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Teri Barnett
August 10, 2008
Our silent tears fall in joy now as we look back on memories of you. Your smile, laughter and wisdom visit us in our dreams and your spirit is all around us. A year has passed since we said "Goodbye" but not a day has passed since we don't think about you. With every star above we see you, feel you, and miss you....Love Sis
Lori Roy
September 14, 2007
To my Beautiful Auntie Carmen, Minnear Cousin's and the Balaba Family, My family and I would like to send our deepest condolence to all of you, my heart hurts for all your pain your going through! I will miss my cousin Ben very much! Love to all of you Cousin Lori and family
Jeri Coats
September 12, 2007
To the Minnerar and Balaba family, May you be comforted by the love of family and friends. We love you Ben. Auntie Jeri and Uncle Leon
Teri Barnett
September 8, 2007
Teri Barnett Ben's sister of Merced Calif would like to thank each and everyone of you who have expressed their condolences and wonderful memories of my brother Ben. I would also like to send my deepest condolences to Uncle Moss, Tosh, David and his family.
Theresa Ermac
August 20, 2007
On behalf of The Ermac Family, we send our deepest condolences to Uncle, Tosh, David and Family. We grew up with Ben, Kelly and David. May God be with you during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
Jose R. Valdez (Joey)
August 18, 2007
To the Balaba Family, my prayers are with you. It has been a long time
since the playground at St. Anne's, where Benny and Jeri and I used to "run" the playground - then life takes us down different paths and
years go by without seeing each other and for whatever reason one
thinks of those good times and the people known as "friend" and one
wonders how they are doing... I will always remember Ben - my friend
and one of my "bro's" from the 'hood.
R. Wong
August 18, 2007
To Dave Balaba and Family, (Disco Dave...), I'm sorry to hear about your loss.My condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.Be strong Bro',and rest assured he is in good hands.My prayers are with you.
Lisa Marez (Stanley)
August 18, 2007
To the Balaba Family,
On behalf of the Stanley Family ( Steve, Linda, Stevie, Lisa) we would like to express our sincere condolences to your family at this difficult time. May the Lord give you strength, comfort, and guidance. Take care of each other.
HONEYBEA HINE
August 18, 2007
TO BEN'S FAMILY:
WERE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS WE DIDN'T KNOW HIS FAMILY BUT WE'VE KNOWEN BENNIE FOR YEARS HE USED TO HELP US WITH OUR COMPUTERS. OUR THROUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL. HE WILL BE MISSED AND NEVER FORGOTTEN.
HONEYBEA & MICHELLE HINE
Jeri and Becky Slaughter
August 17, 2007
To the Balaba family and Ben's Mother and family in Merced,
We are so deeply sadden at the loss of "our brother", good friend and godfather to our son, Jeri Paul. We will always remember the good times we had with Benny and cherish the memories he shared with us and our family (Jeri Paul, Monique and Andre). We loved him and will miss him very much. May God Bless both your families during this difficult time.
Maggie Martinez
August 17, 2007
Tosh, Dave, Annette, and family
My sincere condolences on the loss of your son and brother, Ben. I'm so sorry for the hardships you have been going through the last several months. Take care of each other.
Kimberly Scoggins
August 17, 2007
Another loss for the Balaba family, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
I have extra prayers for you Tosh!
Peggy Collins-O'Shea
August 17, 2007
It has been a very long time since those childhood school days of St. Anne's. Benny was a wonderful classmate; full of humor and comical insight. My condolences to the family and community whose lives he enriched.
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