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James Quarto Obituary

Quarto, James "Q" Passed away peacefully on December 31, 2008, at the age of 69, at Froedtert Memorial Hospital, surrounded by his family. Soul mate and best friend of Patricia Downs. Devoted father of Dana (Christopher) Garven and Suzanne (Jim) Ryan. Beloved grandfather of Casey, Cori and Nykole Witt and Sam Garven. Further survived by Virginia Quarto, his brother Michael (Jean) Quarto, his sister Mary Ann (Al) Nocco, other relatives and friends. Jim embraced life and the people who were lucky to know him. He loved his family and friends deeply. His zest for life, joyful laughter and heart of gold will be greatly missed by all. Among his many passions was his love for his grandchildren, writing his novel and his race horses. The family wishes to express a heartfelt thank you to Dr. Hari, Dr. Savin and the entire staff at Froedtert Memorial Hospital for the wonderful care you provided. A memorial gathering will be held Saturday, January 10, at the funeral home from 1 PM until time of service at 3:30 PM. Sympathy Expressions www.BeckerRitter.com BECKER RITTER Michael Feerick Associate 14075 W. North Ave., Brookfield (262)782-5330

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jan. 4 to Jan. 7, 2009.

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Ryan Balistreri-Gustafson

January 12, 2009

To Jimmy Quarto's family

I was introduced to Jimmy by Joe Campagna in early 2001 after it was announced that he was going to be Festa Italiana's Executive Director for 2001. After having the privilege to be a Festa Manager under his leadership, I was able to experience what a class act this man was. Although I am only 33 years old, I was heavily involved in Festa for 20 years, from 1986 to 2005. Through my many years of serving Festa and the Italian Community Center, I can tell you he was one of the most competent and genuine individuals I have ever dealt with at Festa. I could tell from day one that this man was the "real deal" when it came to being a man. He is truly someone I model myself after. Your family will always be proud of you.

Joe Aiello

January 11, 2009

Jimmy,
We did not know each other for very long but we connected and I considered you a true friend. When I talked you listened and you were always sincere. You made everyone feel special. You were concerned about others. Whether it was your trainer, your friends smoking too much and of course your family's well being. I will miss our "lunches" and especially at Olive Garden with our mutual love for Eggplant. You will be missed by many. I am fortunate to have known you, I am better for it but there is a void now. I willl miss you.

Debbie Joy

January 10, 2009

Distance kept us from knowing Jim as well as we would have liked to…but from Pat’s stories and from the few times we did manage to get together I know he was a kind and loving man, father and grandfather. One of my special memories of Jim was when he came to New England in 1996 – my daughter was celebrating her 13th birthday and Jim volunteered to make a genuine Italian dinner for the party. He even went so far as having us take him to Boston’s North End so he could buy fresh ingredients for all the dishes he planned to make. The day of the party, I felt so guilty because it was July and very hot and he was in the kitchen all day cooking (with Pat as his assistant, of course). The party was a tremendous success mainly because of the delicious food – it was one of those special days that my family thinks back on with very fond memories. We’ll miss you Jim, may the Lord enfold you in his mercy and may you find eternal life. Debbie, Jim, Eric and Jen

Cindy Storm Fischer

January 7, 2009

Jim was a bright spot in our office; his wonderful smile, and ready-any-time quips, will be missed by all. Q; we'll miss you. And to all his family and loved ones; you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jane Bubolz

January 7, 2009

Dear family – I will always treasure the Holidays and events spent in Cecil at Suzanne’s house. The food, the wine, the songs, the games, and the hugs made me feel right at home and so very welcome as Suzanne’s ‘orphaned’ friend. Papa Jim, as the kids affectionately called him, was always so very devoted to all his family; especially his grandchildren. He set a great example of how to love. He had such a twinkle in his eye as he would stir up a family discussion and then turn and wink as conversations went on. I will never forget how he would sing “arrivederci” as a player of a card game would run out of quarters. What a delightful, caring, and loving man. Thank you for the great memories! I too will miss him dearly…

Terry Backmann

January 7, 2009

Jim was a kind and interesting man and we enjoyed meeting with him and hearing about his book and his family. Our sympathy to his family and friends.
Jordan Financial Life Planning
Kenosha, WI

Jill Sontag

January 7, 2009

It was certainly an honor to know Jim and care for him while he was in the Medical ICU. I will remember him for his kind and gentle spirit. He was always quick to give a smile and a wink. It was wonderful getting to know your family; my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Jill Sontag, RN

Georgette Grant

January 6, 2009

Jim,

Never got to know you. But from Pat an all that knew you, you will be sorely missed. Rest in peace.

Bob Stoltz

January 6, 2009

Dana, Chris, and Sammy, Our sympathies from the Merwin Stoltz Company on your loss. I only got to meet Jim at Chris's 50th so didn't know him well. My wife had a rememberance of him though and thought very highly of him. Again, our condolences.

Thomas Sabatelle

January 5, 2009

Dear Pat, We can't tell you how much our friendship with you and Jim means to us. Although we only had the opportunity to meet a few times we felt that we knew you both for many years. I'm sure that Jim had that effect on most people he knew. Saratoga will not be the same. Our hearts and prayers are with you and the family. With love and sincere sympathy. Tom and Camille Sabatelle

STEPHEN GAMBINO

January 5, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mark and Betty Durishan

January 5, 2009

Pat, Dana, Mike and Family

Betty and I are so sorry for your loss
We both remember the good times, the dinners and New Year's Eves together, with Jim being the life of the party. His golf was always good for the fun and comradery. No one was more proud of being Italian than Jim, and who could forget the fun he had being in charge of Festa Italiano. When we were with Jim, we knew we were with a person who really cared about us. The world seems just that little bit less bright without him. He is truely missed by us.

Nick Riggio

January 5, 2009

I grew up with Jim in Brooklyn. I also went into the Army with him and went to Germany with Jim and Elvis Presley. Jim and I would often venture to Frankfurt to talk about how much we missed Brooklyn and all our friends and family. I lost contact with Jim until three years ago. He sent me a book that he had written and I was grateful. We lost contact once again! Today I received word of his passing and I am very sad! We lost contact but never lost our friendship. May he rest in peace.

ARTIE DeVIRGILIO

January 5, 2009

Jim, I will always remember the good times we had growing in Brooklyn.
You will be dearly missed by all your loving Family & Friends.May God be with You and bring you everlasting life.
My deepest condolences to all of Jim's loving Family.
May He Rest in Peace, Amen...
Artie "Chich"

Kirk Spano

January 5, 2009

Jim's genuine concern for his friends and family was tremendous and well known. Jim was a mentor to many younger people, including myself. From caddying for him at Tripoli and later working with him many years later, Jim is one of a small universe of people who have had an important impact on my life. His novel is an inspired work that suits the times that he was rightly proud of, and that more people would be well served to read. Q, your smile and manner will be greatly missed. God Bless.

Erik Spano

January 4, 2009

Jimmy Q,

I'm going to miss our monthly chats. Your words, actions, and advice have helped guide me in life and with my career. You will be missed dearly.

E-Man

John Strasburg

January 4, 2009

I knew “Q” from older days at Tripoli. I remember him as outgoing, always ready with a friendly quip. The story of Jim tossing his clubs into the #7 pond is well known. Jim & Mike teamed up for many years in the Invitational. No more can be said for anyone but that he was a good and decent man. May God Bless Him and be with his Family.

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