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Roger Robben Obituary

Robben, Roger Alan 46, passed away at his home, of natural causes, in west Wichita, Monday, November 30, 2015. Vigil/Rosary Service, 7 p.m. Thursday, December 3; Mass of Christian Burial, 10 a.m. Friday, December 4, both at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church. Survivors: his children, Olivia 17, Riggs 16 and Sylvia 13; his parents, Bob and Sherry Robben; his fianc‚, Debra Farris and her children, Josie 13 and Jake 11; siblings, Robbie (wife, Linette), Rhonda (husband, Rick), Rene (husband, Darren), Randy (wife, Nicole), Raelynn (husband, Kevin); and many nieces and nephews. Roger was a beloved football coach and teacher. He served as a freshman football coach at Bishop Carroll Catholic High School. He coached for 23 years, previously serving as head coach at Remington, Buhler, Goddard and Augusta. Roger was an amazing and loving father and a devoted Catholic Christian. He graduated from Bishop Carroll in 1987 and from the University of Kansas in 1992 where he served as Captain of the football team for the Jayhawks. IN LIEU OF FLOWERS, memorials established with St. Francis of Assisi Catholic School, 861 N. Socora, Wichita, KS 67212 and Bishop Carroll Catholic High School Athletic Department, 8101 W. Central, Wichita, KS 67212. Downing & Lahey Mortuary West. Online tributes to the family via www.dlwichita.com

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2015.

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Chet, Karla, Joseph Scudder

November 30, 2016

Roger, you are so loved and missed that it hurts. We come visit you frequently. What a blessing God gave us when he gave us you. But then God took you back as if he needs you too. Keep those blue eyes watching over us and that pearl white smile ... every time I think about the GOOD Goddard days I can see you SMILING with your pearly whites and blue eyes glistening. Always positive. God Bless and Keep!!!! Miss you our friend.

December 9, 2015

Mrs. Robben, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I went to St. Jude where you were such and aweome teacher and knew Mr. Robben while I was at Carroll. He was an awesome teacher just like you. I'm hurting for you and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Ruth Ann Timmermeyer and family

December 6, 2015

Our hearts go out to the Robben family at this difficult time. We have wonderful memories of Roger when Brad and Jeff were at Carroll. He was always such an inspiration! Also to Deb, because I know how very hard it is to suddenly lose the person you were to marry and the future you were to have together. Please know that you will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Max Barker

December 5, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to Roger Robben's Family and Friends. My Son, Tony Barker, played Football with Roger at KU for two years. They were good friends. I was only around Roger two or three times back then but that was enough to know he was a very special and wonderful person. I'm glad that Roger was a part of my life. I know Roger will be deeply missed by many. RIP Roger.

Jeff and Kay Sennett

December 5, 2015

We send our sincerest condolences to Bob, Sherri and the entire family.

December 4, 2015

Robben Family- my thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. Hearing of Roger's passing has brought back a flood of truly awesome memories from my days as a football player at Carroll. As a coach he tried to instill in me the toughness necessary to play the game, the passion to love the game and the skills needed to succeed in the game. As a friend's brother, he was someone to look up to and emulate. He is an intense, tough man who cares greatly about his faith and his family. I will always remember him fondly.

steffanie Brauer-King

December 4, 2015

I have very fond memories of Coach Robben and his days at Goddard High School. Such a handsome, caring nice man. My heart is broken for all who loved him. He made a difference, he cared and will be so very missed.

Sid and Pat Mabie

December 4, 2015

We are so saddened for your loss. Roger was such an inspiration to all who were lucky enough to know him..we always appreciated his kindness toward our Molly.. He was one of those special people who was placed here to guide the rest of us on the right path.. You are in our thoughts.

Kara (Davis) Cunniff

December 3, 2015

Roger was a very special man who touched a lot of lives; he will be deeply missed! May God give you the strength to make it through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with Robben family.

Kimberly McSwain

December 3, 2015

Dear Robben Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We have fond and happy memories of spending our summers in various basketball tournaments with Roger and the kids. He is an excellent mentor, awesome coach and a kind man. Thank you for sharing him with the community. The McSwain Family

December 3, 2015

To Olivia, Riggs, Sylvia, Deb, Josie and Jake, and all the family...Our deepest, deepest sympathies. We will miss Roger so much. His beautiful smile and his friendly ways. He was always happiest when he was with all of you! He was an honorable man, you have so much to be proud of in how he lived his life. Our hearts are heavy like yours. With you in love and sympathy.
Klay, Mika, Katie, Allison and Luke Gross

Janet Stephen

December 3, 2015

Coach Robben, I am so sad you will not be with us on earth anymore. You brought so much love and joy to our family. Luke and Mark will always be better men because of you. My love goes out to your entire family.
The world is a. Better place because of you. Deb, Roger loved you soooo much. I don't believe I saw his eyes sparkle as much as when he was with you.

Teresa & Amado Piña

December 3, 2015

Dear Robben, Huslig and Hageman families. Coach Robben welcomed our kids Andrew, Amado & Briana when they transferred to Goddard. He coached and taught all of our kids until 2010 and we got to know him through the football booster club. Even after he left Goddard, I would still receive a "Happy Mother's Day" text and I'm sure other football moms did too. I'm sure he would be glad to know that our son Andrew, one of his students and players, is also a teacher and hopes to be a coach someday. We will never forget the influence he had on our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jim Ryan

December 3, 2015

I knew Roger two years in High School. Roger and his family were great individuals that made me better with their example. To the Robben family, my condolences!!!

Anne Posegate (Barnard)

December 3, 2015

Dear Robben Family,
My thoughts are with your family. I went to school with Roger at St. Peters a LONG time ago. Even back then he was a kind boy. I cannot imagine how heavy your hearts must be. My family's prayers are with you.

Katie & Trevor Walsh

December 3, 2015

Deb and the kids,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief. Even though I didn't know Roger, he touched a lot of young players and students. May God wrap his arms around all of you in the days to come.

Leon & Diane Zoglman

December 3, 2015

To the Robben family: Please accept our sincere sympathy at the passing of Roger. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Leon, Diane Zoglman & family

Linda and Doug Myers

December 3, 2015

Deepest sympathies to Olivia, Riggs and Sylvia. Keep your faith in God and he will hold your hand to help you through these tough times. Praying for all of you.

Danny Higgins

December 3, 2015

My deepest sympathies to the Robben family! Roger was a great friend and teammate. He was an inspiration to us all. Rest in Peace Big Rog!

Stephanie (Graf) Golden

December 3, 2015

I cannot begin to express my sincerest condolences on the loss of Coach Robben. He always pushed us to do more and be better, yet was kind and endearing all the same. As a mother, wife and sister, I cannot fathom the pain you are experiencing. Please know that your entire family has been, and will continue to be, on so many peoples' hearts and in their prayers.
Randy & Raelynn, special hugs for you both.

Jeff Bollig

December 3, 2015

My sympathies to the family, friends and all who Roger touched as a coach, teacher and teammate. He was a special person and will be missed.

THe Ultimate Sports Shop Diana Freund

December 3, 2015

Roger will be missed. I recall the time he brought his beautiful children in to the store, his beautiful smile those eyes were shinning as he introduced them. R.I.P.. A true gods angel

Angela Giroux

December 3, 2015

Sending prayers to the family. I didn't know Roger, but I met his daughter Olivia through my niece Hannah Jasinski during visits to Wichita. God bless Olivia, her siblings, family and the community who knew and loved Roger. Rest in Peace.

Russ Bowen

December 3, 2015

Roger was a great person and inspiration for thousands of people. My condolences go out to his family.

Gary Duncan

December 3, 2015

Robben Family,
I had the joy of getting to know Roger many years ago when he worked for me at Ray Chair Rental. He was a joy to work with and always had a smile for everyone and knew what hard work was. He will be missed by many.

Amy (Hanes) Pugh- Class of '87

December 3, 2015

Robben Family,
May knowing that Roger was truly a nice, giving, faithful, and loving person during his life give you some comfort as he is now with our Lord. Prayers and blessings!

Fr. Shawn McKnight

December 3, 2015

My sincere condolences. It was a great joy for me to see Roger at Sunday Mass with Deb at Church of the Magdalen. God rest your soul, Roger. And my thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Bill & Michelle Doll

December 3, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Bob, Sherry and family! I remember a night when Roger offered me a ride home when I was on foot on a cold, rainy night. He will be remembered as a good man!

Randy Robben

December 2, 2015

Love and miss you already, brother,brother-n-law,and uncle. Love Randy, Nicole, Gabby and Bella

Mark & Andrea Perez

December 2, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the kids and family. Roger was a good friend, an excellent coach and above all a great person. We will be missed.

Wayne and Vicki Love

December 2, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Coach will be missed from our neighborhood.

Daniel & Melissa Lauer

December 2, 2015

Bob, Sherry & Family,
Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Roman Simon

December 2, 2015

Bob and Sherry
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
RP and Jackie Simon

Tom Beck

December 2, 2015

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you.

MINTA HAWKINS (DEAN)

December 2, 2015

My deepest sympathies to Rogers family and friends on his sudden passing away, causing shock to everyone who knew and loved him, that he was suddenly no longer able to share his love of coaching, teaching of his students, but more importantly, the love of/to/for his family and friends. He will be missed by all who knew him and loved him as a family member, friend, coach, and teacher, and may God comfort and guide you during your time of grief, and may you hold tightly in your hearts and minds your favorite memories, or those memories that mean so much to you and/or others. May they be a source of comfort to you during the good times, but more importantly, may the memories during the bad times to help bring peace, love, to you and comfort you. Our thoughts and prayers are, and will be with you during this tragic time.
Bob, I still remember you coaching at South Highschool when I was a student there, and the love of coaching and teaching you had for your students, and players. You taught and guided Roger very well, in and for the love of what he all did for his students.

Fr. Leon Kerschen

December 2, 2015

My connection to the Robben family has been for several generations as I grew up in Andale with Roger's grandparents and great grandparents. Good people. Sherrie was also one of my best teachers in times past. Bob was a one the best running backs to wear an Andale uniform. I remember well Roger's days at Carroll and college. May he rest in peace. I will offer Mass this Sunday for the Robben family. Fr. Leon Kerschen

Alfredo & Michelle Garcia

December 2, 2015

Sending love and prayers to all of the Robben family and Deb. Roger was the real deal, and we will miss having such a great neighbor and friend. May God wrap you all in His peace and comfort.

John and Barbara Sponsel Family

December 2, 2015

Roger was a fine neighbor, a good friend and a great man. Our prayers for Roger and all the Robben family. "Friendships begun in this world will be taken up again, never to be broken off", (Saint Francis de Sales).

Ronnie and Cathy Knoblauch

December 2, 2015

Bob, Sherry, and family
May your faith give you strength, family and friends give you comfort as God carries you through this difficult time - we pray. Love to all.

Lori Allen

December 2, 2015

Sending prayers to the family/friends. This is a such a tremendous loss to the community. I didn't know Mr. Robben, but through the reading of all the stories, it is so obvious he was such a bright light in so many lives.

Roch Dold

December 2, 2015

Dear Bob & Sherry,
My deepest condolences for the Robben family. May God bless your family and give you comfort knowing that Roger touched so many young lives in such a postive & meaningful way.

Eric and Dawn Niedergeses

December 2, 2015

Deb and all of Roger's family, we wish you peace at this most difficult time and pray that you will find comfort in the Lord.

Connie Hummel

December 2, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss of your dad, son, and brother. I work for the Augusta School District at the District Office and was very fortunate to call Roger my friend. I will always remember his wonderful smile, his beautiful blue eyes and his vast kindness! Roger was truly one of the nicest people that I will ever know. My thoughts and prayers to your entire family! I will miss my friend.......

Mark and Joan Pauly Family

December 2, 2015

Dear Raelynn and family, and also all the Robben Family,
Our sympathies and prayers go out to all of you.

Kelly Jordan

December 2, 2015

Deb - am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

December 2, 2015

Dear Robben family, Our prayers are with you. We are thankful that our son (and Grandson) was able to play football for and to be mentored by Coach Roger. He was a kind and spiritual man who we were blessed to know. Tim and Dian Pauly, Patricia Dold

Mark Dold

December 2, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the extended Robben Family during your time of loss. I have many memories of Roger running around on the farm as a little guy and wanting to be around all the activity. I only saw him play in one college game at Auburn. It was exciting to see him grow from a little kid to D1 Athlete. Roger's legacy is his children and the many kids and young athletes he mentored and influenced over the years.

Jack Crossman

December 2, 2015

To the Robben Family, my sympathy goes out to you. May God wrap his arms around you and get you through this time of sorrow.

Alfredo Garcia

December 2, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers for Roger's family. Especially his kids. Roger was a great person and awesome next door neighbor. My kids loved talking to him through the fence when they were outside. Rest in peace Roger.

Brian and Trisha Knoblauch

December 2, 2015

To my wonderful Robben family,
I have so many wonderful memories of Roger and the rest of the family going back almost as long as I can remember. We are keeping you all in our prayers during this very difficult time.

December 2, 2015

Our deepest condolences to the entire Robben family and their loved ones.

From Lia (Simon) Evans and Troy Evans, BC class of '89

Jerry & Judy Gilman

December 2, 2015

Our sincere condolence to the family.

Dave and Jodi Strack

December 2, 2015

Our heartfelt condolences to the entire family. We will lift you all up in our prayers during this most difficult time.
Dave and Jodi Strack

Peggy Maxwell Kruchten ('87)

December 2, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to the Robben Family. Please be assured of our prayers at this time.

December 2, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with his children and family. He was truly a great man and will be missed by all in the BC community.

John Mohr

Steve Mainz

December 2, 2015

We want to extend our deepest sympathy to all of Roger's family esp. his parents, brothers and sisters.
Love Marge and Steve Mainz

Kelly (Martin) Beers

December 2, 2015

Bob, Sherry and family,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your son, brother and father. May the memories you hold dear to your heart bring you comfort in the days ahead. I will forever remember his kind heart and wonderful smile. Sending love and prayers.

Connie Force

December 2, 2015

To the Robben family sorry for loss of Roger. He will be dearly missed by so many people. May He rest in our Lords arms. May God bless you.

Dick Tatro

December 2, 2015

God Bless you all in this time of loss. Roger lived a wonderful life and was a great role model for many people. He will never be forgotten. It was a great honor for me to coach him, my prayers are with you.

Randy Hammann

December 1, 2015

My thoughts and prayers to your family. May your faith keep you strong in these times.

Rhiannon Grommesh

December 1, 2015

Praying for Mr. Robben and his family.

Lisa (Wright) Cruze

December 1, 2015

My prayers are with your family. May God comfort you during this difficult time.

Candace (Ketzner) Nance

December 1, 2015

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that you are all surrounded by love at this difficult time.

Megan Boggess

December 1, 2015

Mr. Robben was a great teacher. He always had a smile and a great Personality.
Prayers.

Ron & Diana Seiler

December 1, 2015

Remembering what an awesome Coach and role model he was to our son Chadd @ Goddard High School ~ 2005 - 2006. He set the bar for so many of these young Football players to become the responsible and caring men they are today! Our prayers and condolences to Deb ~ his children ~ parents and family! He will be greatly missed!! RIP Roger!!

Tim Fitzmier

December 1, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Roger was a great father, brother,son,and friend. You should be proud of all the life's he touched and helped shape. When you first met Roger, you felt like you had known him forever. His smile and humble way he was ,drew you in. He will be greatly missed. May God be with his family and friends during time of need. RIP my brother in Christ

Byron McSwain

December 1, 2015

What-a-guy! Can't believe you're gone my friend. You planted a lot of seeds in the kids you touched ever day. You made lives better by your actions. You were a "Life" coach. Your teachings went well beyond the classroom, basketball courts, and football fields. I'll be praying for your family during this difficult time. May God give them peace as only he can. It's not really goodbye but see you later.

Ken and Cathy Bliven

December 1, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Roger's family. Take comfort in knowing that God now holds him in the palm of His hand.

Brian Weber

December 1, 2015

I remember riding with Bob, Robbie, and Randy to Ames to watch Roger play. You could sense how proud they were of him and how much he meant to them. My heart aches for them and their entire family.

R.I.P. Roger.

Deb (Orth) Wetta

December 1, 2015

Sherri and Bob,
There are no words of comfort at this time. Some day when we all get to heaven we will have to ask "WHY-Why Roger when he was so young and when his children needed him the most". I am certain as a family you will wrap your arms around his children and be the best guides for them. My heart breaks for each and every one of you and will keep you all in our prayers.
Sherri- I told mom about his death and she was very sad. She can no longer express her thoughts, but she always loved you so much, along with Tom and Sister Donna.

Amy Fasbender-Kimbell

December 1, 2015

Praying that God will give you strength through this tragic time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Becky Barrera

December 1, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of Roger's passing. I don't think I've ever met a nicer man. My sincere condolences to his family.

Marney Hay

December 1, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to Roger's family. I will always remember his warm and welcoming smile. He will be greatly missed.

Liz Nelson

December 1, 2015

The Robben family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am thinking of all of you as you go through this sad time. Love and peace.

Debbie Gaul

December 1, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May God wrap His arms around you all and provide peace and comfort.

Becky Smith

December 1, 2015

I am keeping all of Roger's loved ones in my prayers, especially his children, his fiance, Deb and her children. I will miss Roger's friendly face. He always greeted me with the biggest smile.

Fred & Donna Sauer

December 1, 2015

The Robben family will be in our prayers. Hold on to the memories of Roger and let those memories be a comfort to you in the coming days.

Gary Huslig

December 1, 2015

My thoughts and prayers for the Robben family during this difficult and sad time. Roger was a special person to so many people who knew him, and he will be greatly missed by us all.

Sandy Nelson

December 1, 2015

The Robben family is heavy in my heart. Please know I am thinking of each of you as you go through this sad time. Love and peace

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