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Iris Amend Obituary

Amend, Iris May Born to Eternal Life November 12, 2007, amidst the comfort of her loving family. She leaves behind her children, Iris Ann (Gregory) Weiler, Kenneth (Maureen), Constance (Joseph) Januzzi, Deborah (William) Volm and Jennifer Amend Szerenyi, and twenty-two grandchildren and twenty-three great-grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her husband and only love Kenneth George Amend, her daughter Kathleen May, her parents, and her beloved cats and dogs. Words fail to describe the woman that Iris was and what she meant to her family and friends. She was born in Wyocena, WI on June 3, 1917. She married her true love Ken and later settled to raise her family in Milwaukee. Widowed at a very young age, Iris championed to be the model of strength and wisdom. She was a coveted fun loving mother and a gentle and adored grandmother. Great-grandmother-hood brought her profound joy, as it did for those who called her "MiMi" and "GiGi". In her seventies, she became a published poet. Her life was enriched by the arts, poetry, and play reading. Iris was deeply interested in justice and social outreach. She was an advocate for the needy and facilitated "Meat loaf Monday" at a local community center for decades. She was active at LaFarge, enjoying cards and senior soccer. She died as she lived, with grace and compassion and in the bosom of what she held most dear. Committal will take place Saturday, November 17 at Wyocena Cemetery in Wyocena, WI, at 11:00 AM. Funeral Service and visitation will take place at 4:00 PM Friday, November 16, followed by a 7:00 PM service, at: CHURCH AND CHAPEL Ritter-Larsen Bros. 1875 N. Calhoun Rd. 262-827-0659 obits-condolences-directions www.churchandchapel.com

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Nov. 14 to Nov. 15, 2007.

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Ken and Shirley Boltz

November 18, 2007

Iris,Greg and Family
May each of you find Peace, Comfort and some understanding in the passing of Iris. Our prayers are with each of you and hope we can visit one another very soon. Words cannot express how sorry I am not being able to be with any of you at a time you needed an extra "hug". My heart is breaking that I couldn't be there for any of you. May God Bless and comfort each of you...

Thomas Kidder

November 16, 2007

Dear Ken and Iris,
So sorry to hear of your dear mother's death. Sorry I could not make it to the visitation. My prayers are with you at this time.
Tom Kidder

Lori Sajkowski

November 16, 2007

Dear Bill, Debbie & Tag,

Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.

Pat Herrmann
Lori Sajkowski

Dave Rosen

November 15, 2007

Dear Jenny and family,

We are in sorrow for the loss of your mother.
What a wonderful experience it has been for us just to know her for a little bit of time.
Iris is a beautiful flower and such a perfect name for a beautiful lady.
Our sympathy goes to you and all your loved ones.
Dave and Carol Rosen

Patty and John Sullivan

November 15, 2007

Dear Iris, Greg and Family,
We had the pleasure of meeting your Mother only twice. Once at your wedding and then again last year, but I fondly remember the times we spent with her. How wonderful for her to be so loved and have such a fulfilling life. Know that we are thinking of you at this sad time.

Carol Saul

November 15, 2007

Dear Ken & Maureen,
I'm so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful woman. I didn't know Iris well, but the few times I met her with Tom were a joy. Please accept my sincere sympathies.
love...Carol

Denise Godejohn

November 14, 2007

Dear Connie,
I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Remember I love you dear friend.
Denise Godejohn

tracie grapsy

November 14, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I had the pleasure of meeting your mom several times and her grace and humor always touched my heart. Deb...take care of yourself. I'm sending a hug your way. Michael asked that I pass on his condolances as well. With love, Tracie and Michael

Judi Austin

November 14, 2007

Dear Iris and Libby,

During this past year I have come to know you both as well as your children, sisters, their children and beyond. The warmth and humanity that Sage and I have seen, as well as experienced first hand, is a legacy that has been carried throughout the generations. We are both thinking of you and yours during this difficult time. We wish you the strength that family brings.

Lots of love,
Sage and Judi Austin

Jennifer Crewz (nee Peacock)

November 14, 2007

I wish to offer my sincerest condolences to the family. Mrs. Amend was always a gracious and superb neighbor to my parents (the Peacocks), and always had a special treat for my daughter on Halloween. I wish you all the best in this difficult time - your mother will be truly missed.

Jennifer Joffrion

November 14, 2007

Connie and family- My deepest sympathy to you in your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers here at Aegis!

Suzanne Lovinus

November 14, 2007

Dear Family of Iris,
I am saddened at the news of the death of my dear friend Iris. We became quite close over the past couple of years. Iris is such an inspiration and an example of a woman who lived life to the fullest. Those who knew her only benefitted from her gentle smile, grace and presence that brought such peace and serenity. I admired her strength and energy in living life for others. She loved her family and spoke so highly of each and everyone of you!
I feel blessed to have come to know Iris. I just had lunch with her in October and we had such a beautiful day... the memories I have of Iris will be cherished for a life time. Thank you Gretchen for introducing me to your Grandmother and sharing her with me.
I will carry Iris in my heart.

With sympathy and love,
Suzanne Lovinus

wendy will

November 14, 2007

Aunt Iris was one of the classiest chicks I ever knew! She embraced life and lived it to the fullest. My mind is full of memories of her which I will always cherish. She was the only person who ever called me Wendith. Where she came up with that, I'll never know! Memories of times spent in Door County will be forever special. I'll always remember how much she loved music and dancing and the woman could tell a great joke! She will be greatly missed as she touched so many lives, but her grace and humor will live on through those she loved. I love you, Aunt Iris.

Ken and Julie Koier

November 14, 2007

You have our deepest sympathies on the unexpected passing of Deb's mother. You are in our prayers.

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