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Ronald Weinstein Obituary

June 4, 1945 - October 4, 2014 Ron's family and friends mourn the loss of a gentle, kind man whose love of life and learning was extinguished following a four-month-long battle with cancer. Born in Vanyan, Poland to Joseph and Riva Weinstein, the infant "Rubin" fled in their care with his brother and sister to a displaced persons camp outside of Munich to escape Russian servitude. The Weinsteins had already survived Nazi persecution by hiding in a Polish forest. In 1949 an uncle in America sponsored their entry into the U.S., and they established themselves in Trenton, N.J. Rubin gave up Yiddish for English and successfully assimilated, finishing Trenton High School at the age of 16. He majored in history at nearby Princeton University where he graduated cum laude in 1966. "My roommates were Robert juniors and Henry the 3rds, and I didn't even have a middle name," he would laugh. But his sense of self never faltered. He achieved a degree from Yale Law School in 1969 and employed the new skill helping indigents who came to an Ann Arbor, Michigan legal aid clinic where Ron had been sent by VISTA. Moving west to be near his sister Ruth and her family in Aguora, he passed the California bar. His reputation as a skillful transactional attorney grew as he represented lenders and borrowers in real estate financing matters. These included the complex financing of the Hollywood-Highland project which was constructed following the approval of over 60 zoning variances. Ron worked until the day he began treatment for melanoma and underwent extraordinary care under the guidance of University of Southern California doctors Michael Wong and Gabriel Zada. He is survived by Diane Kanner, his wife of 18 years. Four stepsons survive him: Joshua (Angela) Kanner, Matthew Kanner, David (Phanjira) Zeiden, Brian Zeiden. Four grandsons survive him: Daniel and David Kanner and Samuel and Jonah Zeiden. His brother Aaron Weinstein also mourns his premature passing. A memorial service will take place on Thursday, Oct. 30, 2014 at 1st Congregational Church of Los Angeles, 540 S. Commonwealth Ave., LA 90020. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to USC Norris Comprehensive Cancer Center, 1441 Eastlake Ave., Suite 8302, LA 90089.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Oct. 11 to Oct. 12, 2014.

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James Dashow

June 25, 2019

We were roommates at Princeton for awhile. I had the good fortune of enjoying the warmth of his family in Trenton during a Thanksgiving break, since I was unable to return to my home. Many years later, after he had gone west and I had gone to live on the other side of the Atlantic, we found each other. He had lost none of his warmth, generosity and quiet humanity. An unassuming but nevertheless extraordinary man. We are all poorer for losing him.
James Dashow

November 4, 2014

It is absolutely amazing the depth that a person such as Ron can have, yet that may go unnoticed or undetected when one is too young to understand. I grieve for the family's loss and also that I never fully understood my quiet classmate from junior and senior high schools. Dorothea Naylor Kelsey, Jr. 3 and THS '62

Nina and. Gary Mohi

October 26, 2014

Dear Diane and family. It is so sad to lose such a dear friend. May all the sweet memories stay with all who knew and loved him..

Elyse & Jon Parker

October 17, 2014

Our Deepest Sympathy.

Bruce Zagnit

October 15, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of Ron's passing. I knew him in high school and in boy scouts. An interesting story that I will always remember occurred on boy scouts athletic night. Boxing was one of the activities and somehow mild mannered, quiet Ron was picked or volunteered to fight another scout. I don't know if it was anger or fear that propelled Ron to fight like a crazy person but they had to pull him off of the other scout. His adversary did not have a chance. Everyone was shocked and amazed.
I am very sorry I lost contact with him over the years.

October 15, 2014

I am so sorry about Ron. My deepest condolences. Ruth Tilleman- High School friend.

October 15, 2014

I was a classmate of Ronnie's. I remember him as a quiet smiling person, which is how he will live on in my memory. My condolences to all. Barbara (Bobby) Bistrong Higgs

Neil Getz

October 14, 2014

I always looked forward to seeing Ron at family functions. He was such a genuinely sweet guy!!!!
It's been a very sad week for my family.

Michelle and Bert Zweig

October 13, 2014

Our Deep Condolences-Ron was a terric man.

Rick Johnson

October 13, 2014

I knew Ron for almost 30 years (first meeting him during a job interview at Loeb & Loeb in 1986) and worked with and for him since 1987. I have many memories of Ron and here are a couple.

One night in 1987 (I had just started my legal career-don't think I even was licensed) Ron came to my office and asked if he could use my desk. He then sat down, blank yellow pad in hand, and by longhand drafted some agreement -pausing on occasion to rub his forehead. I suppose it was the first time I had ever seen a lawyer create something out of nothing. Wow-there is more to drafting than just cutting and pasting?
The yellow post-it. As every lawyer that ever worked with Ron with tell you, beware of the yellow post-it. If Ron wanted you to change something in an agreement, he would not make the correction. Rather, Ron would write a question on a post-it, stick the post-it to the margin of your document, hand the document to you and say something like “uh ... take a look at this…”. Sucking hard on a Marlboro light, and muttering a few colorful words, Carr Davis once said (about the post-its, in a most deferential way), that the anticipation of the post-it was like waiting to get a high school grad on a test for which you did not study.

Finally, there is Ron's understanding and tolerance. Anyone who is reading this post will know what I am talking about.
Paul G. Scott G. Lance J.-thanks for the great times with each of you and Ron. They bring a big smile to my face.

Thanks Ron-I will miss you.

October 12, 2014

I've known Ron since High School and never expected this remarkable man to become my wonderful step brother. Knowing Ron was knowing sunshine, he always made my day and life a pleasure.
Elle Pack.

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