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Dr. Rev. L. Wilson Kilgore

L. Kilgore Obituary

SCOTTSDALE, AZ Reverend Doctor L. Wilson Kilgore, a 40-year resident of Scottsdale, Ariz., passed away peacefully surrounded by several family members after a brief illness on Tuesday, May 8, 2012, at the age of 95. He is survived by his wife, Arlene, and by nine children from an original "yours, mine, and ours" family, Keith L. Kilgore and wife, Linda, Sharon S. Kilgore, Richard P. Bell, III and wife, Anne, Paul W. Kilgore and wife, Carol, Nancy Bell, Douglas A. Bell and wife, Margery, Debra Ernst and husband, John, Cindy Bell and husband, Tom, and Kristie A. Kilgore; 12 grandchildren; and six great-grandchildren. Wilson was especially proud that all nine of his children were college graduates, several with advanced degrees, and he rejoiced in their successful professional careers and family lives. He was predeceased in death by his wife, Sue, who died in 1961, and his wife, Lois Bell, who died in 2003. Wilson was a well-loved Presbyterian minister, known for his passion for preaching, dedication to the Presbyterian Church, intense desire to share the news of God's love to all, and to live life fully alive with an abundance of love and laughter. For over 50 years, he enjoyed fishing in the St. Lawrence River and the great outdoors at a family cottage in the Thousand Islands region of New York. He graduated from Colgate University, Hamilton, N.Y., in 1939 and from Colgate Rochester Divinity School with a Masters in Divinity in 1942. He received an honorary Doctor of Divinity degree from Lincoln College in Illinois in 1955 and from his alma mater in 1964. His pastoral callings included the First Presbyterian Church, Hartford, Conn., Lakewood Presbyterian Church, Lakewood, Ohio, and Cherry Hill Presbyterian Church, Dearborn, Mich. His last call before retirement was as senior pastor of Valley Presbyterian Church, Paradise Valley, Ariz., in 1972. After his retirement in 1986, Valley Presbyterian named the new chapel after him in recognition of his service to God and the congregation. Lakewood Presbyterian recently honored him by dedicating a new addition as the "Wilson Kilgore Education Center". After retirement, Dr. Kilgore was named Pastor Emeritus at Valley Presbyterian. He accepted several interim assignments for churches that were searching for fulltime pastors, including: Third Presbyterian Church, Rochester, N.Y.; First Presbyterian Church, Tulsa, Okla.; Kirk in the Hills, Bloomfield, Mich.; and two small churches in the Phoenix area. He continued preaching and teaching up until the end of his life. During his career, he was active in the Presbytery of Detroit, was faculty on the New England Synod Young People's Conference, and was elected the Moderator of the Presbytery of the Grand Canyon in 1986. Early in his career he served on the Hartford Seminary Board of Directors. From 1978 to 1989 he was a member of the Board of Trustees of the San Francisco Theological Seminary, where a scholarship was created in his honor. A published author, he wrote the book When the River Runs Backward on the grieving process and articles for the Christian Century Pulpit, Church Management, Presbyterian Life, and the Master Sermon Series. Accomplishments also included development of television ministries at multiple churches including Valley Presbyterian and appearing on television to discuss family life. The memorial service honoring Dr. Kilgore will be held at Valley Presbyterian Church, 6947 E. McDonald Drive, Paradise Valley, Ariz., on June 2, 2012, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in his honor to any of the churches where he served, Hartford Seminary or San Francisco Theological Seminary, Westminster Village (a Phoenix retirement center), or a charitable organization of choice.

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Published by Lebanon Daily News on Jun. 2, 2012.

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June 5, 2012

From Alex Bay Boy and Colgate Graduate,
COL Steve Steele.

I have heard you preach at the Reformed Church of the Thousand Isles and I have visited Resort Island off Dingman Point many times. My parents, Madeline and Harold Steele were long time A Bay folks (Bank and Post Office). I graduated from Colgate in 1964 and spent 27 years in the AF as a Fighter PIlot. You were an inspirational man with a terrific family. You influenced thousands of people including me. We all will miss you.
I, of course, always pronounced Resort Island and its owner correctly as a Tour Boat Announcer on the Uncle Sam II.

Col Steve Steele
Bay Boy and Colgate Man

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