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James B. Calfee Jr.

1942 - 2016

James B. Calfee Jr. obituary, 1942-2016, Hilton Head Island, SC

BORN

1942

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

The Island Funeral Home & Crematory

4 Cardinal Road

Hilton Head, South Carolina

James Calfee Obituary

James (Jim) B. Calfee, Jr. November 11, 1942 - December 4, 2016 James (Jim) B. Calfee, Jr, of Hilton Head, SC passed away peacefully, surrounded by the love and affection of his family December 4, 2016 at St. Joseph's/Candler Hospital in Savannah, Georgia. Born in Bluefield, W.Va., he was the son of Ruth (Haldren) and James (Bud) Calfee. Jim joined the Air Force in 1961. He was a writer for the Dayton, Ohio base newspaper and received a national writing award, The George Washington Medal, on the importance of voting. Jim started his career at the Bluefield Daily Telegraph as an obituary writer in 1965. He was promoted to an investigative reporter and wasinstrumental in helping starta facility for youth offenders in order to keep them from serving time in prison with adults. He alsoimplemented a state wide Emergency Medical Service for the state of W. Va.Jim was always seeking a way to improve the communities in which he lived. Through the years, Jimworked as a writer and editor for the Suffolk News Herald in Suffolk, VA, Anderson Independent Mail in Anderson, SC, Hilton Head Sun, andSavannah Morning News. Jim retired in 2000 and began working for Johnson's Florist on Hilton Head Island. His love fortaking care of plants, delivering flowers and putting a smile on people's face became his favorite job. Jim never met a stranger and always reached out to others when they needed help. His front door was always open to anyone who wanted to talk; there was comfort in being with Jim and he had the ability to put people at ease. Jim had a passion for politics and had a huge collection of political buttons, pictures and memorabiliadating back to the election of Franklin D. Roosevelt in 1932. Jim and wife, Anita just recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Jim once wrote, "Love is tested by time, nurtured by life, and relished by those who truly embrace it." He was a wonderful father and challenged his children to do their best and instilled a sense of confidence that would remain with them throughout life. A memorial service will be held Friday, December 16th at 3:00 at Sea Island Chapel in Hilton Head, S.C. The family will receive friendsfrom 2:00 to 3:00 and a reception will follow after the service. Jim is survived by his wife, Anita Byrd Calfee; his daughter, Jami and son-in-law, Jeff Cruikshank, grandchildren, Will and Kelli of Raleigh, NC and his daughter,Jodi andson-in-law, Jason Watts, granddaughters, Bayleigh and Olivia (Livi) of Bluffton, SC. Extended family includes nieces, Lisa Rowe, Karen Davis, nephew, Kevin Stewart of Virginia and nephew, Jimmy Stewart of Florida. The family extends its heartfelt gratitude to the excellent staff at St. Joseph's/Candler Hospital for their care and support the last few days of Jim's life. His choice of charity is Franklin Graham's Samaritan's Purse. The Island Funeral Home and Crematory. theislandfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Island Packet on Dec. 13, 2016.

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December 15, 2016

Dedra and I will always remember Jim's friendly
countenance. He always had a smile on his face and something positive and uplifting to say.
His very presence always had a kind ambiance and spiritual blessing to those he spoke with. He
was authentic and at ease with himself and others.

May God comfort and bless his precious family
now and always.

Lee and Dedra
Barker

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Nancy VanWinkle

Sent Flowers

December 14, 2016

My deepest sympathy.

Sunny Littlejohn

Lisa Rowe

December 13, 2016

I miss you so much and wish we could have had more time. I am so glad you are not suffering anymore. I will think of you everyday until we meet again!

mike mccoy

December 13, 2016

my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Cindy Taulbee

December 13, 2016

I remember Jim for his kindness and gentle spirit.

Jack Cole

December 13, 2016

Jim was always an island of calm and a fount of knowledge while choas reigned at the old Hilton Head Sun. Rest in Peace, big guy

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2:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Sea Island Chapel

Hilton Head, SC

Dec

16

Memorial service

3:00 p.m.

Sea Island Chapel

Hilton Head, SC

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4 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head, SC 29926

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