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Heather Bates Obituary

Was taken from the world too soon on Sat., Nov. 12, 2005, age 14 years. Special daughter of Don Bates and Carole Miller. Beloved sister of Troy Bates, Angel Bates and Danny Miller. Loving niece of Joe Miller. Precious granddaughter of Jim Moczynski, Pauline Miller, Edwin G. Bates and Marie Miller. Also loved and missed by many, many friends and relatives.

There will be a time of gathering on Sat., Nov. 19, 1PM-4PM at OAK CREEK COMMUNITY CENTER, 8580 S. Howell Ave., Oak Creek. Memorial Service 4PM.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Nov. 16, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Heather Bates

Not sure what to say?





J

December 12, 2005

I miss you so much.

Find peace

Jesse Garcia

December 8, 2005

Lord God, you gave us Heather for so short a time. Her life had so much promise. Her future was before her. Her life has passed too quickly. By the death and resurrection of your Son we are redeemed. Make Heather worthy to share the joys of paradise. Grant her full life in Christ, and may she stand with all the angels and saints before your throne for all eternity. Amen.

brittany h

November 26, 2005

Heather, i cant sleep knowing i wont be talking to you the next day. i cant smile not knowing if your ok. i feel like a piece of me is missing. i just miss you soo much. R.I.P. baby girl i love you sis

Lindsey Kraning

November 19, 2005

I wrote this for Heather.



Agoodbye isn't one at all, If it was never said.

Every smile only counts,

If you can smile again.

The stars will never shine,

If we can't see them in your eyes,

And a photograph's not worthless,

If it keeps your hopes alive.

A memory is as good as gold,

As long as you were there,

And you'd know our time was worth it,

If you saw how much we cared.

The wind won't blow,

The world will cry,

Our heart's will sing,

As the flowers die.

10 million tears will form this ocean,

Since your heart was always near,

But the world's just not as beautiful,

Knowing you arn't here.



And since this is so sad, i thought I'd throw in a happy memory. When me and Heather were at a salvation army concert, she was like

"Lindsey, will i always be in yar heart?"

and i was like

"yes Heather, yes you wil"

she was like "wait, always?"

i said "yeah....uh"

then she was like

"Well i don't have to pay rent do I?"

Zach

November 19, 2005

I am very sorry about your loss. I met Heather in summer school. We became good friends after that! she will be greatly missed! R.I.P Heather Bates

Zach

Harold

November 19, 2005

My deepest sympathy on your loss.

Jules

November 19, 2005

My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of Heather.

You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

regina werth

November 18, 2005

we will miss heather very much she was a very sweet girl we enjoyed her when she came over to talk to all of us so please remember if their anything we can do to help you please let us know

the werth family

racine wis

Ashley & Karina

November 18, 2005

We are SO sorry about your loss, Heather was a great friend of ours. We met in Summer School, we loved her sense of humor and she was always glowing! We will miss her dearly! xOox Heather We <<33 you! R.I.P always- ashley & karina

Julie Moyer

November 18, 2005

I can not say how sorry I am to hear about Heather. Just like a lot of others are saying you could always count on Heather to put a smile on your face. God knows shes made me laugh a lot...

liz sasaki

November 18, 2005

My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Heather.

May God be with you all at this sad & difficult time.



Rest in peace Heather.

Jessie Wilkum

November 18, 2005

Heather was a great friend, She always made me smile and laugh...I will miss her soo much and so will many others.

RIP Heather

"MisinBoltz"

November 17, 2005

We will miss you HeatherB. you will remain known for the good times we talked about, all the awesome times we chatted in MP, you should be cherished in heaven, because you were treasured here on earth

Linda St. Cyr

November 17, 2005

Once again I have to say I am so sorry for your loss. We have so much in common. My heart goes out to all of you. Know that Heather IS with you and always will be. May God Bless you. Rest In Peace Heather...

Dick & Audrey Yerkey

November 17, 2005

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies to you Don. Heather was a very special girl and left a deep impression on our hearts. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her. Our prayers go out to you and to Jim. May Heather be resting in the arms of God and know how much we all loved her.

Jessica McC.

November 17, 2005

we'll miss you so much heather you were a great friend every one loved you so much you would make friends with every one and every thing your very loved here hope to see you again soon R.I.P Heather Bates <3

Joanne

November 17, 2005

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your daughter. I did not know Heather however, my daughters knew her through school. Your family is in the thoughts of my family at this difficult time.

Nicholas, Alyssa, & Carrie Forrest with Heather Bates 2004. We will miss you greatly Heather. I loved you as I love my own daughters.You will be in our hearts untill we meet again. We love you Heather! "BOOMBASTA!"

November 17, 2005

Lauri

November 17, 2005

Heather was a wonderful young lady with an awesome personality. Tho her and I never met face to face, we had a very good friendship over the internet ~ and I was very lucky to know her. She will be missed, but never forgotten .. by *so* many people.



We love you Heather .. Watch over us!



*Lauri

Tasha Myers

November 16, 2005

I'm so sorry, Heather was one of my close friends, we hung out alot, she was a amazing girl, she had a awesome sense of humor, and she was beautiful. She left this world to early, and i hope she knows that all of her friends and family love her and miss her!!!

Stephanie Stanford

November 16, 2005

I'm very sorry for all those who knew and loved Heather. She was a great person and will be missed very dearly. Even though we weren't in any classes we chated in the halls. She had a great personality and was always happy and making others smile. RIP Heather.

Love ya girl!

Stephanie

Alexes Reinhard

November 16, 2005

Hi Carol well you probily remember me when I always would come over to your house in Cudahy to see if heather was home.We were really close friends and the day I herd about Heather I started to cry a lot because I was really was close with her and all of you.It just broke my heart when I herd everything that happend I was so upset. I know she is in a good place and will always be safe and will always look down at all of us who care so much for her and she will always be right next to you twenty four seven and you will always know that. SO I hope that she will Rest IN Peace and I know that she will. MUCH LOVE Alexes XOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Kim Reinhard

November 16, 2005

OMG Carol...I am so very sorry for your loss! Tom, Me ,Ashley, Andrew & Most importantly Alexes ( she is so upset...we just saw Heather at our new house about a month ago)...My Kids and Heather were always friends in cudahy and we were neighbors...God ...I dont know what more to say except...Heather Rest In Peace...You will be missed by many

~Kim~

James E.

November 16, 2005

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter. I didn't get to know her for very long, but for the week(s) I did, I was blessed. I wish you all the best to get over your loss.

Alayna Benoit

November 16, 2005

Hi, i was friends with Heather, really close friends with her. And i want the family to know that i am praying for you.

Love Always,

Alayna

Casey Mans

November 16, 2005

Hey heathers mom and dad,

I'm sorry for ur loss. she really was a great kid who know how to put smiles on our faces. i remember my home was like a second home to her. she will be missed.

Linda St. Cyr

November 16, 2005

My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of Heather. May God be with you ALL for the tragedy that has happened to you.

Jeannette Rabell The Boys

November 16, 2005

Carol & Pauline just wanted to wish you our deepest sympathy.On your loss. Our prayers and thoughts will always be with you.There isn't any words to express how we fell. May god be with you and all your family. GOD BLESS YOU !!!

stephanie campbell

November 16, 2005

I'm srry for your loss of heather.Heather had so many friends at OCHS.I was one of heathers best friends.We had so much fun hanging out during school and talking to each other.Alot of us wish that she was here.But shes in a safe place now.May heather rest in peace now.I WILL NEVER FORGET HEATHER. She was very nice to me. Heather would always cheer me up when i needed it. Heather was known throughout the whole school. She knew everybody at OCHS.

i miss heather!!



<3 R.I.P HEATHER BATES <3



stephanie

The Davis Family

November 16, 2005

While we never met, our children were classmates at OCHS. I just want to express our deepest sympathies and are so saddened by the loss of your daughter. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Pauline MIller

November 16, 2005

To all of the people who have written in Thank you so much for all the many thoughts and prayers for my Beautiful Granddaughter she was one of a kind! For those who knew her for a short time or a long time there was always something about her you can never forget. To me it was her Big Smile and her funny expressions!!! She was loved by so many and will be missed by many many more !!!! Thank you again for all of the thoughts and feeling that you can share with us at this time it really means alot to us to hear from you please keep them coming Love to all of you!!! Grandma Pauline (One of Heather's Grandma's)

Carole Miller

November 16, 2005

I can't thank you all enough for your kind words about my daughter..I greatly appreciate this guest book. For me I don't think of her as gone...just out visitin and being her silly self.

I remember you dawn..I sure miss talking to you. This guest book is a great idea and I am glad it is here.

Again thank you all so very much...She means alot to everyone and she has many many hearts to be in.

Paul Kenwood

November 16, 2005

Mr. Bates

My deepest sympathies in the loss of Heather. She had many special qualities that will be missed. You and your family are in my prayers.

Paul Kenwood

West Middle School

EVA GERARDO

November 16, 2005

CAROLE AND FAMILY,

WORDS CAN NOT EXPRESS HOW VERY SORRY MY CHILDREN AND I ARE FOR YOUR LOSS....

MAY GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU AND HELP YOU THROUGH THIS TRAGIC TIME.

MUCH LOVE,

Stefanee Forrest

November 16, 2005

You were like a daughter to me. I will never forget your smile and your laugh. We had so much fun on all our adventures, Great America, Halloween, fishing trips, Birthday parties. You always made everyone laugh with your great sense of humor. You were my daughters best friend. You helped her discover who she is. From her music to her black nail polish. You carved a place in all our hearts and we will greatly miss you. We love you Heather.

Alyssa Forrest

November 16, 2005

I miss you. I love you. I'll see you in heaven.

Carrie Forrest

November 16, 2005

I'll miss you so much Heather. We had great times together. You were my best friend. No one will ever replace you. I love you.

Roy, Beckie, & Steve Lovelady

November 16, 2005

Just a note to let the family know that our prayers are with you all and you are in our thoughts daily.

Carole, keep looking up for God is the only answer and give Danny a big hug for Steve.

Love Always, The Loveladys

Dawn McGlothin

November 16, 2005

Carole, I don't know if you remember me, but we went to high school together. I just wanted to send you my deepest sympathies for your loss.

Praying for you,

Dawn

John Hill

November 16, 2005

Dear Carole and Pauline,



I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.

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