Penelope Mae Kirk
April 12, 1942 – October 31, 2023
Penelope Mae Kirk was born on her grandparents' farm close to Hampton Nebraska on April 12, 1942. Her family soon moved to Kearney, NE, where she attended a one room public school. She developed a lifelong love of reading during her time in school in Kearney, NE. The Kirk family moved to Lincoln Nebraska in 1952 where Pennie completed high school, graduating a year early. She attributed her early graduation to her success with reading. She attended Nebraska Wesleyan University in Lincoln, graduating with an undergraduate degree in Early Childhood Education. This is also where she met her first husband, Don Kelly. While Don pursued a medical degree and met his military obligation as a physician in Vietnam, Pennie completed her pilot's license and completed a master's degree in childhood education.
Pennie moved with Don to Houston, Boston, and San Francisco. She taught kindergarten in Houston and Concord, MA. While in Massachusetts, Pennie developed the kindergarten curriculum for the State of Massachusetts. During this time, she and Don also traveled throughout Europe on a camping adventure. She said many times that hotel rooms were better than camping. Her preferred camp site became Four Seasons Hotel rooms. The couple moved to Rapid City in the early 1970s. During the 1970s, Pennie worked for Tom Daschel setting up volunteer call centers in Sioux Falls for the Congressman's early campaigns. She was also active in the Presidential Campaign of 1976 hosting Rosalynn Carter as a guest in their home during a campaign visit to Rapid City, SD. Pennie made sure that the plaque identifying her house as a location of a First Lady visit stayed with the house.
In the last 70s, Pennie joined the Rapid City Planning Commission. She was the first woman to be a member of the Commission and she eventually became chairperson. During this time, she and Don separated, and Pennie met Knute Knudson who became her husband several years later. Pennie also completed two master's degrees in the late 70s and early 80s. She also had enough graduate hours for her PhD although she did not pursue a dissertation. In 1982 she managed the legislative campaigns for Knute and even registered as a Republican to vote for him in the Primary elections. She changed her registration very quickly after the primary election. Knute and Pennie moved to Washington D.C. in the late 80s when Knute joined the administration of President George H.W. Bush. They lived on Capitol Hill in a traditional row house a few blocks from the Capitol. Pennie would frequently head to the Capitol to watch interesting Congressional debates. She also attended several State of the Union addresses. While in Washington, she took courses in Baseball, President Jefferson, and Mystery Book writers. Famous politicians, baseball managers and owners, and writers were often the lecturers for the courses. They also were privileged to use the Presidential Box at the Kennedy Center for numerous concerts. The Independence Day fireworks on the mall afforded the opportunity for numerous nieces, nephews, and friends to visit. Pennie developed a regular route through the many museums of the Smithsonian System for all the relatives and friends to enjoy. Young nephews and nieces enjoyed the dinosaur bones, Hope Diamond, and American History. During their time in Washington, Pennie and Knute traveled to Paris, Tunisia, Mexico City, and many other Latin American and European locations. They also visited many of the cultural and historic locations on the East Coast. They were active in the Washington Symphony and Civil War Battlefield preservation. Pennie and Knute were privileged to represent the United States at World Heritage Conferences in Paris, Tunisia, Mexico City, and Santa Fe, NM during their time in Washington.
In 1992, Pennie and Knute moved back to Rapid City, SD when Knute joined a small gaming company with exclusive rights for equipment sales to Tribal Governments throughout the United States. While at Hart Ranch South of Rapid City, they developed a very close relationship with the Buntrock and Cowling families. Kelly and Sam Buntrock became very close to Pennie. In more recent years Taylor Cowling and Molly Cowling became close to Pennie Both Sam Buntrock and his father Kevin made visits to Reno during Pennie's final few weeks. During all these years, Pennie and Knute would spend Thanksgivings and Christmas with the Buntrock family. They would also travel to Columbia, MO to spend Thanksgivings with Pennie's sister, Pam, and her husband Willie. Pam's family would join for a large family gathering sometimes numbering 30 people. International Game Technology, Inc. purchased Sodak Gaming in the late 90s. IGT moved Pennie and Knute to Reno. While in Reno for 22 years, Pennie was active with the Reno Philharmonic, Reno Chamber Orchestra, The Eddy House, and the Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd. At Good Shepherd, Pennie was a member of the Choir, a member of the HR Committee, and organized Tables of Grace. Pennie and Knute also traveled extensively visiting London multiple times, Amsterdam, all the Scandinavian countries several times, and Poland, Austria, Germany, Switzerland, and Belgium. While in Reno, Pennie developed a love of Giant's baseball. She and Knute traveled many times to San Francisco for games and eventually bought a Winter House in Scottsdale that enable them to enjoy Giants Spring Training. She loved being in Arizona for several months a year. And she loved Bruce Boshy and Buster Posey. Throughout her life, she completed the NY Times and the LA Times Crossword puzzles every morning. As one of her close friends said, "Pennie knew all the words."
She is survived by her husband, Knute, with whom she shared life for 44 years and with whom she shared marriage for 27 years. She is also survived by her sister, Pam of Columbia, MO; her Aunt, Rachel Lee from Glen Carbon IL; her cousin, Kathy Klein from Omaha, NE; and numerous nephews and nieces. She was preceded in death by parents, Horace Van Kirk; her mother, Luretta Mae Kirk; her brothers: Tom Kirk, Tim Kirk and Kenneth Kirk. A celebration of her life is planned for after the holidays on January 13th "at the Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd."
Denise Baum
January 14, 2024
I met Pennie through a mutual neighborhood friend while my family and I lived in Reno. Pennie and I became fast friends and her name was frequently brought up fondly in our household. She was so kind and encouraging to our children, who both remember her several years and a move later. I fondly remember going to an art museum visit with her and my daughter. We had a lively conversation and she truly made my daughter feel special. Because of that, she also made me feel special. She invited me to her knitting group, even though I couldn't knit my way out of a paper bag. She shared her time, her friends, her home and her heart with us. I am grateful to have known her. My condolences to everyone who loved Pennie, especially Knute. With love, Denise Baum and family.
Ann Kelley
January 13, 2024
I loved Pennie! she was a wonderful sister in law! Always great company, and she has such a wonderful sense of humor! I will miss her! Ann Kelley
Marci Christensen Burdick
January 12, 2024
Knute-
My deepest condolences in the loss of your dear Pennie. I will always remember (with a smile) our times together in Rapid City where she was always the "hostess with the mostest!". She was a true light in this world to all who crossed her path.
Daryln Trook Hansen
January 12, 2024
Sincerest condolences to all of Penny's family. Had wanted to pay my respects at service on the 13th( the weather is not permitting). Penny's family were like extended family to me when growing up in Lincoln, NE. Pam, I was hoping to stop by and say hi.. my thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs, Daryln Trook Hansen
Ann D. Kelley
November 21, 2023
Pennie was my favorite sister-in0law!
She was a joy to be with!
Ann Kelley
Lee and Joy Wyman
November 21, 2023
Knute, Joy and I are mystified and heartbroken to learn of Pennie's death. May you have all the support you need during this difficult time.
All our love, Lee and Joy
Don Kelley
November 19, 2023
Pennie was an outstanding, intelligent, and very personable human being, who had a great impact on all who knew her.
Carleton Flynn
November 19, 2023
Penny, as she was known in high school, always had a smile on her face as she greeted her many friends in the hall ways of Lincoln High. You did very well after leaving Lincoln High . my condolences from all your classmates

Carey Kelley Roush
November 19, 2023
What a sad jolt! She was my favorite Aunt! Of course I was young and can't remember much, but after reading her obituary, I understand why, what with her background in child development, which I also have...subconscious influence! Plus her personality, all bubbles and smiles ! I remember the way she pushed her glasses up on her head, holding back her hair. I take after her here. I really missed her when she and Uncle Don split up! Wish I had kept in better touch, even though she was so busy. I will miss her even more now knowing I can never talk to her again! My condolences to all... I wish I could find the pictures of her on my brand new phone...
Art Carter
November 18, 2023
Knute,
Voice from the past. A Rapid City friend forwarded Penelope's Obituary to me. Condolences. She sounds like an outstanding and interesting person and the two of you must have had a vibrant and fulfilling life together. Sorry for your loss. Regards.
Christine Mumm
November 15, 2023
So sorry to hear about your loss, Knute. God bless.
Jacqualyn Fuller
November 14, 2023
Pennie was a delightful woman! I got to know her through my friend Lennie a long time ago. She rented our old cabin in Spearfish Canyon many years ago. Time with her was always special.
Eileen Dixon Fleishacker
November 12, 2023
Knute, I was so saddened to hear of Pennie's passing. She was one of a kind. May the many years of good memories be of comfort.
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