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Betty Lou Elder

1953 - 2023

Betty Lou Elder obituary, 1953-2023, Topeka, KS

Betty Elder Obituary

Betty Lou Elder
February 7, 2023
Topeka , Kansas - On February 7, 2023 Betty Lou Elder, PhD., RN, 69, beloved Daughter, Sister, and Aunt peacefully passed away after a short stay at Stormont Vail Hospital, Topeka, KS. Betty entered this world on September 13, 1953, born to Orin W. Elder and Mary Lou (Dick) Elder in Red Cloud, Nebraska. Although preceded in death by her father, Betty enjoyed sharing the same birthday with her father. Also preceding her in death was her brother, William (Bill) Elder and nephew Hayden Elder.
Betty is survived by her mother, Mary Lou Elder, her sister Carol Morris (Robert) of Hastings, Nebraska, and loving brother Robert Elder (Lori), Olathe, Kansas and her beloved Nieces, Torri Morris Colboch, Kim Seward and Nephews Jacob Elder, Garrett Elder and John Elder.
Betty graduated from Smith Center High School, Smith Center, KS, class of 1971. After graduating from high school she pursued a Bachelor of Arts degree in Elementary Education from Kansas State University and Wichita State University. Betty earned many degrees over her lifetime including two PhD's, one in Genetics from Texas A&M University and a PhD in Curriculum & Instruction-Science Education from the University of Nebraska.
Betty enjoyed a long and illustrious teaching career beginning in 1974 as a 2nd grade teacher in Lakin, KS, and in 1976 as a 1st grade teacher in Beloit, KS. As an adventure she left Kansas to take a position as a park ranger in Yellowstone National Park and even was part of the forest fire team. She returned to the area and began her post-secondary teaching career at Fort Hays State University and at Texas A&M University. She was an instructor at multiple colleges, Central Community College in Grand Island, NE, Johnson County Community College in Overland Park, KS and Bryan School of Nursing in Lincoln, NE. She joined Wichita State University teaching multiple courses for many years in the Nursing Department where she completed her teaching career retiring as an Associate Professor of Nursing in 2019.
Betty's career was important to her, however; her family was more important. She shared many wonderful occasions with nieces and nephews including traveling, camping, boating and tubing. She treated them all as if they were her own children. After moving to Topeka with her mother and father, she became a fulltime caregiver to both of her parents. In Topeka she received and cherished the love, support, and companionship from her niece, Torri.
Betty enjoyed traveling, kayaking, and quilting. She was an avid Kansas State football fan and loved attending their bowl games, including the last one against Alabama in the Sugar Bowl on December 31, 2022.
Visitation, Monday, February 13, 2023, from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. at Culbertson-Smith Mortuary, 115 S. Seneca St., Wichita, KS 67213, with service beginning at 10:00 a.m. Interment to follow at Seltzer Springs Cemetery, Wichita, KS.
Those who wish to remember Betty in a special way may make gifts in her memory to Wichita State University School of Nursing.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Wichita Eagle on Feb. 12, 2023.

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Laura Hiatt

October 11, 2024

I worked with Betty in Canyon District . She was kind of like my big sister to many, especially to me as I was new to the park. I remember her as a leader. She loved to cook for the single young rangers. Pot roast was her specialty. I remember she wanted to write romance novels! She loved to ride Ace, the big quarter horse of the park. Many memories. Love and condolences to her family.

Rachel Brandyberry Dodd

February 13, 2023

Betty and I were roommates at Putnam Hall our first two years at KSU. So many memories and I'm so sad to hear the news that she passed away. We had made plans via email to get together in April when I returned to Manhattan from my winter RV travels. My condolences to her family that she treasured. Rachel

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