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Thomas McNally Obituary
THOMAS P. of Mayfair, formerly of Feltonville, suddenly on Sept. 25, 2005, beloved son of Anne M. (nee Jeffers) and the late John J. McNally, loving fiance of Catherine Zappacosta, devoted brother of Mary Kay, John J. (Jeanette), Betsy and Terence F. McNally, loving uncle of Stephen McNally, Meghan Costa, John, Michael, Jamie and Deirdre McNally. Relatives, friends and employees of the City of Philadelphia are invited to attend his Funeral Sat. 8:15-9:15 A.M. at JOHN F. FLUEHR AND SONS INC., 3301-15 Cottman Ave. Funeral Mass St. Matthew Church 10 A.M. Rite of Committal Resurrection Cemetery. Friends may call Friday eve 6-9 P.M. at the Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to St. Joseph's Villa, 110 W. Wissahickon Ave., Flourtown, PA 19031 or The Hurricane Katrina Relief Fund, c/o The American Red Cross, 2300 Chestnut St., Phila., PA 19103.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas McNally
Sponsored by Thomas' Loving Fiancee and Soul Mate through Eternity, Cathy xxx.
Mary Pat
December 6, 2024
You are so in my thoughts today. I´m not sure why but I miss you my friend, my cousin
Deborah Chiarolanza
September 23, 2024
Hello Thomas , not a day goes by that I'm not thinking of you. I miss you Love Debbie
Bonnie Grant
September 22, 2024
Missing you and the impact you would have had on the City of Philadelphia.
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 21, 2023
Hello Thomas, there's not a day that goes by that you don't cross my mind! I miss your smile and always there for a great chat . I love ya bunches my friend
Barbara
September 5, 2022
Think of you often!
Debbie Chiarolanza
April 1, 2012
Hello Thomas, sitting here thinking of you as always, miss you so much, drove by your house the other day and had a tear in my eye, I want you to keep a watch over my friend Nicole Sloan who was killed Thurs in a car accident on 95 going to work, she is a great girl please make her feel safe, I know you will I love you big brother , Love ya Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
December 1, 2010
Hi Thomas, thinking of u today, I guess because the EAGLES play Thurs night, I try to write to you as much as possible, to let u know I will never forget you, and all the fun we had, your crazy laugh, give mom a big ole hug and kiss , I Love Ya Love Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
November 24, 2010
Hello Thomas, I wanted to say Happy Birthday to u, I miss you so much, how about our EAGLES, please give your mom a big kiss for me also, she is always in my thoughts and prayers, as you are my buddy, I LOVE YOU, Love Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 26, 2010
Hello Thomas, I was thinking of u on Sat and how it has been 5 yrs , we all miss u so much, your always on my mind, I hope u are ok and please give your mom a big kiss and hug from me, we love u buddy , Love Debbie C
Samantha Keller
June 17, 2010
Hey Thomas,
I came across this site and I just wanted you to know that I miss you. I'm turning 21 soon and we're having a BBQ at our house, I can't help but think how it would have been great to have you around celebrating. All my friends would get a kick out of your jokes. I'm going to your Alma Mater now, I really like it there. Well, I hope you're having fun up there and I hope everyone appreciates dancing with you to U2 and Beyonce as much as we did. Miss you,
Debbie Chiarolanza
April 3, 2010
Hello Thomas, I wanted to tell u Happy Easter , always thinking of uand your mom, god bless , I Love You, Love Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
December 24, 2009
Hi Thomas, I wanted to wish u a Merry Christmas, your always on our minds, Love ya Debbie C
Debbie Chiarolanza
December 1, 2009
Hello Thomas , I wanted to tell Betsy your welcome for always writing to u no problem Thomas would do it for me I know that, he will never be forgotten by me never, he was like a brother to me, I miss him terribly! Can u send me your email Betsy , thanks I LOVE YOU THOMAS , LOVE DEBBIE
Debbie Chiarolanza
November 27, 2009
Hello Thomas, I wanted to tell you Happy Birthday,my computer froze the other night, but you know I did not forget you! I hope your doing lots of things up there with Mom, We really miss you, your always in my thoughts and prayers, I Love Ya like my big brother, Love ya Little Debbie lol
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 25, 2009
Hi Thomas, I have been thinking of you, and here we are , 4 years already it feels like 4 days to me , I really miss you, I hope your having a nice time with your mother, give her a big kiss, your in my thoughts and prayers every day as is your family! I love ya, Love Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
July 26, 2009
Hello Thomas, I hope you and Mom are having a nice reunion, she missed you so much, I know your both together so that makes me feel a little better when Iam missing you, well your buddy Little Man is with you now so give him a hug for me please Mark was a nice guy, well my pal please come to me agian in my dreams , I LOVE YOU , Love Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
July 8, 2009
Hello My Buddy, I just got back from your mother's viewing she looked so beautiful, I Know she is at peace with you, I really miss you, it is not fair that your not here with us I miss that smile that could light up a room, I will write to you soon, love ya bunches, Little Debbie
Bonnie Grant
July 5, 2009
My sincere condolences to your family on the passing of your mom, Tom. I think about you often, especially last night during the concert and fireworks on the Parkway. Ican only guess that you, Cathy, your dad, Cathy's dad and your mom have all embraced. Many prayers.
July 5, 2009
The McNally Family,
I want to send my prayers and sympathy to all of you on the passing of Mrs. McNally. One of the sweetest people I've ever known. We were neighbors in Feltonville and then again in Mayfair.
Pat Rosenzweig, Philadelphia, Pa.
lisa hindman
July 4, 2009
Hello McNally Family,
My deepest sympathies for the passing of Mrs. McNally, she was the sweetest lady and now hopefully reunited with Thomas and her husband. Take care McNally Family.
Michaela McNally
July 3, 2009
Hi Thomas,
I'll miss aunt Hannah. I always called her the 'bionic woman'. She was the best, and now she's with you again.
Love,
Michaela
Dava Guerin
July 3, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Tom's mother. When Tom, Bonnie Grant and I were planning the Eagles Super Bowl Parade, on the night of the big game, Tom didn't want to be with us in the city. He said: "This might be my Mom's last Super Bowl, and I want to spend the night with her." Sadly, that summer, Tom was involved in the tragic accident that took his life. But he shared some of the most precious times, like the "big game," with those he loved the most!
I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to the McNally family, who has had to endure so much tragedy. But, both Tom and his mother were wonderful people whose lives really did make a difference.
Dava Guerin
Debbie Chiarolanza
July 2, 2009
Hi Thomas,my daughter just told me that your Mother passed away last night and I wanted to tell u to please give her a kiss for me, she was the sweetest lady around, and she still called me Little Debbie even last yr at your memorial picnic, I love u all so much and u are always on my mind , Love you and miss you, love Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
June 13, 2009
Hello Thomas, I wanted to let u know i have not forgotten about u, You are always on my mind, I was looking at pictures of us in the rec pool lol to funny , we went to Charlies pizza last week and then drove by B St, Elenaor st , the rec all over wow so so sad , I wish we could all go back to those good ole days, I guess we will be getting ready to have a T-Mac tournament soon, I want to try to get in touch with your sister to ask her or Terrance, well my pal take care we love ya so much give Cathy and big hug ana kiss for me , I love u, Love Little Debbie
Debbie chiarolanza
March 27, 2009
Hello Thomas Little Debbie here, i just wanted to say hello I have been thinking of u alot, I miss u and the talks we used to have, u were always there for me a real true friend, there is a Feltonville reunion April 25th at Reale's and u will be in my thoughts as u always are , i know your name will come up in conversation, u were so loved by many!! Well buddy give Cathy a big hug for me and from me to u a big kiss, Love ya forver, Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
December 24, 2008
Hello Thomas, I wanted to say Merry Christmas, and that i miss u so much! Give Cathy a hug for me also, i think of u both all the time, god bless u , love ya Little Debbie C,
Debbie Chiarolanza
October 30, 2008
Hello T - Mac i just wanted to let u know i was thinking of u last night while i was standing at Cottman and Frankford enjoying the Phillies World Series win, yes u heard me right! Thanks for listening to all my prayers, it was a great win the guys are so great and they deserved it! I think of u all the time, and i know u are with me! I love ya Debbie Chiarolanza
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 27, 2008
Hello Good Buddy, i wanted to let u know I did not forget about u on Thurs. i was feeling blue, I honestly can't believe it has been 3 yrs, to me it feels like 3 days u are so missed, i needed to chat with u a few times for some of your good advice u always gave to me and i wanted to dial your number so many times, u are so missed , i hope u and Cathy are at peace and happy together, she was so sweet and she is also missed, well my pal say a prayer today for our beloved Phillies that they take this today away from the Mets, lol take care my buddy i will write agian on your birthday , my love to u always Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
June 22, 2008
Hello Thomas, I just came home from your memorial picnic and it was beautiful! It is so nice seeing the old gang and all of our Feltonville friends, your mom is the sweetest lady i love her , she still call me little Debbie, and of course your sisters and brothers are the best! I did get to meet a few of your neices and nephews and they are great kids, u have a awesome family, T Mac you are so missed , and i did get to meet 2 children who recieved a scholarship from your benefit and they were so thrilled, it was just a great day, hope u are ok up there , i miss your calls and that walk! I still hear that voice calling me, that is something i will never ever forget, thanks for all the great memories u are one in a million! Love ya bunches your buddy Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
June 22, 2008
Good Morning Thomas, how are u? Well as u know today is your memorial picnic, this is a nice day, for everyone to come together to raise money for the fund, it is so nice to be a part of it, i enjoy seeing all the Feltonville gang, we all miss u so much, and this year will be sad not being able to see Cathy's beautiful face, and hear her voice, she is going to be missed by everyone, please give her a hug for me, my mom, etc.... we all loved her ! Well my pal i will write to u later , and i know u are going to be on my shoulder today! Thanks for always caring about me, LOVE YA FOREVER LITTLE DEBBIE
Kelly Tidwell (Beckel)
March 30, 2008
Dear McNally Family,
Thanks to Little Debbie, I was able to read Thomas's guestbook. I knew it would be filled with wonderful things. I am from Feltonville and Thomas knew my brothers Timmy & Donny Beckel, we lived right around the corner on B Street. Whenever I saw Tom in the neighborhood, he always had that nice smile and would say "hi Little Beckel" in such a nice way but most of all I remember how sweet and kind he was and that walk that he had. WOW what a guy! I am sorry for your loss may the kind words in this book carry you and keep you strong.
Debbie Chiarolanza
March 22, 2008
Hello Thomas i just wanted to say Happy Easter to you and Cathy, you both are always in my thoughts each and every day! My love to the two of you, Love Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
March 10, 2008
Hello Thomas, I was thinking of u and Cathy today, and i wanted to both to know how much u are missed , which u already know, i would also like u both to welcome Donnie Beckel with open arms, and give him a hug for all the folks he left behind also, that would mean alot ot me , i know he is singing for each and everyone of u , Thanks Thomas love ya Little Debbie
Maggie O'Brien
February 25, 2008
Thomas and Cathy--love is eternal
Debbie Chiarolanza
February 23, 2008
Dear Thomas and Cathy, u two were such special in my lives and I am sad at the news about Cathy, but now u are at rest with each other, u were a beautiful person Cathy, i will always remember that smile , this year's picnic will not be the same without that smile! To the both of you , u were loved so much , by so many people, i know u both are smiling down on each and everyone one of us, god bless you both I Love You Two, Love Little Debbie
Pat Rosenzweig
February 22, 2008
Thomas & Cathy's Families,
I'm deeply sorry at the news of Cathy's death on Monday 2/28/08. It somehow makes it better knowing they are together once again, and for eternity. I can't imagine what Thomas's Memorial Picnic will be like this year, without her smiling face. She was an inspiration to all who knew her. Although her grief was overwhelming, she still managed to have a kind word and smile to all who attended his memorial picnic. My condolences at this sad time for both families. She will be missed.
Fondly, Pat Rosenzweig
Bonnie Grant
February 19, 2008
Tom - Cathy has now joined you, May you both be blessed throughout eternity...
Debbie Chiarolanza
January 19, 2008
Hello Thomas ,I am sorry i have not written to u, the holidays are so stressful and i had my family here from Hawaii staying with us , it was alot of fun!I just wanted to say happy new year to u not like it is a happy new year with out u but i dont want u to think i forgot about u! Thay will never happen u are in my thoughts all the time , your whole family is in my thoughts esp Cathy! Well my friend till i write agian my love to u and can u please tell my dad Jersey Joe hello I love him and miss him so much, thanks , love ya Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
November 24, 2007
Hello Thomas, i wanted to wish u Happy Birthday! A few of us went to Claire Keller's cafe last night it was nice, it is really a nice place the food was great , u would like it there i saw Danny Keller , the cafe is called Hot Potato Cafe on Girard Ave, We love and miss u Thomas so much with the holidays coming , it makes it more depressing, well my buddy ole pal i just had to wish u a Happy Birthday, u are always in my thoughts, Love YA Debbie C.
Debbie Chiarolanza
October 30, 2007
Hello Thomas i was thinking of u today, and i felt like writing to u, i think of u alot but today i guess with your birthday coming up u are really on my mind, well the Phillies did nto make it but im glad the Boston Red Sox won, to show Colorado how it felt lol! Now we need the darn Eagles to get there act together!I drove by mom's yesterday and when i see your house i get so upset, we all miss u so much , more than u will ever know, u are the best! I miss your laugh i miss everything about u dear friend always in my thoughts Love Little Debbie
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 30, 2007
Thomas i want to thank u for the PHILLIES prayer wow what a great game , the mets who lol i know u are laughing your butt off and so are we!! Well we hope the EAGLES can win tonight to shut out NEW YORK today in baseball and football , god bless u and thanks again i love ya go PHILS , GO BIRDS Love Little Debbie
Bonnie Grant
September 29, 2007
Thomas - you are missed by so many friends and colleagues who loved you, Two years have passed, a drop of time. Many thoughts, wishes and prayers....
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 29, 2007
Good morning Thomas, we were out last night watching the Phillies win and the Mets loose and i said a little prayer to u before the game and with your love of the Phillies u came through for us!So as u know today is a big game if the Mets loose at 1 and the Phillies win at 4 we will win the National league east division so put a hex on those Mets!! Miss and love u wish u were here to cheer them on but u are cheering them on and looking down on all of us so go Phillies and Birds on sunday agianst the Giants! I will talk to u soon, again THANK U LOVE YA Debbie
Patricia Rosenzweig
September 25, 2007
Hi Thomas,
Another year without you near is so heartbreaking. I just want you to know what a great time was had by all who attended your memorial picnic on Saturday. It started out raining, and then got misty. I wrote to you in your book and asked you to make the sun come out, and you did...Thanks!
It was great to see everyone from Felltonville again, and to see how much you are loved. Otto and I even won a prize on one of the chances we took....WOW! What a surprise. Cathy looks GREAT, as usual, and seemed to be having fun face painting the kids. You're always in my thoughts and prayers, and like Debbie, I carry your picture with me always. Miss You!
Pat (Debbie's Mom)
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 25, 2007
Hello my pal, well i did not want to write to u before i go to work ,but vinnie has basketball practice later and i am not sure when I'll be home , So i guess I'll be going to work wearing my shades. Here we are at 2years already that dam dreadful day, i keep saying i can't believe it has been to years since i have seen that huge smile of yours and your walk! We all miss u so much i know , that u know since u are, all of our ANGELS,on our shoulders, sometimes late at night i can actually hear your voice and they way when u called me to ask what i was doing just the funny way u would say things, it does not seem real at times for any of us, u were like my big brother, always there for me , a shoulder when i needed u and u always had an answer to my problems! U could solve anything for me , and i thank u for that, u were at times my rock when i was feeling down and out , but u were always there to listen or tell me to run over. Thsnk u so much for all of the friendship, and kindness, i always said thanks but i have to say it once more!Can i please ask a favor, could u please tell my dad ''JERSEY JOE'' that i love him and we all miss him! Thanks big guy! I could sit here all day and chat with u, but i have to get to work, Thomas I LOVE U AND MISS U ,dam i thought i could get through this without crying i am sorry i know u would not want me to be like this , so i will sign off for now until my next writing i say to u love ya T-MAC, LOVE ALWAYS YOUR LITTLE DEBBIE
Debbie Chiarolanza
September 23, 2007
Hello my buddy, i know i have not written since april but not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts, i drive by mom;s house and see the swing out front and i get tears in my eyes, it is so sad! Well as u know your memorial picnic was held yesterday, what a beautiful day it was!Betsy, Terrance,your terrific MOM, and Cathy your fiancee, and Ann Marie (chip) all said hey u have not written lately, i said i know but i showed Cathy your picture that i carry with me everyday , if i change handbags you come with me, i think Cathy was happy to see that i did not get to show your family this but to Cathy i did, i felt good showing your handsome picture to her it made me proud, to know u are with me everyday!!!!! Thomas i know u are watching us all and u know esp from yesterday and last yr how much u are loved and missed u had such an impact on so many people, u are so LOVED and MISSED dearly, u bring smiles to everyone's faces each yr who gather in your memory, people who just see each other now once a yr , some of us have not seen each other since the good ole days! It is great seeing all of your old buddies, so many Feltonville memories, I love walking around your picnic and seeing eveyone, FUZZHEAD, MARK , DANNY, LEO, TERRANCE, you all were are old head lol! Then i walk around and see my age group CHIP (Ann Marie) Mark LITTLE MAN , CHRIS BRUNO, THE PARKS FAMILY , ETC,,,Thomas i could go on and on , dam id i mispelled anything sont hold it agianst me i cant see the letters to well i have tears in my eyes writing all this , but yesterday was a REUNION for many and i want to tell u agian as u know that I LOVE YOU AND MISS U WITH ALL MY HEART, I WILL WRITE TO U ON YOUR OTHER BOOK, SWEET DREAMS MY FRIEND , LOVE YA LITTLE DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
debbie chiarolanza
April 24, 2007
Hello Thomas ,i have not written to u in a little while , i hate doing this that's why, i hate talking to u like this, i still hear ya calling my cell Debbie what ya doing girl u would say lol! You were so funny telling people we did not know if we were bike riding or just walking through penny pack that i was your sister and the guy on the horse that one day argued with u over us being related lol , u know Thomas u have gotten alot of people together in the past year, your funeral as u know was like one GIANT FELTONVILLE REUNION! wow, We still see each other alot it is nice seeing alot of our friends still though we all feel 20 agian lol! It stinks that we all see each other from such a horrible tragedy! I miss u so much i still have yoru numbes in my cell phone and all other info in my book i can not find myself to take it out , when i scroll down to look for a number all i see is MAC , in there , well we will all see each other soon at your tournament! We all look forward to it! ESP RICKY YEITER, he likes to play on the all girls team! lol Well do me a favor tell my dad hello jersey joe, and say a prayer for the phillies love ya your little debbie chiarolanza
donnie beckel
April 23, 2007
Thomas mac was not only a friend to all who knew him, but someone who took the time to help others before helping himself. Thomas's mom would always try to straigten me out with her nun friends sitting on the back steps..lol..( knowing at the time my neigbor MR'S Sherman would pay me a nickel a day, not to play on her steps!') Prayer's go out to all the family.I'll see you up in the softball yard if I make it up there!
donnie beckel and family
March 7, 2007
Thomas in Vegas
December 27, 2006
December 25, 2006
DEAR THOMAS,WELL ITS CHRISTMAS AGAIN.I HAVE NOT WRITTEN IN HERE BEFORE I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A MERRY CHRISTMAS PS TELL MY DAD I SAID MERRY CHRISTMAS I AM SURE HE HAS ALL THE TRIMMING OF TODAYS FEAST STARTED ENJOY THE MEAL REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND ANNMARIE CHIP CHERMAK DONNELLY
Thomas
October 5, 2006
Pat Rosenzweig (Debbie's Mom)
September 25, 2006
Hi Thomas,
I can't believe a year has gone by without seeing your smile and hearing your laughter. I know those with you up in heaven are enjoying those things that all of us here on earth "MISS SO VERY MUCH."
I do hope your family and Cathy are getting by, knowing you're smiling down on all who love you.
DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
September 21, 2006
Hi Thomas ,i have been thinking of u so much lately now with the 1 year anniversary coming soon, it is so sad i cant stand it! We all miss u so much it is not the same without u around u were the life of everything, I have been still keeping i ntouch with Cathy she is truly a remarkable person and u and her were so lucky to have each other in your lives! I Want to stop over and see mom and betsy and mary catherine soon i misss them also last i saw them was at your memorial at burlholme park which was so specail! I wear the shrit alot and it makes me feel so close to u, i sitll remember all the great Feltonville days we all had how about the rec pool lol! U and Leo Keller held me up in the air and said roots and threw me in to pool our joke!! So many fond times and memories with u!! You truly are so missed u have no idea when i sit sometimes quietly i hear u say certain things to me and i just laugh, things that u have said to me though the 25 and plus years we knew each other, well my special freind until next time i write.... I LOVE U AND MISS U , LOVE LITTLE DEBBIE
Joseph Netterville
September 20, 2006
Dear Thomas,
As we approach the 1st anniversary of your death all of us[ the Netterville Family ] are wondering how it is up there, because we know that you definately made. Sincere sorrows from FUZZY and the Netterville's.
Valerie Baker
July 30, 2006
Tom you are alway's the topic still at the job and how much we wish you were still here.....
DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
July 8, 2006
HELLO THOMAS, I AM SITTING HERE PACKING UP SOME THINGS IM MOVING WITH GOMER! CAN U BLEIEVE IT ? I CAN'T AFTER 26 YEARS WOW AND IN PACKING I CAME ACROSS PICUTRES OF MY BLOCK PARTY IN 96, THE PICTURES ARE GREAT ,I ALREADY HAVE ONE IN MY PURSE OF U AND I, BUT I NEVER KNEW WHERE THE OTHERS WERE , SO ANYWAY I STATRED THINKING OF U AND NEEDED TO TALK TO U, OH CATHY AND I HAVE BEEN EMAILING BACK AND FORTH WE ARE DEF GOING TO KEEP IN TOUCH!!! WELL MY FRIEND IM GOING TO GO NOW BUT I WILL BE BACK TO U IN A FEW DAYS TAKE CARE LOVE YA BUNCHES LITTLE DEBBIE
DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
June 24, 2006
HELLO THOMAS, IT'S ME LITTLE DEBBIE I JUST GOT HOME FROM YOUR MEMORIAL PICNIC AND LET ME TELL U IT WAS GREAT! WE GOT TO SEE SO MANY OF OUR FELTONVILLE FAMILY IT WAS BEAUTIFUL! YOUR MOM BOUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES WHEN WE TALKED OF HER WALKING UP B ST TO GET HER SMOKES AND HOW U WOULD LOOK OUT YOUR FRONT DOOR TO SEE IF I WAS OUT BACK , BETSY TOOK A GREAT PICTURE OF MOM AND I AND LEO , MARK, DANNY AND FUZZHEAD LOOK SO GOOD AND IM HAPPY IT TURNED OUT SO WELL, CATHY IS AN AMAZING WOMAN ,SO SWEET I WOULD LOVE TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH HER, IT REALLY DID FEEL LIKE A FELTONVILLE REUNION, I HOPE WE CAN CONTINUE THIS EVERY YEAR IN YOUR HONOR, THOMAS I MISS U SO MUCH IT SUCKS, HOW WE WOULD SIT AND TALK FOR HOURS I MISS THAT SO MUCH OUR BIKE RIDES TO THE OLD NEIGHBORHOOD REMEBER I WAS SCARED AND U SAID U HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT YOUR WITH ME BIG MAC! WE LAUGHED AND LAUGHED WE SAT ON 4841 B ST STEPS AND THE LADY ASKED IF SHE COULD HELP US U TOLD HER I USED TO LIVE THERE AND SHE ASKED IF I WANTED TO COME IN ,I TOLD HER NO THANKS AND U SAID LETS GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE!U ARE MISSED BY SO MANY , AND MOM SAID U MADE THE SUN SHINE TODAY,SHE WAS SO HAPPY TO SEE THAT I WRITE ALOT TO U BUT I TOLD HER I WILL UNTIL I CANT ANYMORE, I LOVE YOUR MOM AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY! BETSY AND MARY ARE SO SWEET AND YOUR BROTHERS, U HAVE A GREAT FAMILY WHICH U ALREADY KNOW, AND SO MANY LOVING FREINDS!! WELL MY FRIEND I WILL SIGN OFF FOR NOW I WILL TALK TO U SOON, LOVE U FORFEVER STAY SWEET, LOVE YA BUNCHES DEBBIE
maggie o'brien
May 11, 2006
Dear Thomas,
We all miss you very much. It still does not seem possible that you are gone. We are going to remember you on June 24th at Burholme Park at the Thomas McNally Memorial Picnic we are hoping that all of your friends and family will come out and join us as we celebrate your life. Because you were such a champion of education, we have begun the Thomas McNally Scholarship Fund to keep your memory alive.
We miss you Thomas, you were such a good person who cared about so many. We hope that this little event will keep your spirit and memory alive for generations to come. Rest in peace.
John Dalbey
March 14, 2006
Hey T Mac, just read Mark's letter about the June 24th gathering in your honor. I will be sure to bring the video tape of the "First Feltonville Reunion" for all who had not seen it. You're in there are right, be the competitors that we are, playing softball and banging ringers. We will be doing this once again, but this time, for you big guy. Check us out, you've been selected to be the referee, looking down. See ya round - Johnny D
The Three Amingos and their families. Penn State Weekend, 10/28/2005.
Donna Owen
March 11, 2006
One more photo Thomas. This photo is taken on the last day of our Annual Penn State Weekend. I tried my best to get everyone to smile and say, "Thomas", and this was the final result. Here's to you Thomas. We all love and miss you very much. Love from all of us. "Go Penn State!"
Fuzzhead, Mr. Bones and Mark Goetz, celebrating Thomas' life, at our annual Penn State weekend, on 10/28/2005.
Donna Owen
March 11, 2006
Hey Thomas. I could not help but to add this picture to your photo gallery. I took the pictures this year Thomas, at our annual Penn State gathering. Your three amigos were there celebrating your life all weekend and I was lucky to capture it on film. We all love this photo so much, being that you and Cathy were suppose to be with us and it was the Halloween Weekend. However, though you were there is spirit, this photo is for you. Two of your amigos, with my buddy, "Mr. Bones". He enjoyed the weekend with all of us and was a barrel full of laughs. Reminded us of you in a way. You presence was felt Thomas. I think of you often. You are missed very much by all of us. Love and miss you dearly, Donna & Tim, Mark, Patti and family, Fuzzhead & family, Danny, Erin & family and friends.
Penn State Annual Weekend, 10/28/2005. You were missed this weekend Thomas, but we know you were with us in spirit. Mark, Fuzz and Dan.
March 11, 2006
Mark Goetz
March 10, 2006
Dear Tom, This is your buddy, Mark Goetz. The date is March 10th, 2006. Miss you badly bud. Think of you always. We're going to have a benefit for you on June 24, 2006. Softball and horseshoe tournament. I know you would probably win both. How's life up in the big blue. Let me know once in awhile. Will send you more info on the benefit Tom, once the three amingos get it together. And we all know how long that could take! Only kidding. So, in any case Thomas. Try to keep your calendar set aside for this event. We wouldn't want you to miss your own party. Love your pals, the three amingos, Mark, Fuzz and Dan.
DEBBIE ROBINS
January 24, 2006
HEY BUDDY , JUST WANTED TO DROP A LINE TO U, WOW I MISS U ALOT ,I DROVE BY THE HORRIBLE SPOT ON SUNDAY AND PUT A NEW FLOWER THERE, I STAYED FOR A MINUTE IT WAS REALLY HARD BUT I DID IT! I WISH I COULD CHAT WITH U. I NEEDED YOUR ADVISE THE OTHER DAY AND U WERE NOT THERE FOR ME AS U USUALLY WERE AND IT FELT SO WEIRD NOT PICKING UP HTE PHONE TO DIAL U AND SAY THOMAS WHAT WOULD U DO IN THE SITUATION! U ARE SO DAM MISSED BY ALL! LOVE YA BABE LITTLE DEBBIE
Fuzzy Netterville
January 22, 2006
Thomas i hope that you are always lookin down upon me,lost weekend, and danny i will miss you forever
love,
Fuzzzy
(the four amigos)
DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
December 12, 2005
HELLO THOMAS, I JUST FELT LIKE TALKING TO U AND DECIDED TO DROP U A LINE , DAM I REALY MISS U I STILL HEAR YOUR VOICE SAYING HEY MY LITTLE DEBBIE, I DROVE BY TYSON AND ROWLAND LAST WEEK AND PUT A FRESH FLOWER DOWN AT THE POLE, I STARED AND JUST STOOD THERE I DIDN'T WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE I FELT SO CLOSE TO U THERE FOR SOME CRAZY REASON, I MISS U SO MUCH MR AND SO DO MANY OTHERS, WHOM U HAVE TOUCHED THERE LIVES, I MISS ALL OF OUR FUN FELTONVILLE DAYS, IT SEEMS LIKE ONLY YESTERDAY, IM GOING TO SAY A PRAYER FOR CATHY, YOUR MOM WHOM I LOVE AND YOUR 2 SISTERS AND BROTHERS AT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON I KNOW ITS TOUGH FOR THEM AND I CAN RELATE, I WILL COME VISIT U BEFORE CHRISTMAS I WILL WRITE AGAIN SOON MY BUDDY,FROM YOUR BUDDY LOVE YOUR LITTLE DEBBIE XO
gabrieella kuraitis
December 10, 2005
MY Aunt and Uncle Tom and Cathy,
Aunty Cathy I am so sorry what happen. I loved Tom I bet you loved him alot more than I do.
Uncle Tom I love you and miss you.
Gabriella Kuraitis
December 5, 2005
My Uncle Tom,
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Your Niece, Gabriella
Gabriella Kuraitis
December 2, 2005
My Dearest Tom,
I love you alot and can't wait to see tou in Heaven.
Love, Gabriella
Bonnie Grant
November 28, 2005
Dearest Tom:
As we gathered at the Thanksgiving Day Parade and sang Happy Birthday to George, with whom you share a birthday, you were painfully missed but remembered with a smile.
I think of you every day, and often ask myself "What would Tom have advised?" when dealing with questions from the media. Of course, you left me by myself to watch the one of the biggest p.r. stories in the history of football unfold. Novice that I am in pro sports, I thought about how we would disect every syllable of every press conference, printed news article and broadcast personality and the fun we would have writing our own version of the events.
The world keeps turning. We will meet again.
Rest well, dear Tom, you are loved by so many.
Gabriella Kuraitis
November 26, 2005
Dear uncle Thomas and auntie Cathy
Uncle Thomas-Hi! I miss you very much. I miss all the fun things we did together. I love U alot! And can't wait to die and see your lovely face! And don't forget I love you.
Love, your lovely Gabriella
Auntie Cathy-I am so sorry what happened. But remember we're always here for you. I love you very much! Hope that never happens to you. But I promise we will see him in Heaven.
Love, your lovely Gabriella
DEBBIE CHIAROLANZA
November 26, 2005
HELLO THOMAS, I WANTED TO WISH U A HAPPY BIRTHDAY! THIS IS NOT THE WAY I WANTED TO DO THIS, I'VE BEEN THINKING OF U ALOT, I DRIVE BY YOUR HOUSE AND I WANT TO STOP IN TO SEE YOUR MOM AND SISTERS BUT I CAN'T ITS SO HARD, WE WERE OUT THANKSGIVING EVE, ME, GOMER, JOEY MARTINO, RICKY YEITER ,EDDIE BOWMAN AND SOME OTHER FELTONVILLE FOLKS AND WE TALKED ABOUT U AND HOW WE ALL MISS U,WELL MY FRIEND I JSUT WANTED TO WISH U A HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND LET U KNOW I WILL NEVER EVER FORGET U!!!!!!!!! LOVE ALWAYS LITTLE DEBBIE
Drew Ryan
November 20, 2005
Dear Cathy, Family and friends of Toms,
I met Tom during the heady days of Live8 during the hot summer of 2005. Amid the stress and strain of the moment Tom stood out as the epitomy of Philadelphia's heart and soul. He made all the visiting crew members feel welcome and at home. We shared many laughs and I remember the joy with which he introduced me to you Cathy, he virtually shone. We were all so sad to learn of his passing, and I know I speak for all the staff of EFPR when I extend my most sincere condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Michael Ward
November 17, 2005
From the entries above, it's great to see Tom never lost his sense of humor. From Cardinal Dougherty High School, I'll never forget him ripping out each page and crumbling it up after reading it from the Dickins' novel Great Expectations in English class. I sat next to Tom in many classes over 4 years at C.D. I learned about Tom's passing in the C.D. newsletter. Looks like he left a legacy in Philly.
Linda, Tony & Joseph Comello
November 4, 2005
Our deepest sympathy to Cathy his fiancee, and the McNally family. We met him nine years ago, a Philadelphian who had a great sense of humor and a full zest for life. He was a very special person in my sister Cathy's life. As the years progressed I could see the love and happiness they gave to each other and through that he became a member of our family.
They had a beautiful lifestyle, traveling, meeting interesting people, commuting from Philadelphia to California. Not only did they live their lives for each other, but they had strong family ties that made their love even stronger.
At this time it is very hard to know he is not with us any longer, but knowing how he lived and how much he loved will give us knowledge of how precious life is. Farewell for now, you will be forever in our hearts.
Your California family,
Agnes (Keller) Heppler
November 2, 2005
To the Nally Family. My heartfilled sympathy for the sudden and unexpected loss of Thomas. I last saw Thomas at my brother Dan and Erin's wedding which he so graciously entertained the guests with his rendition of The Brady Bunch..but of course, injecting the words, The Keller Bunch. May you find comfort in knowing that Thomas was truly a wonderful person whose kindness, sensitivity and humor will live forever in the hearts of those who knew him.
Barbara Cronin
October 20, 2005
I never knew Thomas in person but only through Cathy, and from her I know he was a wonderful human being. They are both blessed.
Nancy Verdin
October 19, 2005
Dearest Cathy, Mrs. Zappacosta, and the McNally Family:
Words cannot express my feelings of heartfelt sympathy for the loss of Thomas.
Cathy, please take heart in knowing that for the last nine years you gave Thomas the greatest and rarest of human gifts, that of unconditional love. I know that he also blessed your life with unconditional love, joy, fun, support, and a lot of laughter.
A special memory that I have of Thomas was from when my own husband was killed in an accident. Thomas gave me, through Cathy, a religious medal that I wore for a very long time. Thomas's faith in God elevated me. I will be forever grateful.
With love and lifelong friendship,
Nancy Cardea Verdin
sandee montez
October 12, 2005
I am one of Cathy's cousins from Arizona.
Even though my husband and I only met Thomas once at Cathy's home in California, we could feel there was a special bond between Thomas and Cathy.
Our condolences to Thomas' family and to my cousin Cathy for their loss.
Our prayers are with you all.
Love,
Sandee and Marco Montez
Larry J. Engel
October 12, 2005
Cathy and the McNally Family,
Too often it does seem that the truly great are taken from us far too early in life. So it was with "Tomas".
Truly great people, however, seem to bless those around them with the impact of a very full life even though the days may have been too few. So also it was with "Tomas".
Cathy, I hope he enjoyed "Hotel California" and someday when you are reunited I'm sure you'll enjoy it together. I know it will always have a special meaning to me.
God Bless you all! L.J.E.
Lynne Pelzek
October 12, 2005
Dearest Thomas,
I did not get the opportunity to meet you in person but I felt as though I knew you through your beautiful fiancée, and my good friend, Cathy Zappacosta. Over the past four years she spoke so lovingly and adoringly of you – so I knew you had to be a pretty special guy! Cathy’s colorful stories of you always had me laughing so I imagined you to be a fun & entertaining person filled with an immense joie de vie! Then one night in August while Cathy and I were out to dinner with our friend Frank – you called. First you spoke to Frank and I watched him as you had him rolling in stitches! Then Cathy handed the phone to me so I could finally meet this Man of Mystery. I remember the first thing you said to me was, “So Lynne. I hear you’re smokin’ hot.” Considering we only knew of one another yet had never met, I thought – how brazen and hysterical of a comment! You were so easy to talk to, very endearing and personable, and you definitely put a smile on my face. I got an incredibly great vibe from you. You actually made me miss home (in Milwaukee) because I gathered from our conversation that you are “good people” – not like many folks here in Southern California.
After reading all of your friends’ tributes, I can tell you were loved by so many. Thomas, I know Cathy loves you with all of her heart and then some. You are her shining star and guardian angel. Thank you for bringing so many years of happiness to my dear friend, and for touching so many people’s lives in such a positive way.
Rosalind Alexander-Kasparik
October 12, 2005
Other than my husband, Thomas was the only truly bi-cultural human being I've ever met. He talked the same talk he walked, and he accepted me for who I am: an African-American of partial Irish descent. I met him through Cathy, and I've likewise never met two people more destined to be together--except for myself and my husband, Ed.
I will always remember Thomas, his understanding way, his human embrace of everyone with whom he came in contact, and his unconditional love for Cathy.
Rest in peace, Thomas. Every day I ask Ed to seek you out, since we'll all meet again someday.
--Roz
The Four Amigos at Danny's Wedding
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The Four Amigos 1999
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Boston 1996
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Feltonville
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John Shatkus
October 11, 2005
My family and I were privileged to know Thomas through Cathy Zappacosta. Cathy is the Godmother of our 14 year-old son, Patrick. We feel fortunate that Thomas and Cathy made the special effort to attend Patrick's eighth grade graduation in June. Little did we know that would be the last time we would see him. My wife, Karen and daughters, Jill and Wynne also enjoyed Thomas. He was great with the kids and they truly enjoyed his company. They loved talking about their participation in sports with him.
Thomas provided me with the Pennsylvania-reality check that I sometimes need living in Los Angeles. It was refreshing to talk to someone who had my same Pennsylvania roots and valued people over possessions. I enjoyed talking sports with him and remember the time he called me after the Sixers beat the Lakers in the first game of the NBA finals. Unfortunately, that was not to be the Sixers year.
Accept our deepest sympathy Cathy and the McNally family. As I previously said my family and I were indeed privileged to know him.
Jacky Feeney
October 9, 2005
To the Mcnally family,
We are truely sorry for your loss
Thomas will be missed by all who
knew him. He was one of a kind!
I can't remember a time when I didn't know him growing up in Feltonville, I remember him when I was little sitting on my parents porch comming home from Cardinal Dougherty with Joe Netterville (fuzz head) he always had a smile on his face and he always said hello, I will always remember
growing up on Eleanor St. next to the Nettervilles and seeing Thomas,
I will miss him always.
The Feeney Family
Buddy (Cathy's Dad), Thomas and Cathy in California 2002
October 6, 2005
Cathy & Thomas 2005
October 6, 2005
Joan Gerstle
October 4, 2005
To the McNally Family,
You were really blessed to have had someone like Tom with you for even a short time. I know he is with you always in spirit and memory. I only knew Tom for a couple of years, being employed with the City's Commerce/City Rep's Office. He was always very friendly, even when we bumped into each other at the ShopRite store on Frankford Avenue. What a great guy! I'll really miss Tom, it was a pleasure to him. You're in my prayers.
Joan Gerstle
Cara Schneider
October 3, 2005
Dear McNally Family,
Please accept deep sympathy and warm thoughts from the entire staff of the Greater Philadelphia Tourism Marketing Corporation.
So many of us had the joy of working with Tom. We admired his energy, his sharp wit and his clarity. He is indelibly tied to Philadelphia at its best – he shined when we shined.
As first glance, you knew Tom was the go-to-guy. He was the person you wanted to be around. Knowing him better, you learned that while Tom gave a lot of answers, he never stopped asking questions. He searched for ways to make himself, and his city, better. And you also knew that his Mother, Kathy and his family were in the center of his universe.
So many on our staff shared stories of Tom making them feel like a million bucks. He’d throw his arm around you; make you laugh; share his ideas with you. He said what was in his heart, giving the gift of his friendship.
I hope you take some comfort in knowing how much your Tom lit the up room. We’ll miss him.
With affection,
Meryl, Paula, Cara and the entire GPTMC gang
Maureen Malloy
October 3, 2005
To the McNally Family, I heard on Saturday from a PFF about your loss. You are all in my prayers. John and Jeany, if there is anything I can do, please call. As hard as it may seem, your faith will always see you, your mother, and your family through. Hang in there.
Leslie Day
October 3, 2005
Mrs. McNally & Family and Cathy:
I am fortunate to have known Tom and my heart breaks for your loss.
Tom and I were co-workers but we rarely talked abouyt work, mainly because we never agreed about it. Tom was public relations and I was special events. Same goals, different methods - so we usually agreed to disagree, as long as City Rep / Commerce came out on top.
But because of his personality, he refused to not connect with me on some level. That's the kind of person he was, a REAL people person. And that gave me an opportunity to get to know Tom.
We talked about travel and food and music and our faiths. He helped me find timeshares and gave me tips for when I got there. "You don't have to buy it, just go, check it out," he'd say. He'd tell me which cities required a rental car and which ones you could walk. He knew the best restaurants and even what to order when you got there. He told me about going on retreats with the Men of Malvern and I told him about my new member classes at Sharon. We talked about old school rap. Ok at first I did just stare at him, but then I realized he actually knew what he was talking about. I did draw the line at him doing any rapping (but he did it anyway). And no dancing either. He had a lot of fun dancing - and I had a lot of fun laughing at him - he was such a good sport.
When I passed his desk, he'd offer me fruit and I always said "No, did you even wash that stuff?" somehow it would just appear on my desk later dripping wet, of course. He would remind me to "just get the healthier bad thing" while I was at lunch. But at the same time, he still bought me Starbucks and was always giving me coupons for Dunkin Donuts. That's the way he was - he liked to see people happy and taken care of.
I feel blessed to have known Tom and will keep you all in my prayers as I keep his memory in my heart.
Jake McNally's bar mitzvah table
Terry Berch McNally
October 2, 2005
[ Yo Thomas, yesterday, I was with your cousin Michael in that procession of yours. I turned to look at Jake in the back seat and said, “When I married your dad I had no idea that I had married into royalty!“ We were protected and guided, like a flock of sheep in Ireland. Our city’s gallant police officers herded us, noisily, nipping at our behinds to keep us together. The task kept us together, prevented interference, and made sure we kept up with you! Your funeral and burial will go down in McNally history and even in death you have given a gift of pride and honor to your mother, your family, and all the McNally future generations.]
I am telling Thomas this because I know he is shaking his head humbly, smirking and grinning at the same time at the irony of his dying being such an ‘event’. He made all the news channels and the papers. I giggled at the other irony, that the Thomas I had gotten to know over the last 15 years walked “amongst the crowd” and would have never accepted being treated or thought of differently than any other human being, let alone stop his neighbors from their daily activities to let him by!
I married Michael McNally, one of Thomas’ many first cousins. Michael took a different path and became a Chef. Thomas was a champion of Michael, encouraging him the whole way while at the same time telling him not to ‘screw it up’. When Michael and I got our own restaurant, Thomas was always there, telling us how fantastic we were in our adventure and how Michael had become a family icon. I was buying it, but Michael would roll his eyes and laugh it off. Thomas would have done the same if the roles were reversed. I do know that Thomas was a comfort to Michael over the last 3 decades of sacrificing everything to be a Chef and to have his own kitchen.
Over the years Thomas and my connection grew out of our mutual desire for collaborative events for the city, our neighborhood, Fairmount, and the Free Library. When he went to L & I, he helped me learn and cope with running a small business in the City of Philadelphia. When I reached a point of complete frustration; when my humor would fade; when I became tired and felt like I was on a deserted island, I would call Thomas and immediately start breathing again.
Thomas and I also became connected because of his insurmountable respect and knowledge of the Jewish people and their history. I am a Jew, and so is my son. Michael had also taken a different path by agreeing that I could raise our son as a Jew. Thomas never missed a beat with this issue. He engaged me in conversations about the similarities of the Irish and the Jews: their history; their family values; their commitment to education and democracy; their beliefs in Christianity and Judaism; their humor! I am thankful for the McNally family’s acceptance and sacrifice and I am proud that my son is a Jew and an Irishman, and a McNally.
Our loss of Thomas is a great one, but because his own life was so filled and always moving forward without great expectation, this momentum is still felt, and I am inspired. Thanks Tom.
Love, Terry Berch McNally
co-owner London Grill
Debi Gadziala ( Turino )
October 2, 2005
I am so sorry for your Loss .I have'nt seen Tom in so many years but he was a really great guy.He will be truely missed.
John Dalbey
October 1, 2005
On behalf of the Dalbey family, we send thoughts of prayer. Having spirituality, his journey goes on.
My sisters know him as "flip flop".
I know him as "t-mac"
A brief example of his warmth.
John,Debbie,Chris & Jillian Dalbey.
Michaela McNally
October 1, 2005
I have to say that I was not the least bit surprised by the turn out at the funeral. It only proved that our feelings about you were not biased because you were family, but because you were truly a remarkable character.
I hope that you will be the angel on my shoulder.
Bonnie Grant
October 1, 2005
Dearest Anne, Mary Kay, John, Terrence and Cathy:
Exactly one week ago, Tom and I sat under a tent on the Benjamin Franklin Parkway. It was an event called Campus Philly Kickoff and College Day on the Parkway. The air was breezy, just a hint of summer left and we knew the full blast of a colorful autumn was around the corner. Throughout the day we drank coffee, bottled water and finally Red Bull Energy Drink.
We talked about the celebration our office was planning for me as I was heading into a new job next week. There was to be a grand gathering at City Hall, and Tom and I collaborated to herd everyone to McGillan’s afterward so we could let the night play on...
Never in the farthest deserts of my imagination did I think that I would be attending Tom's funeral instead.
I loved Tom. I connected with him, emotionally and intellectually. I had found a kindred spirit. I was a girl from the neighborhood, often trying to disguise that fact. He was a boy from the neighborhood, never forgetting his roots. His pride was contagious. I had found a mate in my profession and we shared our hearts and souls.
And most of all, Tom always had my back.
I am blessed to begin a new journey with the Philadelphia Eagles next week. I will take Tom with me.
As I left the cemetery to join you at Fisher's, I found a message on my blackberry from a dear friend who knew I was hurting: "Tom is at peace now."
My heartfelt wishes, prayers and love to each of you.
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