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David Civello Obituary

Aug. 20, 1983 - June 28, 2006 During the early morning hours Wednesday, the Earth surrendered the beloved soul of 22-year-old David Joel "D.J." Civello to, "--rest between God's shoulders." Deut. 33:12. D.J. passed away instantly, following an accident on his motorcycle shortly after midnight, when he ran into the rear of a parked pickup truck in Downtown Bakersfield. He was known, loved, and admired for his compassion toward others, his intelligent, often playful, sense of humor and his warm, gentle nature. His mother, Karla Ayon , said he was a determined problem solver and nicknamed him "Mr. Logic" when he was but two-years old. "D.J. would never concede defeat to any problem, no matter how complicated it was. He is my beloved sunshine." D.J.'s younger sister, Brittany Civello, explained, "Even when he was a little boy, he would take things apart, whether or not they were broken, he'd do his best to try to reassemble them." D.J. was extremely protective of Brittany throughout his stay on Earth. He had a great love of people and animals. His favorite were eagles, which he embraced for their symbolism as a free spirit. He was also a free spirit with a great sense of adventure and independence. D.J. had a lifelong passion for working on nearly anything mechanical, which led to his career choice to become an automotive mechanic. He had been working as a diesel mechanic for Myer's Diesel Repair in Bakersfield, at the time of his premature departure. His father, David Civello, said, "He got kicked out of his sixth-grade math club b ecause he refused to write out the problems. He preferred to work them out in his head. He was very proud of his abilities as a diesel mechanic. I showed him a little and he learned the rest on his own." D.J. also had a great appetite for food. He loved to eat and cook. He always liked manning the grill at barbecues because he got to eat first. D.J. is survived by his parents, Karla Ayon and David Civello; stepmother, Cheryl Civello; stepfather, Lee Ayon; sisters, Brittany and Rylee; little brother, Ch ristian; and his grandparents, Robert and Val Rescola, Mary and Daniel Widen and grandmother, Mary Civello. He leaves behind many adoring aunts, uncles and cousins, as well as friends too numerous to count. He was so close with his cousins, they loved each other more than many brothers and sisters would. D.J. had far too many positive qualities to list, but among them were his devotion to family, a deep love for the Lord, his ability to make others laugh and feel good, his optimism and his tremendous hone sty and forthrightness. He loved the laughter of children, music and comedy, and eagerness to help anybody in need. He was polite, caring and generous with his love of family and friends. One of his proudest moments was, when he finished helping his dad restore a 1932 Highboy Roadster. His father said, "When I let him take it out and drive it by himself, he came back with an ear-to-ear grin, so proud he had done it himself." A memorial service will be conducted by Peters Funeral Home at Westside Family Fellowship at 2150 Palm Ave. in Wasco on Wednesday at 10 a.m. Following the service, a graveside service will be held at Shafter Cemetery, followed by a reception at Westside Family Fellowship. D.J.'s parents have asked that, in lieu of flowers or gifts, donations be made to a benevolent fund set up for him. Donations may be made at any Washington Mutual Bank in the name of "David Joel Civello." Karla said he went to Heaven to join his Grandpa Johnny (Civello) and his great-grandparents. "They will tak e care of him now. Until then--Deuteronomy 33:12." David said D.J.'s death will leave an enormous void in his life, and in the lives of the many people who knew and loved him.

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Published by Daily Bulletin on Jul. 2, 2006.

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Margie

June 25, 2023

Thinking of you. I love and miss you very much.

Colleen Miller

June 25, 2023

I can´t see a black Mercedes and not think of you, DJ. Remembering watching you order the part you needed on Rock Auto when it was a brand new thing. You were so confident in what you were doing when you fixed that car got us, when our regular mechanic wouldn´t touch it. You were a rock star of a mechanic! We surely do miss you! There´s not a day that goes by when we don´t think of you and miss you. Loving you always, Aunt Colleen

Brittany Woydziak

June 25, 2023

I miss that you will never get to know your niece and nephews... oh DJ you would laugh so hard at them all! I can't believe that it has been so long without you here. I miss you more than I could ever say but I really miss that you were never able to see the life that has happened since you have been gone and it breaks my heart that you were so young that you never got to experience these things in life. DJ I love you so much and wish you were here every day.

Margie Aguilera

June 25, 2022

You will never be forgotten sweet boy. Miss you

Colleen M

June 29, 2021

Missing you every day. Thankful for the time we were blessed to love you on this earth and looking forward to the day we see you again. You´ll be remembered and loved always. Praying for continued peace and comfort for your loved ones who miss you as much today as the day we lost you.

Edna Carvalho

July 10, 2020

Hi David,

It has been quite a wile since I have been here...I just want you to know that you are thought of often...By now you know that your uncle Duke is with all of you..so please pass on to him that he will always be missed and loved by all of us...but, mostly by me...I love him and you with all my heart, be seeing you both again someday...and we will laugh about life's pain...forever and always Aunt Edna x/o

Vickie Carman

June 26, 2020

Wow ... I can't believe it's been 14 years. We all feel the physical missing piece of our lives without you. I see your face everyday but I sorely miss you so very much. I know you see into my heart and can feel how much I love you. Tell your dad and everyone else that I love and miss them also. I know we will have a grand reunion one day because we are all blessed to have each other. I love you ❤❤❤

Colleen Miller

June 25, 2020

I miss you, DJ. Will miss you until we meet again in heaven.

Duke Rescola

June 25, 2020

We will all always love you, DJ. You were a dear sweet part of us and you will forever be missed. Love, Uncle Duke

Chris Bass

August 20, 2016

Love you DJ, Happy Birthday!! There is still never a day that goes by without thinking of you and wishing you where still here!

Colleen Miller

February 25, 2016

Always loved and never forgotten. Truly and painfully missed. Words can not express the loss that is felt.

Christian Ayon

February 18, 2016

Love and miss you dj

September 11, 2015

Hi dear Nephew, just a line to say I love you and miss you. Have a great day in Heaven, D.J.

Vickie Carman

June 29, 2015

I don't come here often enough to tell you how I feel but it aches not having you here. There is such an energy vacuum without you. You were more balanced than you realized and I am so glad we were able to spend time together! We miss you so much and love you even more!!!

Margaret Aguilera

June 28, 2015

Missin you so Much! Can't wait to see you again! All my love - Aunt Margie

Margie Aguilera

March 18, 2015

Sweet - miss you so much DJ. How we wait the day to be re-united! What a celebration before Jesus!

Uncle Duke

March 17, 2015

Happy Saint Patrick's Day, Nephew. We love and miss you. Give Gramma much love. She couldn't wait any longer to see you.

Uncle Duke

December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas D.J., We all love and miss you.
-Uncle Duke

alyx petrovich

December 13, 2014

Hey there DJ I've heard so much about you. As you know mine and Chris little angel ?? Tuesday is there with you watch over her play with her, and please let her know mommy loves her and misses her oh so much. You two take care. Love you both dearly. Xoxo

December 13, 2014

hey stud just checking in with you big cousin im sure your already caring for tuesday i love you and cant wait to be with you guys take care of my lil angel and please let her know that daddy loves her and misses her dearly more than anyone on this earth can ever fathom. i love you too cuz and i pray you two are resting peacefully . see you when we get there. love you lil cousin chris. thanks dj.

Kim

September 10, 2014

Hi David, I came to see you today. Even after all these years it still hurts like it was yesterday. But I know you are at peace and just had to see you since I didn't make it for your birthday. Love you

Christian Noah

June 4, 2014

Hi dj I miss you (:

Karen Coughenour

February 27, 2014

I got an email that there was a message here, so I choose to visit. I'm reminded that I'm not the only one who thinks of and misses DJ. It's comforting to know how special a person you were to so many and that you will always be precious to us all. Not visiting here doesn't make it less painful not to see, talk to or hug you. But to know you're with Jesus gives me joy. I love you and miss you always! Aunt Karen

Margaret Aguilera

February 26, 2014

I think of you everyday D.J.! Made me smile to see that Chris Bass left you a message. Sweet boys! I ask God to kiss you and hug you for me! I love you and miss you so much!
Aunt Margie

Chris Bass

February 25, 2014

Hey DJ it's your best friend Chris, I still find myself thinking of you all the time and every once in a while you'll pleasently appear in a dream of mine like the one I just had, and I was asking you "when I will see you again ?" Before shortly after waking up, and it still leaves me to wonder. I love you man and will always greatly miss you. Love you dude!

Margie Aguilera

December 25, 2013

Love you D.J. And miss you so much. Merry Christmas

Uncle Duke

December 23, 2013

Hi D.J. It's been too long since I've been on here and I wanted to let you know you are strong in our thoughts. I know how much you love Christmas and what a better place to be. We love and miss you, Baby Boy. Forever and ever. -Uncle Duke

Colleen Miller

February 3, 2012

Just thinking about my sweet, sweet nephew who is missed so incredibly much. Painful to put thoughts into writing sometimes. I will always love and miss my nephew and wonder how our lives would be different if he were still here with us...Aunt Colleen

Margie Aguilera

January 8, 2012

Hi D.J.,
Wow! Somehow I havent been able to get to this sight, but here I am. Thinking of you and truely wishing I could talk to you. I Love You So Much And Know Someday, We Will All Be Together Again.

I Love You,

Aunt Margie

karla ayon

August 20, 2011

Happy Birthday my Sunshine...
I love you,
Mommy

Uncle Duke

July 1, 2011

Hi Baby Boy. Five years missing you and our pain is still as fresh. I don't believe we will ever get over your absence in this lifetime. It breaks my heart every time I know that you can't embrace your Mom, Brit, Christian, Smiley Rylee and C.J. We try to slog through our daily existence and do the best we know how, but a huge hole remains in our souls without you here. The happiest thoughts I can muster are that you are in a better place; with our other loved ones; and that we will one day be able to embrace you in a life beyond misery and pain. I love you, D.J.
-Peace
Uncle Duke, Edna, Bobby and Darrell

Kim

June 29, 2011

Thinking of you today and everyday! Love you and miss you so much! Michael is thinkin of you too and missing all the fun we had together, you were always the life of the party and it's so hard without you here.

karla ayon

June 28, 2011

You are my Sunshine, My only Sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey...You'll never know dear, how much I love you...please don't take my Sunshine away...I sang this to you on the day you were born and on the day that I went to see you for the last time...Son...today makes five years since you went to Heaven and it still feels like yesterday...so fresh in my mind. I will love you forever and miss you always...we will never forget your sweet smile and your quiet demeanor....I love you baby,
Mommy

Chris Bass

April 25, 2011

DJ till this day I miss you just as much as last time I saw you, you frequently appear in dreams of mine and though they bring a tear to my eye it lets me know your still there. I miss you with all my heart!

karla ayon

January 24, 2011

I love you baby...life goes on...who would have thought...still miss you every single day...Love you
Mommy

karla ayon

September 28, 2010

Love you Sunshine,
Mommy

karla ayon

July 26, 2010

Hi Baby...it's been a while since your mama wrote here...not because I haven't thought of you always...you know better than that son. I love you so much...As you know...you are expecting a little neice or nephew...how appropriate that the due date as we know it is March 17th...St. Patrick's day...how you would have loved that!!! Everone here is plugging along...not going on without you...just going on. You are missed by so many here and loved so much...I am loving you son,

Mommy

Duke Rescola

June 29, 2010

We're missing you as much today as ever. Love you always, D.J.

-Uncle Duke

Duke Rescola

June 27, 2010

Hi Baby Boy,
I'm sorry I haven't entered anything on here in a long time. Because we're caught up in the selfishness of daily survival, I sometimes come to this book and just read about how much you are loved and missed. I don't write stuff when I don't have anything to share, but it helps to clear my mind just reading.

Trying to find work is really an all-consuming struggle and I often feel like I'm swimming against the tide. But I still maintain optimism that things will turn around.

So how are things in heaven today, beloved Nephew? I hope Daddy isn't giving everybody a hard time, ha ha. Give all of our family and friends there with you a big hug from me.

Your little brother and his cousins keep sending me things on Facebook, but because I'm still a technidiot I can't figure out how to unlock the answers. It's cool, though. What's another gray hair or two among family.
Ask God to toss a few more crumbs to our families, ha ha. I know you have his ear.

I really miss you D.J. I wish I could wrap my arms around you, but until we're rejoined I'll have to settle for air hugs.

You remain a bright light in all of our lives. Your candle will never be extinguished in our hearts and minds. Keep an eye and prayer on us all.

With all of my love,
Uncle Duke

Karen Coughenour

June 22, 2010

Sweet DJ,
I miss you everyday and struggle not to be sad that I can't see your sweet face. The memories stay and flood my soul. For that, I am blessed always.
Love you forever,
Aunt Karen

Margaret Hudgens

June 18, 2010

D.J.,
Thinking about you! I LOve And Miss YOU sooo much!
Aunt Margie

Alison

May 19, 2010

Missing you sweetheart

KATRINA COUGHENOUR

April 24, 2010

LOVE AND MISS YOU DJ!!!! THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS......

karla ayon

December 30, 2009

Always on my mind son,
I love you,
Mommy

karla ayon

December 9, 2009

Went to Christian's school performance for choir last night...never know when the tears are going to flow. It reminded me of when you and Chris were in the band in Jr. high...you guys were so funny...you only did it to get out of class:)

Love you son,

Mommy

karla ayon

November 24, 2009

Hello Son...Thanksgiving is just around the corner...I am missing you so much...and now your sister is away from me...I never thought things would be this way...I love you so much,

Mama

karla ayob

October 31, 2009

Happy Halloween baby...I will save some Reeses Peanut Butter Cups for you!!!
Love you Sunshine...

Mommy

karla ayon

October 24, 2009

Son...I know you were to welcome Matthew...your brother's friend, Tristen's brother...Too much in common...wondering what you guys are doing...trying to fix things...or talking about motorcycles...God must have a plan in all of this...I love you baby,

Mommy

alison

October 20, 2009

Gosh i really wish you was here..I would love to see your smile right about now.. thats what i loved about you.. no matter what was going on. you would always make me smile.. like the time i came home in a mad mood and you were already at my house with shawn you gave me a big hug and told me don't worry about it.. whatever is was that was bugging me it will be okay....i just wish you was here to tell me that everything is going to be okay.. i really do miss you..

karla ayon

October 18, 2009

Loving you son,

Mommy

margie hudgens

October 9, 2009

I love you D.J.

Aunt Margie

Karen Coughenour

October 9, 2009

Good Morning David Joel,
Was talking to Chris' boys last night and remember that Halloween is coming and it was your favorite time. Must visit your resting place, soon. Miss you much.
I Love You Forever!
Aunt Karen

karla ayon

October 8, 2009

Loving you son,
Mommy

karla ayon

September 26, 2009

I love you baby...miss you so much...wish I could talk to you...

I love you,
Mommy

karla ayon

September 24, 2009

Hey handsome...you are thought of each and every day...many times during the day...I received a frame in the mail from Miss Maria...around the border are the words to our song...you are my sunshine...I love you baby,

Mommy

alison

September 21, 2009

DJ
I miss you

karla ayon

September 7, 2009

I love you baby,

Mommy

margie hudgens

September 6, 2009

ok D.J.

U were my date at your sisters wedding! I Love you and miss you so much! I could not figure out who Allyson Holloway is? I know Now!! All I had to do was come to your sight to figure that one out! Got it!! Love You Soooo Much!

Aunt Margie

Uncle Duke

September 5, 2009

I really felt you there, my beloved Nephew. When your mom, dad and Brittany danced it felt so spiritually connected I couldn't hold my tears and the camera was blurred. I know it was so completely beautiful because you were with us. So beautiful, D.J., so beautiful. I love and miss you with my soul.

karla ayon

September 4, 2009

Your Sister is married now...and gone to start her life with her new husband. Watch over them and ask God for his blessings on their marriage. We felt your presence at the wedding...did you know you were walking your sister down the aisle? Did you know that you were dancing with your Dad, Sister and I...That is where it all began. Just us. Tell your Gandpa's and Grandma hello for me and give them one of your special hugs.

I am loving you, son
Mommy

karla ayon

August 22, 2009

One more week and your sister will be married...I know you will be there in our hearts...

I love you son,
Mommy

Karen Coughenour

August 21, 2009

Hey DJ,
Had your birthday celebration yesterday. It was cool to watch the balloons going up toward heaven, again. The kids really felt they were sending them to you. That is so touching to my heart. Baby DJ wanted the one I had, so we held onto it together until it was time to release them. I felt special doing it that way. Then we enjoyed vanilla ice cream cones, in your honor and it was perfect because of the heat. Give Grandpa Bob a kiss for me. Say Hi to my old friend and your new friend, Jimmy Carpenter. He's my birthday buddy and will be missed, too. Miss you. Love you forever!!!
Aunt Karen

alison holloway

August 21, 2009

hello sweetheart,
I want to wish you a happy birthday love.. I thought about going to the cemetery last night, but I didn't.... I thought that time should be for your family. your always on my mind and in my heart.. I Keep your family in my prays..

karla ayon

August 21, 2009

We are so blessed to have so many family and friends who came to the cemetery and honored you. Uncle Max's prayer and ability to touch on the subject of our hearts is amazing. All of your cousins who continue to love you and speak of you are so awesome. Many who were not there in person were there in heart and that is just as important...to know that you are still loved...
I love you Sunshine,
Mommy

karla ayon

August 20, 2009

Happy Birthday baby...I miss you,
I love you,
Mommy

karla ayon

August 15, 2009

Thursday is your birthday...what a great day that was for all of us...As usual, we will celebrate you with vanilla ice cream and balloons at the cemetery...7pm...love you son,
Mommy

karla ayon

August 14, 2009

Loving you Son...Five more wake-ups and I get to see your sissy...

God Bless...

Karla

margie hudgens

August 12, 2009

D.J.,

I Love You Boy! I Miss You! Can't wait to get to Heaven.

Aunt Margie

Karen Coughenour

August 11, 2009

Ugh! I see I spelled your name wrong. That's what happens when your Old Auntie loses her glasses and doesn't go back a read what I wrote. Age does that.
Anyway, I just stopped by to write a little thought of you. We all remember how solid you were when you looked at things. Now's a time when your young wisdom could help to settle my stress and calm some fears about things going on in my life. You know what I'm referring to, so as I pray, I'll know you are talking into God's ear to help the answers be there.
I love you forever!
Aunt Karen

karla ayon

August 10, 2009

Hello handsome...just mommy thinking about you and how much I love you... When we were on our way to church yesterday, Christian stopped my heart when he said that he barely remembers you...one of my nightmares come true...I know he meant that you weren't around much because you were already grown up when his ability to remember kicked in...and he explained that to me...just makes me so sad that people who loved you may forget...
I love you baby,

Mommy

Karen Coughenour

August 9, 2009

Hello Dabid Joel,
I just came home from a week at church camp and slept a lot this evening. So many kids and so much worship. It was great to see them take in what God was offering them. But, during camp you were on my mind a great deal. I guess there were just things that reminded me of you, even though I can't put my finger on it.
We've all been changed since you left and I guess that's normal. The technology that was while you were alive is even so much more advanced and I wonder why the world is moving so quickly past our ability to keep up. Probably something you would have enjoyed. All the Facebook and Twitter stuff, just to stay in touch. Somehow, I simply feel I can keep up with you when I come here and write and read what someone else writes, or just by thinking of and praying about you. God is the only guarentee we have of meeting up again. I sure miss you and having the ability to have a conversation with you. I saw John Miller today, and he is such a handsome young man. I feel like I miss out on getting to know all of your cousins with life moving on so fast and busy. Your sister is getting married in a few short weeks. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone at the wedding and it feels like we will all miss you so much, together. I hope we'll be able to realize you sharing the joy of the occasion, rather than feeling sorry for ourselves. I read your moms' last entry to you here. It makes me so sad to think of how hard it is for her not to have you to hold or talk to. There is such an ache inside of me, I can only imagine for her. Please ask God to comfort her, again and again!
I Love You Forever,
Aunt Karen

karla ayon

August 5, 2009

Hi baby...I don't know why today was so hard for me. I have been thinking of you non-stop and wish so much that there was someone who understands how I feel. I was driving in my car today, coming home to the kids. I was reliving your accident as if I had been there, feeling what I think you must have felt those last seconds. I cannot bear the thought of you being in pain. Or scared. Or wanting your mom. I miss you so much son. I wish each and every day and each and every moment to have had more time with you. You are so special to me in so many ways. I never pass up a moment to mention your name or what you might have thought of something. Or how you would have smiled at things that just stress other people out. I spent the weekend with some old friends and I always cherish the memory of spending time with people who knew you. Your sister is getting married in just a few weeks and I am so sad that you will not be there like we planned. It was you and her for so long and I know that she misses you dearly. Our lives are forever changed and there is nothing we can do about it. That is the hardest part of it all. To let go and let God be in charge when I am your mom. Christian is getting so big and his looks are changing. People don't see you in him as much as when he was young, but I still do. He will always be such a part of you, as is Brittany. Rylee is so funny. She goes through life, laughing all the way. We joke that she has a six pack, not from being so athletic, but from being so happy. One of God's blessings. We are ordering a corsage for you for the wedding...and Brittany will wear the dress that you have provided for her...In that sense you will join your dad as she is escorted down the aisle on her very special day. I will just be the mom...but that is enough for me.
Your 26th birthday is just around the corner...would have loved to celebrate it with you in person baby. I am loving you, son,
Mommy

brittany civello

June 29, 2009

hi bubba. i was awake here in arkansas at 2:21 yesterday morning thinking about you. missing you. it had been exactly three years since you died and i still cant believe it. i dont know how its been three years since i have talked to my brother! it was a very hard day for me. i am so thankful for shawn and that he is so understanding of me. thank grandma civello for me for bringing me to him. i think that you would have approved of him bubba. he has said so many times that he wishes that he had gotten to meet you. i cant believe that i am getting married in two months and that you are not going to be there to share it. i miss hugging you dj! i miss that crooked little smile that you had and that quick wit humor. i am forver thinking about you. even though i dont let on a lot how much things affect me, it is so hard for me to not have anyone here. i wish that i could pick up the phone and call you, when things get hard and you are the onlyone that would understand like you used to be. we were so much alike in our thinking sometimes. i wish that i could have been able to go to the cemetery yesterday to visit you but i know that isnt really where you are at. i will be there to celebrate your birthday though! cant wait to gather with all of the family and have vanilla ice cream to honor you, it really was your favorite. i worked at an ice cream shop in bakersfield last year and was making ice cream sandwiches out of snicker doodle cookies one day ant thinking about how you would have LOVED that! does god have good ice cream in heaven? i wonder. well bubba i slept in way late today and need to get going to get stuff done today, my only two days off for the week! i work so much lately, its a miracle huh haha! i love you and miss you more than i can even describe. please watch over mom and the kids for me, i know its so hard for them with me leaving. i had to explain to the kids that im not leaving permanently and that i would come back and visit them. they thought that me leaving was going to be like when you died and that they would never see me again, it breaks my heart to see them cry. they have been through so much!!! please ask god to bless them, they are too young to go through so much. i love you and am sending my hugs up to heaven.

karla ayon

June 29, 2009

I know you were there tonight when I was helping with that lady who had a seizure. Your stone was beautiful when I got to the cemetery, thanks to our aunt colleen...I love you baby,
Mommy

karla ayon

June 27, 2009

Well son, it has been three years since we last talked to each other...I take great comfort in the fact that the last thing you said to me was, "I Love You, Mom" I hold onto that so dearly...Three years at times seems like such a long time and then at other times, it is so close to yesterday. I miss you so...I love you baby, so much that it hurts. They say that the pain goes away...I don't think that it will. It does become bearable, most of the time. What I wouldn't give for one more moment with you. I really wonder what more God has planned for me that he keeps me here. I know my duty is to raise your brother and sister and to see Brittany be happily married and maybe have children...All of that will be such a blessing. I do wonder when I will get to be with you again though...And your grandpa's, and all the other loved ones who have gone before you. I know that you can wait for me because you are in the presence of our Holy Father daily...Lucky you! I pray that I will sleep tonight so that I can be coherent tomorrow. I will probably awake, as I often do, at around midnight, 12:21 to be precise. Then again at 6:06...those moments will forever be written on my heart. I know that God took you right away and you did not know pain or suffering and that gives your mama great comfort. Have a wonderful night in Heaven, and know how much your mommy loves you.

I love you Sunshine,
Mommy

Karen Coughenour

June 24, 2009

David Joel~
I have not been here for quite a while. Mainly, my computer is more in control than I am and I can't stand to sit in front of it for very long. I get inpatient and frustrated, so I just leave it alone. Bought a new one a few months ago, but haven't gotten it on-line. Face it, I'm just not that into the computer these days.
You are on my mind and in my heart so much and you know that. You also know when I do and do not visit the cemetary. I thought it would be good to come here and put thought to paper, for now.
Grandpa Whitey is with you and I know how much he got aggrevated about being in Bakersfield, especially the last few years. Now, he'll be placed in a cemetary in Bakersfield. But, it will be the National Cemetary and he will be honored as the dedicated veteran he was. That was very important in his life and it feels right that he will rest there. All of you kids were so very special and important to him. He grieved so much when you left and was sad ever since. I know he will be at peace and find joy in heaven and spending time with you. You only have one grandparent left here. but I pray God will allow us to keep her for a long time. He and the rest of you can wait and enjoy each other until the time is right.(I sound selfish about that, but we have enough family there to share your joy), for now. Every time I get to hug one of your cousins, your sisters or brother, I get overwhelmed with the sense of loss that I can no longer hug you. I wonder if that feeling will ever go away or feel less painful.
Well, I wanted to come by and say Hi, now I am out of here. I love you so much and will never stop missing you as long as I live!
I Love You Forever,
Aunt Karen

margie hudgens

June 23, 2009

Hi D.J.,
Hi my boy! I miss you, and U know that. You are always in my thoughts.

I Love You,
Aunt Margie

karla ayon

June 22, 2009

I know you were waiting for Grandpa Whitey when he got there...One day you will have more people there than you did here...Can't wait to see you myself...I am loving you son,

Mommy

karla ayon

June 13, 2009

Love you Sunshine...

Mommy

Karla ayon

June 11, 2009

Hey baby,
Your cousin finally did it~he graduated from High School~as Valedictorian no less~we raised some smart kids!!! This morning your Aunt Margie was telling me that she took "D.J." to Christopher's graduation and I thought she was talking about your namesake. She was actually talking about you. I was startled to think that I didn't think of you first, and quite sad. You are and always be my first, "D.J." and I love you soooo much. Oh what I would give to just hold you once more. There is a song called, "When I finally make it home" and it talks of wrapping your arms around your loved one and telling them how much you miss them...It will be such an awesome moment to hug you and tell you how very much I miss you...The day that you left me is fast approaching and I find myself holding my breath more and more...I still can't catch my breath...I'm thinking of you...Mommy

Alison

May 22, 2009

hello DJ,
I went through a box of stuff last night and found your picture, and pices of your bike,and the shot glass i had bought you. and i broke.... i cryed so hard.. it brought back some memories that we had shared together. it made me smile... we had fun together..the stort time i had with you was the best you alway knew how to make me smile.. im always thinking of the what ifs.. i think about your mom and sister and how they are doing. DJ i havent seen or talk to bobby in a while please look over him and keep him and marry safe. well love ill see you in my dreams..

karla ayon

May 21, 2009

Lots of stuff going on baby...Drrell and Nick graduating from High School, Tara from Junior high, Rylee is "Student of the Month" Kids in cheer, Rylee's dance recital, Your sister getting married, so much going on...Yet I still have time to miss you each and every moment...I love you Sunshine...

Mommy

karla ayon

May 10, 2009

Hello Sunshine...

I wish you were here with me today. Your brother wrote me a poem for Mother's Day, about me. He knows me so well. All of my kids do. I really do wish that I was with you today. I love you baby,
Mommy

karla ayon

April 29, 2009

Hi baby~
Missing you so much...I wish you could see my studio, you would be so proud of me!!!

Love you Sunshine,
Mommy

April 12, 2009

hey beautiful boy...Another holiday without you...Spent with family and friends honoring your Grandma...It was very nice, seeing your old room,thinking about you...seeing your cousins and hugging those who loved you. Give your Grandma and Grandpas hugs for me...


I love you son,
Happy Easter, Sunshine.
Mommy

brittany

April 2, 2009

hey bubba!!! i miss you! i got engaged! wish that you were here to meet shawn. i think that you would like him... i love you

margie hudgens

March 18, 2009

Hi D.J.,
I Love You and Miss you so much! You are in my thoughts all the time! See Ya When I get there

Aunt Margie

karla ayon

March 17, 2009

Happy St. Patrick's Day...I am sure your Irish Eyes are smilin' at all of those Irish Relatives that are in Heaven with you...You always loved being Irish. Blessings, son, look for the blessings. Grandma is in her element today...the little Leprechaun! I miss you so much,

Loving you,


Mommy

mary widen

March 17, 2009

hi sweetheart, i'm really missing you tonight. here we are facing another st. paddys day, i sure do wish you were here to celebrate it together. i'm certain your aunt phyllis and the rest of our family up there are doing the irish jig together. great grandma mary feely had it mastered, she taught all of us kids how to jig when we were kids, it was her thing. honey, i'll say good night for now and try to dream about you beautiful young man. i love you with all my heart. rest in Jesus arms. love you, grandma

karla ayon

March 13, 2009

Missing you son,
Love you,
Mommy

Duke Rescola

March 5, 2009

Hey Baby Boy, I know you were so proud of your little brother and sister during their cheer competition. I know you there watching over them because I felt the warmth of your smile in the Pyramid. Keep your arms around your Mom, Brit, Noah and Rylee. They are so much a part of you. I love and miss you very much, D.J. It's one of those everyday things I can't release. With my heart, Uncle Duke

mary widen

March 4, 2009

hi mr. wondeful, i'm so excited, i got a printer from a yardsale. bobby hooked it up to my monster, it'll even do the photos. i've copied all the photos from your guestbook. it's so neat. i can hardly wait to get the proper paper and ink to be able to make them more professional. can you believe, i,m actually thrilled to be learning something technical and new to me. now i'll be able to do all kinds of stuff without bugging everyone else. i really miss you wish you wer here with me to share this type of excitement. i love you so very much. we'll be together before you know it. what a hapy day that will be. i love you and will be back before you know it. loooooove you too much. love grandma

brittany

March 3, 2009

i miss you bubba.

karla ayon

January 27, 2009

He baby,
I'm working on a new poem...it will be titiled, "Let me go, mom." Ever since you were very little, you were so independant. Always wanting to do your own thing, at your own pace. I remember never wanting to let you go. Now, as then, it seems that the choice is not mine. I will never let you go in a sense, but I know that I have little choice in this. For now, I will hold on...

Loving you, Mommy

kara ayon

December 28, 2008

Hello Beautiful,
Well, i got through yet another Christmas without you here with me. That makes three..my how time passes. They say the pain gets easier, I'm still waiting for that. It does become manageable, most of the time. Aunt Karen gave grandma a digital photo frame for Christmas, which was just awesome. We were all gathered around watching the pictures go by when there were some of you. One in particular of you with suds on your face as a little guy. Wow, I can remember that exact moment in time...and so many others. It made me very sad, but I was able to get myself together after just a few minutes. You are forever in my every memory and always in what is left of my heart. I love you Sunshine.

Mommy

Uncle Duke

December 25, 2008

Hi Baby Boy, Merry Christmas and my deepest love to all around you. What a glorious feeling it must be to be sitting with the Son of God while reading this humble conveyance. I love and miss you DJ. We will be together again, dear Nephew. Love, Uncle Duke

karla ayon

December 15, 2008

Hey Sunshine,
I took pictures of your namesake yesterday! Boy is he beautiful. I just wanted to hold him and love on him. He wasn't having much of that though. He was too busy having fun. I loved saying DJ over and over again...He has great dimples like you and Christopher. As he was leaving, he was saying, "Love you, Miss you" Oh my heart was so touched baby. He reminds me of how when you were little and out of the blue you would say, "love you." so sweet...


Loving you, Mommy

mary widen

December 13, 2008

hello my darling grandson, i'm so sorry it has taken me so long to come back to you, i never really left. just took a leave of absence. as you know, i had to be with your aunt phyllis in her time of need. i'm happy that God allowed me to be with her when she entered into a glorious and eternal life. how grateful i am that you were there to greet her and welcome her to her final resting place, and to know too that she no longer has to suffer. like you, i'll miss her as well. i don't know why i have so much difficulty letting go, just selfish i guess. i am very fortunate to have so many angels up there to watch over me and the rest of our family that has been left behind. one day soon we'll all be together again, how wonderful that will be, we can laugh, dance, sing, rejoice and be happy together. i can't think of anything better. whatever you do, don't watch the soaps with aunt phyllis, she didn't like them until her last few days here on earth. i sure do miss her. phyllis was my sister, mentor, protector, friend, most of all tho' she was my anchor. i'm sure she has designated herself to be all but sister to you. give her a hug and a kiss for me. i love and miss you both. both of you, rest with in Jesus' arms. i love you. love grandma.

karla ayon

November 24, 2008

In a little while my son...
I still have work to do...
I am missing you,
Mommy

Margie Hudgens

November 12, 2008

Hi D.J.,
I Love you Soooo Much! Please watch over Grandma Mary, your Cousins, and lots of special Love to all our family whom are there with you! Be close to your Mom and your Brothers and sisters. They miss you TOO! My heart aches. Can't wait to see you again. I want to hug you! I Love You - Your Aunt Margie

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