Anita Wise

Anita Wise obituary, Philadelphia, PA

Anita Wise

Anita Wise Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2025.
Philadelphia - Anita Wise, 74, of Pennington, NJ, died of cancer on January 14, 2025, at Pennsylvania Hospital in Philadelphia, much to her annoyance. She lived a life rich in experiences and warm relationships, and basked in the pleasure she brought untold thousands with her soft-spoken, wry humor as a comedian in the 1980s and early 1990s and again over the past 10 years.

Born June 9, 1950 in Philadelphia, Anita was predeceased by her parents Daniel M. and Janette Wise; and her husband, TJ Tindall, of Pennington.

Survivors include her soulmate Gary Bodner, of Bristol, Pa.; brothers Daniel R. Wise and his wife Lillian, and their children Evan, Alex, and Danielle, of Concord, NH; Christian Wise and his wife Hannah, and their daughter Celeste, of Montague, MA. Other relatives she held close include: her uncle Joseph Wise, Hanover, PA; her cousins from France, Anne-Marie Braquehaye, of Dieppe; Catherine Salviat and Christine Murillo, of Paris; Anne Pounds, Linda Steward, Nancy Spanier, and Daniel Fech, of Delaware County, PA; Susan Walters, Mary Ann Gingrich, and Kris Raymond, of greater Harrisburg, PA; Robert Brookes, of Delray Beac, FL and Donna Stewart, of Sharon, PA. Anita also treasured her extended family by marriage in New Jersey and South Carolina.

Anita graduated from Washington University in 1972, and then worked in a variety of waitressing, bartending and other glamorous jobs in Philadelphia, New Hope and then New York City where she took a comedy writing class that launched her career. Her comedy career consisted of two segments, first in the mid-1980s, based in New York City and then Los Angeles, highlighted by appearances on the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson, a Bob Hope TV special and roles in two episodes of Seinfeld. She returned to the central NJ area for an 18-year hiatus during her marriage to TJ.

In 2015, Anita and TJ, a renowned Sound of Philadelphia studio musician, returned to their creative roots, playing local gigs for the pleasure of it. TJ's return to music was tragically cut short by his death in 2016. After several years of grieving and family caregiving, Anita resumed her comedy comeback, including frequent appearances with her beloved comedy colleague Julia Scotti, appearing in the "Women of a Certain Age" comedy lineup, and, in fall of 2024, nabbing a spot in the nationally known Dry Bar comedy show.

Anita's comedy career was distinguished by her ability to perform her routine in two languages, relying on the French she gained from growing up with two French-speaking parents and frequent visits to France, her mother's home country. She performed French and English-speaking gigs at the prestigious Juste Pour Rire comedy festival in Montreal, and more, recently, at an event in Harlem, NYC.

A celebration of her life will be held Saturday, March 29, from 4 to 6 p.m. at the New Hope Center for the Arts, 2 Stockton Ave., New Hope, PA. She will be interred in the Ewing Presbyterian cemetery.

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March 28, 2025

Corinne Bono posted to the memorial.

March 27, 2025

Jaume (Mitous) Salvadó i Rectoret posted to the memorial.

March 27, 2025

Jaume (Mitous) Salvadó i Rectoret posted to the memorial.

Corinne Bono

March 28, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of her passing to cancer. From France, lots of love and courage to all her dear ones.
The next tree I'll plant will be in her memory, so that each year blooms bring a smile, where she would have brought the world smiles with her sense of humour.
Corinne Bono

Jaume (Mitous) Salvadó i Rectoret

March 27, 2025

No t'oblidarem mai

Jaume (Mitous) Salvadó i Rectoret

March 27, 2025

Et vaig coneixer a Llafranc , cosina de la Christine Murillo, et vaig tornar a veure a Paris fa un any i escaig, la teva mort inesperada i estúpida m'ha deixat molt trist. A Llafranch , i arreu, trobaran a faltar el teu somriure.
Si hi ha una altra vida et desitjo la major felicitat.
Mitous

Leslie Tarsia

March 25, 2025

So sorry to hear this beyond awful news. Anita was a gentle soul with the best attitude. Leslie Tarsia

Ralph Golan

February 25, 2025

Anita helped me find and believe in myself in ways I could never have done alone. She did this with her gentleness, her fierceness, her courage, her goodness, her authenticity and so much more. Maybe it was simply her being by my side. We had a bond that time and distance did not fray even though we went our separate ways many decades ago. I can only hope that I made any kind of difference for her. She was a gift to the world, a true gift.

David Golub

February 24, 2025

A rare being of supremely gentle vitality

Paula Glenn Lamb

February 18, 2025

She was a member of my 4th grade class. She was friendly.

Ellen Lebelle (Williams)

February 9, 2025

Kind. Quiet. Funny. Home room for 4 years at Girls High. Finding that we took the same bus to get to the subway - we were neighbors. We had the same address number but not the same street.
Most recent memories -- a mini-reunion weekend on LBI and on up to our 55th in October 2023.
-- Paris. We had lunch. Then she got a gig and I got to see her perform.
Always kind, quiet, and funny.

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Jim Kleyman

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Michael McCook

January 30, 2025

What a Wonderful Time we All had in Our Crazy and Super Talented little River town. I will Always Remember You with the eyes and ears of New Hope. Nice to have been on this little blue rock with you Anita. See you again on the Other Side

Single Memorial Tree

The Mike King Family

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George Tiff and Mia Suleiman

January 29, 2025

Her and TJs wedding. I loved seeing that beach party with that pig cooked perfectly. I watched them get married on the beach with Dad, Aunt Bobbi an Uncle Touffie next to me . It was 1 of my favorite days. The whole day was magical and fun.

I'm going to miss the beach house with my cuz. She was so perfect for my little girl to watch them connect. Heaven gained an Angel but we lost a legendary women for the Extended Allen/Suleiman side. Love you CUZ!!

Karen and Mike Eagan

January 29, 2025

Anita was a kind, sweet, caring person. She was a quiet, sunny presence, and we never saw anything but a warm smile from her.
Rest sweet girl...
Mike E and Karen F

Julia Scotti

January 29, 2025

In all my memories of Anita, it seemed that just when I thought I had come to know her, she'd pop up with something else she had accomplished in her early years. Case in point. She told me that she had worked in a sanctuary for wolves, and how she would sit in their area, and they would come near and she would nuzzle and pet them. Wolves. WOLVES. She continued to amaze me throughout our friendship. There are other memories of course. But it always struck me that this gentle, soft spoken, loving human could sit in a place that most of us would die from fright is proof positive of her inherent goodness and indomitable spirit. I miss her more each day, if that's even possible, but I feel blessed that we re-formed our friendship when we did.

Kathleen

January 28, 2025

I adored Anita. We met years ago and bonded right away. My brother was best of friends with her husband and I grew up with Tj often in our home. Later in life I house cleaned for them, when they resided in Ewing, NJ. I will miss Sweet Anita and she knew how Special she was to me. My heart is broken and will Always remember her kind and gentle ways. The world lost someone that is truly unique and my heart goes out to her family and Bestie Gary Bognar. Heaven gained an Angel and I lost of very dear friend. Love ya girl

Karen

January 28, 2025

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