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James "Jim" Michael Dandoy

Glendale - Jim passed away peacefully with family at his side on 01-25-21 after a courageous battle with Covid-19. A frugal man with many quirks and hilarious original one-liners, the "gentle giant" brought a smile and laugh to the faces of those whom he knew. As a 17yo Milwaukee kid, seeing his options few, he enlisted in the US Marine Corps. Jim remembered arriving in Vietnam in April of '65 with Company I, 3rd Division/4th Marine Regiment as a skinny kid with big feet expecting the worst. He saw tents erected with air conditioning units in each one and thought, "this won't be so bad". Then he was directed to an empty field to "start digging" his new home. Jim was honorably discharged in 1968 and went to work for the railroad before beginning his career as a Police Officer with Glendale PD.

He married Susan Wagner (Glendale) in Jan 1971 and became the "proud papa" to sons Bill and Brian. Early on, their home was a second home for nephews Chris and Rick Wagner, and "adopted" son Robert (Bob)Simpson, as well as many other friends, family and blue family.

Jim served the citizens of Glendale from 1969-2001 as a patrol officer, Detective, Det. Lt, and retired as Patrol Captain. The Glendale Herald once ran a story about him titled, "Top Gun: But His Weapons are Patience and Persistence". A skilled, street-wise Detective, Jim was well known amongst Milwaukee area officers as a fingerprint expert, and was passionate about pursuing justice for crime victims.

Jim could fix almost anything, and when he retired, he loaded up his Honda Accord with tools, stuffed a pen and utility knife in his sexy trademark button-down shirt pocket, put on a USMC Vet hat and went to work for his neighborhood "haram", friends and family. He never asked for much in return as a simple "thanks Jim!" filled his cup. As he aged, he became an obituary aficionado, fed birds at the feeder, squirrels from his hand and loved giving treats to the neighborhood dogs. Sunday mornings were for breakfast at Chuck's Place with family or neighbors. He loved doing puzzles, working on Ancestry.com, and investing.

He was a story teller and greeted everyone with an Oohrah! Well known at the Green 7 and The Brick Pub in Glendale, Jim was and will always be a legend in the area.

Jim's friends were many, but neighbors Jeff, Ann and Seth; Jason, Tricia and Sam; Lance, Vicki, Jeanne, Paula, Marie, Kim, Angie, Toni, Marge, barstool buddy Bill and sister-in-law Barb made his life rich with love and appreciation.

His best friend was his brother, John Dandoy (ret. MPD). "It's always been the two of us". As brothers should, they always had each other's back.

Jim is survived by his grateful sons William (Jacalyn) Dandoy, Lake Mills; Brian (Tamara) Dandoy, Cedarburg; brother John (Nancy) Dandoy, Mnt. Juliet TN; Sister Julie (late Robert) Harter, Powder Springs GA; Granddaughters Julia, Lauren and Elyn Dandoy. Further survived by sisters-in-law Barbara Wagner; Patricia (Thomas) Pagac; brother-in-law Richard (Cathy) Wagner;

Preceded in death by his parents John and Catherine Dandoy, and ex-wife (but still Sunday morning breakfast friend) Susan Dandoy.

A memorial service is being planned for a later date.



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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jan. 29 to Jan. 31, 2021.

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Mary Riley

March 15, 2021

I learned of Jim's death from his brother John, a partner on the MPD. Losing a sibling is one of life's dreaded losses. So sorry for his family. God Bless each of you.

Jeff Nelson

February 15, 2021

I worked with Jim for many years at GPD. I enjoyed his company and dry sense of humor. We played many dart games at the Green 7, after working 2nd shift. What a guy! My condolences to his brother John, sons, and grandchildren. Respectfully, Jeff Nelson

Dave Riess

February 6, 2021

I was both surprised and saddened to learn of Jim's passing. We had exchanged emails around Jan 20th when I learned of his testing positive for Covid19. At that time, he said he did not have symptoms. Jim and I go way back to grade school at St Seb's, hanging out on Vliet St, Washington Park & P's house, card playing, fishing etc. Many great memories. My deepest sympathies to John and the rest of Jim's family and friends.

Ron Faucette Jr

February 4, 2021

I first met Jim in the early 70s when he worked with my dad at the GPD. A couple of my sisters babysat for his kids later. When I joined the GPD Auxiliary in the late 80s I got an opportunity to see him in action and hear about the interesting cases he was working. It was always fun running in to him at the Greeny. Fun times. He will be missed.

Bob Foote

February 2, 2021

Jim lived down the street from me while we were in grade school. Really enjoyed seeing him at school reunion get togethers. I recently moved back from the west coast and was looking forward to our next post-covid reunion. A sad loss.

Tom Arenson

February 2, 2021

Real sorry to read this, Jim and I went way back to the Saint Sebastian days. John thinking of you, all my best. Tom

Libby (Dresen) Mitten

February 2, 2021

John, I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. You both were great guys as we were growing up. We grew up in a great neighborhood and I am still living there in the Mitten house down the block from where you lived as kids. Jim sure sounds like a great guy. Peace be with you Jim and my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Bill Blumenberg

February 1, 2021

My condolences to the entire Dandoy family. I grew up with Jim and John in the old Washington Park neighborhood. We had many good times back in the good old days. After serving in the military Jim joined the Glendale PD and John and I joined the Milwaukee PD. When I was a Detective I worked on many cases with Jim. He was always a true professional and just as important a real fun guy to associate with. He will be missed. Rest In Peace. Blessed are the Peacemakers.
Bill and Sandie Blumenberg

Camilla Avery

February 1, 2021

Jim was the roommate to my husband Bob Sasson when I met him. He and Susie weren't married yet but spent all their time together. I love them both dearly and still think about all the fun we had together. I am so sorry for your family, he is gone to soon.

Paul Lenz

February 1, 2021

John, I remember you talking about your brother years ago when we worked together and it was obvious how much he meant to you. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Ronald Alan KOEPKE

January 31, 2021

I've known Jim for many years, since about 1970 when I worked at Whitefish Bay Police and continued to see him on and off duty since 1975 when I joined Milwaukee Police. Jim was married to the sister of John Wagner whom I went through grade school with. I always loved to spend time with Jim, he was well liked and will be missed. My prayers go out to the Dandoy and Wagner family, RIP Jim.

Marie

January 31, 2021

I am so blessed and honored to have had Jim as a neighbor. What a kind and wonderful man.

James Staudacher

January 31, 2021

Jim was tireless in his selfless pursuit of justice. He will be well rewarded.

Joan Blowers

January 30, 2021

Jim was great guy. He will be missed,by anyone who knew him. Always smiling. And he helped everyone. Rest in peace with the Lord.

D. Michael Guerin

January 30, 2021

John
Sorry about the loss of your brother
Mike

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