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BERNICE MESISCA Obituary

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BERNICE (nee Lafferty), of Stratford, passed away March 19, 2013 surrounded by her loving and devoted family. She showed great courage and was a fighter to the end. Bernice was born and raised in South Philadelphia. She graduated South Philadelphia High School and received a full nursing scholarship. Bernice worked for the Philadelphia Depart-ment of Veterans Affairs where she met the love of her life, her husband Phil. After devoting herself to her family and raising her children, Bernice returned to work in the medical field. In addition to her passion for her family, her greatest loves were the beach, where she celebrated many of her birthdays and vacations, traveling (especially to Ireland), Mummers String Bands, Philadelphia Eagles, crocheting, sweets and anything Irish.
Bernice is survived by her loving husband of 56 years, Philip John Mesisca. She was an amazing mother to Jim and wife Maureen, Philip Jr and wife Michele, John and wife Mary, Rosemary and husband Jim. Cherished grandmother of Heather, Matthew, Michael, Alex, Jenna, Kelly, Kaitlyn, Julia, Patrick and Jack. Cherished and loved by all who knew her. Predeceased by her parents, John and Sarah (nee McGuire) Lafferty, and her brother, John. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her viewing with the family on Saturday, March 23, from 9:00 am to 10:30 A.M. at Saint Luke Roman Catholic Church, Warwick Road, Stratford, NJ, followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:30 A.M. Burial will follow at Saint Joseph Cemetery, Lower Landing Rd, Blackwood, NJ. Memorial donations: Summer Search Philadelphia, Attn: Amanda Finnell, 1528 Walnut St., Suite 1006, Phila., PA 19102 Funeral under the direction of DANKS - HINSKI FUNERAL HOME OF LINDENWOLD NJ. Condolences may be offered at

www.dankshinskifuneralhome.com

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on Mar. 21, 2013.

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Doris (Fazio) Koharcheck

March 26, 2013

Dear Uncle Phil & family, There are no words to comfort you in the loss of your wife & mother. I know the pain you are filled with. My heart bleeds for you & your family. Aunt Bernice was a blessing to all of us & will be greatly missed. She had a loving heart that touched all of us. I grieve along with you & your family. May God surround you with his love & presence. Comfort will come with the precious memories you hold near & dear to your heart. Although, regretfully, I could not attend the service, all of you were in my thoughts. May Beloved Aunt Bernice rest in peace. Sincerest sympathies to you, Uncle Phil & your family. May God Bless & comfort all of you.. Love & prayers, Niece Doris

March 22, 2013

Phil and family,
I'm heartbroken at your mom's passing. She was such a dear friend.
We had many good times&laughs.I,ll never forget her smile. God bless and keep you all!
The Delaney's

Nick Fazio

March 22, 2013

My sincerest heart-felt sympathy to Uncle Phil and family. Whenever I think of Aunt Bernice I always see her smile. While the miles are between us, you are in my heart and prayers. May God rest her soul in peace and bless you abundantly. In Jesus precious and holy name we pray, AMEN.

March 21, 2013

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To the Mesisca family, Your mom always made me feel at home. When ever I had a really bad day, or was hungry, I would walk to 17 rolling "stones" road and her warm smile and laugh would chase my dark clouds away. She always listened and truly was an angel. Her laugh was infectious, her family and Irish pride always shined

March 21, 2013

Jim, Maureen, and girls,
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Although no words of sympathy can ease the pain you feel, may you find some comfort in the thought that others care. May your sweet mother rest in peace and may her memories bring you comfort. With sympathy at this sad time,
Michael, Laura, and Mia Lanzilotta

John J Lafferty, Bernice and Sarah

March 21, 2013

Monica Maryasz-Koraido

March 21, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Mesisca Family. I hope happy memories ease your sorrow. Thoughts & prayers are with your Mom & you.

Steve D'Emilio

March 21, 2013

Jim - Donna and I want to send to you and your family our deepest sympathy.
I had the pleasure of meeting your mom a few times and I remember how warm ans sweet she was. Although your mom is gone she will always be with you in spirt. Love Steve & Donna

Bernice is in front of Jack

March 21, 2013

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