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Robert Stihler
July 25, 2019
I was saddened to hear of Alan's passing. I remember him as an outstanding youth who had been Den Chief of my late wife's Cub Scout Den. Alan ultimately earned the coveted Eagle Scout Award, (as well as his three younger brothers). He was loved by all, will be sorely missed ... but never forgotten. Shalom
Robert El Stihler
Former Scoutmaster
Troop 226 -- Skokie, IL
Alfred Rothstein
July 11, 2019
Alan was such a terrific person to so many people. His work volunteering to oversee school lunches stands out. I really enjoyed talking baseball, movies, and politics with Alan. And he always did the little things for his wife (my sister Pam) their amazing children, Daniel and Madison, and everyone in our family. The children will always be influenced by what he taught them. Alan was always the smartest, yet the most humble person in the room. A great human being.
B Rave
July 1, 2019
Alan worked at Lockheed for quite a long time. I wanted to share that it was always great working with Alan. He was kind, respectful, professional, and such a nice person. My condolences for your loss.
Red and Jane Sutton
June 30, 2019
To all the family, our sincere condolences for one taken too soon. Red and Jane Sutton
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Mary Gunter
June 29, 2019
Simply cannot process that Alan is gone. A full life lived before meeting you Pam; a full life packed into the decade since. A fine man: son, brother, uncle, husband, father, friend. Love, Mary, Ottawa
June 28, 2019
Alan was the epitome of a Mensch. Loved, respected, and admired by all. On behalf of the entire Rothstein family, our prayers of comfort and peace to The Bayer Family. May God Bless the amazing spirit of Alan.
Love, Pam's Mom (Irene) and Pam's five siblings.
Jayne Farber
June 27, 2019
I am so sorry. Alan was my friend at Jane Stenson in Skokie. We were recess buddies. I believe I have known him since I was 4. OOJH and Niles North too. Sending my love and blessings to his family and friends.
Joseph Conley
June 27, 2019
Heather and I are so sorry for your loss! We are friends of Mark, and we will keep the whole family in our prayers and thoughts!
Lynne Blair
June 26, 2019
My condolences to the Bayer and Rothstein families. I first met Alan at his and Pam's wedding and I thought what a kind and gentle man Pam was marrying. Having met him again I knew my initial impression was true. May he rest in peace.
Ivan Gunter
June 26, 2019
Pam;
My thoughts are with you, Madison and Daniel at this time. I am truly sorry for your loss.
June 26, 2019
To the family
May the God of all comfort strenghten you during this difficult time. Those who pass on God keeps in his memory and gives us a wonderful hope to look forward to in the near future... Hosea 13:14.
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