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Richard Cole

1945 - 2018

Richard Cole obituary, 1945-2018, Lexington, KY

BORN

1945

DIED

2018

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Milward Funeral Directors - Man O' War

1509 Trent Boulevard

Lexington, Kentucky

Richard Cole Obituary

COLE Richard Dineen "Dickie", age 72, beloved husband of Sue Ellen Dorton Cole, passed away peacefully in his sleep, Monday, February 5, 2018 at his home. He was born August 23,1945 in Lexington to the late John Lewis and Anna Boggs Cole, and was preceded in death by his two sisters, Ann Lewis Griggs and Jane Cole Britton, brothers-in-law, John Minor Griggs and Carl Andrew Britton and his nephew's wife, Sheila Kay Griggs. He and his wife, Sue, were high school sweethearts and were married June 22,1968, their 50th wedding anniversary this year. He attended University High School, graduated from Henry Clay High School and the University of Kentucky College of Business with a degree in Business Administration and Accounting. After working as an accountant for General Motors in Cleveland, Ohio, he enlisted in the United States Army Engineering Officers Candidate School to become a First Lieutenant. He was proud and honored to serve his country, serving in the 112th Military Intelligence Group. He was assigned to an intelligence mission in Viet Nam, and was awarded the Army Commendation Medal for Meritorious Service, and Rank of Captain. He was a Kentucky State Commissioner, Department of Local Government from 1975 to 1988 establishing the Toyota Impact Planning Center, Georgetown, Kentucky for the first Toyota Motor Manufacturing Corporation in the United States, and Chairman of the Kentucky Advisory Council on the Homeless. He was a member of the UK Alumni Association, and was a devoted sports fan. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his son, John Howard Cole (Robyn Michelle) his daughter, Laura Anne Cole (Christopher Steinrock) and his brother John Haggan Cole (Barbara Ann) all of Louisville. He is also survived by his nieces and nephews; John Nicholas Griggs,(Marita Louise), Jane Carol Griggs, Thomas Lewis Griggs (Donna Lynn), Michael Cole Griggs, Robert Adams Griggs, Joseph Clay Griggs, Rebecca Ann Griggs Kundinger (Wade), and Jennifer Louise Cole Hemsell (Lindsey) and many great nieces and nephews. Dickie was loyal to and loved his Cole and Griggs families especially his older brother, John. He cherished his son, John, and daughter, Laura Anne. He was a good provider, protector and guardian of his family. Dickie had a quick wit, humorous and fun-loving personality with many close friends, and was closest to his lifelong and best friends, John William Link, and John Bissell Roberts, Jr. We shall miss this good man and our very beloved friend. Visitation will be from 4:00 until 7:00 P.M. Monday at Milward - Man O' War, 1509 Trent Blvd. Funeral services will be conducted 11:00 A.M. Tuesday at The Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd, 533 East Main St. Burial will follow in the Lexington Cemetery. In memory of Dickie's love for pets and his little dogs, CoCo and Taz, contributions are suggested to the Lexington Humane Society, 1600 Old Frankfort Pike, Lexington, Ky. 40504. View and sign the guestbook at: www.milwardfuneral.com

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Feb. 9, 2018.

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February 26, 2018

Oh, RD, I have been struggling greatly by your untimely passing and am just heartbroken.

You were always so good to me and such a true friend. I am going to miss you terribly!

Life just won't be the same without you in it!

I will think of you often and remember you always. Goodbye, RD, and you know that I will always love ya, "Duck"!

DAD

My sincere and heartfelt condolences to your family. Prayers for comfort and peace to everyone at such an extremely difficult time.

February 12, 2018

RD

Heaven took you to soon. Can't believe your gone.
I will miss your laughing eyes, smile, special friendship and the
memories more than you'll ever know.

I regret that I'll miss your send off. My thoughts and prayers
fo your family.

Will never forget you. Forever in my heart!

Deuce

February 11, 2018

HEAVEN IS NOW EXPERIENCING NEW LAUGHTER AND EXTREME WIT FROM THIS EXCEPTIONAL MAN. GABRIEL IS STILL BLOWING HIS HORN !!

I REGRET THAT I AM IN SOUTH CAROLINA AND CANNOT ATTEND THE SERVICES. MY WARMEST THOUGHTS TO SUE AND THE CHILDREN.\

CHARLES MITCHELL JR.

BISSELL ROBERTS

February 10, 2018

Dickie -

Your friends and your family may not all be ready to say "good-bye". You left us suddenly, but not without countless fabulous memories of so many wonderfully entertaining times spent with you. Some of us may just wait a while to say that final goodbye.

Over many years you entertained us and hundreds of other people with your wit, humor and up-beat ways. Forever the optimist, your positive attitude made you a natural leader. When you met with a newly elected Kentucky Governor, who was going to "fire you" as Kentucky's Commissioner of Local Government (after you had served two previous Governors, she confessed she couldn't fire you. She said you were "more popular" in Frankfort than she was.

You will always be remembered for you humor, your positive attitude, your friendship and your "big heart". Until we meet again we will be sustained by the memories of fantastic times spent together.

Your friend.

Bissell Roberts
Prospect, Kentucky

Pam Perrell

February 10, 2018

I will miss Dickie more than I can say, and he'll be missed by so many friends he had. He was the funniest person I ever had the pleasure of knowing. He had the quickest wit and sense of humor of anyone I've ever met. What fun times we all had throughout the years. I hope he'll find Tommy up there and they will continue their long friendship. So long for now, my friend!

Bill Patrick

February 10, 2018

I want to express my deepest condolences to Sue and Dick's family. I have known Dick since 1981 shortly after I was elected Powell County Judge Executive. As the man leading the Governor's office of Local Government, I sought his help with state funding for extending clean water to residents in need and a vigorous economic development program. He assisted us with three industrial development projects that ultimately created 450 new jobs for our community. He became a good friend during this time. I treasure the memories of golf games and good times we enjoyed together and will never forget what he did as a state official to provide assistance and support that drastically improved the quality of life in our community. Everyone that has known Dick will remember his entertaining story telling, good natured personality and the genuine kindness he showed toward his fellow human beings.

Susan Hodgetts Stempel

February 9, 2018

Dear Sue, a voice from the past. Saw the notice of the passing of your husband today and wanted to give you my sympathies. He sounds like a delightful man and that life together for you has been a good one. That is much to be grateful but I'm so sorry for your loss.

Steven Nelson

February 9, 2018

So many happy memories with the Cole family. Dick was always polite, professional and impossible to be around without laughing! Tremendous intellect and keen sense of humor galloped throughout the Cole family especially Dickie! May you RIP Pal! Condolences to the family.

Dr. Dave Auxier

February 9, 2018

I was looking forward to meeting Dickie for the first time at our planned get-together in March. So very sorry, Sue.

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