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March 13, 2010
Dear Saide and Bob-
I cannot imagine the grief of losing a son (or daughter). My prayers, as well as all of your other Bethany friends are with you and your family.
Becky Thompson Ostermeier
Dick Lash
March 13, 2010
I had the privelege of playing basketball with Dave's Dad in college.He had a great mother and father, so I know he had to be a fine individual. My sympathy to all his family.
Laurel Rice
March 12, 2010
To all the Hettlers---
You were there for our family's joys and sorrows, and we will be there for yours. Sheri, I remember your beautiful wedding--what a glorious day! My deepest sympathies to you and your children. May you all find some peace and comfort in knowing that so many lives were touched by this wonderful man, and that the thoughts and prayers of all of us are with you now......Much love,
Dwight Stevenson
March 12, 2010
To my childhood friend Bob, his wife Saide, and the entire Hettler family, may I extend my deepest condolences. I never knew David, but reading about him I can see what a wonderful and interesting person he was. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
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Inna Lepp
March 12, 2010
Sügav kaastunne lähedastele.
Inna (Eesti/Estonia)
Taima Bergman
March 11, 2010
My heartfelt condolences to Dave's family, parents and siblings! Taima
Doug Floyd
March 11, 2010
I had never met Dave but I have had the privilege of knowing his parents and family here in Richmond, Virginia and Virginia Beach, Virginia. My heartfelt sympathy to you all. My thoughts are with you.
Betty
March 6, 2010
Gone too soon...you are missed.
Bonnie Hill
March 5, 2010
Dave was one of the kindest people I ever knew. Even though we only worked together, I was lucky enough to spend time with him both at work and as many Lakers Games we could get to. His kindness, strength and spirit will travel with me forever. Blessings to his family.
Jim & Tracy Holmes
March 5, 2010
Dave was a great man and will be dearly missed by all that knew him.
I remember the time he and his son Shane invited my son Blake and I to a Rolling Stones concert at the Hollywood Bowl. I dont know if it was the excitement of rushing to get to our seats or the fact that Dave walked fast, but from the moment we parked the car we seemed to fall behind or get lost in the sea of people also heading for the concert. Unmistakingly however Dave towered above the crowd like a beacon of light in the dark, so we never had to worry as we could easily find him.
If you were fortunate enough to have met or known Dave, like me you were naturally drawn to him by his towering size and athletic grace, but you knew instantly he was a kind and gentle man, indeed.
We are so thankful that we had the good fortune of knowing Dave and sharing memorable experiences with him and his wonderful family. He will be dearly missed by many including us.
Our heartfelt thoughts and deepest prayers go out to the Hettler family.
Continued love and support - The Holmes Family
Dave Bench
March 5, 2010
My condolences to Dave's family. I was a friend and basketball team mate of Dave's in high school at Northgate High. He was indeed a gentle giant that was quick to smile and go with the flow on any ribbing that came his way. I haven't seen Dave since high school but am not surprised to hear of his loving family and success in business when I reflect on the quality of individual that he was in high school.
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