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Jay Loren Dunlap

Jay Loren Dunlap was born on November 15, 1930, in Douglas, Nebraska, to Maynard and Helen (Jobes) Dunlap. Jay had an identical twin, Paul, and two older brothers, Don and Alan.

As a young man, Jay attended Douglas Public School and graduated with his class in 1948. He attended Nebraska Wesleyan for two years and then served in the Navy for an additional two years. After concluding his service, he continued his education at the University of Nebraska and earned his law degree, winning the Moot Court competition with his twin brother Paul.

During his time at UNL, Jay met his future wife, Shirley Sullivan, at the Freshman Hop. They were united in marriage at the United Methodist Church in Norfolk, VA, in 1953. Upon graduation in 1956, they eventually moved to Milford, NE, where Jay worked with his brother Alan who had purchased Farmers & Merchants Bank. In 1965, Jay and his brother Alan had the opportunity to buy Union Bank and Trust. Jay worked at Union Bank and Trust for 50 years, served as CEO for 20 years and maintained an office there until the age of 93. Jay and Shirley had four children, Suzie, Debbie, Angie, and Mike. Jay was a man that lived his values of Faith, Family, Friends, Work, and he was an example to all of us.

Jay is survived by his wife Shirley; his three children, Debbie (Steve), Angie, Mike (Terri); grandchildren: Amber, Dan (Molly), Scott (Heidi), Alicia (Anton), Jason (Kayla), Matthew (Maggie), Jacob (Emily), Hunter and his girlfriend Franzi; great grandchildren: Clayton, Jaxton, Zoey Bartels, Kyler Bartels, Oliver, Penelope, and Mateo Diy, Elijah and Emilia Muhleisen, Izzy and James Dunlap.

He was preceded in death by his parents, three brothers, his daughter Suzie, and his son-in-law Dan Muhleisen.

There will be a Private Family Burial at the Blue Mound Cemetery, Milford, Nebraska.

Visitation: Wednesday, January 29, 2025, 1:00 p.m. at the Milford United Methodist Church followed by a Celebration of Life service at 2:00 p.m.

Memorials are designated to the Milford United Methodist Church (610 2nd St., Milford, NE, 68405), Little Leaps of Faith Daycare (610 2nd St., Milford, NE 68405), Center for People (3901 N. 27th St. Lincoln, NE 68521)

Lauber Funeral and Cremation Services - Milford

Published by Lincoln Journal Star on Jan. 28, 2025.

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