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Whalen, Anthony, 6 year old Black Elementary first grade student, received his pair of wings on Friday, Feb. 27, 2004. Visitation 1 to 8 p.m. Wednesday; service 10:30 a.m. Thursday, both at Old Mission Mortuary. Survivors: sister, Madison of the home; mother and companion, Beth Whalen and Jeff Rouse; father, Jose M. Ibarra; grandparents, Nelson "Chuck" and Hallie Kress, Patrick Whalen, Dionicio and Emilia Ibarra, Steve and Susan Hall; great-grandparents, Nellie and the late George Zimmerman; many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Mar. 2 to Mar. 3, 2004.

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abby flores

March 1, 2005

anthony i miss you and i know that your family does as well i pray for you and always ask god to keep you near and if you were here i would be able to see you and we could laugh and play but i want you to remember that i carry you in my heart and i know you are watching over all of us so please remember we love you

Beth Whalen

February 5, 2005

Hello Anthony. It's been awhile since I have been on here and wrote to you. I miss you so much and Madison misses you so much. She always talks about you and what the two of you used to do together. I am dreading the end of this month so much. Actually I dread every single day but I know I have to go on the best I can. At the end of the month you have been gone from me for a year. I can't believe it. It feels like a lifetime since I have seen you, hugged you, and kissed you goodnight. At the same time it doesn't seem like a year has gone by. Anthony please be with me as I will need you to be. I love you so much and I miss you so much. Madison says hello too. Until next time I love you.

Your Mom

GRANDMA HALLIE KRESS

February 4, 2005

HI,ANTHONY IT'S ALMOST BEEN A YEAR AND IT STILL HURTS LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY. I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS NEXT TO MY HEART IN A LOCKET.SOMEDAY I WILL GIVE IT TO MADISON TO CARRY WITH HER. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND I MISS YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. MADISON MISSES YOU SO MUCH.SHE TALKS ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME AND SHE KNOWS YOU ARE AN ANGEL WITH GOD. I WISH WE COULD HAVE YOU BACK EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT'S IMPOSSIBLE. WATCH OVER YOUR MOM AND SISTER AND KEEP THEM SAFE. I WILL TALK TO YOU SOON. I LOVE YOU

Elizabeth Ibarra

January 9, 2005

Hey Buddy, i just want to let you know i have not forgotten you, i never will actually! i was thinking to myself the other day how we are in a new year and also how it's already going to be a year that you have been in Heaven, i can't believe how fast that went. i miss you so much i go over to visit Ama and your Daddy and as soon as i walk in you Dad's house i smile cause there are pics. of you everywhere and i say to my self "Hi Uncle Michael Hi Anthony" i cry as i write this letter to you i just wish this never of happened but then i wish what happened to my Mom never happened either, but God has a plan for all one of us and he chose both of yous to be his special Angels and now you both are our Gardian Angels, i love and miss you both much soooo sooo much, i hope your mom and Madison are doin okay i haven't spoke to your mom or seen her since the funeral almost a year too, i just wanted to let you know that i love you and that love will never fade away and never will your beautiful smile you are close to my heart always and forver <3<3<3<3 H&K'S

Luv Your Cuz, "Sissy"

abby flores

November 23, 2004

anthony i'm here thinking about you and i find myself lost with no where to turn i think of you always and i brag on how good you were.i really miss you and i miss that laugh you always made me smile and its been a wile sense i been here to write to you but i always think of you.i know that your daddy sure misses you and if i could bring you back for him i would but always keep an eye on him and your mom and your sister ok they love you and need you near them.i hope that you are in heavan smiling down on all of us well i'm going to bed and i hope that you will listen to me when i ask for you to be near me you are my special angel...i love you and miss you deeply

Beth Whalen

September 12, 2004

Anthony I couldn't sleep tonight as I was just laying there thinking of you. I miss you so much. Madison talks about you all the time. She misses you so much. I just want her to always remember you. I wanted to thank you for the gift. I know that it is from you. It is very hard right now but, I know in time it will get better. Everyday I wake up I think of you first because I think someday I will go in your room and wake you up for school.I don't know how to get over this Anthony. The only thing I do know is that I need to continue to share my memories of you with Madison. Well until next time I love you more than words and I miss you so much.

Love your Mother

Beth whalen

August 25, 2004

Anthony,

I want you to know that we all miss you so much. Things are not the same anymore and never will be again. I dreaded your birthday because you were not here with us to celebrate it but I know you did up there. I know you were with me and Madison at your gravesite. Thank You. She had such a hard time I didn't know if I could handle it. She just misses you so much and she is kinda like me. She doesn't show her emotion the way she should. I feel really bad when people tell me that I am doing really good handling it. I guess the people who really know me know that I am just putting on a front. I want people to think I am doing okay so they don't worry about me. Madison started school where you went. She was very excited. Her teacher is Mrs.Stebral the one that was with you on the playground when you had to leave. She was happy to have her in her class. Anthony I Love and Miss you so much I can't go a day without crying. I thought I would be able to handle this cause I am so strong but I was wrong. Maybe you can help me cause I think I need it. Well I will go for now. Talk to you tonight. Love and Miss you so much.

Love your Mother and Madison

Robyn and Jeff Pruitt

August 21, 2004

Happy Birthday Anthony!! We all miss you and love you so much! Beth, I love you and want you to know that I am always thinking about you.

Elizabeth Ibarra

August 20, 2004

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to Anthony, Happy Birthday to you! Happy 7th Birthday!!! I miss you sooo much, i just can't beleive its already gonna be 6 months that you have been a lil Angel. An it's gonna be your 7th Birthday! Of course i didn't forget my lil Buddy's Birthday, and i never will and i will never forget you...i still think about you till this day and cry you are missed so much, you are a special lil one to many many people i will let your cousin Natalie know how great you were she is grown up so much. well i guess that is all for now. I love you with all my Heart <3 Always and Forever!!!!

Grandma Hallie Kress

August 11, 2004

Hi Anthony,soon it will be your 7th birthday and we will all be so sad especially your Mom. Please be her guardian angel on August 21st and try and comfort her and give her peace. She is hurting all the time and there's not much I can do for her except be here if she needs me to talk to. I know I talk to you every night but coming to your register helps me. Sometimes I want to scream but I have to keep it together for your Mom. Early Happy Birthday from me and I will talk to you tonight. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!

GRANDMA HALLIE KRESS

June 24, 2004

HI ANTHONY THE PAIN REALLY NEVER GOES AWAY I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND WISH I COULD SEE AND TALK TO YOU ONE MORE TIME MADISON STILL TALKS ABOUT HOW MUCH SHE MISSES YOU BUT NOW YOU HAVE A PLAYMATE WITH YOU SHE WAS SO SAD WHEN YOUR DOG COPPER DIED BUT SHE KNOWS HE IS WITH YOU I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU I WILL TALK TO YOU SOON

Robyn and Jeff Pruitt

June 15, 2004

I look at your beautiful smile every single day on this website. It seems that everywhere I go I here the Uncle Kracker song "Drift Away" All I can think of is you and your BIG smile. Beth and Mike, I think about you on a daily basis and I hope that you are getting along as well as posible. Your cousin, Robyn

Grandma Hallie Kress

May 9, 2004

Today is Mother's Day and my birthday and I am so sad that I will never hear you tell me Happy Birthday again. I miss you so much at times it physically hurts. Me writing to you this way is the thing that keeps me sane at times. I will always miss you and your special little laugh that was contagious . I know that you can hear me every night and always remember that down here I will look after your mom and Madison and you will from in heaven. I miss you beyond words. Till next time I love you

David&Mona Romero &Family

May 6, 2004

Our Condolences from my family to yours.May every memory of him bring peace and joy to your heart.May GOD bless you and keep you safe.

Ama Visesio

May 6, 2004

You have my deepest sympathy. I have 3 beautiful girls and if anything was to happen to them I don't know what I would do. You took care of him for 6 yrs. Know it is his turn to look out for you. Always know that he is there watching over you. God bless to you and your family.

VICTORIA ROMERO

May 6, 2004

I WISH YOUR FAMILY THE BEST AND I WANT YOU TOO KNOW THAT GOD IS WITH YOU AND THE BABY IS WATCHING OVER US NOW KNOWING WE WILL SOON SEE ONE ANOTHER AGAIN.I WILL KEEP YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS

GOD BLESS AND BEST WISHES

ABBY COUSIN



VICTORIA ROMERO

ABBY FLORES

May 6, 2004

ANTHONY HEY BABY BOY I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU GOODNIGHT AND THAT I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND I MISS YOU ALSO PLEASE REMEMBER ALL THE FUN TIMES WE HAD OK

Beth Whalen

April 27, 2004

Anthony today is the 27th. It's been 2 months now, 60 days. It feels like a lifetime since you've been gone. I hope you hear me at night when I talk to you. I talk to you all the time everywhere I go. Remember you would always yell at me when I went through a yellow light? I kind of giggle when I still do that cause I know you are still yelling at me. I remember those times we had in the car on the way home everyday. We had alot of fun turning up the music loud when you liked the song and Madison yelling at both of us cause it was to loud. Anthony I'm gonna go now and sit and talk with you at the gravesite.I Love and Miss you more and more everyday.

LOVE

your mother

Beth Whalen

April 13, 2004

Anthony you were my baby boy and always will be. I miss you so much I can't even put it in to words. I talk to you every night I hope you hear me. I still don't understand why you had to go so soon. I guess it will never make sense to me. Madison misses you so much she tells me she talks to every night and she sleeps with her bear just like you. Every time she wants to give you a hug she hugs the bear. Anthony you were so special to everyone who knew you. You are missed by so many people. I've heard many of them tell me that it was their honor to know you. I think that says it all. Today is Madison's birthday and it's gonna be hard for me but I know you are here with us. Until next time Anthony I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU VERY VERY MUCH. To everyone who has signed this guest book I thank you very much for your kind words and all your prayers as they have reached me and my family.

Love You Always,

Your Mother

Grandma Hallie Kress

April 11, 2004

It's been six weeks now and I still haven't been able to say goodbye and I don't think I ever will. My heart still aches for your smile and your special little giggle you had. I love you and as always I will talk to you tonight.

Beth Ibarra

March 31, 2004

Anthony, i miss you like crazy, all i can think of is the good times we had. You running all over the house and me trying to catch you or when we use to color, or watch you play video games. I will alway s remember you favorite song "Drift Away" i made a Cd and put that song in i smile and sing along with it and think of you. i'm so glad i got to be part of your life, and you were a part of mine. i pray that you are okay and i know you are because i have dreams that you are in Heaven wih my Mommy. i know she is watching over you untill we all meet again. I cry in my sleep i lost 2 close people to me but i know you are in good hands. I love you Too Much and you are in my heart close to my Mommy! Rest In Peace!

Beth- I haven't talked to you since the funeral. i think about you soo much too! i just wanna talk to you see how things are going. How's Madison? I'm fine just hanging in there. if you are close to a computer if you can please E-mail me i would like to still keep in contact with you i hope cause this happened it don't fade us apart we ahve known each other for A LONG TIME!!! and i would hate for us to split apart. i rmember going to you with my problems...Remember all that! well i would really like if you E-mailed me back or tell my Uncle Mike to give me your #! then i will know you recieved this!!!

I lOVE YOU TOO BETH!!! <3

Hallie Kress

March 20, 2004

There will a lot of entries from me but it's the only way I can think of to ease my pain. Anthony, I don't know how to go on without you but I do know that you will never be forgotten.I love you with my whole heart and soul. You're sister misses you very much and she is so sad.I will talk to you in my dreams. Grandma Hallie

Aunt Lee Ann & Uncle Dan Dreiling

March 19, 2004

Beth & Mike

You are both in my thoughts and prayers and I am so sorry for your loss. Anthony had such a beautiful smile and I believe he is watching over all of you. I have heard his favorite song several times in the past two weeks and I think of Anthony while I listen to it. I am so glad he was part of our family. Thanks for sharing him with us. Love

Vicki and Ed Harvey

March 17, 2004

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your very young son. I can not imagine the pain of your loss. I sincerly believe that God has taken Anthony to be with Him in Heaven to be an angel to help watch over His flock, I do believe God has plans for all of us and we do not know when, where or how, just that our time WILL come and we better be ready, but when a young child has to die, God has a special place for them, I just know this, they are the innocent ones and I really thing Anthony has his wings to watch over all of you in your time of sorrow and pain. I wish I could have been with all of you as I know Reba and Mike from Jr. high days, and I know how much they were hurting, I can not imagine you the parents. I am so very sorry. We have had so many deaths in our family this past 2 months as well, and today at my cousins, one of the relatives child went to school with Anthony, a very small world. God bless you all in your sorry and may He help you through your pain and grief. You will always have the wonderful memories, I hear from all the entries here that he was a wonderful young man, with a beautiful smile. May God be with him and you. You have been and will remain in our prayers. God Bless you and your entire family. To Reba and Mike, WE are so sorry and love you so much. God bless you as well.

Grandma Hallie Kress

March 13, 2004

Anthony I miss you so much and love you with all my heart.Not a day goes by that I don't think about and grieve you.In time I know the pain will ease but right now my heart is broken. You are always in my prayers,my dreams,and in my thoughts

Pam Jordan

March 10, 2004

Beth and the entire Whalen Family,



I am greatly sorry for the loss of Anthony. He was a very active little boy with a great smile. I'm glad I had the opportunity to have had the chance to babysit him and know him not only as my cousin but a little boy. I will treasure those memories forever. I pray that your guardian angle will watch over you all and get you through this tough time. Beth I think of you every day and want to thank you for giving me that chance to watch Anthony and Madison. I send this with alot of love and deep felt sympathy.

Love Your

Cousin-Niece

Pam Jordan

Karen Mikesell

March 9, 2004

Dear Beth and Family,

My heart breaks for what you are going through. I was only witness to Anthony's smile a couple of times when you brought him into work with you. What a smile he had! Just know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I love you!

Patrick Whalen

March 9, 2004

Anthony, I loved you very much and I miss you. You always brought joy with you. Love, Grandpa Pat

Uncle Mike and Aunt Reba Whalen

March 8, 2004

To Beth and Mike,

There are no words to express how sorry we are about Anthony. We know how much you both loved him. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Robyn(Whalen) & Jeff Pruitt

March 7, 2004

Anthony had the biggest smile that everyone will remember forever. He will truly be missed. To Beth and Mike, we are so very sorry about your loss. We love you!

PEGGY GLASS

March 4, 2004

I WOULDLIKE TO SAY I ENJOYED SEEING ANTHONY EVERYDAY AT SCHOOL. I WAS HIS LUNCH PLAYGROUND TEACHER. HE ALWAYS HAD LAUGHTER AND JOY.MY 2yr OLD MCKENSY SOMETIMES WOULD SEEK ANTHONY AND GIVE HIM A HUG JUST AS SHE WOULD TO THE OTHER CHILDREN AT PLAY.ANTHONY WAS EASY TO FIND ON THE PLAYGROUND HE WAS THE ONE WITH A BIG SMILE FULL OF LAUGHTER RUNNING LIKE THE WIND.I'M DEEPLY SADDEN THAT WE LOST ANTHONY SO SOON .TODAY I JOINED AS MANY DID THE SERVICE FOR ANTHONY. IDID NOT WEEP FOR SORROW, BUT FOR JOICE IN REMEMBERANCE OF ANTHONY.

Gina Jantz

March 4, 2004

Dear family:

My heart goes out to you. We loss our daughter 3 years. He is an angel watching over you. My deepest sympathy.

Gina Jantz

Linda Santiago

March 4, 2004

Dear Beth & Family,

I am praying for you and all your family that your pain may ease as the days go by. My most heart felt prayers go to all of you.

In Sympathy,

Linda Santiago

Joe & Lisa's Aunt

Michael Zimmerman

March 3, 2004

Thinking of you & your family & wishing you Hope in the Midst of Sorrow, Comfort in the Midst of Pain in the loss of your dearly beloved precious son. May all your fond memories & Anthony's adorable smiles fill your hearts during this time of grief.



With Heartfelt Sympathy,



Keian Mikael Zimmerman, Bridgette Zimmerman, Jody Allen, Airika Blanchard, Tyler Blanchard

Nancy Lassiter

March 3, 2004

News has just reached California about the loss of your dear little angel. Many here will be praying for your family. We pray your hearts be healed so you can one day look back and remember all the joy he brought to your lives during his short visit with you here on earth. You'll see him again one day.

Randy Van Ness

March 3, 2004

To the Mother, Father, Sister and entire Family of this precious little being; I personally did not know Anthony, but as a father of two young boys myself, I can not even begin to imagine what life would be like without them. I do believe that God has a reason for everything that happens in the world, and I also believe there are Angels right here on earth that live amongst us that God calls upon from time to time.



Anthony Whalen was one of those precious little Angels that was called to Heaven!!!!



May god bless you and your family!!

Sincerely,

Randy, Zach, Aaron and Jean Van Ness

Elizabeth Ibarra

March 3, 2004

I am Anthony's cousin, his daddy's neice. We all are feeling pain in the loss of loosing our little Anthony. He was more than just a cousin to me, more like a little brother. To Beth and My Uncle Michael i am soo sorry that this had to happened and all we can do is ask WHY HIM? God has a plan for everybody and his plan was to make Anthony and Angel sooner than we all thought. Now we have nothing but GOOD memories and will always have him close to our hearts. Anthony i love you with all my heart always and forever you will truly be missed by family and friends!<3

Brett @ Family Billiter

March 2, 2004

So Sorry to hear about your little Fellow. He is a A Special Angel in Heaven. Are Prayers are with you All.

Celena Thummel

March 2, 2004

My daughter Summer was in the same grade as Anthony. She said he was really nice and that she is going to miss him. She is taking it hard. I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lydia Santiago

March 2, 2004

Anthony was one of the most adorable kids we've known. He touched our lives and we are blessed to have known him. Beth, you and your family our in our prayers. We will be here if you need anything.

Love, Lydia, Sami and Kati

Ami Montgomery

March 2, 2004

My daughter Amber, and Anthony went to the same daycare. Amber firmly believes that Anthony is in heaven and has recieved his wings. Our entire family will keep you in our prayers through this difficult time.

Callie Moore

March 2, 2004

Anthony will always have a smile on his face no matter where he is. Anthony was a great kid with a great smile! I pray to those of you who are hurting through this hard time. He will be remembered!God Bless.

KIMBERLY PROBST

March 2, 2004

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a son to and i know it seems unbearable at times and will continue to be forever. my sympathy is with you my daughter kasie knew anthony and i had the pleasure of meeting him at school to..

LAURIE BRILEY

March 2, 2004

I WANT TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOUR FAMILY.. I CAN ONLY BEGIN TO IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. I WAS LISTENING TO POWER 93.9 YESTERDAY WHEN ANTHONY'S GRANDMOTHER CALLED IN. BY THE END I WAS IN TEARS.. ALWAYS REMEBER ANTHONY IS WATCHING OVER YOU ALL. AND HE IS IN HEAVEN WITH GOD..... GOD BLESS YOU ALL....

Michelle Teague

March 2, 2004

Hello Beth, Idon't know if you remember me or not but we went to school together (Hadley & North).

I want you to know my thoughts and

prayers are with you. I have a seven

year old and a two year old and I can not imagine the pain and sorrow

you must feel. May God be with you

and your family right now in your

time of need. Anthony was such a

handsome young boy. I'm sorry I never had the privilage of meeting

him. May God bless and keep you.

Sincerly, Michelle

Pat Morris

March 2, 2004

Pat, Diane's substitute sends her sympathy.

Christine King

March 2, 2004

You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!

Heather Bristor

March 2, 2004

Thinking of you during this difficult time. May God comfort you as you begin the healing process. Anthony is an angel above us.

jennifer booze

March 2, 2004

my daughter kayle was is the same kingergarden class last year with anthony and she said that anthony was her best friend i am truley sorry about your loss and you and your family will be in our prayers

Kristi McMinnville

March 2, 2004

My daughter, Emily, and Anthony went to the same day care. She was saddened by his passing but knows that he is in a wonderful place. We wanted to send you our condolences and let you know that we are keeping you in our prayers.

Jan & Sam & Casey Mobley

March 2, 2004

Beth and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Janet Miguel

March 2, 2004

I know how much you will miss your little fellow. May God Bless your family in your time of sorrow.

Janet Miguel

Wichita, Kansas

Linda Motley

March 2, 2004

My hope is that the Angels of Heaven

have come to watch over Anthony, and

give you comfort in your grief.

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