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Thomas Harbut Obituary

HARBUT Thomas P., 94, of Maddoxtown in Lexington, Kentucky, passed away at his home on Monday, September 15, 2014. He is survived by one brother, James Harbut of Chicago; three children, Tyrone Harbut, Gregory Harbut (Monica) and Saundra Patton (Gary), all of Lexington, Kentucky; as well as nine grandchildren, one great-grandchild and many extended family members and friends. He was a faithful member of Maddoxtown Baptist Church. Tom Harbut was born to Will and Mary Harbut of Maddoxtown on April 5, 1920, one of 12 children. His father was the famous groom to the racehorse Man O' War, and at a young age, Tom followed his father into the horse business, working initially at local thoroughbred farms and later at Belmont Park. During his early years, he exercised such horses as War Admiral, winner of the 1937 Triple Crown, and War Relic, both celebrated sons of Man O' War. Tom served four years in the United States Army during World War II, including combat duty in the Philippines. For thirty years he worked at Spendthrift Farm, then the top thoroughbred breeding operation in the United States. Eventually he became the stallion manager for the farm, handling horses for celebrities such as Elizabeth Arden and Louis B. Mayer, as well as managing Harry Guggenheim's barn. He was a highly accomplished and successful horseman, handling equine legends such as Dark Star, Jet Pilot and Majestic Prince. He also bred and trained several of his own horses, including Touch Bar, a competitor in the 1962 Kentucky Derby. In recent years, Tom cooperated in the filming of a documentary about the African American freetowns of the Bluegrass. He is remembered as his family's loving patriarch, and for his accomplishments as a horseman, his wide-ranging friendships, his intelligent and creative spirit, and his infectious laugh. Services will be held on Saturday, September 20, at Maddoxtown Baptist Church. Visitation will be from 11am - 1pm with the funeral following. Burial will be in the church's cemetery.

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2014.

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September 20, 2014

Dear Sandy and Family,
You have my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy. Losing a parent is very difficult. I pray that the Lord will give you HIS Peace, and comfort you in the days and months to come.

Very Sincerely,
Teresa Clifton-Thomas

Robert Walsh Fister

September 20, 2014

I just received an e-mail that Tom Had passed away. I was born about a 1/4 mile down the road from where lived. I met Tom about 12 years ago, I would go visit him when ever I came back to Kentucky, I will miss the man that I called my friend. What a handsome man he was, for sure in his younger day's. Rest in peace my friend, you will missed by Many people. You will always be in my thought's and prayers.
Robert W Fister

tonia marynell

September 20, 2014

I never met you Mr. Harbut but I had so hoped I would one day. You and your father and Man o War have been heroes of mine all my life. I am the artist that created the carved portrait you were given by my friend Mr. Fister. I was so honored he gave it to you. I will always regret not getting to Kentucky to meet you. I had so many questions I wanted to ask you. I hope maybe one of your sons will know the answers. The greatest life is one spent with great horses. My condolences to your entire family.
Tonia Marynell

kalvin graves

September 20, 2014

you have my deepest sympathy sorry I could not be with you guys

Dorothy Ours

September 19, 2014

Mr. Harbut kindly met with me years ago when I was researching Man o' War. He talked happily about music running in his family, as well as horses -- and it's no wonder that people and horses both enjoyed his company. So down to earth, and a beautiful, full-hearted laugh! Deepest sympathies to his loved ones.

Pat & Darryl Edwards

September 19, 2014

Saundra, Gregory, Tyrone & Families, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father and extend to you our deepest and heartfelt sympathy during this very difficult time. Blessings to you our cousins. Love to each of you.

Marguerite King

September 19, 2014

I never knew Mr. Tomas Harbut, but his face is so kind and beautiful and his life and spirit must have made his family very proud. His memories of his father's relationship with Man o' War are also a part of my first memories of horses. Knowing he also had such a brilliant career and many friends is heartwarming. R.I.P. and condolences to his Family for their great loss.

D. Cameron Lawrence

September 18, 2014

I was blessed to know Tom, a joyous, intelligent and wonderful man! He shall remain in my heart forever.

September 18, 2014

Saundra, I truly enjoyed working with you at USDA for many years & want you to know I have never forgotten you & will be praying for you & your family in the loss of your father. Brenda Webb.

jo mae bradshaw

September 18, 2014

Tyrone & family, sorry for the loss of your father.

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