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Mary deVeer Obituary

Mary Louise "Lulu" deVeerMary Louise "Lulu" deVeer, 57, of Hilton Head Island, died Monday February 7, 2011, at her home in Sea Pines. She graduated from Skidmore College with a BA and an MA, Phi Beta Kappa. She obtained a law degree from Duke University, and was later appointed to the Board of Visitors of Duke Law School. She wrote episodes for LA Law and Head of the Class, and wrote an original screen play: Bulls and Bears, which aired on television briefly. She was one of the first woman partners of Merrill Lynch, and later ran Debt Capital Markets desks at CS First Boston, and Lehman Brothers. Lulu held a pilots license, was an avid golfer and skier, was on the varsity UCLA tennis team, an expert pianist, and was fluent in several languages. She is survived by her husband Robert deVeer; sons, Kipp and Britt deVeer, Will Woodbridge, and John Leaf; and a daughter Connie Leaf; a brother Willy Cellucci and a sister, Connie Borde. A memorial service will be held on Saturday February 12, 2011, at 10:30 AM, at The Church of the Cross in Bluffton. Memorial contributions may be made to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, in c/o Dr. Bruce Johnson. www.dana-farber.org.

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Published by The Island Packet from Feb. 9 to Mar. 9, 2011.

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Ronchetti family

February 3, 2025

Always thinking about you dear dear friend

Susan Poduska

February 3, 2024

I think of Lulu so often, she was a warrior. Thinking of you Connie and the entire family at this sad time.

February 13, 2011

May I be so bold to ask all who visit to please say "The Divine Chaplet Of Mercy" by Sister Faustina of Poland.
"Di Maria nu quam satis" Dio mi Benedici Lulu deVeer Mi Amora cuz

Jane Gibbons

February 11, 2011

I just learned of LuLu's passing. Her strength in her fight was unsurpassed.
Her light incomparable. Her passion for life limitless. She will be sorely missed. May she rest in the peace she so deserves. My condolences to her family she loved so much. I feel blessed to have been able to call her my friend.

Elaine Clifford

February 11, 2011

Dear John, Connie and Bob,
I hope you are able to find comfort in the love and the fun memories you shared with your Mom/Lulu. I feel so blessed to have known such an incredible woman.
Love....

cindy & joe ronchetti

February 9, 2011

To Connie, John and William...the loss of your mother is such a tragedy and we are saddened that she is no longer with us. She was loved by all..especially by us... cindy and Joe

Joe Perella

February 9, 2011

Dear Bob. I am sorry to learn from my brother Lou of your loss. My thoughts are with you. Please take care of yourself.
Sincerely,
Joe

susan poduska

February 9, 2011

Dear Bob, Connie and family,

I am so deeply saddened to learn of LuLu's passing. She was so brave, a true " warrior woman ". I will miss her fiesty spirit and huge heart.

My deepest condolences.

Fondly,

Susan

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