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Bruce Dutton Obituary

Bruce Dutton
Bruce Dutton, 89, of East Main Street in Stafford Springs died Monday, Oct. 14, peacefully at home.
He leaves his wife of 59 years, Nancy (Crawford) Dutton; a son, Randall Dutton and his wife, Lisa, of Tolland; a daughter, Rebecca (Dutton) McGrail and her husband, Brendan, of East Dover, VT; four grandchildren: Sierra, Hunter, Morgan and William; and several nephews and nieces. He also leaves his sisters: Karen (Dutton) Petersen and her husband, Harold, and Donna Dutton and her husband, Steve, of Charlotte, NC. One brother, Laurence, predeceased him.
Long dedicated to the pursuit of knowledge, and committed to encouraging the idea in others, Bruce educated the students of Stafford High School as a history teacher for nearly 40 years before retiring in 2000, and few of his students could name a better teacher. A lover of nature and service to his community, Bruce became a professional arborist – a course he attended with his son – and tree warden for the town, in addition to his many years on the select board. Likewise dedicated to the Stafford Springs Congregational Church, he served as sexton, provided extensive financial support, and lent his resonant baritone to the choir. As a life-long athlete, Bruce found a way to make sports a large part of his limited spare time. He learned how to play field hockey just to coach his daughter's team; he taught his children to ski, and Bruce continued to play competitive hockey with a men's league until he was 81.
Bruce was born and raised in Concord, MA, son of the late Raymond and Emily (MacAllister)Dutton. A graduate of Boston College, Bruce earned a master's at Harvard University and a Ph.D from the University of Connecticut, publishing a thesis on the teaching of religion in U.S. public schools. In addition to the depth of his formal education, Bruce was a lifelong autodidact, compiling a massive personal library on subjects ranging from art to zoology – each book invariably featuring the meticulous notes Bruce always wrote in the margins. As it grew, the library became increasingly heavy on transcendentalism, especially Henry Thoreau, his favorite writer, and biographies of Teddy Roosevelt, his favorite president. Today the library at the Dutton home also includes numerous volumes on everything from poetry to physics – reminders of a man who was equally likely to be quoting Robert Frost or building a model of Foucault's pendulum for his grandkids.
When not reading, Bruce was just as dedicated to his writing. He penned regular letters to his kids as they grew, and published a series of books on the history of Stafford Springs. But it was his love of an English teacher and cheerleading coach he met in Vermont that truly lit him up inside. Having met the love of his life in the Green Mountain State, Vermont always held a special draw for Bruce. He purchased a parcel of land there in the '60s and hand built a cabin for his family, which they still enjoy to this day.
Calling hours will be Friday, Oct. 18, 2024 from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Introvigne Funeral Home, Inc., 51 East Main St., Stafford Springs, CT. A graveside service will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday, Oct. 19, 2024 at Stafford Springs Cemetery, Monson Rd., Stafford Springs, CT, followed by music and fellowship at Stafford Springs Congregational Church, 3 Main St., Stafford Springs, CT. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Stafford Historical Society, 5 Spring St., Stafford Springs, CT 06076 and/or the Stafford Springs Congregational Church, 3 Main St., Stafford Springs, CT 06076. To leave a message of sympathy for his family, please visit: www.introvignefuneralhome.com

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Published by Journal Inquirer on Oct. 16, 2024.

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Elizabeth Morin

September 17, 2025

Bruce was wonderful man. In the short time that I got to know him and his family, I came to enjoy his humor and his kindness and I´m forever grateful to have known him.

Monica Edwards

April 26, 2025

Mr. Dutton was my history teacher for several courses in high school, he inspired me to be a social studies teacher myself! I still have fond memories of him teaching us Robert´s Rules of Order and how to apply them! I still get angry to this day when I don´t see them followed in town meetings! He taught all of us to think for ourselves, even when it was difficult and he´s always remained my mentor. I´m so sad to hear of his passing. His teachings still move forward!

Pat Delamater

October 21, 2024

I have so many fond memories of Bruce from about 60 years ago!!! What a warm and engaging man he was. I also remember him being teased for many years about his "allergic" reaction to a strawberry milkshake after spending the day with my dad and Charlie:) My love to all of you. Pat

Mary L. lundervilke

October 18, 2024

Nancy and children, I was so sorry to hear of Bruce´s passing. He was an incredible person and I remember how much my Dad enjoyed their discussions. They were always lively! Sending much love and prayers to the loveliest neighbors ever!
Lou (Shanahan) Lunderville.

Mia Roethlein

October 17, 2024

Dear Rebecca, Randall, Nancy and Family,
I´m so sorry to hear of Bruce´s passing.
I have many fond memories of playing in your yard and him teaching us so many things including but not limited to how to shift a truck´s gears, tree names, sports tips and stafford history. As I got older and was visiting my folks I always appreciated his dry wit when he stopped by for coffee.
I´m glad we were neighbors growing up.
Take good care,
Mia

Jeremy Steppen

October 17, 2024

Rest in peace Mr. Dutton. Best teacher I ever had.

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We loved having Bruce with us at the Senior Center cheering us on at Cornhole! He will be missed on Wednesday afternoons...<br /><br />

Rosemarie Capuano

October 17, 2024

We will miss having Bruce at the Senior Center cheering us on at Cornhole. Wednesday afternoons will never be the same

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