CHARLES LEROY ELMS
Feb. 5, 1938 - March 6, 2007
Charles Leroy Elms went quietly and peacefully to be with our Lord in the early morning hours of March 6, after a lengthy illness. At his side was his loving wife and life partner, Lynn.
Since 1989, Charlie demonstrated a strong, quiet strength and commitment in his fight with cancer and, despite four attempts, cancer did not win. He was completely cancer free when he went into the Lord's arms. Charlie and about thirty of his family and best friends had just celebrated his 69th birthday in February.
Charlie was a quiet, gentle man. He was an artist with the camera, and spent his entire career as a photographer. For many years Charlie was Chief of Photography at the U.S. Air Force Academy. While at the Academy, he had a great time traveling to many places to photograph everyone and everything from sports events to dignitaries to presidents. (He also enjoyed the notion of flying to some far-flung location for lunch and returning home later in the day.) One of the earliest and proudest memories of his career was the opportunity to photograph aspects of the Apollo Space Program near El Centro, Calif. Throughout the years, many of Charlie's outstanding photographs have been selected as presentation pieces.
Charles and his sisters, Margaret and Marilyn, grew up on Sunny Hills Ranch in Fullerton, Calif. As a young teenager, the family moved to Brawley, in the Imperial Valley. He began his career at the age of 13, when he talked Lou Gesler, Brawley photographer, into letting him sweep the Gesler studio floor. He graduated from Brawley High, class of 1957. Instead of taking a date to the proms, he took his camera as their photographer. Following high school, Charlie served in the U.S. Army for several years as a photographer and was stationed in Germany, which he loved. After the Army, he returned to the Imperial Valley and lived there until he and his first wife, Wilma, and daughter Cheryl moved to San Diego, where his twin sons, Ron and Aaron, were born.
Charlie began working for the government in El Centro, Calif., and later transferred to San Diego, where he worked for the Navy for eighteen years. While living in San Diego, he especially enjoyed time with his family, remodeling his home and playing volleyball on the beach with friends.
Charlie and Lynn met in San Diego and were married there in 1982. The following year they moved to Colorado Springs for his new assignment at the Academy, and Ron and Aaron joined them soon after. He and Lynn recently bought a home in Monument, where Lynn still resides. He loved the pond in their backyard, and spent time sitting beside it almost every day last summer. This is where the celebration of Charlie's life will be held in the spring, as was his wish. The date will be announced when arrangements are completed, and all are invited to join in remembering him. Charlie agreed that waiting until spring was a good idea, since the backyard is now full of snow and the pond is icy, and the thought of having folks mush through the snow to sit around an icy pond wasn't very appealing.
After his retirement from Civil Service the focus (no pun intended) of his photography changed to family pictures and weddings. His home is filled with pictures of his 13 grandchildren and one great-grandson as well as their parents. He was especially fond of pictures he'd taken of his daughter, Cheryl, and her beautiful smile. There aren't many pictures of Lynn, as she was usually busy rearranging people for group pictures and making suggestions for poses. In this, as in many other aspects of their life, Charlie and Lynn were a great team.
Charlie and Lynn were married for almost 25 years, which was significantly longer than either initially expected. They were a truly blended family. During elections, the Republican sign was in the right side of the front yard and the Democrat sign was on the left. Charlie was always known for being early and Lynn was notorious for being late. Occasionally, she would say, "Look, Charlie, we're going to be on time!" To which Charlie would respond, with his usual dry sense of humor, "We're not there yet." Among other traits, Aaron and Ron have inherited their father's timeliness.
One of the highlights of Charlie's later years was the morning coffee bunch at Serrano's in Monument. He frequently took his grandchildren, who have happy memories of this time with Grandpa. Even after he was unable to drive, his friends came to take him to coffee many mornings.
In addition to his wife Lynn, Charlie is survived by Cheryl Yoder and her husband Alex, Ron, Aaron and his wife Angel, his mother Allene Mulligan, sister Marilyn Boone and brother-in-law Harvey, sister Margaret Doty, "adopted" sons-in-law Jon and Johnnie and former daughter-in-law, Mica; grandchildren Kristina, Nicole, Samantha, Jessicah, Joshua, Myrissa, Sinnthya, Jesse, Adam, Anna, Mary Jo, Alannah, and Ashley; niece Debra Burns and nephew Dennis Doty; brother-and-sister-in law Lee and Valarie Hoppin, niece Miranda and nephew Evan Hoppin. His great-grandson, Haven B. Charlie Elms, was born on Charlie's 68th birthday. His passing was preceded by his father, Herman Elms and his stepfather Tom Mulligan.
Charlie and Lynn are grateful for the years of caring and support from family and friends. The list is endless, but special mention go to his best friend Bill Petty, Kris Fitzsimmons, Kathy Forman, Jeannie and Al Larkin, Armin and Nancy Sommer and Gil and Phyllis Moore. For many years Charlie appreciated very special friendships with Phyllis Carmichael, Annikki Hakala, Mi-Lou Trask, Kris Rohren and Cathy and Nick Schoeder.
We are also especially grateful for the outstanding care provided by Drs. Paul Anderson and Matthew Logsdon at RMCC, Dr. Dennis Schneider, Dr. Jack Adams, Dr. Joel Ernster, Dr. Gil Porat, Dr. Pierre Anctil and Dr. Bob Munson. Thank you also to Carla Ryan, RN and Darlene (Perki) Meyerson, CNA, and especially, to Jennifer Gail Adams, our caregiver for her love and friendship this past year. Charlie and his family also received outstanding care from the staff of Evercare Hospice during his last weeks.
Charlie's wish is that, in lieu of flowers, donations be sent to Rocky Mountain Cancer Center at 3057 N. Circle, Colorado Springs, Colo, 80909.
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Amy Freelander
April 2, 2007
I love you,Lynn. I wish Ihad perfect words to say ,I have no such words. Charlie is one of the sweetest men i have ever known. I wish I was there to hug you and make you dinner or somthing.LOVE,Amy
Janice Horne, PT
March 28, 2007
I loved helping Charlie over the last few years and spending time with Lynn. Loved all the time we spent laughing. Thanks for sharing his life with us all.
Anne Champagne
March 27, 2007
Uncle Charlie and Dr. Mom (Lynn) have been around for my entire life and I was lucky enough to spend two summers with them during my middle school years, those two summers hold some of my favorite memories. Uncle Charlie was the kindest man I ever knew and I will miss him always. Love, Anniekins
Nicole Elms
March 23, 2007
Grandma Lynn, it is nice to know that some of Grandpa Charlie's happest memories where at the coffee shop for they are some of my fondest and charished menories. I will miss him, but I know he can now be with me every minute of every day for the rest of my life. I love you,Grandpa. Nicole
Samantha Elms
March 23, 2007
grandma Lynn I will miss grandpa Elmo so much. I hope to spend alot more time with you and wish i could have spent more time with grandpa Charlie before he moved on.Best wishes and see you soon
MEL AND CELIA WILLIAMS
March 18, 2007
CHARLES AND I WERE FRIENDS FOR MANY YEARS. YOU WERE A GREAT GUY AND YOUR WILL BE MISSED BY ALL YOUR FRIENDS. OUR REUNION WON'T BE THE SAME THIS YEAR WITHOUT YOU.
Jeanne Locatelli
March 16, 2007
Dear Lynn and family, So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Charlie. May you have comfort and gain strength from your close family and many friends thru this difficult time.
Sincerely,
MIke and Linda OKelley
March 12, 2007
We treasure the years spent in Small group together at Springs Community Church. We had alot of laughs and some great memories!!
Jerry/Rosalie Bowen
March 12, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lynn. Charlie will be missed, but he is at peace now and his spirit will continue to be with us.
Debbie Rocco
March 12, 2007
Dr. Elms: I was happy to know you and Charlie. I will remember his "curb calls" to see Dr. Fogleman. Wishing you happy memories always. Sincerely, Debbie
Malcolm McCollum
March 12, 2007
Lynn, Sharon and I will miss the visits with Charlie and you. Charlie and I are very similiar in that we do not talk alot. He and I could sip a glass of wine without speaking much and when we departed, we would feel we had a great time. I will miss those visits. Mac and Sharon
March 12, 2007
It was an honor to help take care of Charlie during his illness. I met and heard about many true and wonderful family and friends.Fondly, Carla Ryan, RN
Wayne Walter
March 12, 2007
My heartfelt condolences to his family.
Dale and Sue Brockett
March 11, 2007
Charlie's friendship goes back many years. He was a great guy and will be missed. After Charlie moved from the Valley he would always stop by. We never knew when he was in town, but when we heard a loud knock on the door, we both knew that it was Charlie before we even answered the door. We extend our sympathies to all the family.
DARLENE (DRYSDALE) Lynch-Hayes
March 11, 2007
Lynn and all of the family, Charles will be missed by his classmates of 1957, especially at our 50th reunion in May. A nice man - to be missed by all his family and friends. My Sympathy, Darlene
Carol Burns Marshall
March 11, 2007
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Bill Burris
March 11, 2007
Charles was a friend of mine, (class of 57') he also was the photographer at my wedding in 1958. He was a great guy and will be remembered fondly. My heartfelt condolences to his family.
Dave Ryder
March 10, 2007
I remember Charles being my older brother's best friend. We could count on Charles always being lots of fun.....and a terrible driver..ha ha. He spent a great deal of time at our home and with our family in the Brawley desert. I can still see him in that white T-shirt, horned rimmed glasses, & black hair. He was such fun. What great memories I have of him.
Dave Ryder, Eagle Point,Oregon
Leigh Ryder-Leaming
March 10, 2007
My whole family has very fond memories of Charles. He spent a lot of time at our home in the desert outside of Brawley and later at the house in Shady Cove, Oregon. We will hold on to those memories.
Our thought are with you all during this difficult time.
Leigh Ryder-Leaming
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