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Matthew Bookout Obituary

Bookout, Matthew Troy, 30, passed away Wednesday, December 1, 2010. Visitation 1-8 p.m., Tuesday with family present 6-8 p.m. at Smith Mortuary 1415 N. Rock Road, Derby. Funeral service 2 p.m., Wednesday at Calvary's Rock Church, 2661 S. Meridian, Wichita. Matt was preceded in death by his grandparents, Troy and Toni Bookout, Penny Mullen, Jack and Dixie Adams; uncles, Larry Ferrell, Jerry Adams and Terry Adams. He is survived by his parents, Randy and Robin Bookout; siblings, Nathan Bookout and Jaclyn (R.T.) Nave; children, Justin Schmitz, Ciera, Collin, Cody, Clayton and Cheyenne Bookout; nieces, Grace Bookout and Brooklyn Nave; companion, Christine Schmitz; ex-wife, Michelle Bookout; numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. In lieu of flowers memorials to The Matthew Troy Bookout Memorial Fund, ? Smith Family Mortuary, 1415 North Rock Road, Derby, Kansas 67037. To view tributes and to leave condolences online, you may go to www.smithfamilymortuaries.com.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Dec. 4 to Dec. 5, 2010.

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Nathan Bookout

June 12, 2012

Brother I love You and will miss u.

Nicole Wilson

August 30, 2011

I knew Matt and he was a wonderful Guy! He'll be missed by many! Sorry for your loss Bookout family!!!!!!

rayya al-tall

January 22, 2011

im sorry i wasnt able to make it to the fuenral, im so glad i was able to see matt and catch up a bit in november. my condolences to the family, yall are in my prayers.

johna landrum

December 9, 2010

i love my uncle matt so much. he was such an amazing person and could always make me smile. im going to miss him so much....i hope to see him again soon...

Nathan Rich

December 8, 2010

Robin, I am so sorry about your loss. I have been praying for you. The only thing that could and should be greater than our sorrow--is our hope in Jesus Christ our Lord. One day He will make everything right.

Alice Steventon

December 8, 2010

We are so sorry about your loss. You are in our prayers. God bless you and your family. Give us a call.

Brandie West

December 7, 2010

You were an amazing person and friend. With one of the biggest hearts of anyone i have ever met. I will miss you. Peace be with your family

Glenda Bookout-Kelly

December 7, 2010

Robin, Randy and all of the Bookout Family. May God wrap his loving arms around you in this time of sorrow and comfort you with his love. There is no words to say how sorry I am for the lose of Matthew. Cling to each other and give each other strength to carry on with the days to come. God Bless and I Love You Both!!

Judy Zimbelman

December 7, 2010

Collin, Cody and Clayton so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find strength in your positive memories and your loving family. Mrs. Z

Nancy Lee-Strickland

December 7, 2010

Randy and Robin, So sorry to hear about your son. You are in my thoughts and prayers and always remember....
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

CHRIS MILLER

December 7, 2010

Going to miss riding next to you at a 100..see ya on tha flip side bro! The world is going to mis you...love FATBOY

Rena Tucker

December 7, 2010

I only knew you through Nick. You was always nice to me. I remember playing pool with you guys and having fun hanging out. Well I will pray for your family and Nick. So long little bro. You will be missed, forever friends

Joshua and Shannon McDaniel

December 7, 2010

Hey bro. I've never been good at these type of thing's so we will keep it light. You were always a good brother-n-law to Shannon and I and a good uncle to our kid's we will all miss you, unitl we meet again Matt.

Kristin Cline

December 6, 2010

I remember back in the day when you guys first moved here, then you moved away so I really didnt keep caught up with you much. You were always nice to me though. You will be missed. And much love goes out to your family in these hard times. I love you all! Kristin Cline

Dana, Andy, Bayleigh, and Ashton Breth

December 6, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you this holiday season and always.

December 6, 2010

thinkin about u guys if u need anything give me a call be glad to do what i can . Tiffany Gleason (fredonia ks)

Ron & Nancy

December 6, 2010

Hay there knuckle head gona miss you, we had good times and bad. As a son inlaw you wasnt to bad.Your in good hands now Nancy and I will help make sure the kids do the right things. As we look into the future God has a plan we dont always understand what it is, he has called you there to be with him. May God bless you and keep you in his name sake , Amen.

Linda Vrana

December 6, 2010

Robin & Randy, we can't begin to tell you how sorry that we are for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything at all that we can do for you. May you find peace knowing that you will forever have an angel on your shoulder. Sending much peace & love, Linda & family

Carrie Davis

December 6, 2010

Randy and Robin-
I still remember Matthew as I kid when my brother(Tony) and I would come out to your house. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

page garcia rakestraw

December 6, 2010

to the bookout family your in our thoughts god bless you all

Dana VanWinkle

December 6, 2010

I am so sorry for all of his family, as the loss is tremendous. Matt had a very loving and kind heart and was always willing to take time talk. I have been his neighbor for the past three years and I am deeply honored ,and blessed to have been the oportunity to meet Matt, Christine, the kids and Bella. I will miss seeing you outside tinkering on some boat, the bike, or a jetski. He loved his family more than words could describe. He will be missed always.

Dana VanWinkle

December 5, 2010

I am so deeply sorry for the loss and grief the family must be feeling. I have been Matts neighbor for the past three years, and was blessed to know him. Christine and the kids you are in my prayers. He will be missed, but I know he will watch over those he loved from heaven.

sabrina stiles

December 5, 2010

May god be with u and ur family during this time of sorrow!

Nicole Herrington

December 5, 2010

To the Bookout family, I have known all of you since I was just a little girl and you all stood next to me and helped guide me through some very rough times. Matt was my brothers best friend growing up and Jackie and I were inseparable I will miss him so much he always did what he could to help out anyone. Lots of great memories, he will never be forgotten. He will stay in my heart forever. Love you all.

Jill Matava

December 5, 2010

Randy and Robin,
I am so sorry to hear about Matthew! Our prayers are with you and your family! Jill (Peterson) Matava

Daryle Bookout

December 5, 2010

My Condolences from the Daryle Bookout family of Halstead. I didn't know Matt but he is a relative and anytime one of us passes the whole family hurts. God Bless!

Becky Ogden Connell

December 5, 2010

May God be with each and everyone of you, and guide you through this most terrible time in your lives. Matt is an Angel, with wings to shelter and comfort you, and you are all blessed to have such an incredible person in your world. Special Hugs from just one person, that Matt shared his smile with.

Kimberly Huckey

December 4, 2010

If our tears could build a stairway, and our memories a lane,
I would walk right up to heaven and bring you home once again. RIP Matt you will always be in my heart.

Dixie Beard

December 4, 2010

God Bless!

Rynae Ramsey

December 4, 2010

Randy, Robin and Family....There are no words really that can make the loss of a loved one easier so I won't try. Just know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. HUGS to you all!

Damon Bradburn

December 4, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Connie Hefley(Bookout)

December 4, 2010

You will always be in my prayers Matt. Ill miss your dropping by now and then. The long talks. Ill see you again soon. R.I.P my friend.Aunt Connie

Amanda Ralph

December 4, 2010

Matt you were a good family friend.To me and my family...you were like a second dad to me..You were a good dad to your boys and ciera..I hope that god is taking good care of you ..I know that one day we will all see you again...Rest in peace.I know that you will be watching over us all making sure we are safe...

Trish Legion

December 4, 2010

Robin & Family,

I was so sorry to read about the loss of your son. I am thinking about you and pray for you.

ciera harris

December 4, 2010

you passed away 4dayss ago , Everyone misses you . i know we werent on good terms , and havent been for a whilee . if i could live life again iwould just too spend one more day with you , i would tell you all those things i should of said , like thank you for treating me as your own all those years, for being a dad to me when you didnt have to be ; megan said you always told everyone you had five kids , you reallly loved when i lived theree . she said you were so excited that i was theree . thanaks for keeping your eyes on me , trying too lead me in the right direction & lending piecess of your heart . a wise man once said that " what the heart gives away is not gone but it is kept in the hearts of others" . ilove&missyou so muchh , rest in peace chill with adam till we all get theree .

Maria

December 4, 2010

I have known Matt for years. I am so honored to be his friend and remember all the late night phone calls we shared. I am going to miss you more than I could ever put into words!! To the family, I will keep you all in my prayers. I know Matt is sitting up in heaven watching down on us all. He will never be forgotten!

Shawna Windorski

December 4, 2010

RIP matt.. You are already and will forever be missed. I feel very blessed to have been your friend in life. I'm gonna miss your facebook msgs that brightened my day and made me laugh so hard. Your sister is one of my besties and I will promise to do anything I can for her and Brooklyn. I will always know your looking down over me brother. Love you buddy... Shawna Windorski

Nick Hefley

December 4, 2010

Matt is not only my cousin but he is one of my best friends. He was always there when anyone needed him. He is a wonderful father & a vary proud man. He will always be missed & loved.

Jenn Laila and Leila.

Jennifer Bookout

December 4, 2010

Growing up i didnt have the chance to know Matt Jackie or Nathen. But latter on i did. Matt was a generous loving man, that loved his family, friends and the lucky people to know him.He was 1 of few men that was actually a devoted loving man. He was a great dad to his children loved them more then anything!! Me and Matt would talk about everything in mine and his life that was going on kids sig others and friends. We learned, and helped eachother alot. You will be greatly missed by all.Love you big cous and so do Laila and Leila. Always your cousin and friend Jenn>

Christine Schmitz

December 4, 2010

Stantly Der Jackson... We may not have been married by name but u were my husband. Rest in Peace babe cause I got all this here with the kids, they will always remember u and i will do my best to make sure they continue to grow together! No1 will ever b able to hook their foot around mine at night like we did.. I WILL LOVE U ALWAYS AND 4EVER

Jenn Laila and Leila

Jennifer Bookout

December 4, 2010

I didnt have much time w Matt Jackie or Nathen when i was young but the past couple years ive talked to Matt often. We talked about everything our kids family and more.He was a good person right there with my father.He loved his kids as much as anyone could,family was verry important to him all of us. Im going to miss you alot.Your home and helping watch over all of us Love you big cous and so do my girls.Always your cousin and friend Jenn.

Clayton Bookout

December 4, 2010

I love you dad.

Cody Bookout

December 4, 2010

Daddy, Thanks for being my dad. I love you and miss you.

Michelle Bookout

December 4, 2010

Matt, We have been through so many ups and downs together thats hard to face the fact that there wont be any more. Thank you for giving me 3 handsome sons. No one will ever take the place of you as there dad and I will never let them forget you. I know Joe will step up and help them with any dad problems they have and of course they have lots family to watch over them also. So you enjoy your time with God and we all see you again some day.We will miss and love you.

ken nave

December 4, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ellyn Stangle

December 4, 2010

I Love You Matt. I Will Always Remember You My Little Red Headed Step Child.

robin bookoout

December 4, 2010

Matt, No one will miss as much as I will. I love you very much. I am very proud that your are my son. Thank You for giving me such wonderful grandchildren. I love you. MOM

nichol smith

December 4, 2010

wow met matt in augusta he was coming home from seeing his kids and got cuaght in a down poor, he looked like a drown rat i could not help but to laugh being a fellow rider even w not knowing matt but for a few moments i offered him come on over to the house put his bike in shed and wait her out several hours gone by and it still was raining so he got ride come get him to my confusion he left his bike! heck ever since then always seemed like fate whenever wherever we seemed always be show up at right time for eachother. whelp matt ride on in and save me a spot bub thanks for always being my knight in shining armor in the city(wichita) your friend from min begin to end .... Agusta Nicki

Patty Dorrell

December 4, 2010

Robin & Family:
There aren't enough words to express the depth of your loss. Strength through Christ...

With deepest sympathies,

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