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Karen Marie DeLuccie

1958 - 2022

Karen Marie DeLuccie obituary, 1958-2022, Independence, MO

BORN

1958

DIED

2022

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Speaks Suburban Chapel

18020 E. 39th St. S

Independence, Missouri

Karen DeLuccie Obituary

Karen Marie DeLuccie
March 4, 1958 - April 12, 2022
Independence, Missouri - Karen M. DeLuccie, 64, of Independence, MO, joined her parents and grandparents in Heaven on April 12, 2022. She peacefully passed away at home surrounded by her loving family after battling cancer. Karen was born in Dunmore, PA, on March 4, 1958, to Thomas and Mary Bewick DeLuccie and grew up in Scranton, PA, with her two sisters, Mary DeLuccie and Patti DeLuccie Schmidt. The DeLuccie girls attended St. Paul's, where Karen met her future husband, Joseph O'Hara, in the first grade. Both she and Joe then went to Bishop Hannan High School and graduated in 1976, with Karen as the president of her class. She then moved to Blue Springs, MO, and attended the 6-year undergraduate and Juris Doctorate program at the University of Missouri–Kansas City. Karen graduated in 1982 and would later return as an adjunct professor at the UMKC School of Law. Joe joined Karen in Missouri, and the two were married in 1995. They were blessed with two children, Thomas Joseph O'Hara and MaryRose O'Hara–the pride and joy of Karen's life. Karen spent her 40-year legal career on the Independence Square, practicing law as a Family Law specialist. She was a partner in the firm Paden, Welch, Martin and Albano for 20 years, then partnered with her husband in their firm, the DeLuccie & O'Hara Law Offices, LLC, for her last 20 years. Karen was a member and past president of the Eastern Jackson County Bar Association, a fellow in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, co-founder of the Independence Youth Court, and a mentor to numerous young lawyers. She was also a trained mediator and was appointed by Judges to serve as guardian ad litem for hundreds of children whose parents were having trouble dealing with the strains of pending divorce cases. She was an AV-rated lawyer (the highest possible rating), whose reputation for professionalism and integrity is beyond reproach. But perhaps the greatest achievement of her legal career took place when she helped author and pass the law that created the Family Court of Missouri, signed by then-Governor Mel Carnahan. The law completely transformed the Family Law Court system for the benefit of all parties by streamlining the divorce and child custody cases. Parties in those cases might not have known Karen, but through her efforts, their experience in the court system was made much more efficient and less traumatic as a result. Karen also took on several roles to serve her community. She was a member of the City Council of Independence since 2014. Karen truly loved her city and her constituents, to whom she gave nothing short of devoted and caring service. She also served 17 years on the City of Independence Planning Commission before her election to the City Council and was a member of the Independence Square Tax Board, a trustee of Gold Bank, and for 8 years was the director of the Advanced Reading Program at her children's school, Messiah Lutheran, in Independence. Karen lived by two creeds: "You'll be surprised how much can get done when nobody cares who gets the credit," and, "Every day is a gift," which is written on a sign that hangs over the kitchen table of her home. Those who knew Karen know that every day with her was a true gift. She was preceded in death by her parents, Thomas and Mary, her grandparents, Frank and Geneva Craig DeLuccie, and Edward and Florence Coan Bewick. She is survived by her husband, Joe, her children, Thomas and MaryRose, her sister Patti DeLuccie Schmidt, St. Charles, MO, her sister Mary DeLuccie and her husband, Rick Scheidt, Manhattan, KS, her loving niece Hannah LaBelle and her husband, Francis LaBelle, Chicago, and nephews Ron and Robert Schmidt, St. Louis, MO, and Eric and Nicholas Scheidt, Manhattan, KS. A visitation will take place on April 19, 2022, at St. Mark's Catholic Church in Independence, with a Rosary Service from 5 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. Greeting of family and friends will be from 5:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. Service provided by Speaks Funeral Chapel. A funeral mass will take place on April 20, 2022, at 11:30 a.m. at St. Mark's. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Karen's name to: Independence Police Foundation, C/O Truman Heartland Community Foundation, 4200 Little Blue Pkwy #340, Independence, MO 64057; Bingham Waggoner Historical Society, 313 W. Pacific Ave., Independence, MO 64050; Vaile Victorian Society, 1500 N Liberty St., Independence, MO 64050

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Published by Kansas City Star from Apr. 15 to Apr. 17, 2022.

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Gary and Mary Ann Bewick

April 21, 2022

To all the DeLuccie Families,
We are very sorry for your loss.
Gary and Mary Ann Bewick

John D Breslin

April 20, 2022

Joe & Mary - So sorry to read of Karen's passing.

Barbara and Duane Theesfeld

April 20, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with Joe and the kids. Karen was a wonderful person . She helped our family with a matter in family court, seemed hopeless but she came through for us. Rest in peace, Karen.

Duane and Barbara Theesfeld

Georgia Graham

April 20, 2022

My most sincere condolences to Karen's family, associates, and those whose lives she touched in meaningful other ways. I did not know her, but feel this City has benefitted greatly from her dedication and years of generous and charitable service. She cannot be replaced, but hopefully the achievements attained in her short life will be an inspiration to those following in her footsteps.

Randy Cain

April 19, 2022

I did not know Karen well...but from what I did know she was always, always, a class act, a tremendous person, a cherished colleague, and a tremendous credit to the Bar. She will be missed....she will not be replaced.

Randall Cain

Larry and Judy Kelly

April 19, 2022

My wife, Judy and I were deeply saddened by the news of Karen´s demise.

Back in the 1970's I was an Assistant U.S. Attorney in Scranton and lived in Scranton and Dunmore with our two young daughters. Karen´s father, Tom Delucci was a prominent member of the Staff of the Clerk of the U.S. District Court for the Middle District of Pennsylvania.
As such, I spent many, many hours with Tom both in Court and socially.

We (especially our daughters) were very pleased when we were able to get Karen (then in high school) to play with the kids when we went out for the evening. What a bright, vivacious fun, interesting and beautiful person Karen was. It is no wonder that she went on to such great success in Missouri when the Delucci family moved there!

Sincerest condolences to the entire family,

Larry and Judy Kelly
Montrose, PA

Cindy Battaglia

April 19, 2022

my heart goes out to the family. Independence lost a treasure with Karen. I know how much she loved the city and her family.

Frankie Navratil

April 19, 2022

We became friends in law school and even then she never did things halfway. She approached life with passion and intensity in all things. She loved Joe and Tommy and Mary Rose with that same intensity. I have so many wonderful memories of Karen that I will cherish forever.

Anita Mortimer

April 18, 2022

My sincere condolences to Joe, MaryRose, Tom, and all of Karen's loved ones. She was an amazing woman, a wonderful and caring lawyer, and a true public servant. May her memory be a blessing.

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Shana Abernathy

April 15, 2022

Always enjoyed the company of Karen when we worked out of the same building. She will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to her family.

Peggy Van Bebber

April 15, 2022

Karen was a great help to me when I needed help with the beneficiary deed on my parents house. I couldn't have done it without her. God Bless You Karen. Rest in Peace my friend.

Robert Davis

April 14, 2022

Karen represented me, then became my source for all family law questions when I began practicing. I am better for knowing her.

Tom Oesterle

April 13, 2022

I prayerfully offer my condolences to Karen's family she was a good friend and committed to her family and her community she will be missed

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5:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

St. Mark Catholic Church

Independence, MO

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Funeral Mass

11:30 a.m.

St. Mark Catholic Church

Independence, MO

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