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Anthony D'Erasmo
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Anthony D'Erasmo Obituary
Anthony (Tony) D'Erasmo, age 56, passed on August 31, 2017 after a brief but courageous battle.
He leaves behind his loving mother, Ann; brother, Frank and sister, Sally Ann.
He was predeceased by his father Antonio.
He was a best friend and loving companion to his wife, Elizabeth (Beth) wonderful father to his sons Anthony and Christopher and his daughters Jackie and Nicole. He was a loving brother-in-law, amazing and devoted uncle loved by his nieces and nephews and a beloved friend of many.
Tony is a retired New York City Police Officer who was a first responder on 9/11 and spent many months at the site. He was a proud member of the United States Marine Corps and spent the last ten years as a Public Safety Lieutenant at Wilmington International Airport and was an avid fisherman. We will sorely miss his gentle way and kind smile.
A funeral service will be held at 3pm, Sunday, September 3, 2017, at Andrews Market Street Chapel.
The family will receive visitors for two hours prior to the service, beginning at 1pm.
The family requests that in lieu of flowers donations be made to Lower Cape Fear Hospice.
Glenda Blackwood
September 25, 2017
Beth, I am sorry for you loss. I can tell from the guest book that your husband was a wonderful man. You are in my prayers.
carlos cortes
September 9, 2017
to a great person to work with in the 94 pct. sector A/D words a few and my thoughts are deep.my memories of you will always be in my mind and heart. When I look at the stars I know your in heaven letting my know your happy.
Carlos Taxi
September 7, 2017
I met Tony back about ten years ago. He was in charge of all the taxi permits. My first impression was that this guy is no joke. Intimidating. Looked like maybe special forces, secret service, somebody undercover at ILM waiting to apprehend some bad guys just by looking them in the eye. After speaking to him about my permit and a few issues I was having he really helped me out. I cannot thank him enough. He was patient, kind, understanding, and fair. There was always some drama with the taxi drivers and anytime Tony had to get involved it was resolved without question. No one challenged his authority or fairness. I had several more encounters with him as we had inspections regularly. Always wished he had more time to conversate. He just had that face of a person who had seen alot. He looked like he could have been in action movies. Definitely the person everyone would have ran to if there were ever some emergency. Not surprised to learn he was a Marine and NYPD. I regret not being able to attend the funeral to pay my respect. Truly an honor having known you Tony. Your legend lives on.
Frank Garguilo
September 6, 2017
I had the privilege of working with Tony in the 94 precinct and he was truly one of a kind. He possessed a strength, humility, and dignity that is seldom seen. When I suffered a tragic death in my family, Tony along with my brother and sister officers in the 94 pct, was there to support me. Rest in Peace, "T.D."
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Jerry Raynor
September 5, 2017
Beth and family. It is a heavy heart that I learned of Tony's passing and I extreamly regreat that I was out of town and couldn't attend his services. I consider it to have been a privilege and a pleasure to have worked with him. Tony was one of the most humble and honest men I've ever met. Please let me know if I can do anything for you or your family. Rest In Peace my brother
Steven Truglio
September 5, 2017
My heart is heavy as I lost a former colleague and a forever friend. Tony was not only a great cop he was a great man. From the bottom of my heart and the men and women of the 94pct Thank you. You will be greatly missed but forever be remembered.
September 5, 2017
God bless you PO Derasmo!!!!
You will be missed
Annie sheldon
Annie Sheldon
September 5, 2017
So sorry for your loss
Tony was a co worker of mine at the 94 precinct
He was a great funny guy.
My prayers are for his family
Mike Sileo
September 4, 2017
Tony, I had the honor of knowing and working with you in the NYPD 94 Pct for many years. You were a true leader and mentor. Rest in Peace my brother in blue.
September 4, 2017
Beth, Christopher, Anthony, Nicole and Jackie,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We loved Tony and feel very privileged and honored to have known him. What a wonderful father, husband, friend and neighbor. We will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers and we pray that your wonderful memories will help through this most difficult time.
Much love,
Tracy, Trec, Wright and Ansley Tisdale
Kris Larson
September 3, 2017
I will miss the mornings at the Delta ticket counter when Tony would come by to give Beth a goodbye kiss or vice versa. Always wishing each other a good day. Steven Valverde and I would say, "at least we have Tony here to save us in case of any workplace incidents." May Tony continue to watch over Beth and the kids. God bless them.
Tamie Keel
September 3, 2017
It has been a pleasure working with you the short time I was able to. You will be missed. May you Rest In Peace.
Debra
September 3, 2017
I was lucky enough to know Tony I work at ILM he is a very kind man Tony could make you laugh and his smile was contagious I will miss him a lot I hope today god will help you Beth and the kids
Ron Forman
September 2, 2017
Sorry for your loss. I worked for Loomis a few years back and Tony would escort me every 2 weeks to the upstairs ATM machine. Being a fellow New Yorker we would talk about the good old days.I would always laugh for when filling the machine with money he would always say to me I'm not messing up your count by talking and I would always say to him no Tony I don't count the money I just take the old money out and put the pre-counted money in. I would say keep talking Tony as we laughed and we would continue talking. Rest in peace. You were a kind man and a hero.
Lisa and Martin Schichlein
September 2, 2017
My thoughts are with you and the kids during this difficult time. May your love for one another bring comfort.
Steph & Julia Walker
September 2, 2017
Our nicest memory of Tony was when he was kind in helping get Julia's brother in to see her before she flew on her first long overseas trip. It meant a lot to us! The Walkers send their loving thoughts and prayers to the D'Erasmo family during this tough time. I know he will be missed.
Danielle Borowitz
September 2, 2017
Love you all! So sad to see such a great man go. He always took care of us like we were his true family. My heart goes out to you all <3
Tracie Herman
September 2, 2017
My heart is filled with the sadness of your loss.
May you and your family find comfort and joy in the coming days and months ahead to hear and witness the testimony to Tony's life, and the lives of the people he touched.
John Perugini
September 1, 2017
Sorry for your loss, Tony was one of the nicest people ever. When I first started at the airport he made me feel very welcomed.
Mary Pfannenstein
September 1, 2017
I'm so happy you are no longer suffering Tony. The gentle and respectful way you carried out your duties at ILM was absolutely amazing. I really am fortunate to have met you. May you rest in peace. And May God continue to bless your family.
Greg Cunningham
September 1, 2017
Lt. Tony D'erasmo I was shocked when I was informed of your passing. I know you have been battling cancer for many year's and you fought it like a true warrior.
I offer my condolences to your family Lt. Your in God's hands now free of pain. Rest In Peace officer.
Employee of Snag-a-Cab,
Greg Cunningham
ILM Christmas Party 2016
Rose Davis
September 1, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tony was a great man and he will be missed at ILM!
Craig Goldstein
September 1, 2017
Prayers to my dear friend and the entire D'Erasmo family. May God provide you the strength and courage to cope and ultimately remember the treasure chest of memories of Anthony and the impact he had on your lives and those of so many others.
Clarissa Chavis
September 1, 2017
My thoughts and prayers go to the family of Tony. I worked at the ILM Airport Tailwind Concessions and I would always make sure he had a fresh coffee. He always had a smile on his face! He will truly be missed. Rest in Peace Tony!
Buddy Watson
September 1, 2017
Condolences to the family you are all in my thoughts and prayers during these difficult times.
Mr. Tony you were always a true professional as a Public Safety Officer at ILM one of the few that gave us respect as Taxi owner's and made us feel appreciated for the difficult job we do.
Your a Hero as a Police Officer and Public Safety Officer and I'm honored to have known you. Your friendship and stern handshake will be truly missed by all employees of Snag-a-Cab and myself.
Prayers for your wife and family,
Buddy Watson
Snag-a-Cab
kristin
September 1, 2017
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
Dave Guenzel
August 31, 2017
To: Family and Friends,
IT WAS AN HONOR TO HAVE MET TONY.
GOD BLESS HIS SOUL, MAY HE REST IN PEACE... Dave, Airport Transportation
With The Transporter
Lauren Hogue
August 31, 2017
So sorry for your loss!!! Thoughts and prayers to the family!!
Andrea Weaver
August 31, 2017
We are sincerely sorry for your loss. Words fail to convey how much are hearts are breaking for you. With deepest sympathy from Matt, Andrea and Cameron Weaver
Jackue Bryan
August 31, 2017
God bless this family in the name of Jesus Christ Amen . My heart goes out to Beth and the families . We truly will miss Tony at our airport . Always a smile and greets you as you walk in , very humble kind man . Beth prayers go out to you and the family . May God bless you all .
Paige Gower
August 31, 2017
Prayers to you, Beth, and your sweet children. I am so sorry for your loss. I loved hearing your stories about you and your husband. He was a true hero. It was always evident that you two were true lovebirds...you always lit up when you spoke of him. Peace and comfort to you all.
Lisa Coley
August 31, 2017
Beth, Christopher, Nicole and all Tony's family, I am sorry for your loss. He was a hero and his legacy will live on through all you achieve in his absence. Peace be with you as you navigate life without his physical presence. Much love and Margaritas...
Ronald Watson
August 31, 2017
Rest In Peace my brother I was blessed to call you my loyal friend and brother. I had the upmost respect for you as the Taxi Inspector at Wilmington International Airport. You treated me and my family with respect sir.
My condolences to your loving family,
Coach Ron Watson
Snag-a-Cab
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