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Ruth Hakey Obituary

Ruth G. Hakey
Ruth G. (Horton) Hakey, 104, of Rockville, passed away peacefully, at Vernon Manor, on Wednesday, March 6, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on February 16, 1920, in Worcester, MA, the daughter of the late Ralza and Martha (Deacon) Horton.
Ruth lived and went to school in Union, CT for a short time and then moved back to Worcester and graduated from Worcester High School in 1940. After marrying Orrin Hakey on April 8, 1944, they moved to Rockville, where they raised their two boys. Ruth worked at LaPointe Industries for many years.
She was widowed in 1977, moved to Florence Mill Apartments in 1982 and was a resident there until just five months ago. She made many friends, over the years, and was involved in many activities, taking photos at many of them. Ruth loved the water, frequently swam at Henry Park pool and spent two weeks, every summer, with her family, at Brackett's cabins, right near the ocean, in Greenland, NH. She was water skiing in her 60s!
Ruth was a huge fan of the Red Sox and UCONN women's basketball team. She was a member of Union Church in Rockville for over 70 years and served on many committees. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother and aunt, she will be sorely missed by her family, friends and church family.
Ruth leaves behind her two sons, Orrin Hakey Jr. and his wife Donna of Concord, NH and Herbert Hakey and his wife Margaret of Rockville. Two grandsons, Brian Hakey and his wife Tina of Southport, NC and Andrew Hakey of Rockville. And two great-grandchildren, Joshua and Anna Hakey of Southport, NC. She also leaves behind several nieces and nephews and extended family members in Vernon, Manchester, Glastonbury and West Hartford.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband Orrin, and three sisters, Edna Howarth, Dorothy LeFrancois, and Myrtie Rydstrom.
A special thanks to the staff at Vernon Manor. And also, Carol Clark and Cherie Cianfaglione who helped care for Ruth while she was living at Florence Mill, these past four years.
Calling hours will be held from 4p.m. -7 p.m. on Thurs., March 14, 2024, at the Burke-Fortin Funeral Home, 76 Prospect Street, Rockville. A Funeral Service will be held at 11 a.m. Fri., March 15, 2024, at Union Church, 3 Elm Street, Rockville (Please meet at church). Burial will be at Union Cemetery at a later date privately.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Jimmy Fund, 10 Brookline Place West, 6th Floor, Brookline, MA 02445 or to Union Church. For online condolences, please visit: http://www.pietrasfuneralhome.com

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Published by Journal Inquirer on Mar. 12, 2024.

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Ginnie Wolfe

March 21, 2024

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Roseann (Garbich) Pelletier

March 18, 2024

She was a great person and I'm so sorry for her passing. For ever in the heart

Bill MacDonald

March 14, 2024

Ruth,
It was truly an honor to have you as a friend. You are the most patriotic person I ever have met in my entire life. Everything that you did with me and for me and others will never be forgotten. I will miss your smile, grace and wisdom. You will always be in my heart.
The Marine
Bill MacDonald

Stacy & Luis

March 14, 2024

"Miss Ruth" was special, a shining light of wisdom, faith, and guidance. We are grateful for the friendship deepened over time and will cherish her for always! She will be dearly missed but certainly tucked away in our hearts... <3 xo

The Residents of Florence Mill Apartments

March 14, 2024

"Miss. Ruth" was a pillar of our Florence Mill community. Her presence during all events and activities signified her dedication over the years. The friendships were plentiful and she was admired by all! She will be missed but always treasured and with us in spirit. We are grateful for our time together.

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