Kathryn S. Bialecki

EAST DUNDEE, ILL. - Kathryn S. Bialecki, 58, passed away quietly in her sleep on Monday, June 1, 2009, to be with her Savior. Kathy was born in Racine on April 5, 1951, to Daniel and Dorothy (nee: Kobal) Murphy. Kathy was the beloved spouse of Dominic Bialecki, her husband of 38 years and high school sweetheart. Kathy and Dominic have resided in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago, Ill. for the last 34 years, the past 14 being in East Dundee, Ill. Kathy's passion was for marriage. Dominic and Kathy were Marriage Mentors to engaged couples at Willowcreek Community Church in South Barrington, Ill. Kathy was tenacious in challenging couples to put God on the throne of their marriages. Kathy's childhood dream was to become a nurse. Kathy had been a Nurse for over 40 years, starting out as an LPN (Licensed Practical Nurse) in Racine. She continued her education in Illinois, achieving her Registered Nurse Degree plus taking classes in a few specialty areas. Over the years, Kathy had worked for St. Alexius, Hoffman Estates, and her last position being at the Behavioral Health Hospital at St. Alexius. Kathy had also worked at Northwest Community Hospital in Arlington Heights, Ill. and St. Joseph's in Elgin, Ill. Kathy had worked at a few doctor's offices plus as a Hospice Nurse for Vitas Hospice and Seasons Hospice. Kathy loved serving her patients and their families. She valued her co-workers and was always ready to assist or teach or take on any task. Kathy had the gift of encouragement. When you spent time with Kathy, you felt treasured, listened to, and valued. You left Kathy's presence walking on air. Kathy had a zest for life and an infectious laugh, often imitated by her son, Lucas and daughter, Lisa. Kathy was also a "fashionista." You would always catch her with matching reading glasses, shoes, and purse. Her outfits would bring a smile to everyone she met. Kathy enjoyed nightly candlelit dinners and dancing. Kathy and Dominic enjoyed plays and had memberships at the Lincolnshire Marriott in Lincolnshire, Ill. for over 25 years and also the Next Theater in Evanston, Ill. for over 25 years. Kathy also loved to cook and bake for family and friends. Every holiday was special because of the love Kathy put into her cooking and baking. The best for last. Kathy loved being a wife, super mother, and dynamic grandmother. Lucas and Lisa are the terrific parents they are because of the agape love and example of parenting they received. Kathy was a praying mom and grandma and continued to be until she went "Home." Kathy was an amazing grandma ('Ya Ya' as she was called). She was a down-on-the- floor, love-you-up, kiss- you-up, wipe-your-nose- up, read the same story 25 times and not mind a bit. Kathy's kitchen was open for any request by her five precious grandchildren, Taylor, 16, London, 3-1/2, Leo, 3, Phoebe, 10 months, and Violet, 6 months. Kathy is survived by her best friend and husband, Dominic; daughter, Lisa (Barry) Young and their children, London, Violet, and Taylor Young; son, Lucas (Ellen) Bialecki of MaCungie, Pa. and their children, Leo and Phoebe; brothers, Thomas and Patrick Murphy, both of Clintonville; sister-in- law, Barb Bialecki of Racine; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Dave (Sherri) Bialecki of Sturtevant; nieces and nephews; plus great- nieces and great-neph- ews. Kathy was preceded in death by her parents, Daniel and Dorothy Murphy. A Celebration of Life and Remembrance will be held at Willowcreek Community Church in the Chapel on Sunday, June 7, 2009, at 4 p.m. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations are suggested to the Marriage Ministry at Willowcreek Community Church, 67 East Algonquin Road, South Barrington, Ill. 60010.