Anita Mae "Becky" Swem

Anita Mae "Becky" Swem obituary, South Bend, IN

Anita Mae "Becky" Swem

Anita Swem Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 23, 2014.

Jan. 15, 1934 - Feb. 21, 2014 BUCHANAN - Anita Mae "Becky" Swem, 80, died at home on February 21, 2014. Becky was born in Niles, Michigan, on January 15, 1934, to Donald A. and Louise H. (Fox) Brown, and raised by her grandmother, Mary "Mae" (Campbell) Brown. She is survived by her husband of 57 years, Richard. They were married August 25, 1956, at First Presbyterian Church in Niles. Her children include Lisa (Beth Hoger) of East Lansing, Rick of Buchanan, Amy Seager (Ric) of Kalamazoo, Rob of Buchanan, and Craig Hubble (Jill) of St. Joseph, who made his home with the Swem family during his high school years. Grandchildren include Patrick (Kirsten), Alex, Mason, Brendon, and Campbell Swem, and Clayton, Caitlin, Garrison and Jacob Seager. Becky graduated from Niles High School in 1951 and the James Ward Thorne School of Nursing at Passavant Memorial Hospital (Chicago) in 1955. She was a nurse at Pawating Hospital in Niles from 1956-1966. For over 50 years, she was an essential part of the family-run Swem Funeral Home in Buchanan, where she served as supporter, consultant, and decorator, making inestimable contributions to the needs of families and staff. She was an active member of First Presbyterian Church in Buchanan, serving in many roles, most notably as elder, deacon, and worship coordinator. In Buchanan, Becky was a longstanding member of "30 Club," and she loved being part of the "Girls Night Out" group. Her many friends will miss her, but she will be missed most by her family to whom she gave her all. Visitation will be Monday, February 24, 2014, at Swem Chapel from 3 to 8 pm. Funeral services will be at First Presbyterian Church, 13 S. 4th St., Niles, on Tuesday, February 25, 2014, at 11 am., with Pastor Jan Van Lear and Pastor Marilyn Schlimgen officiating. Burial will follow at Oak Ridge Cemetery in Buchanan. Memorial contributions may be made to First Presbyterian Church at 115 W. Front Street, Buchanan, MI 49107; or Redbud Area Ministries, 708 N. Red Bud Trail, Buchanan, MI 49107. To sign Becky's guestbook or leave a condolence message, please visit our website at www.swemchapel.com.

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February 24, 2014

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Dick Rosenthal

February 24, 2014

To the Swem Family, our sincere sympathy for your loss.

February 24, 2014

My husband,the late Dr. Fred Lindenfeld,
loved to take credit for the wonderful
marriage of Becky and Dick Swem.He introduced them to each other when Becky was working in his office as a young nurse.Their love indeed touched everyone who knew them. A mass will be said in Becky's memory at Notre Dame
tomorrow.Our deepest sympathy to the Swem Family. Marlynn Lindenfeld

Daniel Brewer

February 23, 2014

Rest eternal grant unto Anita Mae, Oh Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon her. May her soul rest peace. Amen

Becky Trout

February 23, 2014

Rest in peace, Aunt Becky. We love you.

Timothy Brewer

February 23, 2014

To the entire Swem family, so sorry for your loss.

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