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Vincent Yeo Obituary

YEO, Vincent Died unexpectedly at his home on February 5. He is survived by his beloved wife of 27 years, Pat, daughter BJ MacArthur, and his sisters Frances Price and Veronica Nagel. Services will be Feb. 9 at 12:30, at Holy Family Church in So. Pasadena. Cabot & Sons, Pasadena

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Feb. 8, 2008.

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Rick Rogers

February 2, 2025

Vince. your love and friendhip was one of the brightest lights in my journey I am blessed that you were my amazing sponsor for so many years. You live on in my heart always

Tom Siebert

January 24, 2025

Vince was a good guy. He helped a lot of people. He once gave me a ticket to a Notre Dame-USC game.

Rick Rogers

February 2, 2024

Dearest Vince your love and direction resides always in my heart and soul Miss you

Steve and Kelly Lopez

December 8, 2023

We can still hear his laugh, see that tough love in action, and experience his wisdom in so many ways. Vince changed our lives and we will never forget him.

Rick Rogers

December 7, 2023

Vince, I am 41 years sober today. You guided and loved me as my sponsor. All my love today and every day

July 17, 2018

Heard Vince share at a conference. My mom knew his uncle Frank, who was very helpful to my family. I know this is rather odd that I share this now, however, I am celebrating 36 years this month. Heard Vince at a time when I was not doing so well, and he was a great source of comfort and inspiration.

J.S. Jersey City, N.J.

Mary Ann Hagler

March 6, 2008

Pat:
I send my love and deepest sympathy to you and feel grateful I had the opportunity to know Vince, albeit not well. My prayers are with you always.

Kim Southerland

February 28, 2008

My dearest Pat,
I always looked forward to hugging Vince on Wednesday nites and then Michael and I would start chatting with him while he rested his hand on my shoulder. I just loved that! Every conversation was a joke that led to another joke...the 3 of us would just laugh and laugh. I shall miss him dearly, but he'll always be in my heart, especially on Wednesday nites. I love you Pat xoxo

Katherine DiGiulio

February 26, 2008

Pat,

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Vince's strength and how he made me laugh at myself when I joined Finance Class. He was a tremendous example. You have my deepest sympathy.

Sean Allan

February 25, 2008

My Dear Pat. I am so sorry to hear of Vince's passing. What an inspiration he was to so many of us. He was one of my heroes. His recovery, his smarts and his sense of humor helped shape my life. What a great guy. His regard and respect for you was always evident. You are in my prayers

James MacLean

February 24, 2008

Pat,
Although I was only in LA for 8 years and that was 8 years ago, you both are a big part of my life and I am truly grateful. My most vivid memory is of Vince is his intensity while watching you talk in Encino. We had all heard you talk many times before and still he did not want to miss a word. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa Mac

February 20, 2008

Any man who inspires so much in so many (based on what I have heard & just read) walks here among us and will forever. Thanks to Vince (whom I never met) for being God's instrument for my friend and for helping so many of us become financial adults. Pat, we've never met you but we are praying for you & your family daily from Phoenix.

Harmony Johnson

February 20, 2008

Vince, one of the first Physician Assistants in the county, pushed me (basically yelled at me) to stop goofing around with my boyfriend and re-apply to PA school. Now I work with cancer patients. He talked about Pat constantly and is one of the best examples of a husband I have seen. Everytime I drive by a Baskin Robbins I'll think of you Vince! Thanks for you participation in my sobriety.

Diana Imislund

February 20, 2008

Dear Pat, I am so sorry for your loss. Vince was such a great example to me- one of committment and service and kindness. And I loved watching you two together. May you take comfort in your many beautiful memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Andrea Goldsmith-Fischberg

February 20, 2008

Pat, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Vince walked like he talked. He was always kind to me. He even took the time to talk with my husband whenever he saw him-someone outside the circle. He was an all around good man. We are sorry for your loss and ours.

Mary Townsend

February 20, 2008

"My earliest memory of Christmas is my father waking me up and saying, 'I just saw the sleigh leave.'" ...The Wednesday before Christmas will never be quite the same...

Debra Pacheco

February 20, 2008

We all have suffer a lost. My prayers are with you and your family.

Darin Denio

February 20, 2008

Vince was a kind and loving man indeed. He always welcomed me back to finance class after I had failed yet another time. I truly appreciate his impact on my life. Via Con Dios

Raye Ann Sampson

February 20, 2008

Vince, a beautiful, wise man.
Vince never lacked compassion. In fact, Vince was a gentle and loving soul. He helped me(and many others I suspect) to better understand myself and how to be responsible for my actions and to "grow up"
I am truly grateful for all that Vince has done for me and countless others and I am deeply saddened by his passing and will think fondly of him often.
God Blees,

Kristine Miller

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,

My heart goes out to you. He is with the ones we can no longer see but know that they are with us. My prayers and love are with you and your family.

Michele Lyon

February 19, 2008

My heart smiles with love when I think of Vince. Always made me feel like he cared. You are a honable woman with big footsteps ahead of me. I love Vince and you. OXOX With respect, Michele

Weisman Family Weisman

February 19, 2008

Patty & Family,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Just know, we are here for you and we care.

vannoy shaw

February 19, 2008

My dear Pat, my heart breaks along with yours. I will miss his song. I thank him for saving my daughter's life. He was my true friend and his laughter will always be in my heart. Remember 24/7. I love you. Vannoy

Steve Lamb

February 19, 2008

A man's legacy to this world is not so much what he made or what he built, but what he shared and gave to others through love and service. Material creations will fade and crumble, but a man's spirit and soul live on forever in those with whom he shared his love through service. Vince's soul resides in countless others who are so much richer for the experience.

Ava L

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Vince was a great example. He will be missed.

Chris Hernandez

February 19, 2008

Pat I am so sorry about your (our)loss. Vince was an amazing man who added so much to the lives of the people he touched. He will be missed terribly.

Carol Mulvey

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,

God needed an angel immediately so he took Vince. He made me laugh, he made me cry. He made me solvent in financial sobriety. You both made me proud to be a member in good standing in our program. My love and support to you always.

Russ & Pat Conchie

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,
Russ and I are so saddened that Vince is gone, and by your loss. We both have you in our prayers. We know that you will be carried through the days ahead. Vince holds a big place in our hearts, and so do you.

Paul Baker

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat; My prayers are with you and yours with our loss of Vince. He brought sooo much joy and laughter to our lives. I will always remember our last times together @ Stateline 12/06 with fond memories and sharing again about the Freshmen Class @ Costa Mesa High School 1958/59

Mary Gladstone

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat and family,
Though I did not know Vince at all personally, the help that he gave so many others was known to me! I stand with you in your sadness and your pride and gratitude for the life you shared with the fine person that Vince was.
Sincerely,
Mary Gladstone

Mark Nialis

February 19, 2008

We are thankful for Vincent's sharing of his life with
the fellowship.He and his family
will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Raven Ybarra

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,

Bob and I were very sad to hear about VInce's passing away. I remeber going to finance class every Sunday in Pasadena, how warm and welcoming you and Vince were and how great it was that you opened your minds and home to us "financially challenged" individuals. I remember hearing Vince share often and what a fun and inspirational story he had. Our thoughts and prayers go with you and your family. Our loss is heaven's gain.

Love Always, Raven and Bob Ybarra

Jim Martin

February 19, 2008

Dear Pat,
Vince was a great man who help so many people. I remember visiting LA in 1991 just before my wife and I were married. Both of you were very welcoming. Over the years, I've learned alot from both of you.

Love, Jim

Charlie and Katie Parker

February 19, 2008

Pat, Know that we are thinking of you in this time. We are so sorry for your loss. Vince was a great example.

Lynn Wanlass

February 18, 2008

Dear Pat, I offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Nanea Reeves

February 18, 2008

Even before Vince left us, I always think of him and smile when I see an ambulance. His life was one of service and love. Vic and I will miss Vince very much and have Pat in our thoughts.

Mickey Bush

February 18, 2008

My last contact with Vince was a huge Hug.I still feel its warmth and comfort,even thru my sadness at his passing.Pat you are on my Prayer list....Peace, MB :-(

sean coleman

February 18, 2008

Dear Pat,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and Vince were the couple that I and many looked to as as an example of what a kind and loving relationship should look like. I will miss Vince and our talks and send you all my love
Sean Coleman

Mickey Bush

February 18, 2008

'ello M8,
In a group of many,you and your good Lady,were part of a few who I believe cared about me.It was very encouraging,and helped in my Recovery.Thanx.I was attracted by you to this wonderful way of life.You lived it,I'm living it,we share it.Blessed to have known you.

Jim Allen

February 18, 2008

Pat,I got so much from you & Vince from your regular P.G. talks,& New Years Shows!!Thanks for your examples!God Bless,Jim Allen-Terre Haute,IN

Pat and Vince at Club Med 1.17.08

Linda Jeffers

February 18, 2008

Dear Pat,

I just received an invite to sign this guest book.

Every day I think of Vince. His passing leaves me with a feeling of emptiness I don't understand. It is the first time I've felt such loss since my Dad's passing. I can not even imagine how you must feel. My heart goes out to you.

I wish there were some way I could be of help. Keep in mind my previous offers.

Much love,

Linda

Carla Moore

February 18, 2008

Before I ever even met Vince personally, he was a positive influence in my life, freely sharing his experience, strength and BIG, BIG HOPE. Just about every aspect of my life and experience are colored with things he did and said. Vince was a walking, talking example of someone I'd like to be. He was always willing to help another person - always. I am so grateful to have known Vince Yeo.

Sue Felgenauer

February 18, 2008

Vince, you were Love and Service personified. You carried a message of hope and healing to many. Your light will shine forever in our hearts.

Christopherq Abbinett

February 18, 2008

THank you for all your experience shared over the many years of love and service to the fellowship.
In loving memory to all our oldtimers!

Harriet Gorrie

February 18, 2008

Dear Pat, Although we have never met I want to express my condolences. As a member of our wonderful fellowship I always like to be in touch with and share both our happiness and our pain of loss.

Scott Lee

February 18, 2008

Vince was one of my great teachers. I am in tears as I write this. I will miss him, his humor and his wisdon. God Speed!

susan dobson

February 18, 2008

His humor was the elixir for so many who suffered. I'm glad I was a small part of that. Knowing Vince and witnessing your relationship together taught me many things in sobriety. I will always treasure the CD of your guest appearance and words of wisdom you both shared to so many. Thank you Pat. He will be greatly missed. Susan

Stephen & Brenda Watson

February 17, 2008

Pat,
Brenda and I want to express our deepest sympathy and how much both you and Vince have meant to us. We bought our first home in Pasadena because we would be neighbors. We love you and are always here for you.

Bob Zubillaga

February 17, 2008

To the Yeo Family,
Thank All of you for shearing Vencent's life with all of Us. He will be missed...

Clancy O

February 17, 2008

a sober man will leave a legacy that goes on forever.

Wayne Butler

February 17, 2008

Vince was an honorable man, loyal, with unwavering integrity, of which he taught me a hard lesson in, one that has recently reshaped my life. I will always remember him as a great example of the way we are meant to live this life. God bless you Pat for being at his side.

E

February 17, 2008

Although I never met Vince in person, his talks have helped me very much. My sincerest condolences to his family,
E. (Ireland)

Barrett B

February 17, 2008

I never told him this but Vince reminded me of my father. Their stories were very similar. He was a force for good in a lot of people's lives including my own & will be missed. Now he is where the angels go.

Blessings and Love,

Jimmy Claxton

February 17, 2008

I was stuck in a dark hole. Someone
jumped into the hole, and i said to him man you must be as sick as i am , he said i have been down here before and i know the way out.May god bless you and keep you.

Earl Hightower

February 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Pat. I know that Vince lives on in the human legacy that we will all benefit from for years to come.

Michael-Shawn

February 17, 2008

My best to the family and friends left behind here on earth. Though I did not personally know him, it sounds like he made an everlasting impression on the lives of those he touched. Peace be with you in your hearts.

bob darrall

February 17, 2008

vinces' contribution to my life and the financial and spiritual lives of those i care about is without measure - vince if you can read this -thank you - with all my heart - i hope to be the example you have been

Curtis Christian

February 17, 2008

Thank you Vince for sharing your experience, strength, and hope with us all. Heartfelt prayers to Pat and family.

Taylor Lancaster

February 17, 2008

Rest in peace servant of the soul

Ralph Witkin

February 17, 2008

Vince was a man that I totally respected -- one of my heros! I'm grateful that I knew him and was able to learn from him.
It's very sad that he had so many health problems in recent years, and his loss will be felt by all who knew him.
My best thoughts for you Pat.

Jose Ruiz

February 17, 2008

we offer our condoles on behave of jose ruiz and family we lost a good one and now he is headed to the big meeting in the sky thank you for being a part of our life.

love jose ruiz

Sandra Tillman

February 17, 2008

May God Bless and Keep you.
Sandra Tillman
Prescott, Arizona

Steve Lopez

February 17, 2008

Vince was a fearless of example of upholding the principles at all times in his life. He was not concerned with personalities, nor was his path focused on being a popularity contest. Which ironically made him such a compelling attraction. That along with his fierce commitment to the truth, and his graceful, loving and dignified relationship with Pat made him one of the great examples of principled living.

Patti O

February 17, 2008

Vince always made me feel like I was the only person in the room when he spoke with me. Although we only saw each other a few times a year - he always made me feel as though we had just seen each other the day before. I aspire to be that kind of person in the lives of others. Thank you, Vince.

Billy Noonan

February 17, 2008

Few men who were given the honor to talk to so many carried themselves with as much dignity and humility as Vince. He is on the the greatest examples of walking the walk I have met. I am grateful that my Higher Power chose to have his path cross mine along the way.

Steve Bench

February 17, 2008

Thank you Vince for being tha man you were, sharing your life with us.I pray your family finds peace and comfort as they go through this time of life. God Bless.

Terry Campbell

February 17, 2008

Pat: Now you have another Angel looking over you.

Edward Moore

February 17, 2008

Will remember your words and wisdom at Primm in November. I'm grateful to have had that opportunity.

Larry Johnson

February 17, 2008

Vince Yeo was a true example of leadership in all that he did. I knew him mostly for what he did for others. He was a man whom I truly admired and respected. We will miss his physical presence but his strong spirit will live on. Pat we keep you and the family in our prayers.
Larry Johnson
Dallas, Texas

Jerry Logsdon

February 17, 2008

He was an inspiration and a great guide. No measure of all the good he accomplished. I will always remember his "it's their money".

Cliff Roche

February 16, 2008

I am so glad I got to spend that time with you two in Las Vegas last December.I'm proud to have been part of your life.Godspeed,
dear friend!
Cliff and Pat Roche

heather wilson

February 16, 2008

Pat, I never met your husband- but I had a copy of his talk at the 2005 Foothill Roundup. I have burned that CD for more people than I can count. His message is heard all over the country. We will never know how many people he touched. I am certainly one of them.

Steve Lopez

February 16, 2008

Vince was a fearless example of the principles in action. The principles of the path were always more important to him than the ascent of personal preferences or popularity. He didn't traffic in personalities because of his fierce commitment to the truth at all times. His gift as an extremely direct communicator and his courageous example in personal relationships will be missed greatly. Most of all his magical relationship with his wife Pat will be long remembered as prime example of a loving, dignified and principled partnership between a man and woman.

Bob & Debra Shuttleworth

February 16, 2008

It's always sad to lose a fine friend and fellow traveler on our road of recovery. Such a wonderful example to so many, financial teacher, sports enthusiast, spiritual guide, etc. etc. We love you and miss you.

Harvey Jason

February 15, 2008

Vince Yeo -- A wonderfully inspiring example of a man who really walked the walk and set a sterling standard. I am truly honored to have heard him and to have known him, and am greatly saddened by his passing. My heartfelt sympathies to Pat and family.

Nancy Nevins

February 15, 2008

No one ever tried harder or did more for fellow travelers. He gave a wonderful talk and many years of love and experience in service to others. His heart, his humor, and his wisdom live on. May God comfort Pat in her loss.
Nancy Nevins

You will be missed.

February 15, 2008

A human life is a story told by God. ~Hans Christian Andersen

Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality. ~Emily Dickinson

While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil. ~John Taylor

Linda Knight

February 15, 2008

Pat, I feel blessed to have known Vince. He was well loved and lives on in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

charles koffman

February 15, 2008

Vince was a man who had real old fashion values. He stood up for what he believed in, and would help anyone who asked. You shall be missed by many. Charles

Stacy-Colleen Nameth

February 14, 2008

i remember asking vince about the ingredients to a good marriage and he told me all about pat and how much he loved her, and how completely compatible they were. this gave me much hope, and vince and pat always inspire hope.

Kat Koffman

February 14, 2008

Oh, Vince what can I say. So please drop pebbles upon my head when I'm not doing what the Big Man says. I know you had to follow your path as your work down here had ended so fast. Just know that we are holding Pat near until she can follow you there.
Your unexpected departure has left me with a heavy heart. Just know my cancer buddy, I will miss you always but you will always remain in my heard.

Kelly Lopez

February 14, 2008

A remarkable human being in all he did, Vince influenced so many of us and set the standard for right action in every aspect of life. We send our love to Pat, because she models the those same ethics always.

Marjorie Yong

February 14, 2008

A man of great service and sacrifice. Thank you for all you did for the pacific group in Los Angeles, CA

Terry Hankinson

February 9, 2008

For a time I stumbled the earth a lonely man,
and then I felt you take my hand.
You gave me love and joy and the truth of the meaning of a man,
and then I felt you take my hand...

My prayers for comfort for Vince's family and friends.

MICHAEL PASCALE

February 8, 2008

to a very kind man.that went out of his way to assure me,that i was
worth saving.i thank you for your life of example..
Michael P

Darin Denio

February 8, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Susan Duggan

February 8, 2008

Pat:
A great loss to us all but a lasting memory and message as well.
I wish you peace and good memories of a life shared and gifts so richly given. God Bless.

Bianca Lohrey

February 8, 2008

Dear Vincent, funny and profound with much wisdom and self-realization when he spoke. There will be many who will miss this wonderful man who was kind and generous. My condolences to his dear wife Pat and family.
May you have all the rewards in heaven. Bless you many, many times.
Bianca

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