ;) xoxoxoxo
Donna Flad
April 9, 2012
Hey Tony, jusy dropping by 2 wish U a Happy Easter!!!! U r still MISSED & LOVED by soooo many...til We meet again....
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
April 8, 2012
HAPPY EASTER BROTHER I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH THE KIDS LOOKED BEAUTIFUL TODAY ...RIP LOVE ALWAYS GINA
gina grauber kenney
March 14, 2012
hey hunny just stoped by to say i love you and miss ya so much daddy aint doing to good but i know your looking down on him my heart aches everyday wish you were here with us till we meet again Ii love you brother

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January 31, 2012
Danielle De Lange
January 31, 2012
Love you and miss you every minute of everyday for always!
GINA KENNEY
January 29, 2012
TONY SITTING HERE THINKING WHAT WE WOULD BE DOING RIGHT NOW NOR YOU WOULD BE DOING BUT YOUR LIFE WAS CUT SO SHORT YOU WERE AND ALWAYS WILL BE IN MY HEART FOR EVER I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH THERE ISNT A DAY THAT GOES BY I DONT THINK OF YOU YOU WERE MY LIL BROTHER AND I ALWAYS LOOKED UP TO YOU I THANK GOD FOR ALL THE MEMORIES WE HAD TOGETHER YOU ARE MY HEART ...I LOVE YOU TONY ALWAYS AND FOREVER TILL WE MEET AGAIN ...LOVE YOUR BIG SISTER GINA
danielle binck
January 27, 2012
There isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of you. love and miss you uncle tony <3
shawn oneill
January 18, 2012
thinking of you always uncle tony. i love you. gone but never forgotten
December 6, 2011
tony, i had a crush on you when we were kids and i don't even think you knew :) i see you turned out to be a really great guy and i'm sorry your life was cut so short :( xo ~blue
Danielle
December 6, 2011
Happy Birthday!!!! Well I'm sitting here it's 11:30 and I've been listening to some music. Not Christmas music though,lol, I'll be listening to that for the next month =D !! No, I thought I'd have my own little party here, just myself! I've been listening to a lot of stuff from wayyy back! For the last hour I've been,singing, smiling,crying, even danced and at times, all of the above, all at the same time. I had to shut my front door 5 minutes into it, lol ! Anyone walking by would've definitely thought, WOW =D !! I don't even know how to explain how I'm feeling. Every memory is so bitter sweet. But I am so grateful for each and everyone. We had some really great times!! We laughed so much, I miss that! "Teenage Wasteland" Every time I hear that song it puts a smile on my face. And I listened to it 2 times already. It takes me back long, long ago to one of my birthdays. One of the best birthdays ever! And just before I was out for the count, the screen door opened and there you stood outside, singing most of that song to me!! I laid there and just wanted to press the mute button!! And then I think you followed it up with about 5 minutes of laughing at me! Sort of like ,"That's what ya get Danielle!". Aww, the good ole days, I wouldn't change a single thing. I was having the time of my life, like teenagers do. And although I could have done without the singing,when I think back now and every time I hear that song, it was the best part of my night! Of course because we BOTH got to laugh about it later. And it still makes me smile. I wanted to spend your birthday, celebrating your life, and what you've meant to me. The way I know you would want me to. It may appear to be only a party of one, but I know you're here with me, because you never left. You're right here with me and I'm with you. I understand what Paul is saying, I don't think time heals all wounds. But I thank God for the time that we've had and all the great memories that will last a lifetime! I love you so much, I miss you so much, and you are in my heart always! Happy Birthday,xoxo ... Oh and we need to get some more pictures of ya on here. I'm gonna have to work on that ;D!
December 5, 2011
Happy Birthday Bud !I never forget ur day :)
Tracy McNichols
December 5, 2011
Happy birthday friend. Love and miss you.
December 5, 2011
It's nights like tonight that remind me how short life really is, three in the morning and I cant sleep. Still find myself reaching for the phone to call and wish him happy birthday. It is said that time can heal all wounds. This is one of those nights I find myself at odds with time. Love and miss you so much. Your Brother Paul
GINA GRAUBER /KENNEY
December 4, 2011
TONY;
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH THINKING ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY TILL WE MEET AGAIN
LOVE GINA
Tracy McNichols
December 2, 2011
Hi Tony, just wanted to remind you that our birthday is on Monday and I haven't forgotten you. I can't believe I am turning 40. Wish you were here to celebrate with me! Love and miss you.
Donna Flad
December 1, 2011
Hey Tony,
It's has been awhile, but that doesn't mean I don't think about Ya. I know Your Birthday is coming up on 12/5/2011 and wanted to say...happy bday 2 U...happy bday 2 U...happy bday to My Old Buddy, Tony..happy bday 2 U!!!! LOVE & MISS You ALWAYS:) Happy Holiday's to You too, Buddy!!!! Until We meet again, R.I.P.
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
November 24, 2011
HAPPY THANKS GIVING TONY I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH ..............RIP BUDDY
Danielle Binck-Grauber
November 9, 2011
thinking about you all the time uncle tony. love you
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
October 29, 2011
THINKING OF YOU TONY
JAMES family
October 25, 2011
Love THE JAMES FAMILY XO
GINA GRAUBER..KENNEY
October 25, 2011
HEY TONY WENT TO VISIT YOUR GRAVE SITE TODAY WE TOOK YOUR GREAT NEPHEWS AND NIECE UP AND GOT SOME PICTURES IT WAS A VERY NICE DAY BUT ONE THING WE ARE MISSING IS YOU I LOVE YOU BUDDY SO MUCH...RIP BIG GUY
Tracy McNichols
October 19, 2011
Talia and I talk about you all the time. We really miss ya big guy! We keep your memory alive through the kids! Love ya!
October 18, 2011
Coming up on six years since you went home. Love and miss you with all my heart.
gina grauber/kenney
September 30, 2011
just stopping by to say i love and miss ya always wish you were with us...love ya big guy
Janine Wendy
August 14, 2011
Thinking about your family. Sorry for their loss, you are a great guy.
gina grauber kenney
August 1, 2011
hey baby brother i love and miss you thinking of you always rip baby i love youuuuuuu
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
July 23, 2011
TONY I BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU LATELY I NEED TO SEE YOU AGAIN MY LIFE IS TURNED UPSIDE DOWN FROM THIS AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I KNOW THAT I DONT SHOW IT SOMETIMES BUT IN SIDE IM HURTING BAD I NEED SOME ANSWERS ...KEEP LOOKING DOWN ON US I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH BUDDY TILL WE MEET AGAIN ...I HOPE TO SEE YOU IN MY DREAMS ........HURTINGGGGGGGGG
krissy marie
July 12, 2011
lovee and miss u so much
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
June 13, 2011
TONY IM GOING TO KEEP LOVING YOU FOREVER I MISS YOU SO MUCHHHHHHHHHH I WISH I CAN TURN BACK TIME I CANT GO ON LIVIVNG THIS WAY ...I HOPE TO SEE YOU IM MY DRAM I LOVE YA SO MUCH BUDDY GINA
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
June 6, 2011
HEY BROTHER I LOVE AND MISS YOU DOWN HERE WISH I COULD SEE YOU IN MY DREAMS I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TONY ...TILL WE MEET AGAIN LOVE YOUE BIG SIS GINA
Leslie J
March 26, 2011
Hello Grauber Family!
I do not know you all nor did I have the wonderful opportunity to meet your son. However, I saw a re-run of an episode today and your son did NOT deserve to leave this earth in the manner in which occurred. God bless you all and I pray that you find strength everyday to heal. I truly hope that everyone can find peace.
God Bless....L
Ruth Grauber-Flaherty
February 12, 2011
Hey Tony, I was just sitting her thinking of you, and wanted to say HELLO....We all miss you so much, I wish you were here! Love you!!!

Ruth Grauber-Flaherty
January 7, 2011
Tony,
Just stopping by to say hello and to let you know I am thinking of you...Please keep watching out for us and keeping us safe...Greg is now with you also, please watch after him!!! We love you very much!!!
GINA KENNEY
January 4, 2011
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIII LOVEEEEEEEEEEEE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Tracy McNichols
January 3, 2011
Today has been 5 years. Hard to believe. You are sadly missed and thought about often.
Donna Flad
January 3, 2011
Hey Tony,
Can't believe it's been 5 yrs since You have been gone ALREADY=( Love and Miss You more and more as the years go by!!!
gina kenney
December 30, 2010
hey brother didnt for about you ....love and miss you always

Tracy McNichols
November 9, 2010
Tracy McNichols
November 9, 2010
Hey Big T-
I haven't written in a while and just wanted to stop in and say hello. Since you have been gone so much has happened and yet your children continue to thrive and do well with the continuous support of your brother Paul, Sharlene and your Mom and Dad. Your family and my family stay in touch and I try to see the kids as much as I can. They are always welcome at my home and I know I'm always welcome to see them at Paul's! We all miss you and talk about you alot and keep your memory alive. Your son Tony is the spitting image of you and when he came over my house for Justin's birthday in September, I had to do a double-take. Such a handsome kid. All of your kids are beautiful and you would be proud of them. Kenny and I love and miss you and my kids miss "Uncle Tony" Keep an eye out for us up there would ya?
SHAWN ONEILL
November 6, 2010
HEY UNCLE TONY,
JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY. I LOVE YOU. YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY HEART
Danielle De Lange
September 10, 2010
Hey Ton, just wanted to stop by and say hi and to tell youI love you and miss you very much! Little tony is with me now and lately we've been telling all kind of stories of the good times we all had together:) He loves you and misses you so much too, we all do...Life has not and will never again be the same, but you live on through all of us, in our hearts and thoughts. Keep watching over us Unc, until we meet again, I love you every minute of everyday for always. Oh P.S. watch over our newest little additions to the family, both little angels, Hannah and Bryson, and be on the lookout for the twins, Adison and Cade, COMING SOON, hey they are due to be here on Gina's birthday, maybe ya can work some majic from up above:) xoxo
gina grauber kenney
March 5, 2010
HEY tony just wanted to let you know that daddy has his surgery everything went great he had a tumor on his lung it was cancer but they removed it and they also checked to see if it spred but it did not thank god for that he is doing great ..so i love and miss you so much wish you were here buddy ripppppppppppp tony love gina
gina grauber kenney
February 22, 2010
i love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu just sittin here thinking of ya miss so muchhhhhhhhhhh
gina grauber kenney
January 19, 2010
love ya buddy always thinking about you love and miss you with all my heart ripppppppppppppp
gina grauber kenney
January 11, 2010
hey tony just wanted to stop by and tell you i love and miss you with all my heart love your big sister gk
Donna Flad
January 4, 2010
Hey Tony,
Im a lil late w/your Anniversary. I can't believe its been 4 yrs ALREADY!!!! You are STILL just as missed as when you 1st were taken from Us.
Sadly missed, but NEVER fogotten by All!!!!
Love Ya,
Donna
gina kenney grauber
January 3, 2010
hi tony yes another year today is jan 3 and you been gone 4 years i miss you so much tony things have not been the same with out you i love you baby brother rippppppppppp
Cheryl Buck
December 5, 2009
Hey Tony just wanted to come by and say Happy Birthday to you. Your smiling face is so missed down here.
gina grauber kenney
November 22, 2009
hey tony happy thanksgiving i wish you were here brother missin you so much uncle john is up there now i love you guys with all my heart rip brotherrrrrrrrrrr
Donna Flad
November 11, 2009
Hey Tony...just wanted to let ya know that your getting somemore company up there, unfortunatly for Us! Please help guide and protect them. It's just amazing how many We r losing each yr. Also, please, protect the one's who are left here to deal with the losses. We all love and miss ya Buddy. Until, we meet again.....
gina grauber kenney
November 10, 2009
hey babe just wanted to write and let you know that tiffanys grandmom died tony she is reall upset please keep looking down on her i love her so much she is one of my closest friends rip brother love ya gina
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
November 6, 2009
HEY HUNNIE JUST WANTED TO RIGHT AND LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS .... ALWAYS ON MY MIDE LOVE GG
Donna
October 23, 2009
Hey Tony....been thinking about ya lately so I figured I write ya. There's alot going on down here, alot of good things and some lil bad things too. Just keep guiding us down here ok. We luv and miss ya. GO PHILLIES!!!!!
Ruth
October 23, 2009
Hey Tony, its me Ruth, just sitting here thinking of you like always, I just don't get the time to write as much as I would like to! But with work, the kids, school, my life is just so crazy lately...But I am doing ok...I really can't complain! I miss you alot! Please keep watching over us and keeping us all safe. Well I gotta get back to work, I'll write again soon. I love you!
Love your little sis,
Ruth
gina kenney grauber
October 22, 2009
hey tony just letting you know the phils are going to the world series again for the second year in a row hopefuly they will win keep looking down on them i love so much mushhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Alycia Crankshaw
October 17, 2009
Hi Tony. This is Raeann's friend Alycia. I meet you a few times. Your son Tony. He is so grown up, such a gentleman. Watch over him and your other children. I am sure they miss you. Your always in my thoughts and prayers.
gina kenney grauber
October 16, 2009
hey tony just thinking about you alot wish you were here i miss you dude so much its going to be 4 years already and it feels like yesterday i have a lot of drama thats going on in my life right now and i wish you was here you wolud listin to me in a heart beat and tell me what to do but unfortley it aint going to work out like that because you are not here i love and miss you so much buddy tony im closeing this out for now i will right again soon bud i love you your big sister gina
gina kenney grauber
October 8, 2009
tony g i miss you so much and love you wit all my heart love gina
gina grauber kenney
September 27, 2009
hey hunnie just stopping by to say hi love and miss you
Donna u know who
August 31, 2009
Hey Ton....was hanging out with Ruthie over the wknd and of course we brought up....still can't believe ur gone, but know that you are still loved and missed by sooooo many. Keep watching over us, we need ya!
gina kenney grauber
August 28, 2009
went to the grave today i miss you baby see you in my dreams.... love your big sister
gina kenney grauber
August 23, 2009
hey tony its been a while didnt forget bout you hunny just have a lot on my mide missin you like crazy tony i think bout you every day wishing that you were here with us i love you always and for ever buddy till we meet again love your sister gina
Donna u know who..
June 8, 2009
Hey Tony,
just wanted to stop by and say hi....was hanging out with the whole family on Sat...it was great seeing everyone, but the only problem was that you weren't there...:( It just made me miss ya more)...It's amazing how the family is expanding.....well got to go for now...keep shining down on us, cause in this hell that we call earth we sure need it....
gina kenneygrauber
June 6, 2009
love you wit all my hearttttttttttt
gina kenney grauber
May 25, 2009
happy memorial day buddy love and missed so muchhhhhhhhhhhhh
gina kenney grauber
May 20, 2009
hey tony just stopping by to say i love you see you in my dreamssssssssssss
GINA GRAUBER KENNEY
May 8, 2009
I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH BROTHER THINKING OF YOU EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE
gina grauber kenney
April 28, 2009
hey tony just wanted to stop by and say hi and to tell you how much you are missed i dont even know where to start things have not been the same i go to bed at night thinking of you i wake up in the morning thinking of you i just cant get you off my mind tony i want you to know something i love you with all mynheart and still do i will never forget you please keep looking down on us mommy and daddy love you to till we meet again r i p my baby brother love gina
Danielle De Lange
April 28, 2009
Hey Unc!!! Just wanted to stop by to say hi...It's been a while since I've been on here. I sent ya a message on your myspace page but i know BBB=] has that set up for you and It's too freakin sad to go on there so I figured I would say hi on here? I miss ya so much. It really is so hard sometimes especially when I feel like I really need to talk to ya. Things have'nt and never will be same without you not being here. I love ya Ton.=[ ...Hey have you been messing with me? My light switch in my hallway keeps going on even when I know I just shut it off, It happened 4 times this last past week. Are ya trying to tell me something? Do I need an electrician to come out? LOL!! Send me a sign or visit me in my dreams, will ya?? Love ya and miss ya every minute,everyday!!!xoxoxo
paulie
April 14, 2009
happy easter brother. luv ya
Donna Flad
April 13, 2009
Hey Tony...just wanted to stop by and wish ya a Happy Easter. My daughters and I were just talking about how we used to always go down the shore for Easter and we remembered when we saw you and the family on the boardwalk for the first time. Chris or I hadn't seen ya's in a cple of yrs....It was really cool...member we were on that boardwalk for a minute catching up....lol...well g2g for now...luv ya and miss ya...again, Happy Easter
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