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for Christopher Bechard
Tabitha Benner
January 3, 2008
Dearest Chris~ How I wished we could have talked and laughed together one more time. Even though we haven't seen each other for a bunch years, I knew it would be just like we saw each other yesterday. Since we were kids in Waterville (how many miles did we walk, anyhow?) you have had a special place in my heart; even now, writing this, a sad smile comes to my face just thinking of you. And now that we're offically family (your brother & my sister: can you believe they got married after all these years??), I thought for sure we would all see each other more, share some laughter, catch up on life, maybe sing a little. I looked forward to meeting your family, and introducing you to mine. But then came the phone call from my mom saying you were gone. Gone?? How I wish we could have talked one more time....
Ralph Cyr
January 3, 2008
Dear Pennie & Luke,
I just finished watching the pictures of your wonderful family during happier times. These are the times I will always remember of my good friend and nephew, Christopher. What a terrific guy. Our two visits to Kansas and your visits to Colorado stand out among our fondest memories. We had such wonderful times when we were together. You are such great hosts. Visiting the museum in Hutchinson and then going to your favorite BBQ place where everyone welcomed us as your friends were special times. Our visit to Rocky Mountain National Park and lunch at Estes Park, CO when you visited were also among our fondest memories.
Especially special was when you were on your way to Maine and you stopped and met us at the Chili's restaurant in Pittsford so we could have lunch and meet Luke. I remember playing with Luke on my knees in the restaurant and looking at the love in Chris' and Pennie's faces as they watched Luke laughing. These were just SOME of the special times but really ANY time with Chris was special. His visit to Colorado when Ralph graduated from the Academy also stands out.
He was a warm, loving, caring special friend to all who had the privilege to get to know him. Annette and I were privileged to be his Godparents but more importantly we looked upon Chris and Pennie as our special "best friends".
With deepest love and fondest memories Christopher you will always be there with our son Ralph in our prayers for the two of you.
Love,
Annette & Ralph
John Winkels
January 2, 2008
Penny,
My deepest sympathy to you....
I can remember fondly the many times you &
Luke & Chris were at the "late shift" at the Cathedral on Sunday nights,
how Chris loved to sing.... & the obvious GRACE that you all shared.
Mgrs. Bud Fiedler & Chris are greeting one another right now again....
I shall remember Chris in my prayers as I make music for Bud's funeral tomorrow.
And, of course, you & Luke will be in my prayers as well.
susan ludwikoski
December 31, 2007
Pennie and Luke,
We are so sorry to hear about Chris. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. Our hearts are full of love, prayers and hope for you and Luke during this difficult time. Lots of love, Susie and John Ludwikoski
Karla Fimple
December 31, 2007
Dear Pennie, Luke, Roger & Kay,
I'm very sorry to hear about Chris. Please know that we are thinking and praying for you during this difficult time. God Bless you. Love, Karla
Jeane Harte
December 31, 2007
Dear Penny, Luke & all of Chris's Family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I worked Chris since he first joined the BUCON sales team. Chris was a very dedicated and passionate person to work with and he will be sorely missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeane Harte
Shirley Miller
December 31, 2007
Pennie & Luke
I first met Chris on the phone when he drove a Butler company car as I am the administrator of the company vehicles. He was always so nice and friendly. Later when he came to K.C. his office was next to mine for a while. He was without a doubt a very friendly person. When he talked about you and Luke you could tell he was very proud of both of you. You have my deepest sympathies and prayers to you and the Bechard family. Chris will be missed but not forgotten. He is so very happy now and who wouldn't be with our Father in Heaven. Trust in Him and He will see you through this.
Marcy Irwin
December 31, 2007
Pennie and Luke--I'm so sorry to hear about Chris's death. I know he loved you both very much--he talked about you a lot here at Butler. My prayers are with you.
Lynette Pelischek
December 31, 2007
Pennie and Luke:
Pennie, I was so saddened to hear about Chris. It was a pleasure to teach with you in Hutch. I will always remember Chris giving me a hard time about being a Bronco's fan! May you find peace in the Lord's guiding hands at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers to you and your wonderful son. God Bless, Lynette Pelischek
Sue (Palmer) York
December 30, 2007
Dear Pennie,
I was so saddened to see Chris's obituary in the Hutch News today. It was such a shock. Please know that you and Luke are in my thoughts and prayers.
You may not remember me as our lives crossed in Hutchinson. I was Sue Palmer at that time. I always enjoyed the times we were together either at your neighbors home or when we went out in Wichita.
You and Chris were always so kind.His friendly ways and cheerful smile will be missed by many.
Brad Bradley
December 30, 2007
Pennie & Luke, It is with great sorrow that we sign this book, but we know Chris has found peace. He had a good life & a great family. We were blessed to have known Chris and he sparked our lives that seemed to make us appreciate lots of things, that we had not paid much attention to before. We pray that his time with you will guide you both towards a blessed life that will be his legacy. Always thinking of you, we pray. Sharon & Brad
Philip Julia
December 30, 2007
Penny, Luke Diane and Julian
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Chris. My prayors are with all of you during this sad time. Chris will never be forgotton.
Lee Axman
December 30, 2007
Dear Pennie and Luke, Roger and Kay,
I don't know the right words to say to you at this very difficult time. Know that my thoughts, prayers and hugs are with you today and always. Keep your faith in our good Lord and he will help you. My deepest sympathies, Love, Lee
Shirley Lebien
December 30, 2007
Dear Pennie and Luke,
My heart goes out to you for the great loss you are suffering. Chris was always respectful, kind, and caring. Every time I drive by your adorable "yellow house" on 19th Street here in Hutchnson I think of you! I will always remember Pennie and Chris. You will be in my heart and prayers. God is holding Chris in the palms of his precious hands. I am sending Luke and Penny a big hug across the miles.
Sincerely,
Shirley Lebien
Karen Heck
December 30, 2007
Diane and Julian, I can't imagine your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the family. Much love, Karen
Benjamin Westervelt
December 30, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bechard,
I was shocked and saddened to learn about Chris's death from my mother. Please know that you and all your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Ben
Peter CYR
December 30, 2007
Dear Diane
I am your cousin Peter Cyr. On behalf of myself and my wife Paula we want to convey our deepest sympathy. We never met Christopher but you are family to us. I called my sister Patricia and she will be contacting you.
Love
Pete and Paula
Judy Diehl
December 30, 2007
Dear Pennie, I am so sorry for Luke and you. I opened up the paper and found Chris's obit. I guess I felt I had adopted the two of over the many years at Medical Center. I will contact Dr. Dobbs. I will always have good memories. I remember when you were blessed with Luke. My thought and prayers are with you and your family. Call if I can help in anyway. Take care of yourself and Luke. Love Judy Diehl
Anne and Tondo Waldron
December 30, 2007
Tondo and I are so sorry. We are praying for Chris, Pennie and Luke.
Lauren Kaiser
December 30, 2007
Pennie and Luke: We are so sorry for you loss. Chris was a wonderful man and we have such fond memories of him. Please know that our thoughts, love and support are with you both and your families. Lots of love, Lauren, Mike, Evan and Anna Kaiser
Debbie Hilliard
December 30, 2007
We will miss your smiling face and bear hugs. I hope you receive comfort in God's arms. Love always.
Jan Johnson
December 30, 2007
Pennie & Luke, I worked with Chris for several years at Butler. He had a great heart and was so very proud of you two - you were his most precious gifts. I lost my 17 year old son in 1992 and told him about this. A few days later he came up to me, put his arm around me and said "I said a prayer for you at Church the other day." This was one of the kindest things a person could do for me. It wasn't too long ago when Chris came to my office, he said, "Jan, stand up, I stood up and he gave me a hug." You have not lost your husband/dad, but I have lost a friend. He will be missed for all who loved him. I pray you will have the strength and faith to take you through this most difficult time of your life. Love, Jan
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