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Thomas Tucker Obituary
Born in Grosse Pointe, Michigan on May 22, 1955, he was the son of Floyd J. and Geraldine (Bailey) Tucker of Rocky Hill, formerly of Adrian, Michigan. A 1973 graduate of Manchester High School, he studied for two years at Manchester Community College, received a Bachelor of Arts degree from Wesleyan University in 1977 and later earned MS and MBA degrees from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute. Tom also attended the Wharton School of Business insurance executive program. Tom was an accomplished basketball player at Manchester High School and continued to be passionate about the game throughout his life. During a career spanning almost 40 years in the insurance industry Tom held positions as the Chief Underwriting Officer for The Hartford Insurance Company's Commercial Markets Division and Senior Vice President of the Specialty Commercial segment. Prior to joining The Hartford, Tom worked at AIG where he served as Chief Underwriting Officer and Chief Risk Officer for its U.S. operations. He spent the first 20 years of his career at The Travelers Insurance Company. A survivor of the 9/11 terrorist attack in New York City, Tom helped a number of strangers to safety.
In addition to his loving wife and parents, Tom is survived by his sisters, Cynthia Tucker Higgins of Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida and Newport Beach, California, Jeraldine "Jerry" Tucker of Cromwell, and Jacqueline "Jackie" DiMatteo of Rocky Hill; and niece and nephews, Heather Higgins van Scoyk, Tucker Higgins, Tommy DiMatteo, and Maxx DiMatteo.
The Tom Tucker Memorial Fund has been established through the Hartford Foundation for Public Giving. In lieu of flowers donations can be made online at
www.HFPG.org
or sent directly to the Hartford Foundation for Public Giving at 10 Columbus Blvd., 8th Floor, Hartford, CT 06016. A Coaches Award will be created for students that demonstrate exceptional sportsmanship, dedication, character and contribution to their team, characteristics that reflect how Tom led his personal and professional life.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Tucker
DICK PETRUCCI
August 28, 2022
IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE THAT 5 YEARS HAS PASSED SINCE TOM'S PASSING. HE WAS AN AWESOME GUY!
Patrick Violette
February 8, 2022
I was a friend of Tom´s many years ago. We used to play basketball together in the late 80´s at the YMCA in Westbrook. He was a great guy and a very good player. I am so sorry to hear about his passing. My condolences to your family.
RICHARD PETRUCCI
August 28, 2020
ALTHOUGH THE TIME HAS PASSED QUICKLY, I STILL REMAIN PRIVILEGED TO HAVE KNOWN TOM...AND WITH THE UTMOST ADMIRATION! TOM SET SUCH STANDARDS OF HOW TO TREAT EVERYONE YOU MEET. GRATEFULLY, DICK PETRUCCI
Jan Peacock
September 18, 2017
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of my childhood friend and schoolmate (Buckland, Robertson...). My thought and prayers are with you all. With my deepest sympathy,
Janice Rider Peacock
Lynn Thomas
September 15, 2017
To The Tucker Family: I am so sorry to learn of your loss and pray that Tommy is at peace. I met Tommy at Wesleyan and have many fond and warm memories of the times we spent together at there and the years afterwards. He was extremely kind, smart, gracious, witty, generous, and caring. Any time he spoke of his family, he immediately would have a huge smile.
I immensely enjoyed meeting all of you over the years. Your house was always full of fun, deep caring, warm and touching stories. You welcomed me with open arms and I have been very grateful for your kindness and acceptance.
Tommy and I reconnected when he was still at AIG for lunch in NYC. I teared up as he took my heavy briefcase and insisted on carrying it for me. It was a small gesture but spoke volumes about Tommy's kindness which was an innate part of him. He was an exemplary gentleman. I was blessed to have known him.
Many you find comfort to know that though Tommy's life was short, he lived his life large and impacted as many people as ten ordinary people would. Tom was not ordinary in any way; he was extraordinary is all ways.
May his unwavering love for all of you and great memories carry you through these difficult days.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Lynn M. Thomas
John Goot
September 11, 2017
Tom Tucker helped me start my career at AIG in 2009. He was such a great mentor to me. He always went above and beyond to help me in anyway he could. He involved me in special projects and spent extra time to explain things to me. He was extremely bright and I know anyone that has worked with Tom will agree. It was very special for me to receive this kind of attention from somebody with that high level of job. I've always appreciated Tom's advice and will forever cherish the time I was able to spend with Tom.
One quick story...
As a recent college graduate entering the corporate world, I did not have much of a wardrobe. Tom, being the kind person that he is, gave me some old suits of his that he didn't wear anymore. Luckily I am a tall guy like Tom so they fit with little tailoring. I now had a great (very) expensive corporate wardrobe working for a company that, unbeknownst to us, would ultimately move to a business casual environment. Didn't matter, I loved to wear Tom's suits and frankly still do.
I remember one rainy day we took the elevator up to our floor together and I complimented him on his raincoat saying that I needed to get one. I was not hinting toward the notion of him giving me a raincoat, but at that moment the man literally gave me the coat off of his back and said, "take it, John I've got three more of these". Of course I refused but when Tom says "please take the coat, John" I had to take it. That is just the kind of man he was. He was a kind, generous and hard-working man. I can only hope to be half the man that he was.
My condolences go out to the family and friends of Tom. May he rest in peace.
Julia Taylor-Rivera
September 11, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Thomas Tucker.
I was so fortunate to meet and work with Tom at AIG.
His professionalism, dedication and kindness are something I will never forget.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Christina Mason
September 11, 2017
I had the privilege of working with Tome during his time at AIG. I cannot emphasize enough what a kind, gentle soul he was - a true gentlemen.
In this sorrowful time, I would like to extend to you my heartfelt condolences. May our Lord comfort you and your loved ones.
James Porter
September 9, 2017
To the Tucker family: I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and hope that Tommy is in a better place now. He was my best friend at Wesleyan and for a few years right afterwards. I never met anybody who could come close to replacing what Tommy meant to me during that time. I fondly remember my visits to your house and your entire family and I still hold many funny stories he told me during those times near and dear to my heart. A story he told me about a trip back to Michigan still stands as one of the funniest (and cleverest) things I've ever heard anyone tell me. And Mrs. Tucker I just want to add that to this day, I have never met anyone as sweet or as nice or as encouraging as you are, either. The acorn doesn't fall far from the tree. I just can't believe that that acorn and the tree that sprouted from it are now gone. With much love and sympathy, Jim Porter
Miryam Torres
September 8, 2017
It was with great sadness that I learned of Tom's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences. I had the privilege of working with Tom during his career at AIG Operational Risk Management. He was a valuable and important member of the ORM team. My thoughts and prayers are with the Tucker family.
With sincere sympathy,
September 8, 2017
My condolences to the Tucker family for your loss. During this difficult time, may you find comfort in one another and in drawing close to God in prayer.
Jeremiah 29:12,13
Gary Bennett
September 7, 2017
Cindy and Jackie,
I was saddened to learn of Tom's untimely death. I have fond memories of the years we spent working together at Travelers.
My most sincere sympathy to the entire Tucker Family.
May you always cherish your memories of this wonderful man.
Sincerely,
Steve Grabek
September 7, 2017
To the family of Tom Tucker,
Like so many, I was fortunate to know and work for Tom for many years both at Travelers and AIG. No one had a greater impact on my career than Tom.
Through his example of integrity, discipline, decency and hard work he made me and many others better.
Throughout the 35 years I've known Tom there was always one constant. His love of his family was his core and anchor. He spoke of you often and always with a smile and deep sense of pride.
I was never more in awe than witnessing him deal with his illness these past few years. He never uttered a word of anger, always revealed a positive spirit and enjoyed robust sense of humor. Tom was unwaveringly inspirational during his most difficult challenge.
Please know that my family and I hold you close in our prayers. Know too that I am deeply grateful for his selfless example of humanity and for his friendship.
His was a life lived too short but certainly a life lived well.
May you find comfort in knowing that so many people care and were touched by Tom's life.
Steve Grabek
Denise Goodyear
September 7, 2017
I worked with Tom during his career at AIG. He was a great leader and an absolute pleasure to work with. My deepest condolences to the Tucker family.
Lois Levey
September 6, 2017
I worked for Tom for a few years at AIG. He was such a warm and caring person and just a great human being. He will be missed. May all your memories of him stay in your heart forever. My thoughts and prayers go out to all the family. With my deepest sympathy, Lois Levey.
Cathy Lavoie
September 6, 2017
I knew Tom when he was in S.A.M. He was a very caring and kind person.
May your memories of Tom help you through this sad time.
With deepest sympathy,
Cathy Lavoie
Brenda Copithorne
September 5, 2017
To Tom's Family, please accept my heartfelt sympathy on Tom's passing. I didn't work directly with Tom but knew of him from Travelers Insurance. I hope all your fond and loving memories help sustain you during these sad times. God Bless.
Mary Ann Nemnom
September 5, 2017
My deepest sympathy and condolences to Maureen & The Tucker Family. I had the honor and privilege of working for Tom at AIG for several years. He was such a gentleman and a great boss! Tom had a heart of gold! The last few weeks, I had so many of Tom's colleagues here at AIG ask me for his contact information. He was that well liked and very much respected.
Tom, I will miss you and I pray that you will rest in peace.
September 5, 2017
Heartfelt sympathy. Rest in peace. Veronica Baughman
September 4, 2017
I was very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. His obituary reflects an amazing, well-lived life. My condolences to his family and friends at this sad time.
Jim Somers
Simsbury, Connecticut
Brian Neville
September 4, 2017
Cindy, I was saddened to read of our brothers passing. I remember him from his early days at Travelers SAM Dept. He was really a great guy and you could tell that he was going to advance to leadership roles wherever he went. He had a great career with Travelers, AIG and the Hartford.
Dave Woodworth
September 4, 2017
Thoughts and prayers with the family on Tom's passing. I cannot help smiling as I remember him. He taught me many lessons that I apply to this day.
Wishing you peace,
Paulann Marianella
September 4, 2017
Dear Jackie and Jerry and the entire Tucker family- I am so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I know he will be truly missed as a source guidance to you as the "big brother". He was always such a professional and friendly man both during the time I worked with time at Travelers and The Hartford. My prayers are with you all at this time. May he be at peace now.
Paulann
KELLEY
September 4, 2017
MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17
Judi Egan
September 3, 2017
I was so very saddened to read of your dear brother's passing, Jerry and Jackie. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Judi Egan (high school friend)
Kevin Monahan
September 3, 2017
Tom was on loan to us at HSB for a few years after AIG acquired HSB. I worked closely with him on a couple of projects and came to know him as a smart, hard working, and good man. Sorry to hear of his untimely passing after his courageous battle. Prayers of compassion and solace for his family at this time of grief.
Bob McAvoy
September 3, 2017
I have wonderful memories of Tom. He was a great mentor, colleague, and friend. My heart goes out to the immediate family. He will be sorely missed.
September 3, 2017
Tom was such a wonderful man. Kindhearted, generous, great businessman, and sports enthusiast. He especially loved his family. I will surely miss him.
Cathy Momeyer
RICHARD PETRUCCI
September 3, 2017
TO THE TUCKER FAMILY AND TO THOSE WHO KNEW OF TOM IN THEIR LIFE'S JOURNEY, I SEND MY CONDOLENCES AND TO HONOR THE MEMORY OF A VERY 'GRACIOUS AND BEAUTIFUL' MAN. I WAS TOM'S, HIS PRECIOUS and DELIGHTFUL SISTERS JACKIE & JERRY'S TRAVEL AGENT AT MCKENNA TRAVEL DURING THE 80's WHEN TOM WORKED FOR THE TRAVELERS INSURANCE CO. TOM WAS SOMEONE WHOM YOU TOTALLY ADMIRED FOR HIS ABILITY TO MAKE YOU FEEL IMPORTANT AND TOTALLY APPRECIATED. HE WAS A GIANT IN HIS EXEMPLORY PERSONALITY! THIS IS WHY I HONOR HIS MEMORY WITH WORDS THAT I WANT TO ADD AMONG OTHERS WHO ALSO HAVE ADMIRED HIM AS HE CROSSED YOUR PATH IN THE PAST. ETERNAL REST IN PARADISE NOW, TOM!!
Paula Pattavina
September 3, 2017
My heart is with you Jackie and family...so sad to hear this news. I did not know your brother Tom but remember a lot of good stories you shared. I know you all had a special bond. Lucky he had you all in his life. I will be thinking of you and family and praying for peace.
Love you...
Paula xoxoxo
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