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Barry Comden Obituary

Comden, Barry
(74) Barry passed away peacefully in Los Angeles due to heart failure. He was sitting in bed, clicker in hand, we believe watching the Laker game.
One time husband to Sandy Comden and Doris Day, Barry continued living the rest of his life as the quintessential bachelor. Just the way he liked it.
Barry's larger than life charisma, acerbic sense of humor and quick wit will be sorely missed by most, but definitely not by all. Barry will be fondly remembered for his great storytelling. He'd leap at the opportunity to share his infamous personal escapades to anybody who would listen, even to those who wouldn't. And when he was finished, he'd certainly let you know, by abruptly walking out or simply hanging up on you...his signature move. Barry was a true one of a kind.
Survived by his son Danny Comden, daughter-in-law Peggy and future grandson on the way, his daughters Susannah and Maude, Cousin Len Comden and many dear friends.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on May 31, 2009.

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Lenny Dupont

May 29, 2021

He was my Jewish big brother when I was very young He wanted to help a poor inner city Jewish kid and it was awesome for me in early60s!! I got to stay with him and sandy hill on park avenue and did things that were fantastic I loved him dearly !!

June 1, 2009

i loved him... and he knew it. muade has been given great genes... so have you and our boy on the way! my love to you and peggy and"our boy" jude

RICHARD STEINER

June 1, 2009

BARRY WAS ALWAYS A GREAT FRIEND WHEN I NEED HIM. HE IS A GREAT LOSS.
MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY.

RICHARD STEINER

May 31, 2009

BARRY WAS A TRUE FRIEND WHEN I NEED HIM AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER WHAT HE DID FOR ME.
MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY.
RICHARD STEINER

Jacqueline Melcher

May 31, 2009

Jacqueline Melcher sends condolences to Barry's family. I am shocked to hear that he is gone. I recently spoke with Barry just a few weeks ago when he called with a short story that crossed my path some years ago. I enjoyed him and his comments although we had never met in person. I send good thoughts.

Geoffrey

May 31, 2009

sincere sympathy

Sharon MacMahon

May 31, 2009

My sympathy goes to Barry's family. He was a friend of my ex-boyfriend, Len Mero, also now deceased. We lunched together several times at the former Andre's restaurant here in Beverly Hills during those years and he was always very pleasant.

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