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Neil Phillips Obituary
He was born on January 20, 1965 in Port Jefferson, N.Y., to Albert "Al" Phillips of Glastonbury and Nancy (Matthews) Phillips of Sterling, Va. Neil attended public schools in West Hartford and Glastonbury, where he was on the Glastonbury High School wrestling team. For the past several years Neil resided in Norwich. Neil had gained prominence as a quality house painter in both the Hartford and Norwich areas. Neil was an avid bicyclist and would travel hundreds of miles per trip. He was, in particular, a 'free spirited' outdoorsman and loved the woods.
He is survived by his parents and stepmother, Susan (Pratt) Phillips of Glastonbury; four brothers, Albert Virgil Phillips Jr. and spouse, Melody, of Jacksonville, Fla., Stephen Wendell Phillips of San Francisco, Karl Roger Phillips and spouse, Kathleen, of Purcellville, Va., and Perry Douglas Phillips and spouse, Jill, of Mansfield; sister, Mildred Annette Phillips of Idyllwild, Calif.; step-brother, Scott David Soule and spouse, Dydee, of Milford; and step-sister, Karen Fay Doucette and spouse, Michael, of East Hartford; and sixteen nephews and nieces. Neil was predeceased by a sister, Teresa June Phillips of Manhattan Beach, Calif.
A funeral service will be held on Saturday, Jan. 19, at 11 a.m. in the Glastonbury Funeral Home, 450 New London Tpke., Glastonbury. Internment will follow in Green Cemetery, Glastonbury.
A memorial service will be held in Norwich Tuesday, Jan. 22 at 2 p.m., in the Southeast Mental Health Authority Bldg. 301, 401 W. Panes St. (Rte 32).
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Memories and Condolences
for Neil Phillips
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Matt Rosenfield, Steve Phillips, Neil Phillips 1986
September 9, 2012
jamie Stebbins
January 6, 2012
diane @ me josh geoff miss you and think about you alot
Dad
January 23, 2010
May Neil rest in peace.
Photo was taken Christmas 2009.
Mildred Phillips
January 22, 2010
I have been reminiscing about Neil, too. I also miss him. Thank you for sharing Neil's photos.
Sis
Stephen Phillips
January 20, 2010
Neil would be 45 today. Sure miss him
Wendell statue in Boston with Boo and Patsy
November 13, 2008
Us kids and Fred
November 13, 2008
November 13, 2008
November 13, 2008
Deep River cruise
November 13, 2008
With friend Matt
November 13, 2008
Anoying Karl while he worked
November 13, 2008
The Emerson House
November 13, 2008
Easter 1973
November 13, 2008
North Main Street 1973
November 13, 2008
October 12, 2008
CAMPING IN FLORIDA
October 12, 2008
WITH ALBERT IN FLORIDA
October 12, 2008
WITH MOM
October 12, 2008
WITH PERRY ANK KARL, EASTER '73
October 12, 2008
MY FAVORITE
October 12, 2008
October 12, 2008
NICE SCHOOL PICTURES
October 12, 2008
ALWAYS CLIMBING
October 12, 2008
GROUP PICTURE WITH SANTA
October 12, 2008
AN EARLY PICTURE WITH SANTA
Stephen Phillips
October 12, 2008
Mom sent me some more pictures of Neil, some I've never seen
Thanksgiving at Perry's and Jills 1986
September 4, 2008
Thanksgiving with Stephanie and myself 1986
stephen phillips
September 4, 2008
I also found some film from my trip back east for my high school reunion in 1986
Glastonbury 1980
September 4, 2008
Florida 1980
Stephen Phillips
September 4, 2008
I just developed some old film from 1980 when Neil and I paled around for ten months. Very few of the pictures came out.
Neil and I
March 23, 2008
Neil with Teresa & Kelly
March 23, 2008
Watching us swim
March 23, 2008
Neil with squash
March 23, 2008
With cousin Jimmy, Concord MA
March 23, 2008
The 'Ol 97
March 23, 2008
Early '73
March 23, 2008
March 23, 2008
March 23, 2008
March 23, 2008
March 23, 2008
Neil and mom, San Francisco 1985
February 20, 2008
Easter Sunday, West Hartford CT 1973
February 20, 2008
Younger Neil
February 20, 2008
Up On The Roof
February 20, 2008
PA 1985
February 20, 2008
Kentucky 1985
February 20, 2008
In the woods
February 20, 2008
Neil & Friend,Glastonbury CT 1985
February 20, 2008
Neils dirt bike, Pacifica CA.
February 19, 2008
Cool
February 19, 2008
Contemplating a swim at our haight street pad. SF, CA
February 19, 2008
Neil and myself
February 19, 2008
Neil in AZ, CO, NM and UT at the same time.
February 19, 2008
Grand Canyon AZ
February 19, 2008
Let's roll
February 19, 2008
Neil and a friend in my truck
February 19, 2008
Neil looking sharp at Albert and Paula's wedding
Stephen phillips
February 19, 2008
Here are some photos of Neil taken on our trip
from Conettcut to California in the summer of 1985.
A jewelry box made by Neil for Rose
January 26, 2008
A Tribute to Neil
January 26, 2008
Some of the flowers from the funeral
January 26, 2008
Neil's grave in Glastonbury
January 26, 2008
Mountain bike found with Neil
January 26, 2008
Flowers on Rte 2 where Neil was found Jan. 2nd '08
AL PHILLIPS (Father)
January 26, 2008
More photos
Melanie Murray
January 26, 2008
Neils eyes would sparkle when he talked about biking. His love of art touched me as well.I am not an artist let alone a painter.Neil shared a oil painting technique with me that caused a still present love of oil painting. Neil painted a canvas of passion of life and love for others. I can only hope to be 1/4 the person Neil was. He is loved and missed.
Laurie Roberge-Piteo
January 24, 2008
Dear Neil's Family,
Neil was a friend of my daughter, Heather, in Norwich. He was always a gentleman and a kind soul. He rode his bike up to Farmington in June and painted some of my windows, my deck, etc. Such a perfectionist. May he rest in peace. My sympathies to you.
Gale Sullivan RN, C
January 22, 2008
To the Phillips Family,
Neil was unique and a joy to many of us who cared for him.
Kind thoughts,
Lee
January 21, 2008
Neil,
It was a pleasure to know you. You were a true gentleman, always ready with a smile and a helping hand. God Bless You.
Amy Cyr
January 20, 2008
Neil,
You were a great friend and someone I could look up to. I will always remember your funny ways and crazy jokes. You will be missed forever. Peace to you, Neil.
Kim Lord
January 20, 2008
Dear Phillips Family,
On this day which would have been Neil's 43rd birthday, I just wanted to let you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I was so sad to learn of his passing, and I have been reflecting back on some of the times that we shared in high school and after. He was a kind, gentle, and genuine soul.
Last week as I was teaching a class of first-graders, one of my students looked at me and I was struck by his eyes and facial expression... he reminded me so much of Neil! The little boy was smiling and goofing off a little, and I thought, "That is Neil just letting me know that he is okay through this little boy."
Please know that Neil will always hold a special place in my heart.
Peace,
Neil playing his Kramer Guitar
January 18, 2008
Neil and Jess
Chuck Donald
January 18, 2008
I will miss my good friend Neil, one of the best friends anyone could ask for, he worked as hard as he played, he was a fair boss and a patient teacher, his antics and gift for physical comedy are what I will miss the most and remember. I am greatful for the trade that he taught me, and the good times we shared. See you on the other side.
Big C
Chuck Donald
Neil, painter, far left first row.
January 18, 2008
Neil and Tony 1987
January 18, 2008
1989
January 18, 2008
Playing Kramer Guitar 1991
January 18, 2008
Neil and Jess 1997
January 18, 2008
Chuck Donald
January 18, 2008
I will miss my good friend Neil, one of the best friends anyone could ask for, he worked as hard as he played, he was a good boss and a patient teacher. His antics, and gift for physical comedy are what I will miss the most, and remember. I am greatful for the trade that he taught me, and the good times we shared. His spirit will be with me always.
Big C.
Chuck Donald
Jessica (Fuller)Townsend
January 18, 2008
Laughter. Uncontrollable, fall on the floor, laugh till you cry, laughter! I will never forget all of the stories of "frisco", and of all of the crazy adventures and people Neil met along the way. But underneath it all was a truly wonderful, observant, deep, caring individual. He will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. I'm sure there is a lot more laughter in Heaven right now!
Barry, Greg and Holly Hansen
January 18, 2008
Dear Uncle Perry,Jill,Eric & Elizabeth,
We are so sorry about Neil's passing.
We are thinking and praying for you.
We Love you.
Lorrie & Barry Hansen
January 18, 2008
Dear Phillips Family,
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. We hope you find comfort in the memories you hold dear to your hearts.
Peace to you all,
Lorrie & Barry Hansen
January 18, 2008
Dear Phillips Family,
Our deepest Sympathy for the loss of your Son/Brother. Although our Hearts break for your sadness; Our hearts celebrate the freedom of Neil's Spirit. May you find comfort that God wrapped his arms around him on a Sunny September day. We have been praying for your peace.
Peter Farno
January 17, 2008
I just saw of Neil's death in the Glastonbury paper. I went to grade school and high school with Neil. I have a lot of memories and although I haven not spoken to Neil since those days, I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Although we traveled in different circles he was a very funny and nice guy.
Russ&Chris Lord
January 16, 2008
To Neil's Family - We are very sorry to hear of Neil's passing. He was a friend of our daughter, Kim, when we lived in Glastonbury. Neil sanded and refinished the hardwood floors in our house on Bell Street. Neil visited us many times. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Robert Fongemie
January 15, 2008
I will always remeber the good times we had, Thanks for the memories "Bro"
Jennnifer Walker
January 15, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathy in a difficult time. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Jen & Henry
Karl Phillips
January 14, 2008
Neil,
You will always be my little squirt even though you towered over me as a man. I will miss your sense of humor, your grin, your mischievous smirk. I'll remember the off road bike rides in the bluffs in California. You were never happier. Thanks for the good times and your brotherhood.
Nancy Phillips
January 11, 2008
Dear Neil
I have so many wonderful memories of our time together. They are all so precious to me. I'll love and miss you always.
Love, Mom
Christmas Eve 1977, waking up Dad so we can open presents
January 8, 2008
5 year old Neil, Farmingville New York
January 8, 2008
9 year old Neil, West Hartford CT
January 8, 2008
Neil's first paint job, Dad's house
January 8, 2008
Neil 32 years old
STEPHEN PHILLIPS
January 8, 2008
Neil age 32 at The Golden Horse restaurent, San Francisco
AL PHILLIPS
January 7, 2008
Neil, you were a big help to me many times, and I miss you dearly already. You had a kind heart and helped many people. I know you died doing what you loved most.
Dad
Milly Phillips
January 7, 2008
Dear Little Brother,
How I miss you already!
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "I will see you in the mist. . ." In my memory, and with every walk or trip in these mountains, I will see you every day.
Love,
Your Sister Milly
Albert Phillips
January 7, 2008
Neil,
We miss you because we love you.
Because you are in the arms of the Lord, maybe you can hear me when I think of you. If so, I appologize for bending your ear. I will think of you each day when I wake up.
Love, Albert
stanley scalora
January 7, 2008
you were the best neil. Ill never forget you or your bike, or the name nutty neil as it fit you so well. You are loved my friend and will always be.
Stephen Phillips
January 6, 2008
So long Peilser, I miss you brother.
We had some good times I won't ever forget.
Our trip across America was the best ever.
Love,
Stephen
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