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Terry DeLapp Obituary

October 24, 1934 - October 29, 2020 Terry DeLapp, the pioneering Los Angeles art dealer who later became an artist, died on October 29, 2020 from pneumonia at his home in Cambria, California. He was 86. His wife, Gus DeLapp, was at his bedside and confirmed the death.Terry led a a life of unusual dimensions, experiencing tragedies and triumphs, and was known for the great humor and composure with which he greeted whatever came his way. His wide circle of friends from many backgrounds and fields was a testament to his open mindedness and loyalty: his friends included not only museum curators, art dealers, collectors, artists, writers and celebrities, but also art pickers, deputy sheriffs, golfers, fitness buffs, maître d's and barflies. Terry had a knack for attracting people who were true to themselves, whatever that truth might be, and he respected these friends for their genuineness, which often seemed to include equal measures of humor and unconventionality, qualities he also possessed and which he enjoyed in others.Born on October 24, 1934 in Pasadena, California, Terry grew up in South Pasadena and San Marino, the son of Terrell (Terry) J. DeLapp, the noted publicist for both Paramount and Universal Studios who had previously been the day city editor of the Los Angeles Times, and Maxine Elwell DeLapp, daughter of Hazel Elwell Rhodes and stepdaughter of Judge Roy V. Rhodes, a Superior Court judge. This promising beginning unexpectedly changed course when Terry's parents divorced in 1940 and his father was killed in an automobile accident on Sunset Boulevard in 1943. Sent as a six-year old to the Southwestern Military Academy in San Marino, Terry spent his childhood years as a resident student, where he learned many lessons on responsibility and self-reliance that would serve him well in later years. When his grandfather died in 1948, his grandmother Hazel sold "Rhodeside," the family home in South Pasadena, and moved with Terry to Cambria, where he finished high school. His grandmother, an accomplished opera singer and voice teacher, instilled in Terry a love of music which later appeared in his lifelong interest in the Flamenco guitar, which he learned to play.Terry enrolled at UCLA, graduating in 1955, and also studied the at Chouinard Art Institute (now CalArts), prefiguring his career as an artist. While at UCLA, he met Gigi Marcus, daughter of well-known civil rights lawyer David C. Marcus; they were married in 1956 and had five children: Stephen, Terry, Robert, John and Valerie. In 1959, Terry opened his first art gallery, operating from his home in Pasadena. Soon after, in 1960, he opened the first of several galleries on North La Cienega in West Hollywood, specializing in 19th and 20th century American art, especially the Hudson River artists, the first West Coast gallery to offer such work. He participated in the legendary Monday Night Artwalks, and became friends with the other gallerists, many of whom, along with Terry, are now part of Los Angeles art history. Terry was divorced in 1968, and became a private art dealer in the West Hollywood area working from home, first on Almont Drive, which became a meeting place for many in the art world, and later on Sierra Mar. In 1971, Terry met Gus Pizzuto, who became his second wife. They quickly became inseparable, spending nearly 50 years together. It wasn't long after he met Gus that a young comedian who was eager to learn about collecting art found Terry. Steve Martin recognized Terry's affability, knowledge and "eye," and Terry sensed Steve's talent, serious interest in art and of course, his humor. Terry became a mentor to Steve, not only by teaching him about art, but also as a close friend who let Steve use the spare bedroom on Almont Drive as his L.A. base when Steve was frequently on the road doing stand-up. They remained friends throughout the years.Another long-lasting friendship formed in the mid-1970s when Terry met antiquarian book and art dealer Victoria Dailey, the extent of whose shared interests astounded even them. When Terry began to make art in addition to selling it, Victoria encouraged him, and in 1981, gave him his first painting exhibition at her rare book shop and gallery on Melrose Avenue. Thus launched, Terry decided to pursue a painting career, which led to gallery exhibitions throughout the country and a solo exhibition at the Bakersfield Museum of Art in 1998. Terry and Gus moved to Cambria in 1994 where Terry could concentrate on painting in his distinct, tonalist-inspired style, especially the varied landscapes of central California. Cambria had been an important refuge in his youth, and once again, it became a haven for him. Although he occasionally missed the activity of the Los Angeles art world, he found his ultimate inspiration and contentment living with Gus by the ocean's edge in Cambria.In addition to his wife, Terry is survived by his sons Stephen (Mae) and Robert (Lori), his daughter Valerie DeLapp, and two grandchildren, Alexander and Sophie. His sons Terry and John pre-deceased him.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Dec. 20 to Dec. 27, 2020.

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Kenneth Kantor

July 14, 2024

TERRY'S kindness will remain unforgettable always.

Laura Phillips / Biltmore Galleries

December 14, 2021

It is with great pleasure to remember "DeLapp" (as he was called by Steve Rose, the Owner of the Biltmore Galleries) from so many years ago. I worked for Steve while the Gallery was located in the Biltmore Hotel. A call-in from DeLapp (frequent) or an actual yet rare visit (with lovely Gus on his arm) was always delightful in every way for all of us. Both were so marvelously in love. And, IN TUNE. And DeLapp was brilliant being one of the few people who could match Steve when it came to discussing history and fine art goings on. Writing about and remembering DeLapp and Gus, for me, evoke very good and delightful times that are now fine and fond memories. DeLapp was different and his being so made a difference in the lives of those who knew and remember him to this very day. That´s quite a fine Legacy.

Mark LaSalle

August 23, 2021

Terry was a gifted artist, and a very engaging art dealer. I remember being at his house in Los Angeles looking at his library of art books when Andy Williams came by to ask his advice about a painting. I always enjoyed our conversations about art dealing even though I was on the East Coast and he was in California. Will miss him very much.

Michelle Frandsen

July 5, 2021

I was putting a burnt umber wash over a painting-in-progress (as Terry had taught me years ago to do). All of a sudden, I had this "feeling" that Terry may now be gone. I went to my computer and am so saddened to know that Terry has transitioned. What a tremendous loss! I will miss his conversation, humor and open invitation to visit his studio any time for painting advice and/or the chance to marvel at his latest masterpiece. I am forever happy to have known him. He was a true Artist.

Bruce Jacobs

April 23, 2021

I LOVED HIM...SERIOUS PART OF MY LIFE

SORRY I HAVE NOT KEPT UP WITH THE DELAPPSS....BUT WENT ELSEWHERE

LOVE YOU GUS.....BRUCE

Laura Phillips Davidson

April 2, 2021

I had the distinct pleasure to know both Terry and Gus when I worked at the Biltmore Galleries in downtown Los Angeles for Steve Rose. I admired them both and, how much they perfectly complemented each other. Now, all the gallery owners and private fine art dealers I knew and admired are gone. One can only imagine what fun they might be having wherever they are discussing the fine art world today.

Jan Pecarsky

February 22, 2021

I am deeply saddened to just find out about the loss of such a sweet wonderful man. I am fortunate enough to own a beautiful painting and my Mother has two. Meeting Terry in New York right after 9/11 was one of the highlights of my life and my parents. We drove to NY from Philadelphia , even after the tragic events in our world just to meet him and pay tribute to his talent and kindness to me. I will never forget him and will treasure the paintings I have forever. This is a sad day for me.

Linda Casale

January 14, 2021

Gus ...we are so very sorry for your loss.Terry was very special and very creative . He had such wit and a twinkle in his eyes!
You are so blessed to have spent fifty wonderful years with the love of your life. May you find peace knowing that you & Terry had a beautiful life together. All our love, Charlie & Linda

Claudia Heath

January 10, 2021

Gus,
I was so sad to see that Terry has died. What a talented man was he! I enjoyed knowing him for over 20 years, and he and I did a good bit of painting business over the years. I have never met a painting of Terry's that I did not like. What a loss to the art word! Please accept my sincere sympathies on the loss of your dear husband.

Jude Johnstone

January 5, 2021

Terry was a one of a kind, outstanding human being.

Laurie Merchant

December 28, 2020

Terry was wonderfully charming and worldly and wise. He had a deep understanding of the human condition, coupled with a witty and slightly sarcastic realistic view. He had a fantastic wall of art books in his studio that he wouldn’t loan out but you could lounge on the couch there and browse through that library for as long as you wished, while he painted and occasionally put on some music--Beethoven, or The Iguanas, or Flamenco guitar. His paintings are beautifully quiet and emotionally strong. I am lucky enough to own two of them. News of Terry’s death has hit me hard. I sorely miss his presence in the world.
My thoughts turn to Gus--I have fond memories of hanging out with the two of them; Gus is always so funny and cool and she took such good care of Terry.
It feels like part of an era or culture has disappeared in conjunction with Terry’s death.
Gus--call me if you would like to. I might call you, but don’t answer if you don’t feel like it. I wish we could get together but can’t happen for a while.... 541 482-3457

Adrienne kates

December 27, 2020

Gus, I am so sorry to read about terry’s passing, so many memories, please call me, Adrienne 3107492228

Adrienne kates

December 27, 2020

Gus, I am so sorry to read about terry’s passing, so many memories, please call me, Adrienne 3107492228

Sharon Bercutt

December 23, 2020

Terry was a lovely and talented guy, a wonderful mentor/teacher for my daughter Leigh Nikolaieff. He was an important influence from the moment they met in 1987 when he hired her as his assistant for a few years and remained - along with Gus, constant friends until he passed! ...And to Gus! My deepest condolences on this terrible loss. You were so very fortunate to have the love of your life by your side for 50 years!! My heart to yours as you grieve, Sharon Bercutt, Sherman Oaks, CA

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