Ann Finneran Sullivan

Ann Finneran Sullivan obituary, New York, NY

Ann Finneran Sullivan

Ann Sullivan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 24, 2024.
Ann Marie Finneran Sullivan-revered New York school leader, teacher, and mentor to countless students and colleagues over a nearly 60-year career-died September 22 of pancreatic cancer. She was 79.

Ann spent the bulk of her career at two institutions: Friends Seminary of New York City and School of the Holy Child of Rye, NY. She was a joyful, visionary force at both places. Her impact is especially clear at Holy Child, which she led for 14 years, sharply increasing enrollment and student achievement; building a new, modern library and classroom space for science and technical learning; and creating a global curriculum that included exchange programs around the world.

She took great pride in deep, lasting relationships with students and colleagues. Few things brought Ann greater pleasure than running into a former student in a far-flung place. Inevitably, she would remember not just that student's name, but her college choice, her parents,' and siblings' names-and a favorite book.

Learning, service and community were the bedrock principles of Ann's life. She lived those values in so many ways: imbuing a generation of Friends Seminary students with the confidence that comes from grappling with Melville or Bronte; giving an unexpected hug to a student on the first day of school; sharing a few weekend hours with a friend's daughter to map out college options; and sending that new Colson Whitehead novel to a friend.

No one benefited more from her love and guiding hand than her family-her husband of 56 years, Dick, her sons David and Andrew, their spouses, Adi and Erica, her many nieces and nephews, and her beloved grandchildren, Anna, Felix and Xavier. She shaped her children's lives in countless positive ways, but none more than by instilling a lifelong love for learning and a commitment to service.

Ann was a proud New Yorker: born and raised in White Plains, the daughter of a nurse (Margaret Harten) and chemical engineer (Sherman Finneran) with her brothers Jim, Bob and Tom. She brought up her family in Brooklyn, moved to Rye to become head of school, and spent the final years of her life on Manhattan's Upper West Side. She and Dick thrilled at life in the city, exploring neighborhood by subway and bus, visiting new restaurants-especially late at night-and going to the philharmonic. They did these things always in the company of friends, a roster which seemed to grow every year. Ann's life was also marked by many joyful summers in Maine, on Great Cranberry Island, surrounded by a multi-generational network of much-loved friends. That community was never more loving and supportive of Ann than in the final months of her life.

Ann was predeceased by her three brothers: James, Robert and Thomas Finneran. She is survived by her husband Richard; her sons David and Andrew, her daughters-in-law Adi Segal and Erica Matthews, and her grandchildren Anna, Felix and Xavier.

Donations in Ann's memory may be made to the Ann Sullivan Fund for the Teaching of English Language and Literature at Friends Seminary or the Ann Sullivan Fund for Global Studies at School of the Holy Child.

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August 5, 2025

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January 6, 2025

Sr. Margaret Iyojo Odeh,SHCJ. posted to the memorial.

January 6, 2025

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Martha Bennett

August 5, 2025

So sorry to hear of Ann´s passing. She was an energetic, bright presence when helping our school through an interim between heads and a life long educator. Her presence will be missed.

Sr. Margaret Iyojo Odeh,SHCJ.

January 6, 2025

**In Loving Memory of Ann Sullivan**

It is with a heart broken by loss that I remember my dear friend, Ann Sullivan. We first met many years ago in Lagos, Nigeria, when she visited with her son, Andrew-whom we affectionately called Kofi, a name of Ghanaian origin meaning "born on Friday." From the very first moment, Ann´s warmth, kindness, and gentle spirit left an indelible mark on me. She had a unique way of making everyone around her feel seen, loved, and valued. Ann laughed often, and her infectious laughter could light up any room-it was a sound that brought joy and warmth to all who were fortunate enough to hear it.

Over the years, Ann became a constant in my life and a great supporter. She was always there when I needed someone to listen, when I was unwell, or simply when I needed a kind word. Her selfless care, unwavering love, and ability to show up for others were gifts that I will forever cherish.

Though I never imagined our time together would be so short, the memories we shared will live in my heart forever. After gathering in New York for a meal with other friends (Gabby and Kathy) in September of 2023, I´ll always treasure those moments. Ann´s presence brought light and joy into my life in ways words cannot fully express, and her absence has left a void that can never be filled.

I will carry her spirit with me always, and the love she gave will continue to guide me.

May Ann´s soul rest in peace, and may the love she shared continue to illuminate the lives of all who were blessed to know her.

Rest in peace dear friend.

Sr. Margaret Iyojo Odeh, SHCJ

January 6, 2025

Richie Rich

December 10, 2024

You and were a wonderful neighbor and seeing you after Dick doing some pull ups in the laundry/gym brought so much Joy!

Margaret Ryan Evangelista

November 7, 2024

Ann,
I am better because of our friendship. Your smile lit up rooms and I always felt seen and heard. Love and light to you always.

Peter Buchsbaum

October 13, 2024

She was a wonderful friend, a joy to work with and we will miss her very much. It was very special seeing Dick and her with our mutual friends, John and Harriet Beckerman and also special to work with her on the Cranberry Island tennis club. Peter and Elaine Buchsbaum

Susan and Charlie Blank

October 2, 2024

We´re heartsick to get the final news about Ann - and we know that feeling is shared by many, many others. To us, the main consolation is that Ann by far lived one of the most fulfilling lives of anyone we know. And her joie de vivre was matchless. We hope that the good memories help to sustain you at this very hard time. Love, Susan and Charlie Blank

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Steven Evangelista

October 1, 2024

Ann was an absolute gem whose impact will ripple through generations. I felt like I was always learning in her presence, and always at ease. She made me feel like the most important person in the world when I was with her, with her remarkable empathy and belief in others!

Horace Mann School, Bronx, NY

September 28, 2024

Ann was the consummate professional, a genuine class act, true intellectual and lover of children - regardless of their strengths or weaknesses. While she'll be missed by many, her legacy of exceptional teaching and thoughtful leadership will continue to purposefully shape the lives of students and teachers, alike.

Paul Drazen

September 27, 2024

It was my privilege to have taken English with Mrs. Sullivan when I attended Friends Seminary 40 + years ago. Her smiles, positivity, kindness, encouragement and commitment to our education seemed limitless. I always looked forward to her class at a time I didn´t look forward to much. Most importantly I learned and she made sure of it. I would like to extend my sincere condolences to Mrs. Sullivan´s family and friends at this difficult time.

suzanne fogarty

September 27, 2024

Ann was a mentor and friend. She guided me into my first headship and we laughed and talked and shared so much along the way. I will miss her very much and am sending my very best to her beloved family.

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September 27, 2024

One of my first memories of Ann is my telling her our son's sweaters invariably stayed at school - in the lost and found at Friend's Seminary. The next day she handed me Gap sweaters Andrew and David had outgrown. She was always smiling, upbeat, rational, warm and ready to laugh. Our friendship developed over the years, and our son invited Ann and Dick to their wedding, where I asked Ann to stand near me when I gave my "mother of the groom" speech. In it, I recalled reaching out to her during the college application process and telling her I wished I could stay calmer, that where he went to school didn't matter as much as we all that. "It doesn't matter," Ann said, surprising me since at one point she'd been the college counselor and valued education. I asked if that was the case, what did matter. "Whom they marry," Ann responded. I pointed out to her it did matter since he'd met his bride in college. All of us who loved Ann have wonderful memories and miss her terribly already.

Jessica DiFalco

September 26, 2024

Ann's first year as Head of School at Holy Child was my freshmen year there. She wasn't just a remote figure as a head, but a caring, ever-present face; I remember her greeting us all at the front door on the first day of school every year with a kiss on the cheek, like an aunt greeting you on a holiday. I was privileged to work under her when I returned to teach English there years later. I will remember her energy and enthusiasm, always illuminated in her smile, and as she would always instruct us to do for those who had passed or were in need of prayer, I will now "hold [her] in the light".

Mary Corley

September 26, 2024

Ann´s love of children and tennis led her to teach Island children to play tennis. And always a wonderful smile.

Kathleen McIntyre

September 25, 2024

Ann brought a garden to every room with her smile. She taught our children tennis and was an incredible light in summers on the island. May you rest in peace Ann and rise in glory. We send our love and prayers to your family. The McIntyres

Mary Sykes

September 25, 2024

Ann Sullivan was the person who really gave my second career - a career in education focus and purpose. When I served as director of guidance and college counseling at School of the Holy Child, Ann was a terrific mentor who really helped me gain the knowledge and confidence I needed to do my job well. Working for her was fun and rewarding. She became a close friend and I will miss her sorely. Rest in Peace, Ann.

Eve Harrison

September 25, 2024

Crossing paths with Ann, no matter her own state of mind, was always a very warm and welcoming experience, and intentionally so it felt. It would start with a bright ear to ear smile as her pace would slow to `check in with you´ and see how you were doing. Ann chose small acts of great value. She will be missed.

Elizabeth O'Driscoll

September 25, 2024

I can't tell you specifically what Ann did to make me feel this way about her, because it was 19 years ago, but I always knew Ann was an ally. I was a difficult student at Holy Child; I struggled with depression and anxiety. I was often in her office. We had many deep chats. She spoke to me with dignity and gave off a warm understanding when many adults didn't want to deal with a difficult kid. Ann had plenty of time for explaining the rationale behind certain decisions and was just a kind person. Behind closed doors, Ann embodied a gentleness, even as a disciplinarian. Ann was a true champion of the underdog. Thank you for your kindness, Ann. You will be missed.

Jeff Bliss

September 25, 2024

Valerie Anisko and I first met Ann at Friends, when our son Dana (now 44 years old) was getting underway in the first grade. Son Colin followed a few years later. We became good friends with Dick and Ann ourselves, and Andrew was a buddy of Dana's. We spent lots of time together over the years, many dinners after busy days, even including one in Roma, and we visited with their family a few summers in Maine while we were staying with our boys in Northeast Harbor. That's where I threw my shoulder out playing tennis one frigid August evening with Dick. I hadn't seen Ann in a while, but we kept in touch with EMails from time to time, and at Christmas. She was one of the most up-beat, cheerful people I've ever met. And always thoughtful at the same time. Peace.... Jeff Bliss

Bob Hallett

September 25, 2024

I knew Ann though our professional relationship as independent school heads. She was a force of nature, cheerful, enthusiastic and eager to advance, not only the needs of her students, but also the adults within the schools she served so well. During my tenure as Executive Director of the EEFord Foundation, I worked closely with her on several grant requests which we funded, in large part because of her leadership and convictions. I am saddened by her passing but grateful I knew her as a friend and colleague. Bob Hallett

Emily Bickford Lansbury

September 25, 2024

I loved Ann! She was my high school English teacher at Friends and was such a positive force in my life during a time when my self esteem was low. She built me up, told me I was smart and insightful and a gifted writer. She told me I could get an A in her class if I wanted to- and I really wanted an A so I rewrote every paper until it was an A+. No teacher had ever given me such care and attention before- or made me work so hard. She was and is one of my greatest teachers in life. She is with me always. My love to her family- I can only imagine what a huge loss you are feeling right now.

Michael J. Mersky

September 25, 2024

I was heartbroken to learn of Ann's passing. We were rookie heads together at NAIS rookie camp the summer of '99, and she was such a great person with a wonderful heart. Seeing her often at conferences and indeed at the Head's Forum in June of each year always warmed my heart in knowing that there was still such good people in this world like Ann. I send my heartfelt prayers to Ann's family. She was a very special person who will be missed dearly, by many!
Mike Mersky
Former HOS at Lancaster Country Day School and Saint Edward's School
9/25/24

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Lane Dahlke

September 24, 2024

This is from Lane Dahlke and her husband, Steve. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest prayers and condolences for you, Dick, and your family. Richard Cohen sent me the announcement.

Deborrah Bunker

September 24, 2024

She was a bright light with her family when they bought Winslows house. Always had a smile! She will be Missed! Love to her Family

Carolyn Traficante

September 24, 2024

She was the absolute best! Great compassionate woman with so much to give. Anne Sullivan had such a beautiful spirit

sarah reynolds

September 24, 2024

Ann was pure class, a wonderful inspiration for my daughter and all of the other girls at School of the Holy Child. She was inclusive and supportive to all . When she left SHC we were blessed to have her for a few years at RCDS where she brought her warmth, wisdom and humanity. I will miss her.

Kevin McCabe

September 24, 2024

I remember interviewing Ann as Head of School and was enthralled by her infectious smile and dedication to educating women for a purpose. She was foundational to the current School and will be remembered and missed.

Marian Baker

September 24, 2024

Ann was an amazing human, an inspiration in so many ways. Kind, thoughtful, caring, and just shining with light, a sparkle in her eye, a sweet smile. I knew Ann from her visits over to Little Cranberry Island and specifically to the pottery shop. Now that I've read this wonderful obit I wish I had discussed Moby Dick with her! Sending deep condolences and love to Dick, David and Andrew and all the family. love from Marian Baker and Chris Wriggins

Lorraine Brimat-Smith

September 24, 2024

She was always kind and generous with her time, wisdom and love

Julia Cancro

September 24, 2024

Holy Child doesn´t exist in my mind without Mrs. Sullivan. She was Head of School during my full 8 year experience at HC and truly embodied "joy in teaching, joy in learning," bringing it to life for all her students. And the Class of 2008 was probably most grateful for Mrs. Sullivan´s good sense of humor as we performed our senior year One Act Play!! I am so thankful to have known Mrs. Sullivan and benefited from her impact at Holy Child, and will keep the Sullivan family in my thoughts and prayers.

Melissa Mahoney Wirth

September 24, 2024

I will forever be grateful to Ann who took a chance and hired me as the Dean of Students at Holy Child right out of grad school. She was a wonderful mentor to many and a very special person. I was lucky to find myself working with her again at Rye Country Day and will always be thankful for her guidance over the years. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Melissa Mahoney Wirth

Claire Cashman

September 24, 2024

Mrs. Sullivan´s cheerful smile and welcoming hugs in the front hall of Holy Child will always stay with me. She lived a remarkable life, filled with love, joy, and kindness that touched everyone she met.

Lewise Lucaire

September 24, 2024

Ann was a dear friend to me, and also my walking partner in Central Park. She introduced me to many new parts of the park, always searching for new paths. I will miss her terribly. I send my deepest sympathies to Dick, David and Andrew and their families. Our loss is enormous.

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