BIDDEFORD - It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our husband, father, brother, grandfather and uncle, Richard P. (Moose) Parenteau.
Dick was born in Biddeford on April 23, 1944 to Marcel P And Rose A.(Chenard) Parenteau. He passed away peacefully in his sleep Sunday, Dec. 23, after a a long period of declining health.
Dick attended St. Andre's Grammar School and was a 1961 graduate of St. Louis High School. He attended the Dale Institute in Minneapolis where he earned a certificate in Computer Sciences. He returned to Biddeford and accepted a position as a Computer Operator in the Payroll Department of the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard.
In 1966, Dick volunteered for service in the U.S. Army and after completing Basic Training at Fort Dix, New Jersey was assigned to Germany with the 4th Armored Division during the Viet Nam War. He achieved the rank of Spec 4 and completed his tour of duty in April of 1968.
Upon his discharge Dick returned to his position at PNSY and remained there in various supervisory positions until his retirement from SUBMEPP in August 2000 after 38 years of service.
In 1970, Dick met the love of his life Margaret Ann (Grette) Turner of South Portland. After one year of courtship Dick and Grette were married in Biddeford on Nov. 6, 1971. They celebrated their 47th anniversary in November of this year.
During their sons' attendance at St. Andre's School he served as President of the PFTA for 11 years. He successfully raised money during his tenure for the purchase of equipment and projects needed for the school. Dick was also a devoted member of the "chain gang" for the Biddeford High School football team for 25-plus years. He reluctantly retired due to illness, but remained a fan and supporter of the entire Tiger sports program.
Some of Dick's most treasured memories were spending summer afternoons playing cribbage in his screen house and watching his family play in the pool. Dick loved hosting Thanksgiving where he made many memories with and for the Turner clan. Seats and tables were added as the family grew until the house was full and every room was a dining room!
He and Grette loved to travel and his favorite destination was Ireland where so enjoyed visiting the local pubs getting to know the Irish people and their traditions. Dick became a fan of all things Irish particularly their music and Guinness!
Moose never met a stranger, every errand run was a social event for him. Trips to the grocery store, the bank and the recycling station took twice as long because he always met an old friend or made a new one.
Christmas brought so much excitement, it was by far his favorite holiday. Dick loved giving, his knack for getting the perfect gift, his joy of giving and being with his family was unsurpassed. This year we honored his love of the holiday by gathering together as a family to laugh and cry, play a little cribbage, eat pork pie and of course open gifts .He was with us in spirit and in the faces of his sons and grandchildren. Dick was at his happiest when surrounded by people, he truly enjoyed life. We will miss him terribly.
He was predeceased by his parents, and his brother-in-law, Peter J. Turner.
He is survived by his wife Margaret (Grette), his son Christopher R. and his wife Christine of South Portland; and his son Michael and his wife Dawn of Gorham. He also leaves his sister JoAnn M. Parenteau of Biddeford and Winter Haven, Florida. He adored and treasured his four grandchildren, Elizabeth, Sam, Erin and Jackie. Dick will also be missed by his sister-in-law Ellen L, Turner RSM of Portland; and his eight nephews and two nieces, all of Maine.
Visiting Hours will 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, Dec. 27, 2018 at Hope Memorial Chapel, 480 Elm St., Biddeford, ME 04005. A celebration of life will be held on Friday, Dec. 28 at 10 a.m. in the Hope Chapel.
To share condolences online, please visit www.HopeMemorial.com.
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to the American Heart Association, American Kidney Foundation or the American Diabetes Association. Dick suffered complications from all these terrible diseases.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Ray Lambert
December 31, 2018
Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences for your loss. Moose was one of a kind, a truly nice guy who I had the pleasure of working with for many years at SUBMEPP. He was quite the character and never ceased to brighten the day. I can't help but smile when thinking of some of the pranks we pulled on each other or those who may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time. He was just fun to be around!
December 29, 2018
I am so very sorry for your loss. May the God who binds up the broken hearted, and comforts all who mourn, strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1,2.
Denis Litalien
December 28, 2018
My condolences. Moose was a lot of fun to spend time with at the football games when we did the chains together. He has been missed but we have a lot of great memories!
Linda Freeman
December 28, 2018
Grette, I am so sorry to hear of Dick's passing. I will always remember the pool parties you hosted at your house, and how welcome "Moose" made my children feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. A former coworker, Linda
Bruce & Mary Chapman
December 28, 2018
Chris, Christine & family, we are so very sorry for your loss. We send our heart felt condolences to you all. Treaure your wonderful memories. Please let us know if you need anything.
Brian & Wanda Ewings
December 27, 2018
Chris
Sorry to hear about your Dad. Cherish the memories and the cribbage games you have shared with him.
We are here if you need anything.
Rob Neill
December 26, 2018
Chris, Christine, and family. Very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ben Edgerly
December 26, 2018
Chris, Sorry for your loss.
Kelly Reuillard
December 26, 2018
Grette - I was so sorry to learn of Dick passing away. I wish you and your family the best during this very difficult time. Love, Kelly
Debra Hamel
December 26, 2018
So sorry to learn of Dick's passing. As a co-worker of Moose, he always brought humor to the workforce. Thoughts and prayers to his family.
Jeri Greenwell
December 26, 2018
Grette -- my thoughts and prayers are with you during this painful time. Dick was a very special, kind hearted man! May he and Jerry rest in peace.
RK
December 26, 2018
Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family for many more years to come. Isaiah 61:1, 2
December 25, 2018
Thank you for your service.
December 25, 2018
So sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Parenteau. May you find comfort in the love of family and friends.
John 11:24, 25
Cheryl y Hayes
December 25, 2018
Grette u know how we feel we spoke last night Charlie and I are here for you .So sorry he will be missed by us so very much love you Cheryl
December 25, 2018
Sorry to hear of Richard's passing, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mr. & Mrs. Marc Parenteau
December 25, 2018
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the death of your dear love one may God give you strength to endure this most difficult time please read John 6:40
T C
December 25, 2018
My sincerest sympathies to the Parenteau family for the loss of Richard. May God's Word strengthen you during this time of mourning. (Isa. 41:10,13)
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