Barbara Staley Lohf

1945 - 2020

Barbara Staley Lohf

1945 - 2020

BORN

1945

DIED

2020

Barbara Lohf Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 21 to Sep. 22, 2020.
Barbara Staley Lohf

Biltmore Lake - Barbara Staley Lohf, 74, died at her home in Biltmore Lake on July 19, 2020 after a short bout with cancer.

She was born in Washington, D.C. in December 1945 to Charles W. Staley and Jeanne Eberly Staley. She graduated from R.J. Reynolds High School and North Carolina Baptist Hospital School of Nursing in Winston-Salem, NC, and she received a B.A. degree in Psychology from the University of California, Berkeley.

She was predeceased by her parents. She is survived by Michael, her husband of 51 years; their daughter Alison of Garner, NC; a sister, Cynthia Webb, of Mount Pleasant, SC; and brothers James (Patricia) Staley of Cape Elizabeth, ME and David Staley of Hilton Head, SC.

Barbara worked as a nurse for forty years in a wide range of specialties, mostly in hospital settings including Mass General Hospital in Boston and UCSF and California Pacific Medical Centers in San Francisco.

Barbara was active in her communities working for the betterment of local schools and volunteering for political campaigns. In Asheville she volunteered as a tutor with the Buncombe County Literacy Council, taught knitting at Osher Lifelong Learning Institute and joined Women for Women, a grant program to help improve the lives of women and girls.

Barbara also loved to travel. She and Michael traveled extensively throughout their life together, including living for an extended period in Europe and traveling five years full-time in a motorhome before settling down in the Asheville area.

Wherever she went, Barbara made friends easily, and she thoroughly enjoyed talking with and spending time with people. She will be missed by many.

A celebration in memory of Barbara's life is planned at a later date.

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October 5, 2020

Roni Calllister posted to the memorial.

September 22, 2020

Gayle Arberg posted to the memorial.

September 21, 2020

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Roni Calllister

October 5, 2020

Dear Mike and Alison I am saddened and surprised by this news. I am sorry that we lost touch over the miles and years but often have had wonderful memories of our times together float up during the years from our lives in the San Francisco Bay area before our children were born. Trips to the beach to watch for whales, Euell Gibbons hike to pick blackberries and catch crawdads and miners lettuce for a shared meal (where she slipped gracefully into the reservoir off a steep bank as we laughed), a trip to Yosemite when Alison and Jesse were toddlers, meals on Clipper Street, New Years gourmet meal cooked together at their home in the Marina, discussions on nursing, and an unforgettable hike with heavy backpacks filled with frozen spagetti sauce, french bread, salad fixings and peppermint schnapps to cook over a campfire and Some-mores of course. She was a wonderful, adventurous and talented friend who lives in a warm and cozy corner of our memories. Our love to Mike and Alison. Bill and Roni

Gayle Arberg

September 22, 2020

Barbara was a beautiful person. She welcomed me to the family when I met her in 1995 in SanFrancisco. The Lohf’s were kind to take us out to dinner. We will always remember their hospitality and the family times we have spent with them since. She will be missed.

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