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Robert Schlytter Obituary

In a single moment our lives can change forever!! This un-expected loss comes with our deepest sadness in losing a special soul at the age of 63.

Beloved partner for thirty years to Jane Kresse, loving brother to Susan (Brian) Riordan, loving son to predeceased parents Robert and Marion Schlytter and loving family member to the entire Kresse family, AWESOME Uncle Bob to Olivia and Jacob. Also survived by loving and caring relatives including the entire Anderson family and an abundance of true friends.

Bobby's spirit was large! Each life that Bobby touched has a forever constant from the warm exuberance that he radiated.

Bob had so many unique qualities and one of his greatest was that he excelled at reaching out and connecting with people and forming deep bonds of lasting friendships that he so valued and treasured.

Bobby had a curiosity for life and believed in a deep consciousness of spiritual enlightenment and he engaged in a broad spectrum of new age philosophies. Later in life he applied that spiritual enlightenment and belief system by giving a sense of hope to many through philanthropy.

As a child, our Bobby was a silly mischief maker (and at times he carried that with him through adulthood)!! Let us just say that he had a mind of his own! Can you imagine his decision that he could drive an Oldsmobile at thirteen years old? "Oh Yeah"! He drove often. Throughout Bob's childhood, whatever he engaged in, he excelled at; including being a brilliant student, being an avid sailor, a gifted drum player and a prized athlete in swimming, golfing and bowling. He was a great water skier, tap dancer ("YES"), American Indian dancer and last but not least a malted milk maker extraordinaire!!! As a teenager, he was an early entrepreneur with his two first business endeavors being seal coating and commercial power sweeping. In adulthood, he loved automobiles and devoted his career to the car business. Bobby enjoyed a vast and eclectic array of music and artistic performance and loved supporting the many music and art endeavors in our great City and beyond! He had a strong fondness for the State of Florida and loved not only exploring the entire State but also absorbing the peaceful beauty of the ocean and the green open fairways.

Bob was passionate about his brilliant City of Milwaukee!! He embraced all of the wonderful amenities that Milwaukee and the State of Wisconsin offer and he found joy in discovering all the cultural dimensions here.

Bob was so very fond of driving the "open road"! He found his "niche" behind the wheel always choosing driving over flying which engaged his free spirit!

On a lighter note his warm and fuzzies were a good cup of Joe, a short stack of pancakes with real maple syrup, a splurge trip to Leon's custard for some Butter Pecan custard and he never turned down or failed to devour his favorite homemade cookies and prized cakes.

Bob's voice will forever speak as we listen to the echos of his familiar words and phrases that play through our minds.

In remembering our Bob: the next time you come across a field of brilliant sunflowers, please pause and think of Bob and his fondness for them! The next time you watch a sunset and a true sense of incredible "awe" overpowers you, please pause and think of Bob and the passion he had while receiving the calm, hope and beauty that each sunset gave him! The next time you see a kite flying ever so mighty, please pause and think of Bob and the pure joy he found in seeing kites soaring in the air! The next time you get sand between your toes while walking on a beach, please pause and think of Bob and the thousands of miles he walked on beaches for the calming purity it gave him! The next time you are "teeing up" and following through with a brilliant swing that provides that great sounding "click" as your golf club hits the white ball smack on the green, please pause and think of Bob and the very talented player he was as well as his devotion to the game! The next time you look around at your most loyal, trusted and fun-loving friendships, please pause and think of Bob because that is exactly what he radiated to his friends with his nourishing energy and spirit! The next time you see a stranger in need, please pause and think of Bob because he freely lent a helping hand! The next time you are greeted by a dog, please pause and think of Bob and the remarkable connection and love he had for dogs and really all animals!

Bobby did indeed "walk to the beat of a different drummer"! His trademark was his most gorgeous and quite long head of hair! He had his own great distinction and manner. Most of you do not know of his legendary nickname of "Moda Mario" which was conceived 45 years ago on Las Olas Boulevard in Ft. Lauderdale from his sense of fabulous style!!

Bobby had quite a fondness for a good pizza. Even for his very last meal, he indulged in his favorite pizza with a Sprecher root beer!

Forever in our hearts and never to be forgotten is our Bob!! Let us celebrate Bobby's life and the blessings and memories he created that will live on in all the lives he touched. Today let us all walk a little more gently upon this earth and truly honor and believe in the peace sign which had great meaning to him. Bob would be SMILING!

Private services were held.

Memorials may be expressed to:

-Bayview Community Center

-Urban Ecology Center

-Salvation Army-Cold Spring Campus

-Impact 211

-Arts @ Large

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Oct. 29 to Nov. 1, 2019.

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Johnny

October 29, 2020

You are missed, but you will not be forgotten.

Bruce

November 27, 2019

Oh Bobby, Oh Bobby! R.I.P. So sorry to hear of his passing. Many of my childhood memories with Bobby will never be forgotten.

Mike Lenartz

November 3, 2019

Bobby will certainly be missed. My heartfelt condolences to all who were close to him and will miss him from Susie and Brian, to Karen and Jane and so many other family and friends, including those that were blessed to have worked with him like Mike, Gregg and so many others. May some good come out of this, someway and somehow and may those who have loved and will miss Bobby be strengthened and comforted.

November 3, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. What I remember about Bobby is his heart of gold. He really had such a kind soul and love for all people and animals. My prayers are with you Jane, Susie and Brian at this difficult time.
Sincerely Chris T.

Paul Mindel

November 1, 2019

What a great guy. I have known Bob for over 15 years. So kind and ALWAYS interested in other people. I will always remember our last round of golf on Thursday at Grand Geneva.
To my friend Bob, green fairways and under par forever.
My family will miss you.
Paul, Mary Ann, and Zachary

Teri Sullivan

November 1, 2019

Arts @ Large sends our love and gratitude to the family. Bob's commitment to the work of Arts @ Large has made an incredible impact.

We are, and will be forever grateful.

Teri Sullivan
Founder & CEO
Arts @ Large
1100 S. 5th Street
Milwaukee, WI 53204

Kim Rother Topczewski

November 1, 2019

I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I'm so sorry Susie.

Doug Berlet

October 31, 2019

When I heard the sad news from Jane regarding my friend Bob I like everyone was in total shock.. no way could this have happened to a person who was in such good shape and looked liked a million dollars all the time. Bob and Jane had the Condo above me in Naples, Florida. We were both early risers and most mornings I started my day sharing great conversations with Bob out in front of our places.. discussions ranging from what was going on in our beloved Naples.. discussions regarding all the golf courses we both had played .. discussions about his Milwaukee,Wisconsin and memories we both had of it .Bob was one of the most interesting and knowledgeable people I have ever known. I always was amazed of who he knew and what he knew. We also shared so many common interests from walking our beautiful beaches.. sitting up at our pool in the afternoons.. good food.. and most of all our love for golf. I did play a few times with Bob and let me tell you he could play!
Bob was one of the nicest people I have ever known.. His personality immediately drew you in. His kindness he showed to people was always there. He always took the time to stop from his amazing busy schedule and have a conversation with you. He was always involved with something and most of the time it was for the betterment of someone else..
I will miss my friend Bob.. it's so sad to me that he will not be driving into our adjoining driveway in the next weeks like he did each year.. it's very sad to me that when my garage door opens up he will not be outside.. it's very sad to me that he left this beautiful world that he love so much so early. Someday I hope to see my friend Bob again.. perhaps on the flip side. I imagine teeing it up at Augusta National .. only God's version of it in the skies. You will still have to give me shots my friend.. RIP.. you will never be forgotten.

Kary Coleman

October 31, 2019

May you always have happy memories in the time ahead. God bless you all.

Peter Veum

October 30, 2019

I have had the pleasure of knowing Bobby for about 20 years as a friend of Pete Tellier's. Would usually see Bobby a few times a year usually playing golf with him and spending the day. Bobby used to go on our annual Northern Bay Trip and everyone loved being around him on and off the course. Bobby was a very kind and selfless person, I will miss him! God Bless!

Gary

October 30, 2019

I only had the honor of knowing Bob for a short time.But even In that brief time , I sensed a very genuine and selfless , larger than life spirit. I remember thinking what a great friend he would make. He seemed to exude a soulful gratitude for life and a profound appreciation and admiration for the people in his life. Soaring just high enough to avoid the noIse and commotion, he seemed to personify a life and spirit we all aspire to.
I wish I had known him more , or longer. Jane , I'm so sorry for your loss,
To have know him best, you are truly blessed.
Be mindful that You int turn were HIS Lifelong blessing.
Hold On to and cherish those memories . That where he lives.
When I see a hawk overhead, a huge sunflower, or a spectacular sunset, I will fondly think of you both.

Eileen Caufield

October 30, 2019

How truly sad I am to learn of Bobby's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Susan, Brian and Family. Heaven has gained another Angel. RIP dear Bobby.

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