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Loretta Phares
October 27, 2003
My deepest condolences to Jeff, Shaun, and Joel whom I remember fondly as young children growing up in our church family. May God grant you wisdom and understanding in these days. You are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Loretta Phares
(Grace Presbyterian)
Lee Ann Lloyd
October 14, 2003
Jo was my boss when we both worked at Swedish Hospital several years ago. She was a great person. God bless her and her husband.
Pam Bates
October 13, 2003
Today is Monday Oct. 13. Yesterday Paul was to come to my home and dedicate my 14 month old daughter. I found out about his death on Friday the 10th from his son. I was and still am stunned about his death to say the least. Paul married my husband and I 3 years ago. He gave us a perfect and beautiful gift that day. I wanted him to do that for Kaylin my daughter yesterday. I managed to find someone to step in and do the dedication. We prayed for Paul and Jo and I know he was there with us. He touched my life in a way that I cannot explain and I will hurt for a long time knowing he is not with us any longer. I hope that he and his wife found peace and I hope that his family will be able too as well some day. Godspeed Paul. I will miss you.
Pam Bates
Dorene & Marvin Burke
October 12, 2003
How sad that two fine people are no longer with us. Paul married three of our children, baptized 4 of our grandchildren, and celebrated the Witness to Eternal Life for one of our parents. We always looked forward to Easter and Christmas, because Paul would portray a person who witnessed a particular event. These soliloquies made the particular season just a bit more meaningful. Paul and Jo had a way of lifting your spirits as they sang their duets. Thanks, Paul and Jo, for being part of our lives.
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Julie Dike
October 2, 2003
Pastor Paul performed my baptism and the baptisms of my three sons. He served as my advisor and friend during the most crucial time of my Christian development. I confided in him reliably. He took my hand and lead me to Jesus. I can hear him in my heart, singing "God Loves Yule-ee early in the morning." He is the only one who called me that. I feel the world is more dangerous without Paul and Jo and I will miss them terribly.
Paula Daniel Steinbacher
October 1, 2003
Paul was our Youth Pastor at Grace in Wichita. He inspired me to enter youth ministry and I have always aspired to treat the youth I worked with the way he treated us. He made such a difference in my life and really took the time to get to know me. God bless his family and Jo's family, too.
Ann Anderson
October 1, 2003
Paul married Todd and I a little over 20 years ago. I was impressed with him as a minister and feel sorrow for the problems that he has had in his life. I was comforted when he visited Todd and I at Craig Hospital after Todd's accident. I pray that the family finds some peace knowing that he did touch some heart in very special ways. For that I am grateful to have known him. God comfort the family and many friends that will miss him.
Lynne Gonzales
September 30, 2003
Paul and Jo were both very dear and a joy to be with at North Presbyterian during the time I was on session. I remember singing with both of them at the church before services. We watch our children grow together and for this I will always have a special place in my heart for them. May God Bless and keep their family in his grace throughout.
Cynde Gavito
September 30, 2003
Pastor Paul helped our family our family tremendously and we will always remember him in our hearts. I wish his family well.
Sarah Asplin
September 29, 2003
Paul and Jo used to sing this song with me, I have sung it to myself many times this week...because of their many lessons, I know they have found the peace they were searching for..."my peace I give unto you, it's a peace that the world cannot give, it's a peace that the world cannot understand, peace to know, peace to live, my peace I give unto you."
Jean Stevens
September 29, 2003
Paul was at my church in Wichita and I thank him for sharing his time and teaching the Stephen Ministry course. I will always re-member him.
Jay and Micaela Ayers
September 29, 2003
Our sympathies and concern go to Paul and Joetta's families. Paul was a dear friend many years ago, and we pray for all who were touched by this man's life.
Kari Horst
September 29, 2003
My heart goes out to Paul & Jo's family. Paul married my husband and I 9 years ago and baptised our daughter 7. He was an important part of my life and will be missed. I'm sorry for the pain his family is going through.
Dayna (Murphy) Tullis
September 28, 2003
Paul was a gifted Youth Leader/Minister at Grace Presbyterian in Wichita where
I grew up, and will be truly missed.
Karla Asplin
September 28, 2003
I want to express my condolences to all of Paul and Joetta's children and survivors. My daughter, Sarah Asplin, attended church with Paul and Joetta. I traveled in Up With People years ago and I know that Paul did also. My daughter loved to sing Up With People songs with Paul on Sundays. She was very close to both of them and this has been a difficult experience for her. She has a strong belief in the Lord and feels, as do I, that Paul and Joetta are with God, free from pain, full of love. God bless all of you.
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