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Sarah Harper Obituary

Sarah Ellen HarperRejoice with family and friends in the long life and loving memory of our beloved Ellen who peacefully passed away at the dawn of a glorious Sunday morning, February 12, 2012. Born to Walter and Isla Porter Poston on September 17, 1917 in Prospect, SC, she was a true daughter of the state of South Carolina. She lived in Johnsonville, Black Mingo Plantation, Andrews, Conway, Columbia, Florence, Orangeburg, and in Beaufort, SC, where she resided for nearly fifty years. Coming of Age during the Swing Era of the 1930's, Ellen always loved to dance. In the fall of 1938, she was chosen to go from Columbia to the Roxy Theatre and the Astor Hotel Rooftop Ballroom in NYC to perform and demonstrate the "Little Apple" dance which she had helped develop from the "Lindy Hop", more commonly known as the Jitterbug. By 1939, the "Little Apple" had been popularized and became known as "The Shag", which is now the official state dance of South Carolina. Even at age 90, she was on the dance floor at her grand children's weddings. Ellen was also a successful business woman who helped her husband, W.B. "Tut" Harper start Beaufort County's first Volkswagen dealership in 1965. Mr. Harper predeceased his wife in 1983. She is best remembered in Beaufort as the owner of Ellen Harper, the town's first shop that sold only women's apparel. She was also the buyer for her store and journeyed seasonally to make her merchandise purchases in NYC and Miami Fl. She spent her final years in Coral Gables, Fl, living with and is survived by her only child, Bruce Harper and his wife Melinda. She is also survived by grandchildren Will Harper, of Winter Park, Fl, Jackson Harper and wife Monica of Coral Gables, Fl, and Sarah Harper O'Brien and husband Matt of Tampa, Fl. Surviving great grandchildren are: Josie and Mark O'Brien and Lee Harper. Surviving nephew and nieces are: John J. Snow, Jr. and Carolyn (Sissie) Snow McAlister, of Hemingway, SC, and Isla Mae Gaffney of Myrtle Beach, SC. A graveside service for Sarah will be held 11:00 a.m. Saturday, February 18th at Beaufort Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, the family request that contributions be made to United Way of the Lowcountry, Inc., P.O. Box 202, Beaufort, SC 29901. Please share your stories about Sarah and her life by visiting www.copelandfuneralservice.com Copeland Funeral Service is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The Island Packet from Feb. 16 to Mar. 16, 2012.

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February 24, 2012

I will miss Ellen and cherish a lifetime of wonderful memories of a great, great aunt. Bruce and Melinda you unselfishly opened your home and gave her a loving place to spend the last years of her life, "Bless your hearts" I love you both! Evie

Kay Stewart

February 16, 2012

Dear Bruce, I am so sorry about the loss of your lovely mother. When I would receive my meager teacher's salary back in the sixties, I always owed a good portion of it to Ellen Harper's; of course, I was always dressed in style! My deepest sympathy to you & your family on the loss of a Beaufort institution and a true Southern Belle. Kay Blanchard Stewart, Lancaster, SC

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