Dr. Alfonso J. Perna

Dr.  Alfonso J. Perna obituary, Binghamton, NY

Dr. Alfonso J. Perna

Alfonso Perna Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 1 to Aug. 3, 2020.
Dr. Alfonso J. Perna

Binghamton - Dr. Alfonso J. Perna died on July 30, 2020, in Binghamton, NY. He was the son of the late Dr. Alfonso A. Perna and Theresa M. Perna (DePinto). He is survived by his loving wife of 55+ years, Theresa C. Perna (Carlin), and five children, Alfonso W. Perna, Dr. Michael C. Perna (Casey), Catherine D. Perna (Thomas Halbert), Ellen D. Perna (James G. Reyen) Mary T. Possidento (Michael). He is also survived by 13 grandchildren, Alfonso W. Perna, Jr., Nytice Saunders, Yameek Kendrick, Grace, Shannon, and Matthew Perna, Elise and Sarah Halbert, Carlin, Kate, and Caroline Reyen, and Nicholas and Samuel Possidento. He is also survived by sister Diane A. Perna, Sister-in-law Mary Ellen McCane and Kevin McCane and their children.

He was a graduate of Binghamton Central High School, Holy Cross College, and the University of Buffalo School of Dental Medicine. He also completed a dental internship at the E.J. Meyer Memorial Hospital in Buffalo. He returned to Binghamton in 1966 and began to practice dentistry with his father and later with his son.

Dr. Perna was a past president of the Broome County Dental Society, The Sixth District Dental Society, and the New York State Dental Association. He was Executive Director Emeritus of the Sixth District Dental Association which he served for over 25 years, retiring in 2016. In addition, he was a Fellow of the American College of Dentists and a Fellow of the International College of Dentists. He was also a Member of the Pierre Fauchard Society. In his early years, he proudly served as a Pack Master of Cub Scout Pack 33 and a treasurer on the Thomas Jefferson Elementary School PTA.

Dr. Perna was known as a voracious reader, often bringing a bag full of books on vacation, reading through them at lightning speed, then tossing them aside, needing to visit the bookstore or library to restock his book collection. At home, he enjoyed spending Sundays reading the New York Times. He was a person of many interests and could dialogue (or monologue) on anything from cutting-edge dental procedures, to local Binghamton history, to World War 2, to the inner workings of a car engine.

To his friends, he was a larger than life presence who "never met a stranger." His gift of gab, flair for the dramatic, and tendency to laugh at his own punchlines earned him the nickname "Hollywood."

Interestingly, he played a regular Friday night poker game with the same group for decades, but always managed to "break even."

He loved to travel, enjoying a 50-year tradition of vacationing in Sea Isle City, New Jersey with family and close friends. He and Theresa traveled extensively throughout Europe and the United States. He looked forward to watching the rocket launches on yearly trips to Florida.

Above all, he loved spending time with his family and friends who were like family. His chili and pesto sauce were family favorites, and the reason for a great many poolside get-togethers.

Whether you knew him as Doc, Al, Dad, Gramps, or Hollywood, he never missed a chance to share a good story, or to simply say, "love ya."

In his words, "The wisest thing I ever did was to marry Theresa Carlin. She almost got away."

A Funeral Mass will be offered at St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Highland Avenue, Binghamton, Tuesday at 11 a.m. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Johnson City.

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July 26, 2024

John Nuzzela posted to the memorial.

July 26, 2023

John A Nuzzela posted to the memorial.

September 25, 2020

Colleen Carr posted to the memorial.

John Nuzzela

July 26, 2024

Last night at our poker game we were discussing Doc remembering what a great guy he was....we have a tradition of starting off our game with playing Docs favorite game as we do with other former players who have passed. Nice memories !

John A Nuzzela

July 26, 2023

Hey Doc, a poker game doesn't go by without remembering you. We deal your favorite game at least one hand each game ! You will never be forgotten my friend !

Colleen Carr

September 25, 2020

To the Perna Family,
Sorry for your loss . Mr. Perna was a very nice man. I will keep your family and Al in my prayers.
Colleen (Darby) Carr

Grant and Cindy Knickerbocker

August 10, 2020

Mike, Alfonso, Perna family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Our sincerest condolences. May the wonderful memories comfort your heavy hearts.

Gail George

August 8, 2020

Dr. Perna was my dentist for years. He was a wonderful man and will be dearly missed. Sending thoughts and prayers to his family.

Gerald Burns

August 5, 2020

Ellen, Jim and family. Please accept our sincere condolences on the death of your father. The entire Burns family, Jerry and Kathy, Jerry and Sue, Ellen and Rick, Anne and Jim.

Sam Cucci

August 5, 2020

Mrs. Perna and family, So sorry to hear about the passing of the Doc. It was always interesting and usually fun talking to him. I know he will be missed by many. He was a wonderful man.

John A Nuzzela

August 5, 2020

"Doc" will be missed by his loyal Friday night poker buddies for his positive spirit even in times of failing health.Truly a great guy who will not be forgotten. In his honor we will start our game with one of his favorite poker games.

Julia Valle

August 5, 2020

It was always so much fun working with Dr. Perna at Perna Dental. My thoughts and prayers are with you Theresa, Aunt Diane, Dr. Mike, Fonz, and the whole Perna family. You are a beautiful family may you find comfort in each other now and in the weeks and years to come.
Julia and Kenny Valle

Gary and Jo Anne Potter

August 4, 2020

Dr. Mike and Perna Family,
Gary and I would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time. Your Father was a very wonderful man who will be truly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dorothy Walsh

August 4, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Christina Wentzell

August 3, 2020

I am so blessed that I got to work with Dr. Perna. I still remember his jokes , his contagious smile and lots of laughter. He was a great mentor and friend.
Will never forget you Dr. Perna
Chriso ♥

Celia Ulmer

August 3, 2020

To The Perna Family: Al and Fonzo!

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of your family.

Sincerely,


Keith, Celia and Logan Ulmer.

Living Spirit Dishgarden

Richard Dunn

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Joe n Patti Zwierzynski

August 3, 2020

Fonzi and The entire Perna Family.
Sorry to read of the loss of your Dad, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Living Spirit Dishgarden

a loved one

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Eternal Friendship Remembrance Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

a loved one

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Adana Brauer

August 3, 2020

Even with his dental mask on, I could tell he was smiling by his happy eyes! “Uncle Al” always made you feel comfortable with his kindness and sense of humor. Having been a patient at this practice for over 50 years, I truly admire Dr. Perna’s great personality and professionalism. My sincere sympathies to the family.

Frank & Mary Micalizzi and Family

August 3, 2020

With our Sympathy .Always a smile and a story to tell.

Tammie L Hotaling

August 3, 2020

Dr Perna was a one of a kind, gentle, caring, very sweet man. I can remember being in agony while dispatching for BPD with a bad tooth, but too afraid to see a dentist. His son, Fonz, was also working and he called his Dad and convinced me to go after work. Dr Perna stayed after hours to see me and get me the help I needed. His son Mike is the same way. I cherish the fact that I was one of Dr Perna's patients. His entire office was a reflection of him...caring and kind. My heartfelt sympathy to Dr Perna's entire family.

Scott Noren

August 2, 2020

I will miss Al's contagious smile and just overall likeable personality. My condolensces to the entire family and friends. He made any meeting more informative and when we had meetings in Ithaca, he was always helpful.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Scott Noren

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August 2, 2020

Fonz and the entire Perna Family: Dee and I would like to extend our sincere sympathies. Your Dad was always a professional and enjoyed working for him and all his colleagues when we did trips to Syracuse and NYC for the NYS Sixth Judicial Dental. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. In friendship and respect, Mark & Dee Steveskey (Maine, NY)

Gavin and Jennifer Knickerbocker

August 2, 2020

Mike, Al and Perna family, our sympathies on Dr. Perna’s passing. It was nice to see him at Shannon’s party.

L. Grebe

August 2, 2020

Ellen, Jim and girls, keeping you in my thoughts. Extending deepest condolences on the loss of your Dad, father-in-law and grandfather.

Judith Shub & Steve Essig

August 2, 2020

We feel so blessed to have known and worked with Al over many years. our condolences and love to Theresa and your family. You all meant everything to Al and brought so much love and joy to his life

Tim Smth

August 2, 2020

Thank you for everything Al. I am glad I got to know you over these last few years. I am proud to call you my friend.

Dee Sleeper

August 2, 2020

I loved Dr. Perna so much. Going to the Dentist was never my favorite thing to do, but he almost made it fun. I really looked forward to seeing him. He always had a story to tell, and would laugh at his own jokes. Before you knew it, you were done! The last time I saw him was at Lourdes around last year, when I came in to give him Communion. We had such a nice chat, and he was so congenial, as always. That's how I'll remember him. My condolences to the family.

Dan and Lonnie Pratt

August 2, 2020

We are very sorry for your great loss Theresa and Mary Ellen and families. I did not know him well but he must have been a very nice person. I know you will miss him.

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