Ann Rex McAleer

Ann Rex McAleer obituary, San Antonio, TX

Ann Rex McAleer

Ann McAleer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 14, 2016.
Ann Rex McAleer, 70 years young, was born on May 27, 1946 and returned to her God on June 14, 2016 following years of frail health and heart surgery performed on May 16. Ann attended Incarnate Word High School, graduating in 1964. She married Chuck – her "captain", her "hero" -- just five weeks before he deployed to Vietnam in 1967. She continued her studies at UT Austin, then Incarnate Word College, graduating in 1968 with a degree in art. She also represented Incarnate Word College as a Princess in the Miss Fiesta Presentation of 1965. Ann was a devoted wife and supported Chuck in his corporate career and later in creating an exquisite home in San Antonio where she enjoyed her role as wife and loving mother to her two children, Paige and Chip (Charles F. McAleer IV). They later moved to Atlanta and Chicago as Chuck pursued his role as Senior Vice President of Marketing for a major financial services corporation in Chicago, later retiring in San Antonio. "Ann was a very creative person and talented artist. She enjoyed painting, playing piano and was an accomplished interior decorator, making each home distinctive and inviting, said close friend Christina Rogers Chitwood. Many of Ann's IWHS classmates have e-mailed tributes from all around the country, all testifying to her radiant smile. "Ann had a quiet listening ear with patience and understanding, even while still suffering with her own health issues and problems". Ann had an intense love for her dogs Cody and, especially Belle, their yellow labrador. Belle reciprocated Ann's and Chuck's patient and tender rescue care by becoming a lifeline for Ann, alerting when her blood sugar levels became dangerously low. Ann is survived by her loving husband of 49 years, Charles F. McAleer III; son, Charles F. McAleer IV (Chip) and his wife, Michelle, grandchildren, Charles F. McAleer V (Chase) and Lauren Elizabeth; daughter, Elizabeth Paige Goad and husband Charles; her brother, William Rex and wife Jill and their children, Ann Turnbull and son, William Rex, Jr. "She was strikingly beautiful and a wonderful wife and an incredible mother," said Chuck. "So many IWHS classmates are sending tributes, agreeing that "Ann was always a shining light, with her friendly smile, making everyone feel special -- and she maintained that throughout her blessed life." A memorial service to honor Ann will be held at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church, 8500 Cross Mountain, San Antonio, 78255 at 11:00 am, Saturday, June 18, 2016. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Hill Country Animal League/SPCA, Inc., 924 N. Main St., Boerne, TX 78006.

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January 23, 2017

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July 11, 2016

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July 1, 2016

Doug, Gay, & Reagan Jones posted to the memorial.

Carla NLN

January 23, 2017

The Ann I knew for over twenty years is still in my heart.

Kay Goodlett

July 11, 2016

Chuck, I am so sorry to learn of your great loss, and sorry I have just learned about it. The loss of a spouse is like none other. I know you and Ann had a beautiful life together and have so many beautiful memories that will help you through the most difficult days ahead. I know you know that your lovely bride is in a wonderful place...

Doug, Gay, & Reagan Jones

July 1, 2016

Chuck,
I really don't know where to begin in expressing our deep sadness about "sweet Ann". She was such a tremendous person. There are very few people in the world as special as Ann. I feel so blessed to have known her and be called her friend. We will miss her so very much!

She adored you, and it was evident by the way she spoke of you. The relationship that you two shared was inspiring to those around you.


I hope you are doing well . We love you and are looking forward to spending time with you in San Antonio.

Gary Eisenbarth

June 29, 2016

Chuck and Family,
We want to express our deepest sympathies for your loss. Ann was a most unique person. She had a level of class and grace that is rare in our world. She would truly light up a room just by entering. I know just some of the trials that she faced because of poor health in recent years. What I do know is that she faced her trials with grace and a determination to remain positive.
Chuck and I faced the challenges of leading a financial services organization. We were determined that our company exemplify integrity. We live in a cynical world. Everyone is looking for a smear on the image. What isn't obvious is how much pressure this situation puts on a spouse. Ann was one of the best representatives that our company had. No one doubted her integrity or her devotion to Chuck. Because of her devotion no one doubted Chuck's integrity.
It was a privilege to know Ann. Our prayers will be with you.
Gary and Mary Eisenbarth

Sharon F. Ryan

June 29, 2016

The years that I got to know Ann and Chuck while they lived in Chicago were few, but because of Ann's warmth and kindness, and her wonderfully happy union with Chuck, they made me feel like I've known them all my life.
I'll miss her terribly, my phone pal who always made time for me. I'm grateful and happy for the time we did stay in touch.
My most sincere regrets, Chuck. I can only imagine the void you will feel in your life as you were the best of everything together!
Love and God's peace to you.
Sincerely,
Sharon & Pete Ryan

June 20, 2016

I have not seen Ann since my childhood, at reunions and in San Antonio. I am happy she had such a lovely life. My thoughts and prayers are with the McAleer and Rex Families.

Jane Laflin
Cousin

Vicki Sokol

June 19, 2016

Chuck and family,

So sorry not to hear of Ann's passing until after the memorial service. Sandy and I would have been there to represent the Meyer family.

Ann spent many hours with us when you were in Viet Nam. First met her in 1956 when we moved to San Antonio and she lived down the street. I have many happy memories of her.

Please accept my condolences.

Vicki (Meyer) Sokol

John Flanagan

June 19, 2016

Chuck,
So very sorry for your loss and wish you God's blessings in the days ahead.
John

Laurne Heinsheimer

June 18, 2016

Dear Chuck,
I pray for you and the children. Your loss is heavy and a pain that is real.
Many of us have lost a true friend, but now God has rewarded Ann with eternal peace and happiness, seeing the face of God.
Puddin

Lynne Handley-Smogur

June 17, 2016

My condolences to the McAleer family on the loss of Ann. I knew Ann in high school and then our sons met up at Texas Tech. When Chip came to our house to pick up Chris, I discovered who his mother was. It was a wonderful surprise. After the boys left and went back to Chip's house, I received a call from Ann and we had a delightful conversation reminiscing. Blessings to you all.

Sharon Klein Linnartz

June 17, 2016

Dear Chuck, Paige, and Chip,
As you well know, God blessed you abundantly by sharing Ann's loving life with each of you. Our high school and college days may be some fifty years behind us, but the sound of her unique laughter as she shared happy times with all of us still rings true in my memories of her at IWHS and Delta Sigma Phi fraternity parties. I can see Chuck wallking Ann proudly up the aisle at their wedding in the little wooden chapel on Stanley Road at Fort Sam as I played their wedding music on the organ in the choir loft upstairs. She was exquisite then and will always be remembered that way by those of us who love her!
May God keep you and all your beautiful, comforting memories of your wife and mother in His strong fingered hands until your are joyously reunited in Heaven.
With love and blessings,
Sharon Klein Linnartz

Linda Styles

June 17, 2016

Chuck and family - I am so sorry to read of Ann's passing. I met you and Ann shortly before Jerry and I married in 1968. She was so sweet to me. After you moved from SA, Ann continued to stay in touch for several years. Sadly, we lost contact but I am blessed to have known her if only for a few years. My heart and prayers go out to you and your children. God bless!

Lorin Mueller

June 17, 2016

Chuck, Chip, and Paige,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ann was a wonderful person who always went the extra mile for her children and their friends. She was kind to everyone she came into contact with. She will be missed.

Jacque Wright

June 17, 2016

Chuck and family - I was so saddened to learn of Ann's passing. I'll always remember y'all as great neighbors but even after you moved to Atlanta from San Antonio, she kept in touch. When my dad (Jack Convers) died in 2001, she sent a beautiful arrangement of maroon and white carnations, so fitting for our Aggie family. She was such a thoughtful, considerate person. I know she'll be missed by many.

Karen Kennedy-Pratt

June 17, 2016

Sweet Ann will live in our hearts until we meet again around the throne of God!!

Ann was a blessing to all who knew her, a light that shone through times that were tough!!

She will be missed by her IWHS classmates! She was loved!

Sandi Drummond

June 17, 2016

Ann was a special lady. I am blessed to have known her. She will be missed by so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Al and Sandi Drummond

Deborah Young

June 17, 2016

The void that has been left in my life will never be filled by anyone else. You were truly a special and unique person, with a heart as big as Texas! The short time we knew each other didn't mean anything to us. We were fast friends from the moment we met. I am selfishly sad you are gone from my life, but happy for you that you are at peace with God and I know you are with Cody watching over all of us. Thank you dear Ann for your friendship when I needed it the most! I will never forget you. Deborah Young

Gina and Joe Sharkey

June 16, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers go out to The McAleer Family. We are KC friends of Chip. Though we never had the pleasure of meeting Chips parents we have enjoyed spending time with Chip, his wife, Michelle and their children, Chase and Lauren. They are great friends and are truly kind people. We are blessed to know them and our thoughts are with them with the passing of Ann. The Sharkey Family

Laura Thompson

June 16, 2016

My Beautiful Friend...You will be sadly missed by all that had the honor of knowing you. Your sincere kindness and friendship I will always cherish...My sincere deepest sympathy I extend to Your Cherished Husband Chuck and Faithful companion Belle...

Jan Jacobi Snider

June 16, 2016

Farewell dear cousin. I'm sure they will have a "Reunion" in Heaven for you with all your family and cousins. God Bless You and Yours.
Jan

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