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Victor Alfonsi Obituary
"DEETER' VICTOR, Jan. 15, 2008. Beloved son to Victor (Mary Anne) and Kathleen (Henry) Merlino; dear brother to Tracey (Charles) D'Adamo, Christine (Anthony) Visconto, Victoria (Vincent) Rizzo, Joseph D'Ambrosio, Maria Gallo and William Alfonsi; survived by aunts, uncles, nieces and nephew. Relatives and friends invited to his Viewing and Funeral Tues. Jan. 22, 2008 at St. Nicholas of Tolentine Church, 9th and Watkins Sts., Phila., PA 19148 at 8:30-10:30 A.M. Funeral Mass at 10:30 A.M. Int. private. In lieu of flowers make memorial donations to the above Church. CARTO F.H.
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Tracey Dadamo
January 13, 2021
Deet. Another year without you. You are so missed especially over the holidays. Life has a way of taking away and giving back. Still nothing could ever replace you little brother
Tracey D'Adamo
January 13, 2020
Almost 11 years in a few days since I last seen you. We all think and speak of you every passing day. Please continue to watch over us as the family continues our journey through life without you. I love n miss you with all I got
Tracey Dadamo
March 10, 2019
I miss you today as I will forever..til we meet again lil brother...
Sister Tracey
October 10, 2018
HAPPY 52ND BIRTHDAY DEET.. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS THAT KIND HEARTED, FUNNY and WELL MANNERED MAN THAT YOU WERE. ALTHOUGH YOU WERE TAKEN TOO SOON, YOU ARE THOUGHT OF AND SPOKEN OF EVERY SINGLE DAY ..UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN..I LOVE YOU WITH ALL I GOT
Mike Morris
August 23, 2018
Deeter, I realized tonight as I was sharing some stories of growing up in South Philly, I always tell a story or two that involved you. I definitely have fond memories of the times with you either on the terrace or when we were teenagers that always make me laugh and smile . You were one of a kind Deet ... Wish for one day we all could go back to the terrace for a summer day of playing ball, going under the fire hydrant and then playing a long game of jailbreak at night. Miss days like that ... Take care Deet ...
Sharon Cooper
July 23, 2018
Hi Deet, it's been a while. Just thinking of you and all the memories. Just know that there a lot of people who miss and love you. Did you help the Eagles win the championship? I think you may have something to do with it.
Love always,
Sharon "Coop"
Sister Tracey
December 29, 2016
Lost you in 2008...3 more days will be 2017. You would be making your new years day plans right about now.. Damn I miss you.. And I know you miss me too .
Sister Tracey
December 20, 2016
Deet.. I know you are with God surrounded by so many beautiful angels. I know you are watching over our family while we say goodbye to mom mom.. And while we wait to welcome new baby Jimmy to our ever growing family.. We miss you now and forever..❤ especially at Christmas time!
October 12, 2014
happy belated birthday buddy ,,,,, everyone here really miss you , going archery hunting , how to bang a big buck , take care always thinking of you
tracey dadamo
June 26, 2014
Deter I feel comfort today knowing that our friend eddy is with you right now. We had so many talks about death and all our loved ones we lost along the way. Eddy was looking forward to seeing his brothers Rodney and Joe Joe. He said whenever he gets to heaven he would give you a big bear hug from me and tell you how much your entire family misses you and loves you. He always kept his promises. Take good care of him :(
June 2, 2014
Wow its been a while , still thinking about you , went fishing , had my last worm i threw it out , then I remember , me , you , and bern . would go to the lakes on are bikes or walking , to go fishing , all the fish we caught , anyway ,when I threw the last worm out I looked up and I said this one for you buddy , caught a small bass 10 inch , smiled all day ,,,,, take care always thing of you ,
Chris Boyle
May 31, 2014
Cuz I needed to reach out to you because I always think of you and I miss you terribly. It doesn't get easier no matter how much I think it will one day. I wish we could drink a nice cold draft off the beer meister together because I know you loved it, that would be an incredible state of mind to be in. miss you Deter, the holidays have not and will not be the same without you. be good cuz, Love ya buddy.
Sharon Cooper
May 15, 2014
Hi Deet, always thinking about you and Carl...and the bird that came on your step after Carl died...you said it was him...I miss those times we had together...love you brother!!
March 8, 2014
just thing of you !
Sharon Cooper
March 6, 2014
Hi Deet, just thinking about you as always...enough snow now, start thinking about spring and your BBQ's on the block!! Love always.
Your Anna banana
September 22, 2013
Uncle deet,
I'm just sitting here thinking about you and looking around my house and how grown up I am from the last time I seen your face. I never imagined loosing you so soon ! I wish you were here so you could ride up my street on your bike and whistle outside my house and to hear u complain about Bella the way you did when gabe was little.. Sometimes I will hear a whistle in my dreams and that makes me know you are with me at all times ... I saw the movie the prisoners last night and so many part of that movie make me think of the horrible day when you left us . My anxiety level was through the roof and heavy tears just fell from my eyes ... I would do anything in this world to see you or hear your voice one more time .. I know I was freaked out when you visited me in my dreams but I got to hear your voice and that made me so happy ... I always think that I forgot to show someone my house and know I realized that it's because you can't see it ... I could just hear you now "annaaaa got her own house ... Where's the colt 45" hahahaha I love you with every beat of my heart ! I will forever have a missing piece to my heart that no one or nothing could ever replace... The struggle for the past 4 years and for the rest of my life is soo hard to deal with .. I will never be the same, our family will never be the same and the memories you left behind will never get old ... We will continue to keep your spirit alive each day that passes . I love you xoxoxo
Sharon
September 19, 2013
Deet,
just thinking of you and go EAGLES!!
Coop
Sister Tracey
September 8, 2013
so many new things happening! Things are constantly changing and I sure wish you were here to share the good days now and to come.
Your birthday is coming soon and you would have been 47 years old. Instead you remain forever young in heaven..
In my heart and soul forever, I love you
sis tray
July 20, 2013
NOT a day goes by without thinking of you~~~
Tracey dadamo
July 7, 2013
DEET-
Today is July 7th! So far the summer has been scorching hot! The heat wouldnt have stopped you from riding your bike over to join a BBQ for a hot dog and a iced cold beer!
It really doesnt matter what season it is, Winter spring summer or fall, I miss you every single day of every year that passes. There is always something there to remind me of you and I continue to say that "it doesnt get any easier~life is just different"
Until we meet again...:( xoxo
Sharon Cooper
June 20, 2013
Hi Deet! Just thinking of you again...and everytime an entry is made into your quest book, I get notified, so I read each one...so glad to see your sisters and family are happy, with the births of the new ones, I miss you dearly and wish the best for your family. Love always and GO EAGLES!!
sister tray
June 19, 2013
Deter...
Michael Victor was baptized on Father's Day. It was a gorgeous day outside and a nice family gathering! It is crazy how it makes such a difference without you being here with all of us. You had a way of making a celebration last all day and night! These days we gather we eat, a few hours later we are all in our own homes.
We are all grown, including my girls and have gone our own ways no matter how much we try to stay close together, its not that easy.
You are our missing link..
I hope that the children of this next generation will grow up to be as close as we were...
today is just one of those days that I wish I could pop over your house to chat so you could make me laugh~~~
I truly miss you brother xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
May 15, 2013
deter always thinking of you cuz. the other day I was showing Reilly your picture on the fridge and she was asking questions, the next day she looked your picture and said "deter" I thought it was so great that she knows you now and will forever know who you are. Reilly is going to know who Deter is because the stories never stop and every time I hear one I laugh, every time I say one I laugh as does everyone else. I miss you so much cuz and I always will, my only regret is that we never poured that beer off the beer meister that we always said we would. Deter please watch over all of the new children in our family like Lucas, Reilly, and now baby Michael. Miss ya buddy.
love Cadoo (cousin Chris)
Tracey Alfonsi-D'Adamo
May 5, 2013
Thinking of you today brother....
The weather has been so nice... I can still imagine you riding your bike up 10th street, whistling around the neighborhood!!! you had such a good spirit and that is what makes it so hard to let go!
Baby Michael is being Christened soon. I will be his godmother. Please watch over him as well as Lucas and the rest of our family as we celebrate the new addition to our family....
I have been down the lakes alot and will be going fishing on Tuesday! Funny how I feel even closer to you when I am doing things we used to enjoy together as children....
I miss you terrible and forever will..
I love you! xoxoxox
sister tray
March 31, 2013
Happy Easter Deet!!!
Today me and Adrianna stopped to buy flowers on 10th and Snyder.
Chris brought up very happy memories of you. He talked about how you always hung out with him while he sold flowers on Easter and also Mothers Day!
Mommy always looked forward to seeing you ride up on your bike early in the morning for your visit and flower delivery!!!
Well I need you to know that her house is full of beautiful flowers from all of us... but you are always thought of, spoken of and truly missed and forever will be~~~~
I truly miss you just as the rest of our family does.. :(
Rest easy...
sis tray
March 2, 2013
T.J. asks how do you live with a broken heart....
I do not have the answer but I do know that you never actually LIVE the same... everything changes after your heart is broken.... this is my experience. I cannot find the words to tell a "Mother" who feels this way.
Please watch over her and help all of us who miss you whole heartedly... :(
tray dadamo
February 17, 2013
Not a day goes by that I dont think of you.... not a minute goes by that I don't miss you... but I do believe that life is like a book and the chapters consist of the way we choose to live our lives...
I thank God for giving me such a free spirited, good hearted brother who left me with a book full of precious moments...
MISSING YOU DEET :(
February 3, 2013
xoxo
January 19, 2013
<3 <3
anna banana
January 15, 2013
today is 5 years without you and by no means does it get easier .. I just want to hear your voice one last time and tell u how much I've missed you since you went away !!! can't wait to see your face again and see u welcome me with open arms at the gate .. I love you and I miss you more than words can express !
Sharon Coop
January 14, 2013
Hi Deet, just thinking of the good times again! Deer Stew and beer....football and bbq's. Miss you forever! love, your friend,
sis tray
January 11, 2013
Forever missing you my brother my friend..... xoxoxoxoxoxox
On January 7th, 1996, there was a big snow storm over 30 inches of snow!! You lived 2 and a half blocks away at the time. You made beef stew and actually dug a tunnel from Jessup and McKean all the way to Dudley Street so that me and the girls can come over to ride it out with you...
They remember just as I do.. you always made a party out of a bad situation~~~~!!
I thank God for giving me a loving caring brother~~~and I thank you for giving me such WONDERFUL memories for the 41 years we shared together~~~~xo
sis tray
January 6, 2013
Well tomorrow Dad is having surgery, please watch over us and stay close to him...
Tomorrow is also Nicole's 27th Birthday. I remember how excited you were the day she was born 1986 and how you laughed at her when she first started talking and singing. Thank you for enjoying and loving my children with me until your last day!!!!!
I will forever miss you as I am sure they do~~~~
Anna banana
December 31, 2012
happy new year my angel ! I love you always!! <|3
sis tray
December 30, 2012
The new year is just around the corner 2013!!!! God knows what this year will bring.
All I ask is that you watch over us all. The world has become such an evil place. I am glad that you are safe with the Lord in heaven and I know you are in peace... please help me find peace within myself! and watch over the rest of our family!!
ONLY GOD KNOWS HOW MUCH I MISS YOU DETER!!!!! :(
sister Tracy
December 22, 2012
OH GOD Deet.... I cannot believe this is going to be ANOTHER CHRISTMAS without you. There is just no getting over losing you no matter how much time goes by. You were such a big part of our family and you brought SO MUCH JOY and laughter to us. Just so hard to smile anymore... :(
I thank God everyday for giving us Lucas and Michael... I pray that the joy they bring will help ease the pain.
I love you and will forever miss you Deet.....
ESPECIALLY AT THIS TIME OF YEAR!!!!!!!
Adrianna d
December 13, 2012
words cannot express how much I miss you -- I love you always * your baby Anna banana <3
Lynn Potts
December 11, 2012
I love & miss you soooo much!!!!! Years & Tears... Always In Heart!!!! XOXO
December 11, 2012
I love & miss you sooo very much my friend.xoxo.
sis Tray
December 9, 2012
Deet!!! Every day I listen to the Christmas Songs and in my Mind I can see and hear you singin along.... YOU SURE HAD THE CHRISTMAS SPIRIT!!!!
"I miss you MOST AT CHRISTMAS TIME"......
Sharon Cooper
December 6, 2012
Congrats on Sissy and her new born son!!! I am sure that Deter is seeing everything and I love the love all around us!!!!! Always thinking about you each day my friend.
December 5, 2012
You are so very welcome Tracy , plus I love reading all the entries , can not read anything without getting goose bumps :) So everyone keep His memory alive !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sis
December 2, 2012
I know you were there when Sissy delivered her one and only son. He is so healthy and handsome!!! Please watch over him as you continue to watch over all of us!
I love and miss you with all I got~~~~~~ xo
tracey
November 23, 2012
THANK YOU JOE B for keeping this quest book PERMANENTLY online,,, Deter was soooo blessed to have soooo many great caring friends.. You were and always will be a brother to all of us!!!
Sis Tray
November 22, 2012
Deter!
Its been a long time since you were taken from us! Today was really hard for me... I thought that I would getter better in time, but so much time has passed and I miss you more now than ever.
So many of your friends still talk about the good times with you and our family mentions you every single day. We know you remain with us "in spirit".
I just wanted to say that I love you and miss the sound of your laughter especially around the holidays.
You didn't have money to buy fancy gifts, but JUST YOU BEING HERE was worth more than anything money can buy.
Tracey
November 10, 2012
Missing you today and always
:(
Tracey D'Adamo
November 2, 2012
xo
Sis Tracey
October 27, 2012
DEET:
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We OFTEN speak your name.
Now all we have are memories.
And your pictures in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake.
With which we'll never part.
GOD HAS YOU IN HIS KEEPING
WE HAVE YOU IN OUR HEARTS!!!!!
Sister Tracey
September 21, 2012
Another change of Season....
The hands of time are moving so quickly.....
The children keep growing..
The elderly are passing...
I am cherishing each moment I have left...
Until we someday meet again......
I MISS YOU SO MUCH :(
Sharon Cooper
September 19, 2012
So happy to hear about Sissy and baby Michael Vic....I am sure Deeter is very proud!!! Congrats!!! Go Eagles!!! Love always,
Sister Tracey
September 17, 2012
Deet: Sissy baby shower was so nice. Everyone attended and Baby Michael Vic has everything he needs already!! I only wish that you would be here to share in the joy of another addition to our family... Your birthday is coming up OCTOBER 10th and I will be coming to visit you... STILL missing you and forever will... I love you
Sharon Cooper
May 31, 2012
Hi Deet, was just talking to Mom and thought I would say hello!! Love you always my friend,
Sharon
May 10, 2012
Hi Deet, just checking in with you! Still miss you and remember you like it was yesterday...keep the peace up there and keep sending signals!! Love always, your friend, Coop.
sister Tracey
April 21, 2012
Deet:
Thank you for another new gift!!!! The years are just flying by and Pop says "Life just passes in the blink of an eye" and it is so true. So we will all continue to enjoy each day that we all have left together. We have all learned so many Life lessons beginning with the day you were taken from us.
Continue to watch over us brother and I now can see that "LIFE IS BUT A DREAM"
annayou na bananaNabateans
January 15, 2012
4 years ago today you were taken from us & words can't describe how much we miss you ! I always thought ud be right by my side I love you
sister Tracey
January 10, 2012
Next week will be 4 years since you have gone! TIME is passing so quickly~
It SEEMS like there are more people that we know with you in heaven than there are left here on earth!!
2012 is here and only God knows when he will be calling me home! Until that time I ask that you continue to watch over the rest of our family and all of our friends and continue to show us signs so we will always SMILE when the thought of you comes to mind!
I miss you and love you dearly xo
January 2, 2012
Hi Deter, happy new year! Love you always...take care of my Mom up there, along with all of our buddies, Carl, Jimmy and Dave!
Never stop thinking about you. Your friend, Sharon Cooper
joe
November 28, 2011
Deter , today is open day of deer season , we loved are hunting fishing , you should hear the guns off , morning of open day is awesome , ,take care buddy !
Sister Tracey
November 26, 2011
Missed you on Thanksgiving Day. Of course we spoke of you and how you always made us laugh during the Holidays!
Coming to visit tomorrow!! You will always be remembered and never could be forgotten... "One in a million"
I love you :(
Sister Tracey
October 9, 2011
DEET!
Tomorrow, October 10th, marks the day that you were born!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LITTLE BROTHER!! You are missed more than you will ever knowwwww.
I LOVE YOU..
Your Friend
September 6, 2011
Hi Deter, it's Sharon. Keep up the good work with the Phillies and hopefully the Eagles. Trying to cope down here...always thinking about you. Love, Coop
Sharon Cooper
August 9, 2011
Hi Adrianna,
How are you and your family doing? Hope all is well with everyone. I will leave my email address with this note and you can email me back if you want.
Take care. Sharon
adrianna dadamo
August 8, 2011
sharon .. if u are on here before aug 13th please email me ..
adrianna dadamo
June 26, 2011
just listening to musicc thinkin of u as always ..i look at the picture of u holdin me as a baby and then the last picture we took togetherr on my 17th birthday and it pops in my head that i only have memories that will never go away .. but i am so selfish because thats not enough .. i hear ur voice in my head and just wish i could pick up the phone and call u .. just to tell u how much i love you and im sorry for everythinggg.. im hurt because of all the times i seen u were calling and i used to say OMG againn whats he want.. now i wish u would call and it kills me that you cantt...you did NOT deserve what happened to you .. the more i think about it the more i cant wait to see you againn ..
i hate that u never got to meet lucass .. ur spirit lives in him i swearrr... i see the way nanny is with him and i know it kills her to think of u bein his age ...
the pain that we all go thru everydayy will never go awayy ...but " ur here .. theres nothing i fear " i love youu andd miss u moree thann words can expresss.. yourr my angell and i cant wait to see yourr smileeee .....
Tracey D'Adamo
May 21, 2011
Hey Sharon:
I will call you soon. I am very sorry to hear about Mom, she sure was your anchor and will be sadly missed. I am sure Deter and Carl will be waiting on her hand and foot!
I work the weekends so will miss the celebration of her Life. Just know that I am always here for you and Sissy too. We are just a call away!
Love you and am so sorry for your terrible loss!
Sharon Cooper
May 18, 2011
Hi Deet, just thinking about you. Mom's Memorial and Celebration of Her Life is this Sunday, I know you will be there in spirit! The pain will never go away...hope that you can make it easier! Love you, Coop
Sharon
April 27, 2011
Hi Deet, just checking in with you...hope you and my Mom made contact...to comfort each other and have some laughs...at this point, if you don't remember the good times and laugh, you can only cry, cry and cry...which is no good to anyone. Miss you and love you always! Your friend, "Sharon Coop, Jr."
Sharon Cooper
April 9, 2011
Deet, Mom is gone...but she made her 80th on April 4th...she went quick and painless...please meet her at the gates and comfort her...she always liked you!! Love, Sharon Cooper
Sharon Cooper
March 24, 2011
Hang in there Adrianna...with Deet upstairs, we will all be okay until we meet again...what a poet you have become, he is blessed with your words forever! I will always remember the good times...love always to your entire family...god bless!
adrianna dadamo
March 22, 2011
As I go back to the first entry on ur legacy, I realize how many people actually take the time out to express how they feel. I never thought of the day I wouldn't see u , it wasn't supposed to happen this way. It still didn't in my eyes! There's not a second of any day where I don't think I will see u and get to hug u again! Tears roll down my eyes out of nowhere and everyone csn tell ur on my mind. Each step I take u give me a sign to go take another step or stay where I am. I do believe that in that horrible accident on 76 , I shouldntve made it out alive but I did because u were my guardian angel. God knew u wouldn't be able to live without ur neices, parents or ur sisters. He knew you'd be hurting as much as we are each day we wake up without u. I cant wait until the day wemeet again
Sharon Cooper
March 19, 2011
Hi my friend, it's Sharon and Scott...still hanging in there, with the death of Harry of Oscars Bar, and my Mom won't give up the fight!!! So, please think of us down here...we love you always...hi tracey and sissey..haven't been home to get your message, however, Scott said you called...of course I will always write to your brother... my best friend!~!~ love, Coop
sister Tracey
February 27, 2011
To my Brother:
Words are hard to describe feelings,
I have always been better with images.
Yet writing down how much I miss you,
Seems to give me more tranquility.
Writing to let go, to give this all a place.
It will never heal, it will never go away,
But just learning to give it time and space.
I can tell you how much I care, how much I would give to have you back in my life,
But you know all of this and it won't change anything, that's what I am learning within time,
Writing to tell you how much I have learned, to show you that through fragility I become a stronger person
More able to understand, more able to listen and to care,
Hurt through loss, I've become yet a wiser person
sister Tracey
February 27, 2011
Deet: Yesterday was Pop and Lucas' birthdays. I know you were watchin over us and was there in spirit.
I miss you so much, life is not easy at all/ but we always had eachother to help make it through the rough times.
I know I can always count on Sissy to make me smile when I feel sad and I know I can depend on God to help me get through another day.
Please send Sharon Cooper a sign so that she knows that all we be ok-
we all look forward to being together again someday! be ready for the REUNION!!!
Sharon Cooper
February 19, 2011
Hi Deet, Harry the owner of Oscar's Tavern, died of cancer yesterday....I am still crying...along with Scott...we will have a drink in his memory and include you my friend!!Love ya, Sharon Cooper
Sharon Cooper
February 10, 2011
Hi deter, another spot was found on mom's lung, but she's hanging in there...please keep her in your daily thoughts from above! We love you always..and I miss you dearly...I will never forget you my friend...love, Coop
Sharon Cooper
January 31, 2011
Hi Deter, god bless everyone, mom has cancer again and it's hard dealing with everything...keep looking down on us now, as I need your help!!! Love you always and think about you every day.....my friend....love ya!!
sister Tracey
January 15, 2011
Deter: It has been three years since I last heard your voice or seen your face.
I can not even put how I feel into words right now/ what I am feeling right now is nothing compared to the pain that you endured, the last minutes of your life.
I will be at the cemetary tomorrow to reflect back on every blessed day that God gave me with you in and Thank Him for the loving family that keeps me going each day.
Really missing you and having a HARD TIME tonight Deet..Please watch over and protect me and help me get through another day!!!!
Ilove you
sister Tracey
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Deet- Our family managed to get by today another holiday without you only by the Grace of God.. We allmiss you so much but when we are all together, talking about you, seeing pictures of you and remembering you singing christmas songs brings a smile with a tear that follows from everyones face. You are always in our hearts and weallpray for justice for this unacceptble loss.
I love and miss you with all I have in me, and I know that you know this.
Missing you all the days of mylife...,, Happy Birthday to Jesus! I know you are enjoying that celebration with all of those that have gone before us.
sister Tray
December 11, 2010
Deet: The picture of me you and Age was taken on Adriannas birthday/christmas party 12-21-08.
Who would have thought that that would be our last Christmas together. We are all missing you and selfishly wish that you were still here with us xoxox
December 10, 2010
Hi Deet! Still think about you each day and wonder what would have been. Please know that you are loved always and still make me laugh everyday! Your friend, Sharon Cooper
sister Tray
November 13, 2010
Deet:
Thinking of you today and always..
Holidays are coming fast,please watch over us and help to keep spirits up within our family /
ps sleep in heavenly peace...
adrianna dadamo
November 2, 2010
im comin to see you tomorrow with aunt dittyyy !!! i love you and miss you . words cannot express the pain i feel everyday without seein ur face!
sis tray
October 16, 2010
Happy belated birthday Deet! October 10th was a breezy and cool fall day thanx for the rays of sunshine. WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH and LOVE YOU! xo
Joe Boccelli
October 12, 2010
Happy belated birthday , thought I forgot , Rest in peace buddy !
SHARON COOPER
October 11, 2010
I forgot to say that "OSCAR DE'LOHOYA" SAYS HELLO, FRIEND! from Oscar's Tavern at 15th & Sansom Sts....WE LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND HAVE A TOAST TO YOU AT NIGHT!!! MY FRIEND, SHARON COOPER...LOVE YOU DEET!!! FROM SCOTT!!!
August 22, 2010
Hi, spoke to Stevie today...he bought a horse!!
Eagles lost, Phillies won!!! Love ya forever!!
Coop
August 8, 2010
well, my friend, it's time for the Eagles again....we'll see what they do this year!!!! I love you and check in on you every week...Love Always....Sharon "Coop"
July 1, 2010
Hi Deet, just thinking of you again, knowing that you can feel and love us down here...thanks, friend!! Always your friend, Coop
sister Tracey
June 6, 2010
Deet-
I believe you were there to greet Mikey Shrimp. Of course it is impossible for me to accept the fact that I can no longer see you or any other of the special people that I had in my life for such a short period of time, but it comforts me to know that you and all the rest of the people we meet along this journey on earth will all be together again someday and only God knows when our MISSION IS ACCOMPLISHED here!
I guess he has alot left for me to do andI am depending on you to watch over me!
Baby Pat's wedding waslas night and I know you were there in spirit! Everyone spoke of you and we missed your funny dances and loud singing.
FLYERS are playing again tonight I am at work and will be cheering them on.
I miss you, and know that you are always in myprayers and in my heart forever and ever...
I love you xo
Sharon Cooper
May 9, 2010
Deet, I still cry for you! I will be 50 yrs. old this May 19th...of course the same day the Flyers won the Stanley Cup, back in the days of the Broad St. Bullies!!! Miss You. Love, Coop
Deter and Kenny on Fishing Trip! Happy times
Sis Tracey
April 23, 2010
April 16, 2010
April 16, 2010
sister Tracey
April 16, 2010
Lighting a candle to thank you for shining down on us!
Sharon` Cooper
March 24, 2010
Keep on praying and hoping, and know that we are here with Deter everyday, and know that he is looking over us at all times, because I feel it in my soul! Love you and miss you, Deter!!
sister tracey
March 11, 2010
There isnt a day goes by that I dont think of you. I am reminded of you through people, places and songs...
You have left so many good memories for so many people to remember you that it brings tears to their eyes when they speak of you.
I know that you are always with me. Please continue to watch over us all. "your in my heart and in my soul"
I love you!
February 28, 2010
Love you Deet! Think about you every day.
Sharon
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CLOSED-Carto Funeral Home Inc Philadelphia2535 S Broad St, Philadelphia, PA 19148
How to support Victor's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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