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Robert, Shanelle, Brendan & Carter 12/03
June 29, 2005

Robert and his two sons, Brendan and Carter. Photo taken on Carter's 1st birthday, November 27, 2004.
June 21, 2005
Captain William Nisiewicz
June 21, 2005
I met Robert several years ago when my wife and I went to Wisconsin to meet most of the family for the first time. I remember being introduced to Robert as Shanelle's boy-friend and was very pleased to know that she had found a very nice young man that accompanied her so well and as all good stories go they fell deeply in love, married and started a family. He seemed to have a glow about him that eradiated happiness when ever we talked. He was a loving father, a nephew, a great friend to my niece Shanelle and he surely will be missed from my family. Our deepest condolences go out to Shanelle, Brendan, Carter and Mr. /Mrs. Callies.
Kristy Fitzgerald
May 11, 2005
My deepest sympathy to the Callies family and his wife and children. I have known Robert since I was in grade school and his wife since high school. My prayers go out to the family. Robert was a great man and his memory will go on.
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Carrie Beyers (Rockenbach)
March 23, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Callies family. My memories of Bobby are limited to childhood family gatherings, and although I never knew "Robert", I can see by all the guest book entries that he was very much loved by his family and friends and will never be forgotten.
Amy Wiedenhoeft (Van Dusen)
March 11, 2005
Shanelle is one of my bestest friends. I have known Robert and Shanelle since Middle School. We all have many memories together!! He was a wonderful dad, to two beautiful boys. He was a wonderful Uncle to my children also. He was always smiling and would always make everyone else smile. Shanelle, Brendan, and Carter we love you very much and will always be there for you.
Alacia Smith
March 10, 2005
I am totally shocked. I learned that Robert passed away on 03-10-05. He was a very humorous, nice and helpful person. Robert and I worked together for DOC. During the brief time I knew him, he always had a smile on his face. He was truly fond of "gourmet popcorn", and on occasion, I would bring in some for him. He will truly be missed!!
Niall & Tera Kaprelian
March 2, 2005
I've known Robert since 4th Grade and I'm so happy to know that my fiance got to know him before he passed away. Robert, you could always make us smile and although we wanted you to stand up in our wedding we know that you can't be there physically, but you will be standing with us at the altar in spirit. And to Shanelle, Brendan, & Carter we love you so much too and want you to know that we are here for you and will stand by your side throughout ANYTHING. We can't wait to share loving, thoughtful memories of Robert to Brendan and Carter as they grow.
*Bush & Dukakis* :)
Sue Riedel
March 2, 2005
Shanelle
I am so sorry and shocked to read about this. I know we haven't really talked since I left but I have thought of you often. If you need me I am still here for you, thats forever
Katie Lohre
March 1, 2005
Shanelle, Brandon, Carter, Mr.and Mrs. Callies and Jennifer...I am so sad to hear about Robert's passing. I am sorry that I found out to late to have been with you during this time. I met Robert while we were both RA's and UW-Parkside. Robert became a dear friend to me and someone who I looked up to and cared for like an older brother. He was so kind and supportive. He always had an open ear, an open door, and open arms for a hugand let us not forget his kind and enduring smile. My memories of Robert are beautiful, like him. He was always dedicated to the right things, his wife and his family, and friends, I learned so much from him. I have been deeply blessed having known him. I will keep my thoughts and prayers with you all as time passes. Thank you for sharing Robert with this world, I know how lucky I have been to have been part of his life, but more importantly what part he played in mine. With Love...
Shanelle Callies
February 27, 2005
It is truly touching to read all of your kind words. Robert was definetely a person who touched the hearts' of all who knew him. He had so many people that loved him, and for that, thank you. Your thoughts and prayers are so greatly appreciated. Robert would be deeply touched. Sincere thanks! Shanelle Callies (wife)
Brendan & Carter callies
February 27, 2005
It's so nice to read the entries and see how loved our "daddio" was. Thank you for you kind words and memories of him. His warm smile will be missed by all very much! We will miss our daddy very much!
Mary Fischbach
February 27, 2005
I have known Robert since highschool and I was surprised to hear that he passed away. He was a nice guy. My prayers are with the family and friends.
Michael Ystad
February 26, 2005
I did not know Robert but I worked for his father, William. I offer sincere condolences on behalf of myself and Cara to the entire family.
Sarah Zeman(Culum)
February 26, 2005
I have known Robert since about the 4th grade. I was shocked when I heard the news. He was a great friend and we had alot of child hood memories. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and children. Robert you will be missed greatly and never forgotten. I will always remember Mr. Ritonia's class and all the fun we had. Your children are beautiful. Love Always!
Michelle Ratliff ( Koepel)
February 25, 2005
I went to High school with Robert and Shanelle, even though I did'nt know Robert very well I was close with Shanelle and I was also in choir with Jennifer. I am so, so sorry for you loss Shanelle and to the rest of Roberts family. I will say a prayer for you all.

Our favorite photo of Robert-Mom & Dad
February 25, 2005
Rick Blaha
February 25, 2005
I knew Robert from grade school and through high school. He was always touching peoples lives with his charm and his smiles. My prayers and sympathy go out to Robert's family, his wife and his 2 children. May God bless them all.
Monica Winterfeldt Lentz
February 25, 2005
Robert was one of my students my first year teaching. He was also one of my student aides. I have MANY fond memories of Robert and all the kindness he showed to his fellow classmates as well as respect to me. He will always be one of those students that I will always remember and have remembered. God's blessings to his family.
Sherry Lueck
February 25, 2005
I worked with Robert at the Holton Street Office. He was sweet, kind and humerous. Just talking with him for a few minutes about things would make a bad day much better. I know he loved Shanelle and the boys with all of his heart. He always had a smile on his face. I will miss him and his jokes. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Robert you will be missed! Sherry
John Gebhard
February 25, 2005
Robert and I attended SM High school together and I think I knew him since I was in grade school. Robert was a good friend and he will be deeply missed. My family's thoughts and prayers are with his family's.
Shirley Jagler
February 25, 2005
Bill, Sandy & family - My deepest sympathy in your loss, and please know that I will hold you all up in my prayers, for God's comfort and peace. Just remember seeing your son grow up in Trinity Lutheran and remembering what a great family he came from! May our Lord & Savior be with all of you. In Christian love, Shirley Jagler (Trinity Lutheran Church, So. Milwaukee}
Krista Dreckmann (Stawicki)
February 25, 2005
I just wanted to extend my deepest symphathy and prayers to all of Robert's family and friends. May God bless all of you and take care of you, especially his wife and children. Robert will be fondly remembered and I am sure you will keep all of your memories close to your hearts. I will remember Robert as kind, caring, and always with a joke by his side and for that I am grateful.
Rita Aron
February 24, 2005
I went to High School and church with Robert. I haven't seen him in years since I've moved from South Milwaukee but from what I've read here he hasn't changed. He will be remembered as a nice, caring, sincere man who loved his family more than anything. My thoughts and prayers will always be with Robert and his family.
Ed and Barb Magnuson
February 24, 2005
Our sincere condolences to Robert's family.
Judie Papadakis
February 24, 2005
I worked with Robert at the Holton St office as agents. He had a great sense of humor. He will be missed. My prayers are with his family.
Marie Erato
February 24, 2005
I met Robert at Training and I felt that he was a very sociable guy. He had no problem talking to me who could have been his mother. Robert always talked about his family and I want you to know that he always expressed how much he love you all.
I will miss his smiling face.
I am so sorry about your loss.
Marie
August Lubinski
February 24, 2005
I have known Robert since grade school. We had our share of hard time but nevertheless, Robert was always a great friend to me. To know Robert was to know true friendship. Many of my memories growing up include Robert and I am truly grateful that he was in my life for the time that he was. I am sure others share my thoughts when I say that Robert will always be in our thoughts, our prayers, and our hearts. Robert, you will be missed.
Jean Mulderink
February 24, 2005
I worked with Robert a short time in Racine at the Sturtevant Probation/Parole office. He will be remembered for his quick wit and joking personality. Seemed to never sweat the small stuff.
kim Larsen
February 24, 2005
Obviously I am shocked and taken back about this news. I met Rob when we both worked in the Sturtevant office. I didn't know Rob very well but what I did know of him was that he was a very nice, warm and caring person. Rob got my name at the last secret santa that I participated in while I was still in the Sturtevant office, I remember joking with him about my gift. When I went to Milwaukee to work and he transferred to the Holton Street office, he came right over to me in the parking lot and talked like we were friends for years. He talked about his wife and newborn baby and his other child with a huge beaming smile on his face, he was very happy when his wife and kids came up in conversation. Rob will be missed and I pray for the children and family. This world was a better place with Rob here.
Gail Diel
February 24, 2005
I only worked with Robert a short time when I came to the Rayne Road P/P office in 2002. I remember him as a sweet, very quiet, innocent looking "teddy bear". he was very caring and helpful with all of his co-workers. He talked about his little boy, first born, ALL of the time and was a very proud daddy.
Kathleen Rytman
February 24, 2005
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Jennifer at the YMCA UMC child care center. While working with her I really felt like I knew your family. I met Robert only a couple of times when he stopped up there to see Jennifer. I just really want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.
Jim Lucas
February 24, 2005
Shanelle- You and your children are in our prayers.
McKayla Jakovec
February 24, 2005
I met Robert when I was 5 days old. He came over and told mommy that she did a great job. Robert said he was going to pack me up and take me home with him. Like my mommy says, "it's not goodbye, it's see you later." Robert and his family will always be in my prayers.
Daughter of Tammy Baer
Katherine Trossen
February 24, 2005
I met Robert and his family one time while visiting one of my best friends, Tammy Baer, a coworker of Robert's. We were all at her house swimming together and enjoying a nice sunny day. My impression of Robert was that he was a very fun, kind man who loved his family dearly. Tammy has always held a very high opinion of him and I have heard many stories of their times at work together. I was very sad to hear of Robert's passing. I know Robert will be greatly missed by many people.
Darrell Fralin
February 23, 2005
(To continue with my last sign in)
Even though part of being in the adult world means not having enough time for keeping in touch with all of your friends, many great friendships possess the quality of picking up right where they leave off. This was definitely the case with Rob and I. Through all of the times that I wished I could be around in his life more, I am fortunate that I was able to share one of the last few moments of his life defending his facewash attacks, watching him run from mine, and teaming up to get those who tried to get either one of us when we went sledding this past January. I will definitely miss him, but I take great comfort in knowing our friendship will forever stand the test of time. Rabbit, Rabbit, Rabbit.
Darrell Fralin
February 23, 2005
I met Robert at the University of Wisconsin-Parkside. We were both each other's first roommates there. I can definitely say that living with Rob was a fun experience, but it was also one of the greater learning experiences of my life, and I am sure his as well. Being that we were both from different backgrounds as well as different races, we definitely learned and laughed a lot. There was never any awkwardness between us. Many times I felt like I knew him for long time. It wasn't long before we developed a brotherhood, and I wasn't surprised when he asked me stand in his wedding- I was more than honored. I can honestly sit here and think about so many of the good times that Rob and I had for a long, long time. So many cackles of laughter and nods of understanding each other's points of view. Living with Rob was like having a comedian, a philospher, a listener, a confidant, and your biggest supporter all at the same time.
Renee Candido
February 23, 2005
I am a long time friend of a co-worker of Robert's,Tammy Baer. I am sorry that I never got to meet him, but I feel as though I did because Tammy always spoke very highly of him and his family. He did get to meet my daughter and through her eyes and personality I guess in a way he did get to know me. I am very sorry for this loss and wish his family and co-workers so much sympathy. Please know that you are in our thoughts.
Bill Francis
February 23, 2005
Robert and I have been friends since high school. He has been one of my best friends since our days at the University of Wisconsin-Parkside. He was a great friend. I could share anything with him. We stood up in each other's wedding, we were there when both of our kids were born. He was a great friend, father, and son. But most importantly, he was a great person. He was more like a brother than a friend. I will miss him greatly.
Jeanne Johns
February 23, 2005
Our heartfelt prayers are with all of you. Through the years our families have shared many happy occasions and now we share this sad one. We are hurting for you and with you. Time will help all of us heal from the hurt we are now feeling, but time can not take away the special memories we hold dear in our hearts. "Bobby" (yes,I teased him on many occasions that he would always be "Bobby" to me) will always be that special little boy that was my neighbor and helped fill the void in my life before I became a mom. I will always be able to see him rocking away on that little wooden horse to the Disney music and tearing around our driveway in the pedal cars. When "Bobby" and Shanelle visited our home with their little boys, he would share with me all those fun memories he had of his childhood on the farm. He appreciated being able to bring his little boys out to visit and relive those times.
His Earthly life was too short, but his struggles are over now and he is at Peace with his Lord and Savior. The same Lord and Savior is with all of us now and we can feel comfort in HIS presence. As the days move on you will continue to be in our prayers. Sent with love from the Johns family.
Tammy Baer
February 23, 2005
I will always hold you and your family to my heart. You always made me laugh and kept me looking at the brighter side of things.
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