Barbara Goetz Windom

1934 - 2017

Barbara Goetz Windom obituary, 1934-2017, San Rafael, CA

Barbara Goetz Windom

1934 - 2017

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

Barbara Windom Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 12 to Jun. 18, 2017.
September 14, 1934 - May 27, 2017 Barbara Goetz Windom, a breeder of championship Peruvian Paso horses and accomplished equestrienne, passed away unexpectedly in Duncan, OK. She was the daughter of Edith Mayer Goetz and Hollywood film producer William Goetz; and the granddaughter of MGM founder and studio head Louis B. Mayer. At the encouragement of her parents and grandfather, both owners of champion thoroughbreds, Barbara was put atop a horse at the age of one, her family hoping it would prove a distraction from the Hollywood spotlight. She took jumping lessons alongside Elizabeth Taylor when the young actress was preparing for "National Velvet" and it led to a lifelong equine passion. She was in her eighth decade of riding when she took ill at a competition in Oklahoma, and passed away shortly afterwards; surrounded by family, friends, and colleagues who shared her passion for her beloved Peruvian horses. Barbara lived the first part of her life in Los Angeles where she raised three daughters by herself while having a very successful 30+ year career as an interior designer; she was highly respected in the Los Angeles Interiors community. But the call of the horses was never far away. In 1989 she moved to New Mexico with her longtime partner, the poet Victor di Suvero, and soon after, purchased the historic ranch (La Villita), La Estancia Alegre (LEA). While in Los Angeles she read an article about the Peruvian horse, and was inspired, clipping the story and keeping it for future reference. Her real estate agent happened to have a sister who owned Peruvian horses; Barbara rode one for the first time in NM and fell in love with the rare South American breed that was practically extinct in the United States. Barbara helped preserve the equine history of Peru by firmly establishing the Paso in America and strengthening the bloodlines - turning LEA into one of the premier Paso breeding and training operations in the country. Over the years, LEA won thousands of awards and championships. Her legacy will be remembered, always. Barbara is survived by daughters Maggie Clare (Gary), Debora Clare (Ron), Rachel Windom Stengel (Todd), and granddaughters Julia Stengel and Catherine Stengel. She is also survived by her beloved niece Victoria Shepherd Bleeden, and nephews Scott Shepherd and Tony Shepherd. Sister Judith Goetz Shepherd predeceased her. In the early 1960s Barbara was married to the late actor William Windom; they had one daughter together, Rachel. Barbara's family extended to those who worked with her for over two decades at her ranch in Northern New Mexico. She will be missed deeply by a wide circle of friends and colleagues who shared her passion for her horses, and were enriched by her generosity and the beauty she created everywhere. A tribute Fiesta is planned for a future date. In lieu of flowers, contributions would be gratefully accepted in her honor to sponsor classes for her June horse show in Las Vegas, the Gold Rush Classic, or her beloved charities in New Mexico; Assistance Dogs of the West, or the Española Animal Shelter. Barbara enriched the lives of so many.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Barbara Windom's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

June 1, 2021

Devon Harrison posted to the memorial.

May 28, 2020

Kate Beswick posted to the memorial.

May 27, 2020

Sharon La Pierre posted to the memorial.

Devon Harrison

June 1, 2021

Dear Barbara just rapped up Sooner State show 2021 and our boy MP did amazing, he also had a team mate this year, Isabella. Thank you for changing my life with these amazing horses. We all miss you and the shows will never be the same without! But we will toast you every year forever more! sending up lots of love

Kate Beswick

May 28, 2020

Dear Barbara - always remembered my lifelong friend

Sharon La Pierre

May 27, 2020

Barbara Windom is a great loss to the Peruvian community. She had insight and means by which to promote this incredible breed. For me, I will forever remember my times with her riding and sharing meals. My beloved LEA Apolo is buried in the Bosque with her blessing. He brought me great joy. I think of her SO very often and know she is still thriving. She will never be forgotten because her presence left a huge mark on my heart.

Michael Mattson

March 3, 2020

Barbara was a very special Friend in the late eighties early nineties in Santa Fe . She lived in Tesuque at the time and had just discovered Santa Fe and going some life changes , She knew this and made a big effort to make me feel warm and part of her world . I will always remember her and Victor and her lovely fun daughters and her incredible casual but elegant home . The Pasos were great fun and gave her such pleasure! Thank You Dear One !!!! Love , Michael Mattson

Linda Kate Beswick

August 6, 2019

Dear Barbara - still think of you, and miss you and have so many happy memories -Los Angeles, London, San Francisco I'll never forget you ,old friend

Tina Neuwoehner

August 24, 2017

In memory of an elegant lady who was most gracious to me and shared the beauty of the Peruvian Paso horse with the world. Peace & Love,

July 15, 2017

The first horse you sold was our beloved Bailadora. Our barn still has 2 La Villeta horses, in our home we see reminders of you, and in our memories live adventures together near and far, but nothing compares to how we hold you in our hearts. Bob Gumnit and Frankie Graham

July 14, 2017

Dear Barbara,
I had the privilege of riding at your beautiful Ranch while taking lessons from Ginger. Thank you for your kindness and opening your heart to humans and animals alike!
Suzy St. Clair

linda Beswick

June 30, 2017

my oldest friend -even at a distance you were a part of my life and you always will be.All my dest thoughts go with you and your family

Glenda Fletcher

June 25, 2017

Dearest Barbara,
Thank you for allowing me into your heart, and for my two beautiful pasos, Sombrilla and Ra. I will forever miss you.

June 19, 2017

Dearest Barbara,
Thank you for all the beauty you brought to all our lives. You will be missed forever. Thank you for the deep heart connection we have shared for 50+ years. Happy trails to you 'til we meet again.
Marcia Lee Hirsh

Heidi Berenson

June 11, 2017

Sweet Barbara - Will cherish our joyous adventures together - w/Chuck & mom - in China, Malibu & at the ranch. Your heart was so full of love for your family, friends & animals. Your light will continue to shine brightly! May your memory be for a blessing.

Dottie Starr

June 8, 2017

Barbara, my soul-sister:

I am honored to have been your buddy for so many years. There is a huge hole in my heart made better by remembering all the good times we shared. I shall remember you with much love.

Jacquelyn Williams

June 6, 2017

I always cherished the opportunities to ride with you, Barbara. thank you for the beautiful opportunities!

Kathryn Grossman

June 5, 2017

The Peruvian Paso world was ao much richer for your influence on the breed in the USA. You will be greatly missed. Condolences to your family and to Roberto.

Joan

June 5, 2017

Barbara you were a class act in every way. Your help and friendship were so special to me. You will live on through your beautiful horses.

Thom Andrewz

June 5, 2017

Sweet dreams, my friend. Thanks for the memories.

Sharon La Pierre

June 5, 2017

May you be in a glorious place, full of beauty and love.

Alice Wolf

June 4, 2017

Barbara, you will live forever in our hearts and those of all of your friends in the Peruvian Horse Community. May the Lord bless and keep you. Alice and Jim

Devon Harrison

June 4, 2017

Dear Barbara, your light will shine forever in the hearts of so many that were blessed to know you. Hope to ride again with you on the other side.
Devon Harrison, proud owner of LEA Marco Polo

Ellen Joseph

June 4, 2017

You were a grand lady to have known!

Showing 1 - 21 of 21 results

Make a Donation
in Barbara Windom's name

How to support Barbara's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Barbara Windom's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Barbara Windom's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

June 1, 2021

Devon Harrison posted to the memorial.

May 28, 2020

Kate Beswick posted to the memorial.

May 27, 2020

Sharon La Pierre posted to the memorial.