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John Steinauer Obituary

John Joseph Steinauer

June 27, 1965 – July 12, 2024

John Joseph Steinauer, age 59, passed away at his home in Rural Retreat, VA, on July 12, 2024.

John was born and raised in Lincoln, NE, where he attended Lincoln Southeast High School. After obtaining his degree in Anthropology from University of Nebraska-Lincoln, he would later join the United States Marine Corps (USMC) and achieve the rank of Captain. While in the USMC, he would earn his master's degree in Urban Planning from UNL. He would begin his career in chemical and emergency response planning and eventually move to North Carolina where he spent the majority of his professional career at IEM.

John is survived by his three children, Elizabeth, Grace, and Thomas; his ex-wife, Sun Hui Shin; his mom, Lou Ann Abele; his stepfather, Floyd Abele; and his siblings, Dorothy, Annette, Katy, Kevin, and Patty. He is preceded in death by his father, Leonard Steinauer; and his infant sister, Francis Ann Steinauer.

John Steinauer was loved by many. He was a kind, gentle, well-rounded man with a large heart. From lending an ear, giving advice, financial aid, or assisting with any challenging fixes, he was always willing to help those in need. John lived life with a positive mindset and believed that with a solid plan and putting one foot in front of the other, there wasn't a problem that couldn't be solved. He was very passionate about his job and accomplishments, but most of all, his children.

Through facing major illnesses, difficulties, and even catalyzing the creation of an adoption law in Nebraska, the evidence for his love was ever present. His kids never looked like him and he never cared. To him, it didn't matter where they came from, his children were his pride and joy. As they grew up, he would never miss the chance to rave about their lives and achievements.

Whether he was talking about his family, his work, or the numerous topics he was knowledgeable about, John hoped to inspire and celebrate life through word and action.

Published by Lincoln Journal Star on Jul. 28, 2024.

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Pramod Dwivedi

August 5, 2024

Dear Lou Ann:

I am deeply saddened to hear the tragic passing of John, with whom I had worked at Lincoln-Lancaster County Health Department. I send you all my strength and love to endure this tragedy.

Robbie Wolz

August 1, 2024

Lou Ann,

I'm so sorry for your loss.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosie Cuka

July 29, 2024

My condolences to his family and friends. Have a fondness for any Steinauer and anyone from the village. Blessings to all.
Rosie Gottula Cuka

Lawrence D. Obrist

July 29, 2024

I talked to him after the mass at his dad's funeral. I had
been recovering from a stroke and pneumonia. He
commented on how poorly I looked and said that maybe I
should not have come!! It then hit me I was sicker
than I realized!!==Contacted him by phone during his
early jobs post-military in NE and IA.==I am sure he did
not imagine given his officer status & MOS, he might
have been putting his life at risk in Iraq.==Condolences to Lu Ann
and his children who did not expect his sudden loss to
the Lord's company. Mary the Good Lord Bless and be
kind to him.

Mary Jo Campbell

July 29, 2024

Lou Ann sorry for your loss! Miss our banquets! Mary Jo Obrist Campbell

Linda (Foust) Roe

July 28, 2024

It has taken a good part of the day to process the news. I send warm wishes to all of his family. John and I were in Southeast band and I count myself lucky to have been part of his circle of friends. We lost track of each other after UNL but I have fond memories of time spent in his company.

Mary Geisler

July 28, 2024

Lou Ann and family, I am so sorry. I did not know your son, but you raised him to be a wonderful son. My sympathy.

Renee

July 28, 2024

So Sorry for you Loss

Mary Jo Linebaugh

July 28, 2024

Lou Ann, I just saw this obituary. I had no idea and I am very sorry for your loss. Many prayers for you and the whole family and especially for your dear son John. Mary Jo

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